Bistro Bijou

[Safe_Bet]

saunters in with a satisfied smile, and uncorks the bottle of shiraz to let it breathe, and i am pulling up a chair, and enjoying this.

anybody that needs some happiness, come sit next to me, i want to share this

Share away sister. Sounds like LadynS needs some "happy" right now (or a vibrator!). I could do with a bit myself.

 

[LadynStFreknBed]

Share away sister. Sounds like LadynS needs some "happy" right now (or a vibrator!). I could do with a bit myself.

I said it was 2 hours into the date when he got the frantic calls about his dad.. of course I got laid!

 

[LadynStFreknBed]

Crazy Shit!

You want to hear something crazy and just downright unbelievable???

My boyfriend's yahoo ID was signed on, so I asked if it was him. (He has his Yahoo set to automatically sign in, so whenever his cousin uses his computer, the yahoo ID shows as online.) It was his cousin.

His cousin told me that Dave is still at the hospital with his dad. He goes on to ask if I am dating Dave. I told him "yes." He goes on to ask if it is serious and if not, can he and i get to know each other...

Can you believe that shit???

His cousin becomes very pushy on the subject and I just can't believe a cousin would be that cold. Dave is at the hospital with his ill father and his cousin is at home hitting on his girlfriend. That's just sick.

Now, question..
would you tell your bf if a family member of his hit on you?

I wouldn't dream of bringing up the subject right now. He's got more important things to worry about. Would you ever bring it up? I wouldn't want to cause any problems between him and his cousin.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I said it was 2 hours into the date when he got the frantic calls about his dad.. of course I got laid!

Hey, I'm a virgin. I don't understand these things!

 

[Safe_Bet]

You want to hear something crazy and just downright unbelievable???

My boyfriend's yahoo ID was signed on, so I asked if it was him. (He has his Yahoo set to automatically sign in, so whenever his cousin uses his computer, the yahoo ID shows as online.) It was his cousin.

His cousin told me that Dave is still at the hospital with his dad. He goes on to ask if I am dating Dave. I told him "yes." He goes on to ask if it is serious and if not, can he and i get to know each other...

Can you believe that shit???

His cousin becomes very pushy on the subject and I just can't believe a cousin would be that cold. Dave is at the hospital with his ill father and his cousin is at home hitting on his girlfriend. That's just sick.

Now, question..
would you tell your bf if a family member of his hit on you?

I wouldn't dream of bringing up the subject right now. He's got more important things to worry about. Would you ever bring it up? I wouldn't want to cause any problems between him and his cousin.

He's a guy! If you tell him he'll just think it's funny!

eta: Don't ask me crap about guys! I don't know from bumkiss. If Dave was a butch chick hell yeah I'd say something, but he's not, so I ain't!

 

[sassynyc]

Exactly. Form. Hand me that fucking bleach, thank you.

I share your aversion to writing form poetry. It's always felt confining to me. I'm all free spirit-esque, and shit. I've come to the conclusion that it's directly related to my near-allergic response to discipline. We are not fond of each other, or even on a first name basis. I conciously have to make the effort to apply discipline to situations that put me outside of my comfort zone. To that end, I decided to take a crack at the ghazal. Couldn't hurt, right?

At first, I wanted to gouge out my eyes with a hot poker. And replace the sugar in my tea, with finely ground glass. When the form finally started to make sense to me, it wasn't so bad. Now, at least I can look a ghazal in the eye without breaking into hives. I may even show up for the next form class.

Keep that bleach handy though. I may be joining you. The new class starts next week, I think.

Free the Ghazals! Let's have a free verse freeforall fooforaw and just let it all hang out in the hangout.

bj

I pray at the altar of free verse.

I'm there, with bells on. And all my earthly possessions in tow. Moving into that thread whenever it opens up.

 

[sassynyc]

You want to hear something crazy and just downright unbelievable???

My boyfriend's yahoo ID was signed on, so I asked if it was him. (He has his Yahoo set to automatically sign in, so whenever his cousin uses his computer, the yahoo ID shows as online.) It was his cousin.

