BBW's and Lovers…are you one?

[blackhillsbbw]

Something happened to me while on holiday when I was 19 one day and after feeling helpless and guilty the next day I went back for more and up until then I was very shy and mainly ignored by the world so this was the first attention a man had ever shown me. That's when the kink started for me.

Oh hon, thx for sharing that! I think your first experience then must have been a positive one in ways for you! I love that we all find what trips our triggers and the main thing I think is that we find fulfillment of sorts in it. I have to admire you that now you don't mind the humiliation, as I know my temperament couldn't handle it.
I find all of our kinks interesting, but then I'm ALWAYS curious and known as the 20 question lady! Lol

May I ask how you find men now, like Fetlife or something, or?

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Do you think in the long run, men find that after they've had a smaller gal and she doesn't like it Hard or frame can't handle it that men start looking elsewhere?

 

[SexyHeavyLady]

We find the men through sex clubs we join, swingers clubs and dogging. Also used to be my husbands friends as well as strangers he met but me moved so are building a list back up again.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

We find the men through sex clubs we join, swingers clubs and dogging. Also used to be my husbands friends as well as strangers he met but me moved so are building a list back up again.

I see…ok. Can I ask what dogging is? I'm not acquainted with all the slang for different things. I'm kind of naive too.

Also, and if you're not comfortable sharing here, i'll understand, Really! But do the men that humiliate you (i think i understood you right), are they really kind of nasty type guys, or kind of role playing as well? Is there physical pain involved at all? I just find this intriguing and only the ones that read my thread will see this. But i'm just a curious type person and if I don't ask, i don't learn.

 

[SexyHeavyLady]

Its going round some carparks at night to meet up with strangers to fuck in and on their cars.

Some of the men are the type that like to humilate all women, I prefer these as it feeds into my needs which I will pm you about.
Most just role play but I am happy to do what makes the man happy.
And no pain apart from a well roughly fucked pussy

 

[EctoJohn]

A BBW thread I missed?
How dare I!

I am indeed a BBW lover.
Admittedly, I love women of various types, but I can always appreciate some nice curves.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Its going round some carparks at night to meet up with strangers to fuck in and on their cars.

Some of the men are the type that like to humilate all women, I prefer these as it feeds into my needs which I will pm you about.
Most just role play but I am happy to do what makes the man happy.
And no pain apart from a well roughly fucked pussy

THANKS, i appreciate you sharing this much. I find all subjects so interesting and I love Literotica for having the forums to discuss.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Liking women of all sizes??

A BBW thread I missed?
How dare I!

I am indeed a BBW lover.
Admittedly, I love women of various types, but I can always appreciate some nice curves.

Great, super to get your two cents worth. Thank YOU! I understand, OR let me say that I'm LEARNING to understand, that men can like or love ALL various types. It just has taken me so long to understand that about me; just as it took me that long to learn that men could also love BBw. I had a lover not too long ago that I put over the coals trying to tell him he couldn't love women of all sizes. That was so foreign to me. Poor guy, had to work hard to tell me that he could love my size as well as someone smaller. I figured if he liked someone smaller, there was NO WAY he could like me as well. lol I still chuckle about that.

This whole thread is really a continued quest of mine to learn more…and I'm loving it.

 

[touristen]

I am a big man (6'3 and around 300 lbs) so...it's normal for me to like bigger women... can u imagine me with a small petite girl?? I would...break her... LOL

seriously now...what I like the most on a woman is a sweet face and a big set of breasts...and bigger girls do have them both...I rarely see a bigger woman without a sweet face... and with small breasts....

as long as I remember myself, I was dating bigger women. a little big or way bigger....only once I had dated a kinda slim woman...but with bit tits... I like flesh, I like enjoying it in my palms, not hitting bones... what can I say...hehehe

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I am a big man (6'3 and around 300 lbs) so...it's normal for me to like bigger women... can u imagine me with a small petite girl?? I would...break her... LOL

seriously now...what I like the most on a woman is a sweet face and a big set of breasts...and bigger girls do have them both...I rarely see a bigger woman without a sweet face... and with small breasts....

as long as I remember myself, I was dating bigger women. a little big or way bigger....only once I had dated a kinda slim woman...but with bit tits... I like flesh, I like enjoying it in my palms, not hitting bones... what can I say...hehehe

I will be honest with you. I have talked to a few bigger women and they've had small boobs. I've seen pictures too and it just doesn't fit with them having smaller boobs.

