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Re: Bad sex?
Richard49 said:
bad sex vs no sex.......
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good sex bad sex?
i feel their is a lot in between good and bad sex. sex is a lot like dancing. both spiritualy as well as physically. when you are with a partner that dosen't know how to dance and you were intrested enough to proceed to asking for the dance, you over look their lack of knowlege and teach them to dance. they make the best partners.
the thing that turned me on is behind the lack of knowlege waiting to be touched and caressed, shaped and molded into that beautiful expression of passion, desire and fullment.
i feel their is a lot in between good and bad sex. sex is a lot like dancing. both spiritualy as well as physically. when you are with a partner that dosen't know how to dance and you were intrested enough to proceed to asking for the dance, you over look their lack of knowlege and teach them to dance. they make the best partners.
the thing that turned me on is behind the lack of knowlege waiting to be touched and caressed, shaped and molded into that beautiful expression of passion, desire and fullment.
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Re: Bad sex?
Really agree, Richard. But without sex, and even with loads of social contacts, I get an aching lonliness which is almost worse than that pressing urge in my youth to have a fuck.
Richard49 said:
Really agree, Richard. But without sex, and even with loads of social contacts, I get an aching lonliness which is almost worse than that pressing urge in my youth to have a fuck.
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Re: good sex bad sex?
Everyone thinks they can and are giving good sex....but unless you know the person your with I don't think that can happen.....
Although I have had friends tell me they had one night stands and they turned out better than their long relations partners....
So maybe the not knowing is a turn on....
1sexylady....
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Everyone thinks they can and are giving good sex....but unless you know the person your with I don't think that can happen.....
Although I have had friends tell me they had one night stands and they turned out better than their long relations partners....
So maybe the not knowing is a turn on....
1sexylady....
Yummmmy? I think I know that Cop!
The tale of Joey the Cop.
Any skirt, any hole, any time.
As Emeril would say: "Bam!"
Not even a wham-bam.
When his "God's gift to" message began to preceed him, and the turn-downs got more frequent...
"... damn Lesbian bitch-cop-hater-..."
Funny, the one's who did him were "cheap bitch-whores..."
Ahh, the moral fibre of the Pube-lic Servant.
I'd bet every one of the women who gave in to Joey the Cop, wished she bought a 4-pack of AA batteries instead.
The interesting part was HIS point-of-view.
Clueless to the dissatisfaction of the masses,
he believed himself to be "Gods gift to women."
I've met "God's gift to Men" once or seven times.
A pocket full of Gold/Platinum cards... and you were
"in".
I've had a better time getting a prostate exam!
You know, the "This won't hurt me a bit" as the
doctor shoves his arm and shoulder up your ass.
Good sex? Yah, I've had it. That's when she would
give-in, while hoping for dinner out, and the bathroom painted.
Bad sex? Nah, hit the pass button.
G-R-E-A-T sex? "Ahhhhhh Boyz. We fucked like porn-stars last night... hope I don't nail my hand to a board today... reminicing."
They grow tired of hearing that... week after week.
Ah to be 18 again, with the equipment and knowledge of 4 decades...
The tale of Joey the Cop.
Any skirt, any hole, any time.
As Emeril would say: "Bam!"
Not even a wham-bam.
When his "God's gift to" message began to preceed him, and the turn-downs got more frequent...
"... damn Lesbian bitch-cop-hater-..."
Funny, the one's who did him were "cheap bitch-whores..."
Ahh, the moral fibre of the Pube-lic Servant.
I'd bet every one of the women who gave in to Joey the Cop, wished she bought a 4-pack of AA batteries instead.
The interesting part was HIS point-of-view.
Clueless to the dissatisfaction of the masses,
he believed himself to be "Gods gift to women."
I've met "God's gift to Men" once or seven times.
A pocket full of Gold/Platinum cards... and you were
"in".
I've had a better time getting a prostate exam!
You know, the "This won't hurt me a bit" as the
doctor shoves his arm and shoulder up your ass.
Good sex? Yah, I've had it. That's when she would
give-in, while hoping for dinner out, and the bathroom painted.
Bad sex? Nah, hit the pass button.
G-R-E-A-T sex? "Ahhhhhh Boyz. We fucked like porn-stars last night... hope I don't nail my hand to a board today... reminicing."
They grow tired of hearing that... week after week.
Ah to be 18 again, with the equipment and knowledge of 4 decades...
Richard49
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Lonliness and sex
Yes lonilness does happen....frankly I have never found anything other than waiting that overcomes it.
Perhaps lonilness is one thing that leads us to bad sex.....
