Blowjobs... does size matter?

[LMWM321]

I dislike that this forum is called Fetish & Sexuality. As I see it, "Fetish" posts are meant to titillate whereas "Sexuality" posts are meant to elicit serious answers to a sincere question. The two objectives are very different, so why combine them in one forum?. And this thread illustrates the problem perfectly; you have some people providing serious answers to the OP's question while others are posting gifs and comments meant to excite people with a Big Cock fetish. Please understand I have NO problem with Fetishes - I have a few myself. ...But why mix the two?

So, to the OP. ..Which is it? Do you want serious answers to your question about "BJ's.. Does Size Matter?" ..Or are you simply looking to prompt an avalanche of kinky discussion and GIF's from those who share a love of huge cocks?

 

[IveBignutts]

A woman doesn't have to take all of a man to give pleasure. But you seem to think that it's all about what we can do for you. It's not. If we're happy and comfortable you'll get a way better blow job than if we're struggling. It has to be pleasurable to give pleasure or what's the point?

I definitely like the way you think.

 

[LMWM321]

I dislike that this forum is called Fetish/ Sexuality. As I see it, "Fetish" posts are meant to titillate whereas "Sexuality" posts are meant to elicit serious answers to a sincere question. The two objectives are very different, so why combine them in one forum?. And this thread illustrates the problem perfectly; you have some people providing serious answers to the OP's question while others are posting gifs and comments meant to excite people with a Big Cock fetish. Please understand I have NO problem with Fetishes - I have a few myself. ...But why mix the two?

So, to the OP. ..Which is it? Do you want serious answers to your question about "BJ's.. Does Size Matter?" ..Or are you simply looking to prompt an avalanche of kinky discussion and GIF's from those who share a love of huge cocks?

Oh geez! ..My bad. I just realized this thread is in the "General" forum, rendering my above post both irrelevant and embarrassing.

Sorry! ..In my defense, there are several threads about cock size in Fetish/ Sexuality and I confuse very easily. So in the words of Emily Latilla, "..Nevermind"

Still... my point remains that it's sometimes hard to know whether an OP is looking for serious answers to a question or just having their kinky itch scratched with lot's of gifs and big-dick banter.

 

[Yarglenurp]

The short answer is: It depends on the one receiving the cock.

The long answer is: No.

The explanations for the short and long answer aren’t included.

 

[mrrobot1994]

I dislike that this forum is called Fetish & Sexuality. As I see it, "Fetish" posts are meant to titillate whereas "Sexuality" posts are meant to elicit serious answers to a sincere question. The two objectives are very different, so why combine them in one forum? Watch more Iinari! Saimin Kanojo Episode 2 on anime xxx. And this thread illustrates the problem perfectly; you have some people providing serious answers to the OP's question while others are posting gifs and comments meant to excite people with a Big Cock fetish. Please understand I have NO problem with Fetishes - I have a few myself. ...But why mix the two?

My wife would rather deep throat a thick six any day instead of a long schlong. Anything longer than 6 inches is hard to swallow without gagging ridiculously, at least for my wife!

 

[LMWM321]

My wife would rather deep throat a thick six any day instead of a long schlong. Anything longer than 6 inches is hard to swallow without gagging ridiculously, at least for my wife!

Exactly...

Because of all the "huge cock" fetishizing that has permeated our culture, young men today have body dysmorphia because they think they don't measure up. ..And the ones hurt most by it are young black men who think normal for them is even bigger; a racist myth that is not supported by one scintilla of credible empirical evidence.

As for women... Well, they're led to believe that their sexual worth is determined, to some degree, by their ability to take "all" of a dick even if it is clearly longer than the depth of their vagina. Instead of simply saying, "hey, don't go so deep...it's uncomfortable..." they feel they should rise to the occasion and just ignore the pain of a penis battering their cervix.

 

[Offler79]

One of the negative consequences of all this "huge cock" fetishizing is that it has so permeated our culture that young men today have body dysmorphia because they think they don't measure up. ..And the ones hurt most by it are young black men who think normal for them is even bigger; a racist myth that is not supported by one scintilla of credible empirical evidence.

For years we wondered how little girls could take starving super models as their role models and now we do the same shit with fetishizing a big penis, or dehumanizing sub men.

Not coming from the US, but I think depicting others as cucks is supposed to show weakness and dehumanize those guys right? I heared it's a big thing in politics nowadays.

