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Blowjobs... does size matter?

Bigtitsbitch1000x said:
There seems to be a lot of overthinking here.

As a trans ho I am well aware that here in America, where there is a serious and insane phobia about anal, most men who want sex with a trans don't want more than blowjobs.

I like a trick who wants more. For me everything's about being as girly as possible: warm, affectionate, original about positions, energetic, dedicated.

I strive to give a trick so much good attention to his pecker and balls that he relaxes and can be convinced to try fucking me.

Just last night I told my new domme, who is pimping me, that i carry Viagra. She was worried that it might affect my health. Yeah, if I get a guy with a cock so big it ruptures my digestive system. (There was one so big he couldn't get it in my booty.) The V is for the trick.

My new domme asked what I enjoy about getting my ass fucked, since I don't have orgasms. I said I like feeling my booty is plugged with cock... Preferably with two.

But I don't get anything special out of feeling a mouth full of meat. I prefer a mouth full of cum.

All sex is work. All work is sex. Giving blowjobs requires focus; cis women often ask me for advice.

As I have said before, cock is cock. A slow approach is better than a quick jump into the pool. Open the pants. Pull it out. Play with it until it's hard. Kiss it. Lick it. Get him going. Any cock will spurt unless he does too much meth. If he wants to cum tell him to cum on your face, hair, clothes, cleavage.

I get into sucking a cock. I don't notice size, or treat it as a challenge. Cocksucking is the only grooming I do, loving a man up to where I can whisper sweetly and femly, "can you get hard to fuck me?"

Hos, remember: you're there for him to be there for you. Your pleasure is most important. Savoring cock is like relaxing in a sunny garden while waiting for a lion to lick your whole body. A lion who really knows how to fuck.

( O )( O )
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Well… lots going on there.

But I’m not sure I could stomach life if I saw sex as work.
 
Yarglenurp said:
Well… lots going on there.

But I’m not sure I could stomach life if I saw sex as work.
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Ditto if I saw work as anything other than sex.

I have a sour stomach these days from drinking cheap vodka (literal rotgut) but am hoping cum won't upset my digestion too much.

I probably couldn't work so well as a ho if I didn't know the rule on blowjobs (borrowed from CIA): A dram of salad oil calms a cocksucker with fluttergut.

( O )( O ,)
 
Bigtitsbitch1000x said:
Ditto if I saw work as anything other than sex.

I have a sour stomach these days from drinking cheap vodka (literal rotgut) but am hoping cum won't upset my digestion too much.

I probably couldn't work so well as a ho if I didn't know the rule on blowjobs (borrowed from CIA): A dram of salad oil calms a cocksucker with fluttergut.

( O )( O ,)
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Seeing work as sex is fine. Seeing sex as work is not. But as long as you’re happy, I guess that’s fine!
 
Yarglenurp said:
Seeing work as sex is fine. Seeing sex as work is not. But as long as you’re happy, I guess that’s fine!
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I am a Marxist and a supporter of the dignity of labor.

It's a philosophical distinction.

I view sex as productive, creative, fulfilling work. But it can be as tedious as sorting tickets in a bus station to determine if a woman is about to cum.

Editing articles and writing books can be equally places where creative joy and irritability are in connivance.

And the mechanics of sucking off a man can be as demanding as weighing railroad freight cars if the guy is too obese.

Not that I ever say no. This is my attitude about sex:


Which brings up an interesting question. As a male author I have been very critical of early Disney.

But I am so femme now I am sentimental about Snow White. I can't say anything mean about this any more. I am so sick of machismo and the love of violence. I need to see the last of my masculinity and everything associated with it.

( O )( O )
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Bigtitsbitch1000x said:
I am a Marxist and a supporter of the dignity of labor.

It's a philosophical distinction.

I view sex as productive, creative, fulfilling work. But it can be as tedious as sorting tickets in a bus station to determine if a woman is about to cum.

Editing articles and writing books can be equally places where creative joy and irritability are in connivance.

And the mechanics of sucking off a man can be as demanding as weighing railroad freight cars if the guy is too obese.

Not that I ever say no. This is my attitude about sex:


Which brings up an interesting question. As a male author I have been very critical of early Disney.

But I am so femme now I am sentimental about Snow White. I can't say anything mean about this any more. I am so sick of machismo and the love of violence. I need to see the last of my masculinity and everything associated with it.

( O )( O )
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yeah, going to chalk this up to “you and I have very different definitions for words.” As a non-cocksucker, I’m gonna defer to your expertise on the matter.

