Artfan2
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They say variety is the spice of life.
Blowjobs... does size matter?
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MichelleSwan
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Average size is sexy best, but smaller is easier, and I find more fun. Big is going to work and cumming home with a sore jaw
I have sucked two cocks, one smaller than average and one bigger than average. The smaller cock was easy to suck and take balls deep but it was just a cock.
The bigger cock is magnificent. You are awed by its size as you struggle to take it all. As difficult as it is, you want to take it balls deep and submit to its power.
It makes me suffer and gag when I do so, so I wait until I know that she is close to orgasm and then I go for it, pushing myself to take it all to the root. I can feel her thrust deep as she climaxes and I am rewarded by a stream of hot cream delivered straight down my throat.
It is so satisfying afterwards knowing that I have done my duty as her submissive bottom and paid homage to her dominant cock.
The bigger cock is magnificent. You are awed by its size as you struggle to take it all. As difficult as it is, you want to take it balls deep and submit to its power.
It makes me suffer and gag when I do so, so I wait until I know that she is close to orgasm and then I go for it, pushing myself to take it all to the root. I can feel her thrust deep as she climaxes and I am rewarded by a stream of hot cream delivered straight down my throat.
It is so satisfying afterwards knowing that I have done my duty as her submissive bottom and paid homage to her dominant cock.
I prefer bigger cocks. Fortunately I have a regular group of guys I get together with on a regular basis, sometimes in a group setting. I like the feeling of a big thick cock down my throat and up my ass, preferably at the same time. I can take 8 inches no problem. Love it.
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To me, it depends on just how he likes it….
Jonnymc
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Hi sexySize doesn't matter to me when it comes to giving a BJ.
I love cock in my mouth..
Jonnymc
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ThanksI'd gladly suck on the cock. Can't lie!!
Never had anything that large. Average at best but honestly as long as it's a hard cock I'm good with it so size doesn't matter though it'd be nice to try a large cock one day. Can't lie
CuriousJInLA
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I think a little size is desirable but average is great
dearlybeloved
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I don’t get the whole size competition among men. Who’s bigger? Who’s thicker? Unless you have some major choking fetish going on, I guarantee you’ll have more fun with me if you’re somewhere around average-sized. It’s just much easier to focus on pleasuring a guy when you’re not busy trying not to choke.
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Good call
Paguy8641
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Well said. I’m an average size
Guy and have never had a complaint. I don’t understand why any guy would want a woman to struggle with his size whether it’s a BJ or vaginal
CuriousJInLA
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Same actually, but it’s so ingrained that bigger is better that I think most everyone thinks about it.
Perfectly stated. Even by porn standards my dick is huge and for the reasons mentioned above, it kinda stinks. My girth is 6 1/4" - the entire length. To get a sense of how big that is, bring the ends of a crisp dollar bill together - I'm still a tiny bit thicker (6 1/4" v. 6 1/8"). Now try fitting that in your mouth without scraping it with your teeth. My my wife can endure giving me oral for only 45 secs or so and afterwards her jaw always clicks - sometimes for days. It greatly frustrates her b/c she LOVES giving head and craves doing it to me. Countless times she has told me, "Your cock is beautiful but it's too fucking big to properly suck!" Merely kIssing and licking it just doesn't quite scratch the itch for her...or me, to be honest.
And I'm doubly cursed w/ outlier length (8 1/8" - properly measured) so pumping in and out during PIV is a bit like the game "Operation" except instead of hearing a buzzer when the tongs go too deep, my wife goes "Ow!" when I bump her cervix which kills her mood and makes me feel terrible. ..At that point we need to start over again and often we never get back to the same level of arousal.
Receiving a great hand job? Ok, I've got the very BEST dick size for that - as it easily accommodates both of her hands.
.Ignore Porn and what you read on Kink websites - an average size dick is way better than a huge one.
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IveBignutts
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This is very well said.
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Bisexguy70
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For me, the bigger the better. For some reason i enjoy gripping a hard cock. So a big cock allows me to grip the base while the rest of his cock is in my mouth. I love Stroking the base, gripping it tight while the rest of his dick is surrounded by my mouth, feeling him throb in my hand and mouth as tip of his cock hits the back of my throat. If done right, you can control the depth using your hand as a guide and prevent choking. I love being able to grip the base, cup and gently caress his balls as I make mad love to it with my pussy like mouth.
Ive sucked very small cocks too and it just doesnt arouse me as much. And Im talking skinny little 3-4” cocks. Sorry guys.
Thick out ranks length though.
I must admit one of the best cocks ive sucked was a guy who was 6” but thick. It was more the way his cock looked and twitched than his size. Plus we were more intimate and he loved nice slow sensual head and not just fucking my face to cum. Plus hed leak precum like a faucet and it was sooooo sweet!!
But the cocks that always made me shiver with joy and cause my body to ache in pleasure were very big. Most of these i also admit were BBC and were long AND thick.
But at the end of the day, any cock is better to suck than no cock at all. Ill suck a cock with vigor and attention to detail no matter what size because its about giving pleasure. And that alone is important. Im at around 6” and thick and I always try to compliment the guy and tell him how much it was a pleasure to have the opportunity to suck him.
Ive sucked very small cocks too and it just doesnt arouse me as much. And Im talking skinny little 3-4” cocks. Sorry guys.
Thick out ranks length though.
I must admit one of the best cocks ive sucked was a guy who was 6” but thick. It was more the way his cock looked and twitched than his size. Plus we were more intimate and he loved nice slow sensual head and not just fucking my face to cum. Plus hed leak precum like a faucet and it was sooooo sweet!!
But the cocks that always made me shiver with joy and cause my body to ache in pleasure were very big. Most of these i also admit were BBC and were long AND thick.
But at the end of the day, any cock is better to suck than no cock at all. Ill suck a cock with vigor and attention to detail no matter what size because its about giving pleasure. And that alone is important. Im at around 6” and thick and I always try to compliment the guy and tell him how much it was a pleasure to have the opportunity to suck him.
I played mostly with sissies, one was 9".........my only gay man was an easy 6"
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I don’t think a woman has to take all of a man to give pleasure.
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You don’t have to take all of it. I enjoy what a woman wants to take.
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Myself, I'm average size. But, I do think it's attractive, as far as cocks go. I had a friend that had a big one, 12 inches... and pretty thick. He actually hated it. Hard to find a girl who can take the full twelve, regardless of the hole. That of course, decreased his experience, as he couldn't get full length stimulation, other than a two handed hand job. A few girls he tried to hook up with saw it in all if it's glory and just said nope... hell no, and bailed. I'm happy with Mr. Attractive Average. 
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Myself, I'm average size. But, I do think it's attractive, as far as cocks go. I had a friend that had a big one, 12 inches... and pretty thick. He actually hated it. Hard to find a girl who can take the full twelve, regardless of the hole. That of course, decreased his experience, as he couldn't get full length stimulation, other than a two handed hand job. A few girls he tried to hook up with saw it in all if it's glory and just said nope... hell no, and bailed. I'm happy with Mr. Attractive Average.
Noooo… are you saying those big cock stories lied to me??? I thought they were historically accurate!
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All I know is, if I was suddenly exposed to an aching whiffle ball bat staring me in the face, I'd probably give the "aww hell no" too.
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A woman doesn't have to take all of a man to give pleasure. But you seem to think that it's all about what we can do for you. It's not. If we're happy and comfortable you'll get a way better blow job than if we're struggling. It has to be pleasurable to give pleasure or what's the point?
