Body image and cams

[DomWharfsBitch]

Stopping in to say hi Minx....Hope that your doing good today..just wanted to say hi

 

[minx1]

Stopping in to say hi Minx....Hope that your doing good today..just wanted to say hi

Aaww thanks DW

Yeah things are much much better today..after a pretty long heart to heart. I feel a lot better thanks for asking

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Aaww thanks DW

Yeah things are much much better today..after a pretty long heart to heart. I feel a lot better thanks for asking

So glad to hear that Minx...It always helps to have those heart to hearts.....I am gald that you are feeling a lot better!

 

[Cherrysweetdeal]

I haven't read the whole thread but this is my story in a sense. Everyone seems to think I'm goodlooking if not atleast a little bit pretty, but in my eyes I still don't see it. Some days I do and some I don't. When it comes down to it in certain outfits or certain situations I just want G to be happy and that makes it a little bit easier, I've also found ways to take pictures so that they even me out and certain outfits make it a lot easier to be in pictures.

In the end it really comes down to how I feel because some days I can't stand to look in a mirror and it just makes me upset when I can look at other people and think how much better looking they are some days. Self-image is a hard thing to get over and no matter what other people say most days it's what you are willing to think about yourself. Depending on the mood you'll either love or hate yourself.

All I can say to you is that as long as you have someone who cares about you whether it be a friend, boyfriend, master or parents it doesn't matter what you look like a lot of the time.

If they are worth it they will like you no matter what you look like, there are also different opinions on what is beautiful. That is my advice/story... hope it helps a lil bit and I hope you have fun becoming a little bit more of an exhibitionist.

 

[Cherrysweetdeal]

I also find that if you are exercising and trying to lose weight support is nice to have. I found this thread awhile back and it has helped just that little bit. If you are trying to lose weight and you have a goal this thread is helpful because there are so many other people on here trying to do the same thing, you aren't the only one unhappy with yourself it is always nice to know that.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=488713

Sometimes it helps to find one thing that you absolutely love about yourself and that you would never change, it makes it all the easier to fix the rest of your bad spots if you realize you don't have to change something.

I still like my ass even though I dislike my lovehandles.... and my face I think some days is quite pretty other days I prefer to just look at my lips and eyes.

 

[nowgirl]

Maybe this will help, and maybe it won't...

When you are readying yourself to do it, don't think of it as showing yourself, but displaying your master his property. Disconnect your sense of self from it completely, and think of it as you doing something for the pleasure of your master. Maybe if you think of it as a service to him, then you won't have to be as self consious because your focus will be elsewhere.

Hope this helps.

That's a great way to think of it MasterPhoenix... kind of not about us is it? But about what He's asking us to do!?

 

[nowgirl]

It really does, thankyou DW

It is the same for my Master...infact He told me the other day that if He didn't see anymore of me it really didn't matter.

However you will be pleased to know yesterday I showed Him a bit more!! lol

All the posts on here had really helped and I was feeling a bit brave, so I put my stockings and sussies on and walked into shot....ok I only showed my body up to my waist, but as thats my 'worst' bit I am feeling pretty pleased with myself!!

Its slowly slowly, but who knows....I may be able to post here soon that I did it and showed all!!

yay minx!! good for you & glad you feel good about it!!

 

[minx1]

yay minx!! good for you & glad you feel good about it!!

Thanks Ng!

think I'm gonna take the slowly slowly approach..combined with a bit of healthy eating to get my confidence up.
I'm not a natural exhibitionist by any stretch of the imagination, I think its something that after a while and with a bit of practice I could really start to enjoy

 

[minx1]

I haven't read the whole thread but this is my story in a sense. Everyone seems to think I'm goodlooking if not atleast a little bit pretty, but in my eyes I still don't see it. Some days I do and some I don't. When it comes down to it in certain outfits or certain situations I just want G to be happy and that makes it a little bit easier, I've also found ways to take pictures so that they even me out and certain outfits make it a lot easier to be in pictures.

In the end it really comes down to how I feel because some days I can't stand to look in a mirror and it just makes me upset when I can look at other people and think how much better looking they are some days. Self-image is a hard thing to get over and no matter what other people say most days it's what you are willing to think about yourself. Depending on the mood you'll either love or hate yourself.

All I can say to you is that as long as you have someone who cares about you whether it be a friend, boyfriend, master or parents it doesn't matter what you look like a lot of the time.

If they are worth it they will like you no matter what you look like, there are also different opinions on what is beautiful. That is my advice/story... hope it helps a lil bit and I hope you have fun becoming a little bit more of an exhibitionist.

*hugs* thanks Cherry,

You are right not only is beauty in the eye of the beholder, it hopefully goes a hell of a lot deeper than just the surface! Its us who pu the pressure on ourselves eh, not our friends, partners or family.

I too have days when I just hate the way I look. With me its not that I look at others and wish I looked liked them, its more I am just hard on myself about my own 'imperfections' lol.
Somedays I can go out feeling good, catch sight of myself in a window or mirror and think "YUCK!!" then I'm on a downer for the rest of the day!

I do have bits of me I like and I try and concentrate on those. I too like my face (mostly) lol. I get comments a lot about my eyes and my lips so I focus on that.
In terms of my body and my own perception of it...I think diet and exercise is the way to go....just to boost my confidence. Thanks for the thread link...I have lurked around there a few times, perhaps now I should pop in!

 

[PreggoHottie]

Just popping in to say Good morning, minx! Hope you have a great day.

 

[minx1]

Just popping in to say Good morning, minx! Hope you have a great day.

Aaww thanks PH, you too hon

How's it all going...you feeling good about everything?

 

[PreggoHottie]

Aaww thanks PH, you too hon

How's it all going...you feeling good about everything?

Yes and well...maybe. I'll send you a PM in a few. No hurry to answer it though.

 

[Cherrysweetdeal]

In terms of my body and my own perception of it...I think diet and exercise is the way to go....just to boost my confidence. Thanks for the thread like...I have lurked around there a few times, perhaps now I should pop in!

Sometimes the only way to change what you dislike is to take a chance at exercising and eating right. If you have to just start off with walks or if you do go to a gym change up the way you work out. I feel a little better about myself now that the gym has come into play but I'm still not fully happy.

I suppose we never will be. There will always be something that bothers us.

 

[minx1]

Sometimes the only way to change what you dislike is to take a chance at exercising and eating right. If you have to just start off with walks or if you do go to a gym change up the way you work out. I feel a little better about myself now that the gym has come into play but I'm still not fully happy.

I suppose we never will be. There will always be something that bothers us.

Yeah I agree totally Cherry. I think there will always be bits I'm not completely happy with...but I know that if I do something constructive it will give me a boost in the confidence stakes.
So as of next week, I am hoping to start horseriding again and doing more walking.....I have become a tad lazy!