Snow White kinda sucked though… really boring. Looking back, the only memorable part was the hi-ho-hi-ho song.
 
Cautious_Eli said:
The quick question:
If you are giving someone a blowjob.. do you care what size cock it is?

Ok, look, I've been around Lit a long time. I had an account before this one that I gave up in the divorce (more or less). So, I know... Lit has collectively agreed that, for the most part, anything in the normal range is good enough (and often preferred) for most activities. But tonight, I was chatting with a guy, and in the course of some innuendo, ended up talking about size. I was working on something real-life related and was grumping that it was too big, and he, of course, said he didn't think I'd ever make that complaint. I said, "I dunno, maybe in the case of a blowjob smaller is easier... and I don't think you lose out on anything..." He asked, "You dont want that hole to feel full?" Frankly, no, but also, I had never thought about it that way. Now, I am interested; what say the rest of you?
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Does size matter?

Yes, and no.

I’ve enjoyed a variety. But the intensity usually matters more than the size of the the cocks I have sucked. But, I have enjoyed every cock sucked, and every drop of cum swallowed.

But perhaps it also involves the connection? The biggest I pleasured with my mouth, was also a long term best friend. Part of my satisfaction was pleasing my friend that intensely. Really enjoyed his big cock, it helped that he had such a quick recovery time!

Just ask my wife…Lol!
 
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depends on what the girl likes, I'd say. From my stance, I tend to: the bigger, the more to play with, the more fun I have. But again, that's a subjective judgment. There's really no definite yes or no to that question.
 
queen_keira69 said:
depends on what the girl likes, I'd say. From my stance, I tend to: the bigger, the more to play with, the more fun I have. But again, that's a subjective judgment. There's really no definite yes or no to that question.
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That's a very reasonable philosophy. ;)
 
Yarglenurp said:
yeah, going to chalk this up to “you and I have very different definitions for words.” As a non-cocksucker, I’m gonna defer to your expertise on the matter.

Snow White kinda sucked though… really boring. Looking back, the only memorable part was the hi-ho-hi-ho song.
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Hi ho hi ho had a weird association I can't discuss here.

( O )( O )
 
It's no big deal. Just something most people don't remember or never knew.

I shouldn't have mentioned it.

It's about race, like many issues in early cartoon animation.

Unfortunately it's very relevant right now.

My issue is that discussing certain historical matters may be misinterpreted. I am extremely wary of posting anything on this site that involves any ambiguity or even mere curiosity.

The violent rhetoric displayed here habitually is increasingly traumatic for me as a human.

I am a trans woman. I am not safe in public even in LGBTQ San Francisco. I am exceptionally blessed by the goddess in having a partner of decades, the cis woman I call my Big Domme, who protects me psychologically. My Big Domme is my mom, my sister, my lover, my friend, my comrade. Beautiful and desired in a way I seek to be.

I am a radical leftist in spirit although I am a fairly extreme patriot for America. I have had to adjust. I was once a critic of police; I now admit that without police I would be in deep trouble just for who I am. I am not a "friend of the cops" but neither am I their enemy.

IRL people around me are losing control. A youngish woman in my hood, kept as a literal sex slave by a deranged old man, just tried to kill herself. I barely knew her.

For 30 years I did a job nobody else on earth was in a hurry to do: investigating human rights violations in ex-Yugoslavia and the former USSR.

It was a good job as Americans define such things. I spent half each year in Europe, the ME, and the Far East. I made tons of cash. I helped my Big Domme make the first American art film on Frida Kahlo.

I didn't realize until now the truth of the saying about becoming what one beholds.

If I listen to a narrative of the murder of whole families by terrorists without taking immediate action, am I not complicit? The Hague Tribunal does not issue capital sentences. I was once a strident opponent of the death penalty. No longer.

Now the attempted shooting of DJT is turned into a slur on trans.

Where is the little girl in the little boy's body who was once a poet, and now cries in public over nothing? Or what is perceived as nothing?

Being a transgender woman is not a fantasy. It is a profound and intense reality. It's like Owsley-Kesey acid 24/7.

The little boy became a UN functionary. The little girl knows about her neighbors, so near, so far. Raped and murdered. Thrown into a river. At 14.

The little girl survived. She grew up. She has terrific boobies and a great booty. She surrenders her luscious, whoremoan body to anonymous men. For hours.

Cum flecks her body like stars in the night sky. She opens her legs wide. Bent over so one man can suck her nipples while he and another bang her ass. She doesn't cum. She loves the feeling of being taken and transformed. From a thinking machine to a useful piece of meat.

