Bi Married and closeted

Saunas

There is a coed spa here that has guys and gals naked in the sauna and steam non sexual but still interesting
 
It's not public sex.
Saunas are in gyms and also sometimes hotels will have them.
Generally it's simply electricity that heats up rocks that retain and give off heat. Sometimes you have steam rooms that you scoop up water from a bucket and pour it over hot rocks and steam is produced.
Normally what I have seen guys will go in there wearing their gym clothes. I think they would prefer you take a pre sauna shower and go in there with a towel wrapped around your waist and keep yourself covered. I suspect at larger gyms with larger saunas you would have lots of guys in there exposing themselves, but it's not like they are having sex. But at smaller gyms with smaller saunas I suspect the guys would be shy and would keep themselves wrapped up.
I have heard about, but never been to one, very large spas where guys head to their guys only pool and ladies go to their ladies only pool and they are fully naked pools, no clothing what so ever allowed. Now that would be interesting. I again would not see sex happening as i'm sure it's policed somehow but I could see a sharing of phone numbers.
Sadly my local gym just has individual shower stalls, it's not a group thing. I remember growing up going to a large rec center that had a huge pool and large locker room with a large open shower. I'm not sure if it's still set up the same way, but I'm sure you get an eyeful.
:)

Thanks, novice!
I'm aware of what a regular sauna is. I know that they're often used so gay men can hookup and, way back when, were where the actual sex took place. Not sure anymore.

Just did a quick lookup on this one:
https://www******-houston.com/
 
I hear you.
We have all the intent but when it comes right down to it, we get cold feet for fear of being caught.
I always had a day dream of an older guy inviting me into his office at work. :)
Maybe a gentleman that I met in the hall bathroom and he offered to show me the view from his office so I take him up on it.
That way I'm at work, well when I used to go to work, and his office was empty so it's not like I was out wandering around town.

Long before COVID I was able to host in my office. Was a one man office in a shared office concept. A few years ago they installed cameras in the common areas and I was concerned about the management company seeing different guys coming into my office, so I cooled it.

Biggest thing I worried about was the smell of sex. No candles were permitted!

Those were the days!!!
 
Yeah I'm sure there are a lot of us here in the same situation.
Married but little to no sex, or if we do get sex from the wife, it's just boring.
Maybe we played with a friend growing up and want to relive that once again.
There is no way we could hook up with a stranger but a trusted friend or neighbor would be a good thing.
The problem too, at least for me, is even if I met a guy here that lived down the street how would I say to the wife "Hey, I'm gonna go hang out with the guy down the street, I know I have never done that before, but now I am". That would not go over very well.
That's why I'm thinking someone next door that you see all the time.
But in the meantime I'll keep surfing here for the images of the hot ladies and also the beautiful cocks.
:)

Hey there, i had the same situation with a guy down the street. I found him on squirt.org and we realised we were neighbours. After chatting for a while we came up with a plan for me to help him with a reno he was doing, as i had just completed a similar basement update. We got together like this about 5 times before we drifted apart. He had some kinks i wasn't interested in.
 
nice thoughts seeing a hot guy in a sauna or a steam room naked would be nice sitting close stroking and more

I had a stroke with a guy in a sauna while I was in Germany. Wasn't aware a few others were in there hard as well until I was close to cumming. Never forget the guy reaching over with a towel for me to cum into and gripping my cock as I finished off. The wife got a hard Fuck that night
 
Long before COVID I was able to host in my office. Was a one man office in a shared office concept. A few years ago they installed cameras in the common areas and I was concerned about the management company seeing different guys coming into my office, so I cooled it.

Biggest thing I worried about was the smell of sex. No candles were permitted!

Those were the days!!!

I had a brief thing with a guy where he was able to host in his office. It was quite hot and there were big windows so facing other office towers so it had an exhibitionist feel too. Sadly it was just a few times.
 
I don’t have the exciting office buddy. We get together easily in the morning in my garage workshop, in my hunting bling or trying to hit his hunting cabin, just the two of us.
 
Good morning men...don't give up...and don't be afraid to use other sites for your search...if you are really considering tasting the other fruit... you can get lucky
 
I've had good results from Squirt and Silverdaddies. Just now trying Sniffies.
 
hooked up with a hot 22 year old on Grinder yesterday, its a good time to be in your 40s, guys and girls love older men now :D
 
Friend of friend

My older married bi friend is going south for the winter, so he gave another guy my info. He reached out to me and we chatted for a bit to see if we would be a good mix. He is in his 30’s and has a nice uncut cock and more dominate. Me in my 40’s average cock more submissive. I think we are going to meet up this Friday night, he has a pair of panties he wants me to wear while i get on my knees and suck him. It turns me on thinking about wearing sexy womens panties on my knees sucking on a nice cock. He said he wants to take me doggystyle while i am wearing them too.
 
My older married bi friend is going south for the winter, so he gave another guy my info. He reached out to me and we chatted for a bit to see if we would be a good mix. He is in his 30’s and has a nice uncut cock and more dominate. Me in my 40’s average cock more submissive. I think we are going to meet up this Friday night, he has a pair of panties he wants me to wear while i get on my knees and suck him. It turns me on thinking about wearing sexy womens panties on my knees sucking on a nice cock. He said he wants to take me doggystyle while i am wearing them too.
Wearing sexy little panties seems to turn me in to a slut instantly. This sounds like so much fun.
 
My older married bi friend is going south for the winter, so he gave another guy my info. He reached out to me and we chatted for a bit to see if we would be a good mix. He is in his 30’s and has a nice uncut cock and more dominate. Me in my 40’s average cock more submissive. I think we are going to meet up this Friday night, he has a pair of panties he wants me to wear while i get on my knees and suck him. It turns me on thinking about wearing sexy womens panties on my knees sucking on a nice cock. He said he wants to take me doggystyle while i am wearing them too.

sexy panties always makes it better!
 
I was really luck when a fella I met thru a mutual friend contacted me back in Sept. I never expected he'd would still have my number. I know this is rear. sometimes when you're not looking is when opertunity drops by
 
No chance

Good morning men...don't give up...and don't be afraid to use other sites for your search...if you are really considering tasting the other fruit... you can get lucky

of giving up, klip. GLBT is the first thread I look at every time.
 
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