I am a bit more on the long side, but not thick. My wife can't definitly get it all on and she has now intention of ever doing it. Also in 10y I received < 10 bjs and she only finished 2 or 3 times, and honestly I am fine with it. I don't like to get my dick sucked, usually women put too much pressure in it, I am very sensitive there and specially while and after cuming, so having a woman suck on my dick while cuming is like torture for me. I would rather have her suck it once it's flacid to keep it warm and happy and make it a loving gesture

Also I don't understand guys that like gagging, if I hear anything remotly to that sound I get soo turned off by that, it's like the instant "off switch" for my libido, same goes for spitting ... horrible

 

[Nadinet]

size of the cum does.... a nice big squirt is far nicer than a dribble

 

[Stockholmblondie]

I really do not care about size, as long as we both have a great time.

 

[LMWM321]

Also I don't understand guys that like gagging, if I hear anything remotly to that sound I get soo turned off by that, it's like the instant "off switch" for my libido, same goes for spitting ... horrible

couldn't agree more. ..I find both to be totally gross. Sadly, for some, porn is enjoyable only if the woman is in some sort of distress or being humiliated.

 

[Yarglenurp]

couldn't agree more. ..I find both to be totally gross. Sadly, for some, porn is enjoyable only if the woman is in some sort of distress or humiliation.

Honestly, consider this the fault of parents. Everyone is so afraid of talking about sex to children that they give that responsibility to schools and porn stars. Then they get angry at porn because porn stars obviously are trying to cater to a paying audience, not random teenagers. And schools just want to get it over with so they outsource the job to the lowest paid teacher on the totem pole.

We should be talking our kids about sex. Encourage them to learn about sex on healthy ways, so that they don’t start thinking that there’s anything wrong with the size/shape of their genitals or to shame others for it.

Right now, and for boys especially, they’re just taught what not to do. In what other educational field is it OK to think that teaching someone what NOT to do is a foundation of education and leave the proactive part for children to figure out by themselves? That is crazy for any other part of life. Why do we pretend like this is not crazy for sexuality?

 

[P0peye]

I'm a cocksucker, and I must admit that I'm also a size queen. I'm fortunate in not ever having had much of a gag reflex, so I'm able to easily accept large cocks being forced down my throat. I like an aggressive feeder and I love the highly erotic sensation of a thick cock vigorously fucking my throat even though I'm often unable to breathe while having this done to me. I'll suck anyone's cock, regardless of size, but I much prefer the challenge of deep throating the really big ones.

 

[Sienna62]

I really do not care about size, as long as we both have a great time.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I'm a cocksucker, and I must admit that I'm also a size queen. I'm fortunate in not ever having had much of a gag reflex, so I'm able to easily accept large cocks being forced down my throat. I like an aggressive feeder and I love the highly erotic sensation of a thick cock vigorously fucking my throat even though I'm often unable to breathe while having this done to me. I'll suck anyone's cock, regardless of size, but I much prefer the challenge of deep throating the really big ones.

As you are a connoisseur of cock, I naturally respect your opinion and your informed contribution to this dialogue...

 

[Sienna62]

Love this attitude “ as long as we both have a great time “

 

[doctorukwife]

The quick question:
If you are giving someone a blowjob.. do you care what size cock it is?

Ok, look, I've been around Lit a long time. I had an account before this one that I gave up in the divorce (more or less). So, I know... Lit has collectively agreed that, for the most part, anything in the normal range is good enough (and often preferred) for most activities. But tonight, I was chatting with a guy, and in the course of some innuendo, ended up talking about size. I was working on something real-life related and was grumping that it was too big, and he, of course, said he didn't think I'd ever make that complaint. I said, "I dunno, maybe in the case of a blowjob smaller is easier... and I don't think you lose out on anything..." He asked, "You dont want that hole to feel full?" Frankly, no, but also, I had never thought about it that way. Now, I am interested; what say the rest of you?

Very interesting post. Had no experience in it until affair. Medically speaking it depends on compatibility, something too small might be underwhelming and too large (which I have experience with) is very difficult to deal with in beginning. Gagging reflex does become less problem after body gets used to it. I think it also depends on emotional state. For example he was aggressive and dom which my husband is not. So wanted to please him as if it was my duty.
I also agree, that if it's too painful one should stop and take a breather. However, I have not seen or heard a case where gal is chocked to death with dick.

