BBW's and Lovers…are you one?

[blackhillsbbw]

the big ones however don't float my boat sexually / erotically in any way to answer the Q

That's fair. You saw this thread and something caught your eye to look in. I appreciate your honesty. Cuz I always feel bad that my personal friends like size in body, but I don't. Heavier guys don't float my boat. But personalities and intelligence snag me.

 

[ace195008]

hiya beautiful Dani, Merry Christmas to you out in the Dakotas ....

 

[ATPCTCDT]

Merry Christmas Dani! What a great thread. Well,you know from my other posts (in your thread and others) That I love women of almost ALL shapes and sizes, although not really, super skinny sticks with no curves just don't do it for me. In the end, no pun intended, I think it's all about personality and attitude. Yes there needs to be a physical attraction of some type at first to grab initial attention. It's the other things that KEEP a person's attention. And you my dear have all of that in spades!!!!! You are SEXY!!!!!

M

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Merry Christmas Dani! What a great thread. Well,you know from my other posts (in your thread and others) That I love women of almost ALL shapes and sizes, although not really, super skinny sticks with no curves just don't do it for me. In the end, no pun intended, I think it's all about personality and attitude. Yes there needs to be a physical attraction of some type at first to grab initial attention. It's the other things that KEEP a person's attention. And you my dear have all of that in spades!!!!! You are SEXY!!!!!

M

You are too kind!!! Thx! I NEVER EVER thought I was sexy! An longtime friend and online friend here, who introduced me to 'forums' CUZ he hangs out here, has told me many times, I don't understand what I have. Lol and I'm sure he feels sometimes like he's talking to a wall, but I'm kind of 'slow' in that regard. I understand only from the fact and knowledge because YOU all tell me. Not because I believe it. If you see sexyness shine through, it's just within my inner countance. Does that make sense?

I envy wimen who know it and flaunt it.
Xox to you!

 

[climber11]

Absolutely. I like when a big lady knows I find her attractive too. I like when she teases me knowing it. Maybe she shows off some extra cleavage in public for me to see, or maybe she comments about things that draw my attention to her attributes, or maybe she looks back at me when bent over the counter and in a coy, confident, flirtatious way comments, "you like that big ass don't you."

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Merry Christmas Dani! What a great thread. Well,you know from my other posts (in your thread and others) That I love women of almost ALL shapes and sizes, although not really, super skinny sticks with no curves just don't do it for me. In the end, no pun intended, I think it's all about personality and attitude. Yes there needs to be a physical attraction of some type at first to grab initial attention. It's the other things that KEEP a person's attention. And you my dear have all of that in spades!!!!! You are SEXY!!!!!

M

You are too kind!!! Thx! I NEVER EVER thought I was sexy! An longtime friend and online friend here, who introduced me to 'forums' CUZ he hangs out here, has told me many times, I don't understand what I have. Lol and I'm sure he feels sometimes like he's talking to a wall, but I'm kind of 'slow' in that regard. I understand only from the fact and knowledge because YOU all tell me. Not because I believe it. If you see sexyness shine through, it's just within my inner countance. Does that make sense?

I envy women who know it and can flaunt it.
Xox to you!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Absolutely. I like when a big lady knows I find her attractive too. I like when she teases me knowing it. Maybe she shows off some extra cleavage in public for me to see, or maybe she comments about things that draw my attention to her attributes, or maybe she looks back at me when bent over the counter and in a coy, confident, flirtatious way comments, "you like that big ass don't you."

MMmmmmmm all those things would be exciting! Thanks to BBW lovers and my encouragers, they have turned me into a flirt. Even though i struggle or admitting that others think i'm sexy, I do love to flirt.

I wonder if other BBW on this forum are as out in real life, as they are here?

 

[BeeLou]

Just finding this thread...I am a BBW myself...I still struggle with the idea of someone thinking that I can be sexy.....but find there are those that think BBW is indeed beautiful..Just my experience....Hope my rambling made sense..

 

[frustrated2b]

The only struggle either of you should be having is fighting the guys off, You're beautuful ladies

 

[Bengal52]

Just a BBW lover looking to see if there are any fun loving bbws out there today!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Just finding this thread...I am a BBW myself...I still struggle with the idea of someone thinking that I can be sexy.....but find there are those that think BBW is indeed beautiful..Just my experience....Hope my rambling made sense..

Yes, makes a lot of sense.
Personally, I'm not sure BBW lovers understand that problem with a lot of us(unless they're married to one and see that insecurity first hand).
What do you attribute it to for you?

Also it was a revelation when I found that men wouldn't leave when I revealed my stature. They changed my life.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Just a BBW lover looking to see if there are any fun loving bbws out there today!

Ha! Fun loving is my middle name! How'd ya guess??

 

[BeeLou]

Yes, makes a lot of sense.
Personally, I'm not sure BBW lovers understand that problem with a lot of us(unless they're married to one and see that insecurity first hand).
What do you attribute it to for you?

Also it was a revelation when I found that men wouldn't leave when I revealed my stature. They changed my life.

Mine stems from being deeply hurt by an ex lover. I have carried the words in the back of my head that were said and still to this day they rear their ugly head and bring me down...

Yes I understand that revelation very well!!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

The only struggle either of you should be having is fighting the guys off, You're beautuful ladies

Thx!! My mom always said to say thank you and not negate the compliment.
BUT, ha!
It goes deeper I think that many don't see or know. But it's people like you that helps drive home the fact!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Mine stems from being deeply hurt by an ex lover. I have carried the words in the back of my head that were said and still to this day they rear their ugly head and bring me down...