By the way...cyber and phone do not have to be NOT sex
granted you are not getting the holding etc.
however ..............
After 5 months I have finally started to date.
These are not women that I would marry or collar
They provide some compainship
I accept the quality of sex they can provide
I come here and elsewhere for compainship also.
I also hope that I will find that speical somone...but I am not trolling.
OK enough early morniong rambling.
Richard
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Yes lonilness does happen....frankly I have never found anything other than waiting that overcomes it.
Perhaps lonilness is one thing that leads us to bad sex.....
By the way...cyber and phone do not have to be NOT sex
granted you are not getting the holding etc.
however ..............
After 5 months I have finally started to date.
These are not women that I would marry or collar
They provide some compainship
I accept the quality of sex they can provide
I come here and elsewhere for compainship also.
I also hope that I will find that speical somone...but I am not trolling.
OK enough early morniong rambling.
Richard
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Dayum, what if i say his Name was Joey......
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I hate to say THis But i would rather be Lonely then have a Dead Fuck,
Just to be doing it To feel good @ the moment even tho it wasnt all that.. Nopers sorry.
Just to be doing it To feel good @ the moment even tho it wasnt all that.. Nopers sorry.
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Yessssssss, there is a difference
Ummmmmmmm, hanging my "Upper head" in shame, in my single days there were a plethora of one night stands.....in Cali......it was a way of life for the "beach folk' .......however,
To me, the difference of a one night stand and making love with someone in a long term relationship is this: With a long term partner, you are making love to her mind, her heart and her soul, thru her body, and in a one night stand.......you......well "I" tended to just want SEX.......SEX......and more SEX........both are YUMMMY (no pun intended Yummy_Baby) but as I grew into being a man, I found there is no comparison....
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1sexylady said:
Everyone thinks they can and are giving good sex....but unless you know the person your with I don't think that can happen.....
Although I have had friends tell me they had one night stands and they turned out better than their long relations partners....
So maybe the not knowing is a turn on....
1sexylady....
Ummmmmmmm, hanging my "Upper head" in shame, in my single days there were a plethora of one night stands.....in Cali......it was a way of life for the "beach folk' .......however,
To me, the difference of a one night stand and making love with someone in a long term relationship is this: With a long term partner, you are making love to her mind, her heart and her soul, thru her body, and in a one night stand.......you......well "I" tended to just want SEX.......SEX......and more SEX........both are YUMMMY (no pun intended Yummy_Baby) but as I grew into being a man, I found there is no comparison....
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I hate the break the party and skip all the pretty words and ideal suggestions over the ballyhoo of *good vs. bad* sex. The are equal to a degree, one cannot be without the other. Take what you have pleasured and felt what *you* believe "good and bad sex" is and understand the ambiguous variables in every person and situation.
I have fucked and sucked for 10 hours with breaks, massaging, communication, teasing and fun in between, but does that mean the next woman is going to have or experience that, Hell no! Okay perhaps?
Maybe I am corrupt. Good sex is like watching and Indie porn movie, not a high end or totally amateur scene, but that sex can be more real than how we could ever describe—individual tastes and preferences comes to mind.
Words can transpire into reality, but there are posers and players who can claim things. Perhaps they read too much erotica or become sucked in the media?
Like I would get hard (and I do to an extent, it slightly hurts my lover(s) because it is…never mind. Anyway, you think I would get a hard on demand? The mind actually does control the penis and it depends on some of the senses above.
Hunger
Communication
Environment
Compatibility
Creativity
Sensitivity
Respect
Health—vigor
I hate the break the party and skip all the pretty words and ideal suggestions over the ballyhoo of *good vs. bad* sex. The are equal to a degree, one cannot be without the other. Take what you have pleasured and felt what *you* believe "good and bad sex" is and understand the ambiguous variables in every person and situation.
I have fucked and sucked for 10 hours with breaks, massaging, communication, teasing and fun in between, but does that mean the next woman is going to have or experience that, Hell no! Okay perhaps?
Maybe I am corrupt. Good sex is like watching and Indie porn movie, not a high end or totally amateur scene, but that sex can be more real than how we could ever describe—individual tastes and preferences comes to mind.
Words can transpire into reality, but there are posers and players who can claim things. Perhaps they read too much erotica or become sucked in the media?
Like I would get hard (and I do to an extent, it slightly hurts my lover(s) because it is…never mind. Anyway, you think I would get a hard on demand? The mind actually does control the penis and it depends on some of the senses above.