A veil of flesh that leaves the world behind. I am our starship.

This was never my world.

I apologize for taking up your time. Thanks for reading this.

( O )( O )
 
I have a suspicion, from what the missus says, that average size or smaller is preferred. She complains I am too big for a comfortable BJ. Formerly, she would get carried away once in a while and give me a BJ, but the last time that happened she had a sore jaw the next day, and she gave me grief about it, so I have not pushed the issue since. She banned me out of her ass right at the beginning on grounds of size, and now that she finds vaginal sex uncomfortable thanks to her autoimmune issues, I am "too big" there too. It is not as though I am packing a telephone pole down there either!
 
Reading this thread brings up some curious thoughts.

In a bar or on the street if a man wants me, he can view my boobies and booty to decide whether to pursue me.

I wear very low cut tops and very tight shorts. I have lots to offer and stay in shape so my body works to display my charms.

By contrast, I can't judge how big a man is while his pants are on.

I like rough trade: working class men who want something, know what it is, and know how to get it. They may not be in a hurry for anal but a hardon has no conscience and a mouth sucking cock doesn't need a translator. They see, they conquer, they cum.

They don't go about in yoga shorts.

So any debate about size, for a ho like me. Is like a discussion about water on the planet Neptune. I don't care.

Unless... Size matters in my pussy. If a man is too big to get in, there's not much I can do. I'm tight. I keep feminine relaxing creme and THC lube at my bed side but landing a cock nice and firm in me is pure work. Heavy, demanding, difficult.

Difficulty is the point in much modern philosophy. IMHO, difficulty is the soul of bondage sex.

I like regular sex. Cock or cocks in my holes, cool enough to keep me calm. My orgasm is his: the target for me is always the moment of extreme vulnerability when he's right on the edge of blasting my mouth, booty, face, or cleavage with The Goddess's Best Cleaning Fluid, cum.

For a flashing moment the tough macho man is a baby. My baby. I don't want to mother men. He's my baby verbally from very soon after we meet. But he's truly naked and powerless, even fully dressed in a car, bus, restroom, alley, or car, when he cums.

Flashes. Of awareness. My anthem:


Male-female equality for me is right there. I'm a tranny ho. The weakest human known. I am a fuck toy. But for a brief moment he's well and truly my toy. The power is mine.

Slim and weak -- my most popular dancing and stripping number:


I don't have equipment any more for topping, and never topped a guy. I'm a Gold Star Bottom. Obviously topping a vagina is like getting a blowjob. Door open, no ticket needed.

Any cock of any size can be handled. That's why we have mouths and hands and cleavage.

So, at least for me size doesn't matter, though once a year I like a nice bowl of chili.

( O )( O )
 
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Justhappytobealive said:
….I use both of my hands on their thighs just in case they don’t want to pull out.
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Oh, you mean if they try to rape you? Because that’s what that would be… Trying to stay in when you want them to pull out is rape.

Any porn that depicts somebody doing that is in my view horrific
 
Cautious_Eli said:
The quick question:
If you are giving someone a blowjob.. do you care what size cock it is?

Ok, look, I've been around Lit a long time. I had an account before this one that I gave up in the divorce (more or less). So, I know... Lit has collectively agreed that, for the most part, anything in the normal range is good enough (and often preferred) for most activities. But tonight, I was chatting with a guy, and in the course of some innuendo, ended up talking about size. I was working on something real-life related and was grumping that it was too big, and he, of course, said he didn't think I'd ever make that complaint. I said, "I dunno, maybe in the case of a blowjob smaller is easier... and I don't think you lose out on anything..." He asked, "You dont want that hole to feel full?" Frankly, no, but also, I had never thought about it that way. Now, I am interested; what say the rest of you?
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I truly believe the majority women prefer large endowment for intercourse. However, I can understand the preference of a smaller or more average size package when trying to fit it into your mouth and if he is fortunate enough your throat.
 
wizard59 said:
I truly believe the majority women prefer large endowment for intercourse. However, I can understand the preference of a smaller or more average size package when trying to fit it into your mouth and if he is fortunate enough your throat.
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I think, like with all biological things, there is a perfect size. Dudes talk about wanting a tight pussy, but I don’t hear many guys saying they want to put their dicks in between the grips of some C clamps.

I also think that perfect size will change with time and mood.
 
My wife and I have swapped partners with several couples and she is no fan of giving blowjobs unless the man has a thin shafted penis. She loves sucking a man off to completion if his cock is thin and on the shorter side.
 
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