His cousin told me that Dave is still at the hospital with his dad. He goes on to ask if I am dating Dave. I told him "yes." He goes on to ask if it is serious and if not, can he and i get to know each other...

Can you believe that shit???

His cousin becomes very pushy on the subject and I just can't believe a cousin would be that cold. Dave is at the hospital with his ill father and his cousin is at home hitting on his girlfriend. That's just sick.

Now, question..
would you tell your bf if a family member of his hit on you?I wouldn't dream of bringing up the subject right now. He's got more important things to worry about. Would you ever bring it up? I wouldn't want to cause any problems between him and his cousin.

Hell yeah! I'd sing like Beyonce at the Oscars.....loud and often.

Of course as you pointed out, now isn't the time, but it needs to be addressed. For several reasons. Let me preface this by saying, I firmly believe in minding one's own business. If this was you hearing some he said, she said about someone else, I'd say leave it alone. You're right in the middle of this, so you've every right to address it. If you decided to let it go, you wouldn't be wrong, but you wouldn't be doing yourself any favors.

I don't know how serious you and Dave are, but if it reaches the point where you have to interact with his family regularly, you're going to feel uncomfortable. That would be a shame, since you've done nothing wrong. The cousin, on the other hand, won't miss a wink of sleep over it, considering he and integrity aren't even remotely acquainted. You can bet he and guilt never met. To a jackass like that, silence gives consent.

Now, I'm cynical and naturally suspicious. I have a tendency to turn shit over and look at it from every imaginable angle. This could be totally irrelevant to your case, but one of the first things I'd contemplate is, if this is some twisted test of loyalty. Just to see if you'd bite. If you say nothing, you could look guilty of considering, if nothing else. If that is so, who has time for the bullshit?

Telling Dave would definitely let you know where you stand with him; a measure of the strength of your bond. His response will say volumes about your relationship. Also, the cousin is clearly an unabashed asshole....you don't want to leave live ammo laying around a muther fucker like that. This could be the grenade that rolls under the couch, and goes off one day when you decide to vacuum.

I say put cuz on blast. Let the pieces fall where they may.

*my 2 cents, over and out*

 

[Remec]

lol

Although, I am happy to have someone play with my hair. Does that count as cuddling? Oh, and I like being rubbed in a purely platonic way. All my surface nerves are rub-sluts who can never get enough. I just can't be hugged for prolonged moments without moving which is how I view cuddling. That makes me fidgety and feel claustrophobic.

Now that I have made myself sound like a freak, all is right in the world.

Ahh, well, I sort of view cuddling as lying next to one another (maybe spooning, maybe not) or sitting on someone's lap and leaning back against their chest and/or one arm while letting yourself caress them and be caressed (even occasionally molested) in return...so I think we may be on the same page when it comes to what we like there...

As for the hair, *big smile* oh yeah, light brushing of fingertips through the edges, gentle tugging at curls, wrapping ponytails/pigtails/braids about my fingers...breathing in the scent of it...that's a definite. Would you mind toying with your ears and neck as well?

 

[Homburg]

Still alive. Just haven't had much time to post. Haven't felt especially poesy either

Hugs to you all.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

Remec are you tarting in here? What happened to my flirting I didn't get nearly enough but dibs on kissing you better .... how about here oh and a little bit here and loads of it round about there on the top bit?

As for cuddling I have to be in the mood and I don't like being frisked when I am standing a the sink oh and cuddling in bed and leaving a heavy arm crushing my boobs when I want to go to sleep is a no no.

Safe Bet your AV is a bit emmerrr OMG isn't it?!!! phewwwwwwwwwww all hot and bothered now!

I bought a witches hat with green hair today for a Halloween party will get Ron to take a pic lol

 

[Safe_Bet]

Remec are you tarting in here? What happened to my flirting I didn't get nearly enough but dibs on kissing you better .... how about here oh and a little bit here and loads of it round about there on the top bit?

