Bi curious men what first experience would be most comfortable?

What first bi experience would you prefer?


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I checked "other" b/c I think bi-curious has such a wide connotation to it. A guy who really is still into women but has an "itch" once in a while, no thanks as it probably would get as intense as I want it. A guy who calls himself "bi" b/c he is married, can't get it up for women anymore, gets it up plenty easy for men, fucks his ass often with a toy, and is masturbating all the time over gay sex, ABSO-FUCKING-LUTELY!

Somewhere in between here. Married, can get hard for my wife with help of Viagra, but get hard instantly for hot man or woman with a strap on, use sex toys when out of town by myself and frequently masturbate in the morning while fantasizing about getting fucked.
 
Somewhere in between here. Married, can get hard for my wife with help of Viagra, but get hard instantly for hot man or woman with a strap on, use sex toys when out of town by myself and frequently masturbate in the morning while fantasizing about getting fucked.

You are the kind of guy I am talking about:devil:
 
If you are bi curious and want to try a real life experience what would you fee most comfortable trying:

with:
a bi curious male
an experienced male
a transwoman
a male/female couple
or something else?
A couple...My favorite fantasy is to suck a cock while getting sucked. An interracial couple with a white female would be the ultimate.
 
If you are bi curious and want to try a real life experience what would you fee most comfortable trying:

with:
a bi curious male
an experienced male
a transwoman
a male/female couple
or something else?

A transwoman. I love the beauty of a woman, and to experience a hard trans cock would be amazingly exciting.
 
Ideally a couple but to pull that off is a hell of a lot more difficult. So to get guaranteed action and know it will go mostly according to plan, the experienced guy is the way to go. Another curious guy might flake out on you.
 
I think it would be best to encourage and curious guy to start trying things out together....more even roles, which I like
 
I would say a bi curious man, but I LOVE! the thought of going down on a guy in a 3sum with my wife. That would be so exciting not only sucking his cock, but in front of my wife, and getting to watch him fucking her. I think the ultimate would be licking up a guy's slimy cum load from my wife while he's fucking my daddy ass like a cunt. I also love to think of being on my knees sucking her bull lover while looking up at them making out, maybe I see him right there fingering her in my face while I'm sucking him.
 
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My girl friend brought in the husband to our FMF relationship and it only seemed natural. Watch what you do because becoming a sissy was easy after the first round. I love it but never planned for it.
 
For me personally, I prefer feminine men. I don't find average men attractive in any way. I selected transwoman, but my first and ONLY experience was with a twink who wore makeup and dressed in women's clothing, not dresses, skirts or anything like that, but tight jeans, yoga pants, crop tops, etc. Just a tinder hookup, he was in town for a day or two and had a thing for straight guys who were curious; I took him up on his offer for NSA fun.

I won't lie, I was very turned on by his appearance, beautiful plump lips, eye shadow, a soft, feminine voice and an ample shaped booty. Best head I'd ever had, hands down. No girl I've been with in my life, could compare to his skills and the fucking, perfect arch while in doggy and rode my cock like a champ!
 
Mine was in a gay sauna, more just a cock to suck.
It happened to be attatched to a chubby chinese guy but that wasn't too important.
Love the idea of a really feminine guy to play with, lots more kissing and caressing , I wouldn't be in such a hurry to get a mouthfull of cum(although ultimatley thats what I want)
 
Uhhhhh couple! There is No Way my husband would have every done it otherwise. And still struggles with it if I am not there or another wife.
 
Wrestling. Grab a buddy, go down on the ground and if something moves in your pants and you enjoy the rub against his body you are onto something. If you feel the same from him, you can proceed doing in the nude. Things after that tend to develop on their own.

But with internet nowadays you can be safe in just a video chat, below the waist, have some fun and pretend you didn't want to be slapped by that cock in your face.
 
Somewhere in between here. Married, can get hard for my wife with help of Viagra, but get hard instantly for hot man or woman with a strap on, use sex toys when out of town by myself and frequently masturbate in the morning while fantasizing about getting fucked.

Role play with your wife, you will have incredible fun. I love it when I talk about this while we are making love. My husband gets crazy the more I talk. I need to figure out a way to get one of our sex machines to robot up an take him while I am talking the talk - lol.
 
As one who's taken the plunge from bicurious to full blown, openly pansexual... My first experience with another bicurious guy made the progression easy. We both started with mutual masturbation, and after a while we were barely able to stop from fucking each other silly.

My second guy was an older gay man with a lot of experience. If it hadn't been for my prior experiences, I'm not sure I could've handled him. Let's just say the intensity was not for the faint of heart.
 
i would say that you need to just make the decision to do it. there is no fantasy perfect situation that you should wait around for. if you want to try sex with a man just do it. its very easy today. go on grindr or sniffies or another app. take that step. post an ad. meet a guy. who knows your neighbor might have an ad up. a friend you know might. youll be surprised how many guys are into dick but youd never know. just a regular guy like you.
 
Role play with your wife, you will have incredible fun. I love it when I talk about this while we are making love. My husband gets crazy the more I talk. I need to figure out a way to get one of our sex machines to robot up a take him while I am talking the talk - lol.
My wife isn’t into sex anymore.
 
My first time was exactly what I wanted (and why I waited so long) -- a m/f couple where we knew everyone was bi-curious, and after he and I and her were standing making out and feeling up each other, she got down on her knees to go back and forth between sucking my cock and his, then she looked up and said seductively, "Don't you want to come down here and join me?", and I did. (I had told her that's how I wanted to first try a cock.) We then did all sorts of fun positions :). Been exploring more since then.
 
In addition to an experienced man and with a male/female couple, I checked Other. For me the Other would be a group of 3-4 other experienced men in my age group (55+). Would love for them to gently use my mouth and ass while they show me the "ropes" :rose:đź’“
 
I voted for three options:

a bi curious male
an experienced male
a male/female couple

And I'll explain from the perspective of what I did, not what I would do.

Before experiencing my first cock, almost all my fantasies involved a woman forcing me to submit to her husband. It was a way, I suppose, to have gay sex without actually admitting my gay desires. Alas, it never worked out, but the more I fantasized, the more comfortable I became with the idea of just being alone with with a man.

I finally settled on a bathhouse as the most anonymous way of satisfying my lust. I wasn't really looking for an experienced lover; I would have gladly settled for a partner who was just curious. But while I don't know whether there were any virgins among the men I encountered that night, I assume they were all experienced. Probably a good thing, given all the fears dancing around in my head. My first man was very gentle and understanding, and I loved sucking his cock. I wish I could find him again.

I would still like to get involved with a woman and her SO, though I envision it occurring quite differently than my earlier fantasies. Rather than being "forced" into submission, I would seduce the man while showing off for the woman. So much the better if I got to fuck the woman, but bottoming for her man would be my main priority.
 
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