nassauguy_2001
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That's called "living your dream!"
Bi Married and closeted
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That's called "living your dream!"
Definitely not
I've kept my desires secret my entire adult life, only over the recent few years has it become a constant struggle. Stories and porn have been my only outlets. Being a mwm has me very hesitant and cautious, I'm always looking and fantasizing though.
I've kept my desires secret my entire adult life, only over the recent few years has it become a constant struggle. Stories and porn have been my only outlets. Being a mwm has me very hesitant and cautious, I'm always looking and fantasizing though.
klippert
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No struggles brother. Accept it. If nothing ever happens physically no worries. Enjoy the porn. This isn’t that big of a deal. I made my choice and accepted it. Never had a ‘struggle’. If you really want m/m sex. There are 100s of sites to hook up.
Don’t over think this. And don’t get sucked into the pop-psychology of it, the “pronouns” or titles. Take a deep breath.
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That's why we have our dreams
I have known I am bi for many many years well before I married my wife 37 years ago. I could never tell my wife and have been totally monogamous since, my wife being raised southern Baptist I know just wouldn't understand. I have to say I have had thoughts of having another man join in with us but I am sure the repercussions of asking her would probably destroy the great life we have built together. I am not sure if that is one of the issues you are concerned with or not just my 2 cents on the issue.
I have known I am bi for many many years well before I married my wife 37 years ago. I could never tell my wife and have been totally monogamous since, my wife being raised southern Baptist I know just wouldn't understand. I have to say I have had thoughts of having another man join in with us but I am sure the repercussions of asking her would probably destroy the great life we have built together. I am not sure if that is one of the issues you are concerned with or not just my 2 cents on the issue.
Phillyguy28
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For me I just need to bide my time and let life play out.
I played with my friend in my younger years.
I never had any girlfriends growing up, sadly.
First wife treated me poorly.
And second/current wife treats me poorly.
I love my wife but she has no plans to give me sex.
Honestly I would rather pleasure another man than a woman at this point.
Someone in a similar situation as myself. Maybe played in his younger years. Maybe in a sexless marriage. Maybe a guy who finds woman to be hot but he finds nice cocks to be even hotter. But he can never actually go out and find a cock.
So I just have to allow life to play out and hope that someday I will be presented with a nice cock to service, just like I did when I was younger.
Until that time I will enjoy the images and the messages here on Lit.
I am right there with you!
Exactly…I feel 5hat is what has brought my curiosity out too. I’ve never been offended by a cock, actually as long as I’ve been watching porn I’ve been just as interested in the cocks as I am the tits.
mtsnowrider
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Think a lot of us are in this situation
onefourall
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blazingsaddles69
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Hello from the Northwest
Some group action and chat would be hot
Some group action and chat would be hot
Yup, I should form a support group
I'm always up to chat if anyone wants to PM me
MWM, 53, bi curious, sexless marriage
I’d join…agree there are probably a lot of us in this situation!!
mtsnowrider
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That's the unicorn we are all looking for. Now we just need to discover that two if us are "neighbors"
VincentFloyd
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Would love to have a regular guy to jerk off with, blowing a load once a week would be great
Of course more than once a week would be even better but have to be realistic about things
Of course more than once a week would be even better but have to be realistic about things
This is me.
ICraveCock
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And me.
sweettalk4u
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It a big club. Should be some neighbors in here!
I'm desperate for a FWB since it's been a long time since I've been with anyone. If you're in Scottsdale AZ let me know.
hey...
Yeah, you would think so eh?
But the longer I'm here the less evidence I see of that contention.
Yeah, you would think so eh?
But the longer I'm here the less evidence I see of that contention.
Pull up sniffies.com and see who's around you.
mrdiscreetshh
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Kind of want to admit it, but not fully admitting it to the wife keeps the thrill going. What do you think?
mrdiscreetshh
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Yeah I'm sure there are a lot of us here in the same situation.
Married but little to no sex, or if we do get sex from the wife, it's just boring.
Maybe we played with a friend growing up and want to relive that once again.
There is no way we could hook up with a stranger but a trusted friend or neighbor would be a good thing.
The problem too, at least for me, is even if I met a guy here that lived down the street how would I say to the wife "Hey, I'm gonna go hang out with the guy down the street, I know I have never done that before, but now I am". That would not go over very well.
That's why I'm thinking someone next door that you see all the time.
But in the meantime I'll keep surfing here for the images of the hot ladies and also the beautiful cocks.
Very well said and thoroughly thought out.
You could get creative and arrange to run to the grocery store around the same time as the fellow down the street and engage in a quick parking lot fun
If the opportunity presents itself, I'll take it and it be my little dirty secret!
blazingsaddles69
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Hey Novice
nice thoughts seeing a hot guy in a sauna or a steam room naked would be nice sitting close stroking and more
nice thoughts seeing a hot guy in a sauna or a steam room naked would be nice sitting close stroking and more
blazingsaddles69
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yes
moving closer to him sitting lower on the bench close up
moving closer to him sitting lower on the bench close up
bi_musings
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Yeah I'm sure there are a lot of us here in the same situation.
Married but little to no sex, or if we do get sex from the wife, it's just boring.
Maybe we played with a friend growing up and want to relive that once again.
There is no way we could hook up with a stranger but a trusted friend or neighbor would be a good thing.
The problem too, at least for me, is even if I met a guy here that lived down the street how would I say to the wife "Hey, I'm gonna go hang out with the guy down the street, I know I have never done that before, but now I am". That would not go over very well.
That's why I'm thinking someone next door that you see all the time.
But in the meantime I'll keep surfing here for the images of the hot ladies and also the beautiful cocks.
This is me. However I do have a lot of outside interests and could easily get away during the day if I had someone to play with.
I think about it often and it makes me horny as hell, but actually going through with it would make me nervous. I'd want to feel really safe and anything in public just wouldn't work. So, the sauna/steamroom thing would also be a no-go for me, unless I was travelling out of town somewhere.
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