As for cuddling I have to be in the mood and I don't like being frisked when I am standing a the sink oh and cuddling in bed and leaving a heavy arm crushing my boobs when I want to go to sleep is a no no.

Safe Bet your AV is a bit emmerrr OMG isn't it?!!! phewwwwwwwwwww all hot and bothered now!

I bought a witches hat with green hair today for a Halloween party will get Ron to take a pic lol

What? You never lost your keys?

 

[UnderYourSpell]

With a finger like that who needs keys !!

 

[Remec]

What? You never lost your keys?

Heh, looks like someone's going to lose their rings, if not their watch, if they're not careful...hehehe

 

[UnderYourSpell]

*crosses legs !!tightly!!*

 

[Remec]

Remec are you tarting in here? What happened to my flirting I didn't get nearly enough but dibs on kissing you better .... how about here oh and a little bit here and loads of it round about there on the top bit?

Moi? Tarting? How could you think...um, yes...maybe...a bit...yes. Oh, come here and let me make amends...*brushing back your hair, taking off your glasses*

As for cuddling I have to be in the mood and I don't like being frisked when I am standing a the sink oh and cuddling in bed and leaving a heavy arm crushing my boobs when I want to go to sleep is a no no.

I know just what you mean. I might leave an arm across you, but just for a little while. The first time I have to roll over or shift position, the arm moves away and never seems to go back throughout the night.

The wife almost never lets me cuddle up against her though 'cause my body temp is, like, bio-furnace. *g* She makes fun of me for running an electric fan over the bed even in the dead of winter.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

Oooooooh he took off my glasses ! no-one ever did that before!

 

[Remec]

Oooooooh he took off my glasses ! no-one ever did that before!

*smiling*
No? But even the small pics on your AVs look like you have wonderful eyes and I'd want to see them without anything in the way (besides, I've bumped my glasses into someone else's more than once *wink*).

*drawing you in for a slow, lingering kiss...teasing your lips*

So, how's your Saturday, btw?

 

[UnderYourSpell]

OMG It just improved a 100 fold I feel like a girl again *unsure but willing to be shown*!

 

[unpredictablebijou]

Major Coolness Report

THIS:

is happening in my front yard right now. I hated to leave, but I had to get to the shop. When I drove out there were already at least a hundred fluttering around.

I'm especially excited because they're a week late this year and I thought they weren't coming. The past few years the migration has been sparse and they've dwindled every year since the first year we lived at the Hill, which was 94.

But THERE'S NO CLIMATE PROBLEM, PEOPLE. NONE. EVERYTHING'S FINE. PAY NO ATTENTION TO THE MAN BEHIND THE CURTAIN.

Anyway, w00t! Even if it's not the thousand or more we used to see in the yard, it's a pretty good number this year, and that cheers me considerably.

More in a bit. Shop's hoppin and I'm just getting caught up on all the threads and stuff.

bj

 

[sassynyc]

That is gorgeous.

oh, and
Hugs to you, Hommie. Chin up.

 

[LadynStFreknBed]

Is it necessarily a bad thing to look forward to death?

 

[UnderYourSpell]

What's brought that about? Some times I think no but after all I have had slung at me I know I am a survivor and from the sound of it so are you. If I was terminally ill and likely to go in a very painful way then yes I would welcome it. I actually believe we come back again maybe trying to iron out the mistakes we made last time but the way I am going on I will be returning for all eternity.

 

[LadynStFreknBed]

just tired of the same pain slapping me in the face.
I'm not suicidal.. just tired. My kids keep me alive.

 

[UnderYourSpell]

I understand the tiredness bit and I have got no reason to be tired all the time that's why I am sat here being starved for 12 hours before having blood tests tomorrow. Chin up hun I am here for you just as much as you were for me when I was so low

 

[sassynyc]

just tired of the same pain slapping me in the face.
I'm not suicidal.. just tired. My kids keep me alive.

*sends hugs and stiff drinks*