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on_the_verge said:
Yeah, you're probably corrupt. Still trying to sort through that last paragraph but I do agree...got hard...hurt em? Like that's necessarily a bad thing? Hell, hurt me!
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sortacurious said:
Still trying to sort through that last paragraph but I do agree...got hard...hurt em? Like that's necessarily a bad thing? Hell, hurt me!
Ahhh, the straight dope! No need to sort through that last paragraph. I might speak in tongues, but maybe I am exercising mine constantly, ha! I know this woman that can't believe how hard I can get and she says, "ouch! How does it get so hard like that?" Thank gosh I can hardly grow a mustache, but I guess I like my hormones *south of the border* Here say, here say, but when it comes down to it—attraction and hunger—I would like to "hurt" you, but you know, the internet is really one big think tank and I hate to tease for too long. Come and play if you care, but you know, you have to size each other up beforehand, ha! If you are an artist that is a bonus and/or a Taurus…
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good bad
Well I guess I will step into the middle of this and get shot from both sides.I have never had bad sex in 50+ years as when you stop and think what takes over your mind and body can not be replaced only the out cum. Soo if I can please then later please my self so be it I've acheived the total goal, SATISFACTION, and of both parties just find a new mate for the next encounter which will surely cum.
Well I guess I will step into the middle of this and get shot from both sides.I have never had bad sex in 50+ years as when you stop and think what takes over your mind and body can not be replaced only the out cum. Soo if I can please then later please my self so be it I've acheived the total goal, SATISFACTION, and of both parties just find a new mate for the next encounter which will surely cum.
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Re: On the verge.............
I know you are, but I crossed Coasts and it's hard to play in the old stomping grounds when…wait a minute! Like you never ignored me, sniff, sniff! Oh, maybe things would have been different if I went to that last meeting in Jersey, but I am sure I will find so much to do on the West Coast.
But, what;s your rising sign?
1sexylady said:Don't ignore me....and I am a Taurus....
I know you are, but I crossed Coasts and it's hard to play in the old stomping grounds when…wait a minute! Like you never ignored me, sniff, sniff! Oh, maybe things would have been different if I went to that last meeting in Jersey, but I am sure I will find so much to do on the West Coast.
But, what;s your rising sign?
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All it takes is one "bad sex" experience. Whether it be that it's the person is a "dead fish" and you have to everything. Or the person is faking it and you actually know Or even that the person makes you feel uncomfortable. I would take "no sex" any day because my mind, then the internet is all I need.
Or even that the person makes you feel uncomfortable. I would take "no sex" any day because my mind, then the internet is all I need.Beating this Dead Horse just a little more
I take the bad with the good, if its bad i try to help her make it better in all the small ways, if its good she i make damn sure she knows it, and when i can't have either i cum here or there or where everfor me the diffrence between good and bad sex is in someones ability to relate to what they're doing. Bad sex is just performing the motions without any personal interest vested in the outcome. If you don't enjoy doing it to them, how can you expect them to enjoy having it done?
BTW cyber can be bad too, if you can't react like what you claim to be, then the reality is broken, and even if i cum im left totaly unsatisfied
as a proof for all this i had a chick once who didn't really like sex, and so just layed there like a bump on a log, when i couldn't get off on that she screamed, when later she found me jerking over a story she really freaked asking, "...whats with that. You're too good to use me, but you'll youse your hand instead?" it was a short association. at the opposite extreme i had an under age GF when i was 18 who all she wanted was sex 24/7, that too was bad sex, because we had no chance to form a real relationship, and so she didn't care about the act, she just wanted somthing in her, i still think a cucumber would have been better for her than me. That was also pretty short.
I take the bad with the good, if its bad i try to help her make it better in all the small ways, if its good she i make damn sure she knows it, and when i can't have either i cum here or there or where everfor me the diffrence between good and bad sex is in someones ability to relate to what they're doing. Bad sex is just performing the motions without any personal interest vested in the outcome. If you don't enjoy doing it to them, how can you expect them to enjoy having it done?
BTW cyber can be bad too, if you can't react like what you claim to be, then the reality is broken, and even if i cum im left totaly unsatisfied
as a proof for all this i had a chick once who didn't really like sex, and so just layed there like a bump on a log, when i couldn't get off on that she screamed, when later she found me jerking over a story she really freaked asking, "...whats with that. You're too good to use me, but you'll youse your hand instead?" it was a short association. at the opposite extreme i had an under age GF when i was 18 who all she wanted was sex 24/7, that too was bad sex, because we had no chance to form a real relationship, and so she didn't care about the act, she just wanted somthing in her, i still think a cucumber would have been better for her than me. That was also pretty short.