I'm glad you're a big woman lover!! That statement though that you love flesh…that seems simple but so clear to me. I'm glad you like flesh and I'm glad so many out there DO!!

 

[ace195008]

Hey all

 

[touristen]

I will be honest with you. I have talked to a few bigger women and they've had small boobs. I've seen pictures too and it just doesn't fit with them having smaller boobs.

I'm glad you're a big woman lover!! That statement though that you love flesh…that seems simple but so clear to me. I'm glad you like flesh and I'm glad so many out there DO!!

sure, not all big women have big boobs, and not all big women are pretty and sweet....but most of them are...and I am glad about that....

 

[blackhillsbbw]

sure, not all big women have big boobs, and not all big women are pretty and sweet....but most of them are...and I am glad about that....

heheh, true.

 

[Lisalit13]

Mmmm horny BBW here hehe

 

[dchockeyman]

I love BBWs--so much more sensual and attuned to their/my needs, and so, so much better in bed (and on the couch/table/car).

 

[frustrated2b]

A beautiful woman will always be a beautiful woman. Personally I find it disappointing that we need another "B" in front of that. In my mind, you and the ladies posting here are the BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, and if anything there should be a distintion made for those smaller women, who have less to offer us than the rubenescue, well rounded woman.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I love BBWs--so much more sensual and attuned to their/my needs, and so, so much better in bed (and on the couch/table/car).

AMEN to that! Thx!! Damn straight we are!! Hehe (I'm serious too!)

 

[blackhillsbbw]

A beautiful woman will always be a beautiful woman. Personally I find it disappointing that we need another "B" in front of that. In my mind, you and the ladies posting here are the BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, and if anything there should be a distintion made for those smaller women, who have less to offer us than the rubenescue, well rounded woman.

Good point!! Thx for replying. I don't have a lot of time with the holidays to respond a lot, but REST assured, I'll be back. I love chatting about this and topics near dear to my heart. But I always figured men did need a distinction. Even here in Lit, I can go into a "NON - BBW" distinct thread and not get a response to a pic I post, while skinny, Boney figured women pics get all the comments. I don't need that, it's like rejection, so unfortunately I still think we have to have a distinction for us. I feel SO out of place in those. Yet, sometimes I'll still post!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Merry Christmas All!

Have a wonderfully, fabulous holiday!
This big sexy curvy girl Dani

Xox

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Mmmm horny BBW here hehe

Maybe you could not advertise here, but enter into the conversation? Thanks!

 

[BiGuyfromOz]

All women are beautiful

the big ones however don't float my boat sexually / erotically in any way to answer the Q

 

[Bengal52]

definitely a lover here!

 

[vidiman]

My story:

- had a few 'plumper' friends when growing up - found them to be good company - a good laugh and very friendly - but I did not find them 'attractive'

- my relationships have tended to be with more average sized women and some skinnier ones

- I then had a fling (semi long distance over a few years) with a larger, plump but not massive woman- she was funny, good company and sexy as anything I had known - sex was sex we tried a lot of things and enjoyed a lot of things

- have met 1 or 2 BBW since and found them to be fun and sexy

So I cant speak for all the BBWs in the world and wont exclude any size but form my experience the answer is 'bring them on'

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Thx for posting and sharing your experience!!!

My story:

- had a few 'plumper' friends when growing up - found them to be good company - a good laugh and very friendly - but I did not find them 'attractive'

- my relationships have tended to be with more average sized women and some skinnier ones

- I then had a fling (semi long distance over a few years) with a larger, plump but not massive woman- she was funny, good company and sexy as anything I had known - sex was sex we tried a lot of things and enjoyed a lot of things

- have met 1 or 2 BBW since and found them to be fun and sexy

So I cant speak for all the BBWs in the world and wont exclude any size but form my experience the answer is 'bring them on'

Cool, great! I am growing more and more certain ( I must be a stubborn thing) that a great deal of online men do love all sizes and the hangup is with me. Some larger women don't even want to be labeled BBW but that labeling is important to me. I've had men tell me I'm not that large; that I see myself bigger than I am! I love that notion. Lol but there are times I've met guys and lovers I have now that I didn't believe really 'saw' my pics or size; so I'd practically try to talk them out of it! But I love knowing there are men out there that do love our bodies, plump rolls, fat, curves...whatever you want to call it!!

I am great in bed. Sorry!! No brag just fact. I don't think its cuz of my size, but my temperament. Now if that is your ass, will you give it to me for Christmas?

 

[blackhillsbbw]

definitely a lover here!

Yes Bengal, I believe you are!! Love it!