Breath play

[Bondagebunni]

thanks...although now i know...don't ya just hate when people tell you thinks five minutes too late...cause you could have just waited to find out till then...but you didn't and then it's like they made the effort to help for no reason? thanks though.



I agree with the scare factor of the more extreme versions of this sort of thing. but you never really think of the effect on the smaller scale unless you get in over your head. learning the hard way sucks.

 

[MoonduskSub]

Breath play...

You asked for it ::smiles:: I've had good and bad experiences with breath play and now I actually shy away from it for the most part...with some exceptions.
My first experience with going unconcious was because I hyperventilated while being figered by my ex Master. It was the first time I ever passed out. It was in the shower and I was bent over and he pulled very gently on my collar and I stood and back I went. Thank God he was there to catch me.
There were actual times when he did actual breath play with me. He would cover my nose and mouth with his hand until I was fighting with him literally for air. The C.P.R. methods. My nose being held while giving him head was also done...
but what scared me and has stuck in my mind was when he went a little further and I was unable to do anything...
He took a belt and wrapped it around my neck while I went down on him...and it was exciting. Whoa! But he held it longer and longer, appprently lacking any common sense...LOL...
My limbs went numb so that I could not hit him to tell him I was really not enjoying it...to this day I believe he wasnt really paying attention....and my head began to feel as though it would literally implode. It hurt so badly. He told me later he was watching my lips, and as I continue to say...blue usually means dead. I was in an incredible high for hours after, with a very drowsy feeling, yet pleseant and put me in la la land and I forgot to mention the pain in my head.
The next day however, I had two black eyes, a swollen neck and face, which also broke out, and a headache...
I can not stand to have things around my neck anymore. Even my collar bothers me during a scene.
I do like breath play still, strangely enough, but to a much lesser degree. An occasional hand over my nose or mouth alone (for very brief seconds) gives me the fearful, exciting, euphoric state of mind that I crave (and it doesn't even have to block off my air completely)...
I still hold my breath before I orgasm...a habit I suppose and the intensity is incredible....hehe.....alright enough for the good and bad....Just some food for thought......be careful....
Blessings


Moonie

 

[BlondGirl]

As the originator of this thread, I will admit that I have been concerned about the stories that gloify breath play. This morning, when I left my ER, it was during a code where I was relieved. They had been doing CPR for 25 minutes and got a pulse and a remarkable (to me) blood pressure. I have no for-sure cause for this woman's heart cessation, but the staff was guesstimating that it was due to asthma.

As I was watching the staff while they were trying and trying to bring this woman back, I could not help but ponder if one of you who glorifies this with your tales will be in the ER from your sexplay someday. Or if someone who reads about how "exciting" it is to have a "belt cinched around my neck" or "covers my head with a pillow".

 

[ownedsubgal]

As the originator of this thread, I will admit that I have been concerned about the stories that gloify breath play. This morning, when I left my ER, it was during a code where I was relieved. They had been doing CPR for 25 minutes and got a pulse and a remarkable (to me) blood pressure. I have no for-sure cause for this woman's heart cessation, but the staff was guesstimating that it was due to asthma.

As I was watching the staff while they were trying and trying to bring this woman back, I could not help but ponder if one of you who glorifies this with your tales will be in the ER from your sexplay someday. Or if someone who reads about how "exciting" it is to have a "belt cinched around my neck" or "covers my head with a pillow".

i don't think anyone is denying the potential risks of breath play....but that is part of the thrill of it for many...it's edge play...i define edge play as any bdsm or sexual activity that could result in death. but if you are fully aware of the risks, and know what you are doing, there is no reason not to engage in breathplay with someone you know and trust. the fact that when we do this, my Master literally holds my life in his hands, is what arouses me about it...the complete and total power he has.

 

[psiberzerker]

I like to add maiming to my definition of edge play. Cutting off circulation to the point that it might fall off is not life threatinging, but it can adversely affect your ability to perform certain acts in the future. I only mention it because I've known people to do this for the real threat to reproductive function. Though there is little to no chance of dying from it, I still clasify it as "Edge Play".

