Bi Married and closeted

[oneblueye]

hey...

I was alluding to all your friends being dead or in prison BUT my comments are often oblique to all but me. I, too, am very close to vanilla. My only two "outside hetero" dalliances are trading handjobs and rubbing cocks together. Only happened on those by living long enough to witness my wife lose her libido. Don't want the stress that would accompany chasing after other women but all guys jerk off. Some like to jerk off socially. I have heard the penal system involves much more than the hands and I am not amenable to any unwelcomed penetration, penal system or otherwise.

All of my dead friends (some of whom were relatives as well) are in such a state because of the very stuff that is discussed here as other threads on this site. Sex, getting high, getting high while in engaged in sex, getting high while trying to get sex, trying to avoid the consequences of their endeavors involved in getting sex.
I used to have a friend that had his liver ate up from drinking before he was seventeen, it was made a terminal situation when he was second on the syringe that gave him hepatitis C. He drank himself to death the same day he heard about that same girlfriend that shot him up, just the night previous was in a favorite bar of his pulling a five man train the night before. It took him a bottle of 151 rum and a bottle of 101 Wild Turkey but his liver exploded just before midnight. The fucking junkies in that place had him robbed, stripped naked and everything on him sold before one AM.
Just about the mid-70's, had a friend of mine and this friend of his drove down to Clear Water FL, with a little over 600 tabs of acid. They were going make a fortune selling that shit to college kids, Spring Breakers. The only thing they got was a funeral and a long prison sentence to my boy's friend and my friend got the box.
I got pages just like these two examples.

The only danger in being my friend is the ability of whatever partner I happen to engage with, is incapable of effectively and efficiently being able to process the pleasure they are receiving before they step off the precipice into the maw that waits below them.

I KNOW to what your post was 'alluding' to, I was being vague to assuage my head.

 

[klippert]

Bump
Are we tired of snow at this point?

Yes…and these crazy sun zero temp. My little buddy crawls backwards in this weather. LoL

 

[TallOne]

No real sign of winter yet in Ohio, still cruising around in the convertible with the top down. Just had a couple dustings so far.

 

[TallOne]

Was insane last week here in VA about an hour south of DC.
16 inches of super wet snow.
Trees down all over.
And the highway and side roads closed.
And no power for 48 hours.

It is a bit funny to me that I've lived all up and down the east coast, PNW, and Germany but the worst winters I've had have been in the "south" in VA in the mid 90s.

 

[starfish71]

Was insane last week here in VA about an hour south of DC.
16 inches of super wet snow.
Trees down all over.
And the highway and side roads closed.
And no power for 48 hours.

And it was a sneak attack too... 50-60 degrees the week before... news says snow is coming, everyone is like "yeah, right", then bam!...

 

[Hardon4u21]

I am an older cocksucker that enjoys wearing panties or other lingerie while on my knees cock. I just wish more guys would get over this Covid thing so we could hookup. It seemed to be easier before the covid thing. So all I can do now is surf the web and places like Literotica for guys with common likes such as sucking and fucking. And wearing lingerie while doing it.

I wish I could find a friend to suck cock with. I like women too, but have never been with another man and the thought of getting sucked, sucking or getting fucked by another man gets me so hot and horny. Im not sure if it’s the overall lack of sex and looking at gay porn, but sometimes I feel like I just need a hard cock.

 

[starfish71]

Yup, it was madness, worst I have ever seen it and i grew up here.
Sure we have gotten huge storms in the past that "come up from GA".
But those normally come when it has already been 20 degrees for a week and it takes it hours to get the snow down to the ground and it's light and puffy.
But the air was already saturated with moisture so when it started it came down heavy and wet.
5 tractor trailers sadly crashing into each other on 95 didn't help either, esp when they directed folks to 1 and it too was closed

The southern storms are always the worst, every bad storm growing up was that setup (also grew up in the DMV)... the wet snow, then slight melt, then freeze again, then wind also takes a toll... the pines in the neighborhood took a beating... reminiscent of my time in PNW (though there power would go out for a week+ when it happened)...

It wouldn't be so bad if I was snowed in with the right playmate... but that never happens...

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

It is a bit funny to me that I've lived all up and down the east coast, PNW, and Germany but the worst winters I've had have been in the "south" in VA in the mid 90s.

First winter in this part of Va around 1990 there was 14 inches of snow... it was my first of a few WTF moments here.

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Snow Issues

The area around DC is bad because it does not happen often enough for the communities to deal with it and drive in it The ice can be bad as well more time to perv Smiles

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I don't mean to be rude, but what does the weather have to do with the subject of the thread?

 

[none2_none2]

Maybe snow reminds them of cum since they are both white. Or perhaps it gives them fond memories of holding their cock, while trying to cursively write their name in the snow with piss.

 

[Crios]

I don't mean to be rude, but what does the weather have to do with the subject of the thread?

Think the boys all got off topic...

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I'm glad

I'm not the only one who thinks so.