 

[Dad4u1970]

Very interesting post. Had no experience in it until affair. Medically speaking it depends on compatibility, something too small might be underwhelming and too large (which I have experience with) is very difficult to deal with in beginning. Gagging reflex does become less problem after body gets used to it. I think it also depends on emotional state. For example he was aggressive and dom which my husband is not. So wanted to please him as if it was my duty.
I also agree, that if it's too painful one should stop and take a breather. However, I have not seen or heard a case where gal is chocked to death with dick.

Doctor
You are right. I to have not heard of any woman chocked to death sucking a cock. I’ve seen my wife gagging on her boy friends cock many a time.
https://i.ibb.co/YL8qwSD/IMG-3408.gif

 

[Sienna62]

Average guys are perfect. I can get you all the way in my mouth. You can fuck me without bottoming out and causing pain. you make anal more pleasurable. Be happy you're average.

Lovely to read

 

[abvt75]

If I can add,

Guys point of view - It doesn’t matter to us as long as we get a blowjob. Keep in mind for some men, blowjobs are a rare treat…..

Woman’s point of view - it depends if they are size queens or just want control…

 

[Yarglenurp]

If I can add,

Guys point of view - It doesn’t matter to us as long as we get a blowjob. Keep in mind for some men, blowjobs are a rare treat…..

Woman’s point of view - it depends if they are size queens or just want control…

Blow… job? I got a snow blower, does that count?

 

[LostHorizon]

Average guys are perfect. I can get you all the way in my mouth. You can fuck me without bottoming out and causing pain. you make anal more pleasurable. Be happy you're average.

This average size guy appreciates this comment. In this circumstance I am very happy being average at least where size is concerned.

 

[Dad4u1970]

I don’t think size matters to some ladies. But never force a gagging in my book.
https://i.ibb.co/LgYvwpX/IMG-3819.gif

 

[P0peye]

From this cocksucker's perspective, there's nothing more erotically exciting as having a thick cock being forced all the way down my throat. I just love that "stuffed full of cock" sensation and that doesn't happen with an average sized cock.

 

[Bigtitsbitch1000x]

The quick question:
If you are giving someone a blowjob.. do you care what size cock it is?

Ok, look, I've been around Lit a long time. I had an account before this one that I gave up in the divorce (more or less). So, I know... Lit has collectively agreed that, for the most part, anything in the normal range is good enough (and often preferred) for most activities. But tonight, I was chatting with a guy, and in the course of some innuendo, ended up talking about size. I was working on something real-life related and was grumping that it was too big, and he, of course, said he didn't think I'd ever make that complaint. I said, "I dunno, maybe in the case of a blowjob smaller is easier... and I don't think you lose out on anything..." He asked, "You dont want that hole to feel full?" Frankly, no, but also, I had never thought about it that way. Now, I am interested; what say the rest of you?

There seems to be a lot of overthinking here.

As a trans ho I am well aware that here in America, where there is a serious and insane phobia about anal, most men who want sex with a trans don't want more than blowjobs.

I like a trick who wants more. For me everything's about being as girly as possible: warm, affectionate, original about positions, energetic, dedicated.

I strive to give a trick so much good attention to his pecker and balls that he relaxes and can be convinced to try fucking me.

Just last night I told my new domme, who is pimping me, that i carry Viagra. She was worried that it might affect my health. Yeah, if I get a guy with a cock so big it ruptures my digestive system. (There was one so big he couldn't get it in my booty.) The V is for the trick.

My new domme asked what I enjoy about getting my ass fucked, since I don't have orgasms. I said I like feeling my booty is plugged with cock... Preferably with two.

But I don't get anything special out of feeling a mouth full of meat. I prefer a mouth full of cum.

All sex is work. All work is sex. Giving blowjobs requires focus; cis women often ask me for advice.

As I have said before, cock is cock. A slow approach is better than a quick jump into the pool. Open the pants. Pull it out. Play with it until it's hard. Kiss it. Lick it. Get him going. Any cock will spurt unless he does too much meth. If he wants to cum tell him to cum on your face, hair, clothes, cleavage.

I get into sucking a cock. I don't notice size, or treat it as a challenge. Cocksucking is the only grooming I do, loving a man up to where I can whisper sweetly and femly, "can you get hard to fuck me?"

Hos, remember: you're there for him to be there for you. Your pleasure is most important. Savoring cock is like relaxing in a sunny garden while waiting for a lion to lick your whole body. A lion who really knows how to fuck.

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[live4thebj]

I would like to think so. A woman’s mouth can only open so wide.

I don’t consider myself big; more average. But many woman have trouble deepthroating me.