 

[Bondagebunni]

Re: Breath play...

He took a belt and wrapped it around my neck while I went down on him...and it was exciting. Whoa! But he held it longer and longer, appprently lacking any common sense...LOL...
My limbs went numb so that I could not hit him to tell him I was really not enjoying it...to this day I believe he wasnt really paying attention....and my head began to feel as though it would literally implode. It hurt so badly. He told me later he was watching my lips, and as I continue to say...blue usually means dead. I was in an incredible high for hours after, with a very drowsy feeling, yet pleseant and put me in la la land and I forgot to mention the pain in my head.
The next day however, I had two black eyes, a swollen neck and face, which also broke out, and a headache...

note to self: never let anyone wrap anything around my neck...that includes me.

 

[NRGIZD]

I have read all of the posts written in this thread, and i actually registered just to reply to this. I apologize in advance if this ends up being a long post, but i have been reading all day, and im also long winded

I understand everyones concerns about the dangers of this type of play, i really do, but i have to agree with the ladies that said that the feeling can be exhilerating. I dont recall the exact first time that it happened, where my boyfriends (now ex's) hands somehow found their way around my neck, his thumb applying a slight pressure as he was thrusting deeply into the very core of my being but i do remember that it was intense and a total turn on.
I actually am quite phobic about having my face covered or not being able to breath. I had hair down to my hips at the time and just having it around my face totally made me freak out... and i could never get into the whole rape scene as not being able to be free or the chance of having my face pushed into the pillow was too freaky for me...
but as his hand came down my face and stopped at my shoulder his thumb stopped and applied a little pressure not totally cutting off my air supply, but making it harder to inhale. My back arched and i put my hand on his....and looked him in the eye as i came harder than i ever had before. As soon as i started to come down his hand continued to move down my body, and it was like having a totally new first time experience...

i truly believe that the reason that some of us like it so much is because as we are fighting for one sense to come back.. our ability to breath, the rest of our senses are exploding. Our ears hear every breath from the inside of our bodies to that of our partners, our skin becomes even more sensitive as every thrust and touch is felt one hundred times more clearly than any other time you have been touched. Your eyes open and see beyond what is happening, whether it be like for some people that they lose sight, or for me it was seeing things more clearly... seeing right into my partners eyes as his pleasure rose from seeing my pleasure.... it was like we were brought closer together just from being able to read eachothers meters... while still enjoy the experience.... one thing that i always did though... and perhaps this will help any of you confused as to if you want to do this... i always had a hand on his... whether it was just one .. or both.. and if i needed air, or was getting uncomfortable then i would tighten my grip on his wrists and he would let go.... its simple.. a safe phrase for when you cant talk...

as i said we are not together anymore, but we were able to experiment slowly together and the trust was insurmountable...

i think as long as there is a safe way to get out of it, then who is to say whether you will really enjoy it or not? just be careful and understand what your limits are...

again sorry about the length and thanks for the intersting threads

 

[bambi144]

akido

My Master has done Akido and Judo for many years now, and they teach you all about imobalising an aponant (sorry, sleepy and cant spell!) by using techniques where you limit the blood or air supply to the brain. I've only done any Breath play with Him. I dont think i would do it with anyother person- you have to have complete trust in the person, and knowing that my Master has felt the sensations, and has been tought by a profecional how to do it safely, allows me to submit to Him doing it to me.

so number one rule- Trust is KEY. if you have any doubts, then dont try it- thats when accidents can happen!!

on a different note- Master does like to be smothered. It is te only time i am allowed any responcibility or put in a position where i have a limit of power over him. He enjoys being smothered by either one, or both of my breasts while he cums. He has told me that the desperation to breathe enhanses his orgasm.

I am flattered that he shows such trust in me. I know that it is easy for Him to move away to breathe, but the trust element is what is so touching.

Bambi

 

[EmpressFi]

Master surprised me with this one time while we were together and it surprised me how much I liked it. The first time, he used his hand around my throat but after that he's only used his arm, like a chokehold. (I'm getting turned on just from the memory).