 

[klippert]

How’s everyone doing. Hand-pump to all the horny married men

 

[Crios]

How’s everyone doing. Hand-pump to all the horny married men

Just finishing my morning coffee here while the bathroom's warming up so I can take a shower and shave

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Having a quiet stroke and wishing there was a cock in my mouth.

 

[TallOne]

I don't mean to be rude, but what does the weather have to do with the subject of the thread?

Sorry. Cock cock cock cock cockity cock

My wife and I are on again/off again swingers. We've been "off" for several years now, exacerbated by covid. But she just setup a profile and is getting in the mood again and wants to get back into it when this omicron wave settles. So good potential for some cock and creampies in the forecast soon.

 

[Crios]

Sorry. Cock cock cock cock cockity cock

My wife and I are on again/off again swingers. We've been "off" for several years now, exacerbated by covid. But she just setup a profile and is getting in the mood again and wants to get back into it when this omicron wave settles. So good potential for some cock in the forecast soon.

Hey, Tall!
When you guys were(will be) swinging, was it an "equal" relationship? Meaning, you got to experience other women while she was with other guys?

Just curious...

 

[TallOne]

Hey, Tall!
When you guys were(will be) swinging, was it an "equal" relationship? Meaning, you got to experience other women while she was with other guys?

Just curious...

I have been with other women as well, yes. Number of full swaps and even a MFMFFF on one occasion. She's also brought home a single girl to share. But I prefer sharing a guy with her. She gives me all the pussy I want.

What we haven't done yet that I'd like is having a guy for each of us, doing us both at the same time next to each other. Whether that be one gay/bi guy and one straight or whatever combo works out.

 

[TallOne]

We had a fun night playing with each other while messaging our matches on adult friend finder. Of course being fresh meat on there we got a bit overwhelmed with messages. But found a nice bbc bull for her as well as several bi guys we are interested in going forward with whenever omicron cools its tits.

 

[PersonalFavors]

Erotic encounters

Finding a "friend" to play with here in DC Metro has been an elusive proposition since I moved here.
I prefer to keep it pretty simple. Exchanging massage which leads to comfort exploring head and other intensifying erotics.
That has been my experience in the past. Here hosting or not, we are so spread out in traffic that the round trip can easily be an hour each way. Making a day of being ready for company is tough. Must keep this secret. To be honest most of us are married and curious or simply enjoy the release without the relationship that normally goes with it. the added excitement of doing something that is considered wrong or taboo helps too. I still get aroused just pulling my pants down with a 'trusted' friend. How do you find the time? Townhouse is small compared to where I was before but play remains possible. Massage table.... To keep from neighbors or the woman figuring out, a visitor can't park in the driveway. Too many eyes and questions for the woman.
Do you guys just go without?
How do you decide who you might play with?
Like, I don't mind age difference. If I am going to host I do mind HWP. I'm white clean 180lbs 6' and the equipment all works. Prefer to share photos first to make sure neither of us have any negative appeal issues. Deal breaker on this. Any time I ever allowed a meet when they were too nervous or unwilling to share, they took all that time to get there and we didn't play because they where not who they said they were. Or worse. No show and didn't say they were not coming. Burn my whole day.
Anyway, wish I had a friend close enough by to be a bit more spontaneous. Maybe even not create suspicion and visiting is simple. My 'two' friends I had in the past never met each other. But they were repeat friends. Perfecting each others excitement was key to the enjoyment which has me looking for more even though she gives me what I need.
Covid crap is annoying too. At least a visit to Spa World was an outlet to hang naked. Even if we never talked... You could tell who was aroused by watching or being watched.

 

[klippert]

I don't mean to be rude, but what does the weather have to do with the subject of the thread?

Casual conversation. Thread is Bi married closeted. Not Bi married closeted; DONT TALK ABOUT THE WEATHER!!!
trust me you meet someone. Casual conversation is where it will start. Breaks the ice. That all said; we’re in a heat wave. 33*, SE Michigan. Pontiac to be exact’errr

 

[blazingsaddles69]

All sweaty

Novice then what happens??

 

[Crios]

Do other guys have some steamy ideas/situations they wish they could encounter with a trusted neighbor?

I fantasize doing things as a couple with my wife's best friend and her husband. Very "churchgoing" couple but also very nice. Of course, in the fantasy, it's m/f, m/m, f/f. Lots of oral (blowjobs, pussylicking, rimming) and anal. I'd be dressed in a lace chemise with stockings. My wife and her friend would be in sexy bustiers and the friends husband just wouldn't be dressed at all

 

[Crios]

Ummmmmm, that's hot
sadly we don't have any friends that we hang out with on a regular basis.
nor does it help my wife has zero interest in sex.
but that certainly is a hot fantasy.
mine i guess would be that my wife went down on a female friend of hers and came to me and admitted it and said "So This is why guys are always talking about sex". And it went from there.

My wife and I still have a good sex life. At least as well as can be expected given the changes in her body due to menopause. I'm lucky in that when she's up to playing, she can usually have 2 or 3 orgasms. Love her to pieces and I'm so grateful that she'll do things like peg me when I ask her to.