Yes I understand that revelation very well!!

Oh no! Those darn lovers!! Grrrrr

I live hon, with a man who I love dearly, but does not like big women. When we use to fight, he'd throw every fat word out there (what we do when we're angry). I've heard it all. Years ago it hurt me horribly. He use to think I had a problem too because I love sex and am insatiable. He never has, regardless of my size. But he told me that I've got a problem; 'something's wrong with me'. I believed him! The problems were always ME. Then one day, I woke up, and with the help of many online lovers of mine telling me the opposite, I SAID, Fuck this! I don't have the problem...you do! I've been healing ever since!! But it's a LING process considering growing up in a world similar to my marriage.

Make sense?

 

[BeeLou]

Oh no! Those darn lovers!! Grrrrr

I live hon, with a man who I love dearly, but does not like big women. When we use to fight, he'd throw every fat word out there (what we do when we're angry). I've heard it all. Years ago it hurt me horribly. He use to think I had a problem too because I love sex and am insatiable. He never has, regardless of my size. But he told me that I've got a problem; 'something's wrong with me'. I believed him! The problems were always ME. Then one day, I woke up, and with the help of many online lovers of mine telling me the opposite, I SAID, Fuck this! I don't have the problem...you do! I've been healing ever since!! But it's a LING process considering growing up in a world similar to my marriage.

Make sense?

That makes absolutely perfect sense hon...thank you for sharing that....

 

[touristen]

girls, do not listen to anyone who make negative comments on you or insult you. What does matter is to feel ok with yourselves. Then everything else will follow.

when I was younger, I was feeling so bad for my body, that when I was going to the beach I wanted to swim without removing my tshirt, cuz I was feeling ashamed of myself. Now, I just dont give a f@ck.

and I am glad that both of you look like enjoying yourselves the way you look.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Mine stems from being deeply hurt by an ex lover. I have carried the words in the back of my head that were said and still to this day they rear their ugly head and bring me down...

Yes I understand that revelation very well!!

Oh man, I'm sorry! Some guys are just jerks. Grrr... I hope he's not still in your life!

I am married to a man, I love dearly, for many years now. For years when we fought, he'd throw out every fat word in dictionary. He does not like big girls at all, but he has never cared for sex either regardless of size. He told me I've got a problem; 'something's wrong with me; I'm insatiable besides.". I believed him! The problems were always ME. Then one day, I woke up, and with the help of many online lovers of mine telling me the opposite, I SAID, Fuck this! I don't have the problem...you do! I've been healing ever since!! But it's a LONG process considering growing up in a world similar to my marriage. When I have a lover that adores my size, it the most foreign thing to me! I practically think they're making it up!

Thx for sharing. I appreciate knowing others can relate.

 

[BeeLou]

Oh man, I'm sorry! Some guys are just jerks. Grrr... I hope he's not still in your life!

I am married to a man, I love dearly, for many years now. For years when we fought, he'd throw out every fat word in dictionary. He does not like big girls at all, but he has never cared for sex either regardless of size. He told me I've got a problem; 'something's wrong with me; I'm insatiable besides.". I believed him! The problems were always ME. Then one day, I woke up, and with the help of many online lovers of mine telling me the opposite, I SAID, Fuck this! I don't have the problem...you do! I've been healing ever since!! But it's a LONG process considering growing up in a world similar to my marriage. When I have a lover that adores my size, it the most foreign thing to me! I practically think they're making it up!

Thx for sharing. I appreciate knowing others can relate.

Oh no he has been gone a long time....

I hate that your hubby would do that to you...Glad that you are on the path to healing now....I know what you mean about thinking they are making it up when they adore your size!!

You are welcome..thanks for having the thread..

 

[blackhillsbbw]

That makes absolutely perfect sense hon...thank you for sharing that....

Ha! I wondered what happened to this!! So I went back and wrote it. Ha I submitted it!
I'm a ditz and on my phone (explains a lot!)?

 

[BeeLou]

Ha! I wondered what happened to this!! So I went back and wrote it. Ha I submitted it!
I'm a ditz and on my phone (explains a lot!)?

LOL that is okay..I thought maybe Lit was just acting up! LOL

 

[blackhillsbbw]

girls, do not listen to anyone who make negative comments on you or insult you. What does matter is to feel ok with yourselves. Then everything else will follow.

when I was younger, I was feeling so bad for my body, that when I was going to the beach I wanted to swim without removing my tshirt, cuz I was feeling ashamed of myself. Now, I just dont give a f@ck.

and I am glad that both of you look like enjoying yourselves the way you look.

You, my dear, can say that ALL, you want. Lol but it's NOT an easy fix! It's not that easy.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

LOL that is okay..I thought maybe Lit was just acting up! LOL

We'll say it was Lit! Lol not the operator!

 

[BeeLou]

We'll say it was Lit! Lol not the operator!

LOL sounds good!

 

[Ironfistvk]

For me its the way they feel in my arms, against me, very soft. Love the feeling of my arms filling up when I hug a woman. Hmmm will try to list as many as I can as to why but no matter what others might think or say its not a fetish for me, I dont go after bigger women just cause they have more to play with.

Having said that, overall bigger women have bubbly, infectious personalities which draws me to them like moth to a flame. They are also tend to be kind, sweet and have both an open heart and mind both in general as well as sexual aspects.