Building Pleasure through Pain

[shy slave]

Unfortunately my experience was not related to those many interesting uses.

Catalina

Neither was mine lol



Edit to add: Life Noir and Homburg......you both scare me!!

 

[Life_Noir]

Unfortunately my experience was not related to those many interesting uses.

Catalina

Well... We certainly can extend our sympathies...Though we cannot "Share your pain"...*grin* Not that we intend to.. More fun to cause it.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Well... We certainly can extend our sympathies...Though we cannot "Share your pain"...*grin* Not that we intend to.. More fun to cause it.

Now see, that is just one of the things I strongly like about you.

Catalina

 

[Domwoolf]

I find those bungee style floggers hell. I would rather have them last than first, they have me wriggling, begging and selling my Soul just for it to stop lol.

Thank you for explaining how you switch back and forth, do you do that between body parts or do you focus in one area before on?

I find it incredibly hard to relax into the pain if it shifts to quickly, yet I know other submissives who cope with that really well.

It always amazes me how people can react so differently to the same stimulus.

A lot of how I play depends on the negotiations with the subbie beforehand, personal preference is to begin on the back to get the endorphins flowing, then move to the tits and then the stomach and thighs. By the time I get to the V the juices are flowing and it's not rare that slipping the flogger between the legs for long slow pulling strokes causes orgasms. Then theres always the dildo handled flogger if all else fails. lol

DomWoolf

 

[Life_Noir]

Now see, that is just one of the things I strongly like about you.

Catalina

It's good to be secure in ones place in the universe..

 

[Homburg]

Edit to add: Life Noir and Homburg......you both scare me!!

Careful, shy slave, you're going to excite me talking like that...

 

[shy slave]

Thank you Domwolf, I am sure many submissives would enjoy that.

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*backs away from Homburg*

Exciting Doms is not in my job description, at least I don't think it is.....

 

[Homburg]

Thank you Domwolf, I am sure many submissives would enjoy that.

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*backs away from Homburg*

Exciting Doms is not in my job description, at least I don't think it is.....

It's not a job, it's a Calling.

 

[EmpressFi]

It's not a job, it's a Calling.

hehe I love it...

 

[Life_Noir]

Careful, shy slave, you're going to excite me talking like that...

*Perks up*... Ooooo Goody, It's running...PREY!!!!!!!!!!

Errrrr....Then again...I may have been spending too much time around the cats..

 

[shy slave]

*Perks up*... Ooooo Goody, It's running...PREY!!!!!!!!!!

Errrrr....Then again...I may have been spending too much time around the cats..

LOL

 

[Life_Noir]

Neither was mine lol



Edit to add: Life Noir and Homburg......you both scare me!!

Which reminds me.........I'm in a bit of a mood.... Time to order a new knife.

 

[shy slave]

Which reminds me.........I'm in a bit of a mood.... Time to order a new knife.

Now I am slowly backing out of my own thread.......

 

[Homburg]

Now I am slowly backing out of my own thread.......

Now, why would you want to do that?

Back on topic, we've talked a good bit here about building up to intensity so pain can be interpreted as pleasure, what about the mental and emotional trickery used to just drop the bottom into that space?

There are times when I do not worry about the ramp-up. I just grab her by the back of the neck, force her bent over some handy fixture, and start to lay hand on ass. She squirms, yelps, and cries out for those first few swats, but my hand tangled in her hair and a growled "Stay!" serve to slam her into proper headspace. It is pain and pleasure thereafter.

Subtle endorphin manipulation is fine and good, but sometimes I just need to take.

 

[Life_Noir]

Now, why would you want to do that?

Back on topic, we've talked a good bit here about building up to intensity so pain can be interpreted as pleasure, what about the mental and emotional trickery used to just drop the bottom into that space?

There are times when I do not worry about the ramp-up. I just grab her by the back of the neck, force her bent over some handy fixture, and start to lay hand on ass. She squirms, yelps, and cries out for those first few swats, but my hand tangled in her hair and a growled "Stay!" serve to slam her into proper headspace. It is pain and pleasure thereafter.

Subtle endorphin manipulation is fine and good, but sometimes I just need to take.

YUP!! And damned if it isn't good...
Hmmmm On a more intellectual level than "Og Take!!" {Which I have absolutely no objection to operating at} ...I begin to consider the emotional/mental "priming" that allows us to do that..
Something to contemplate... Which is always good.

 

[Homburg]

YUP!! And damned if it isn't good...
Hmmmm On a more intellectual level than "Og Take!!" {Which I have absolutely no objection to operating at} ...I begin to consider the emotional/mental "priming" that allows us to do that..
Something to contemplate... Which is always good.

Well, "Og take!!" is usually preceded by some slight, non-verbal clues. I will usually enter whatever room she is in and spend a second or two observing her, watching to see what is going on, and what I will be interrupting. If it goes on long enough, she becomes self-conscious.

I also do not simply rush up and do this. I usually move up with almost exagerrated slowness, feeling for all the world like I'm stalking my prey. I am, when you think about it. And my initial touch is firm, but non-painful. Establishing the connection without hurting. By this point, honestly, she feels my energy and knows what is coming, and the motional priming has began. Knowing her, and how well she groks my moods, she probably started as soon a sshe realised that I was watching her.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Edit to add: Life Noir and Homburg......you both scare me!!

lol just two big pussycats...with sharp teeth and claws.

 

[Life_Noir]

Well, "Og take!!" is usually preceded by some slight, non-verbal clues. I will usually enter whatever room she is in and spend a second or two observing her, watching to see what is going on, and what I will be interrupting. If it goes on long enough, she becomes self-conscious.

I also do not simply rush up and do this. I usually move up with almost exagerrated slowness, feeling for all the world like I'm stalking my prey. I am, when you think about it. And my initial touch is firm, but non-painful. Establishing the connection without hurting. By this point, honestly, she feels my energy and knows what is coming, and the motional priming has began. Knowing her, and how well she groks my moods, she probably started as soon a sshe realised that I was watching her.

Indeed... I found myself doing aproximately the same thing... ANd that is exactly what we are doing in that moment...
*grin*
Stalking prey...
The best paralell I have found is watching the cat enter into an area, see it's toy {or the other cat} and behave in exactly the same manner.

No, the initial touch is not painful.. Or even particularly agressive... Slow, and controlled, and inexorable... Arm goes round... The hand comes up and cups the chin in the web between thumb and finger.. The other fingers lay against the throat...
Tip the head...
By the time the teeth touch the skin, and the hand tightens, she is anticipating it... Wanting it...
*sigh*
I gotta go think about something else now... Perhaps I'll cook.

 

[EmpressFi]

Well, "Og take!!" is usually preceded by some slight, non-verbal clues. I will usually enter whatever room she is in and spend a second or two observing her, watching to see what is going on, and what I will be interrupting. If it goes on long enough, she becomes self-conscious.

I also do not simply rush up and do this. I usually move up with almost exagerrated slowness, feeling for all the world like I'm stalking my prey. I am, when you think about it. And my initial touch is firm, but non-painful. Establishing the connection without hurting. By this point, honestly, she feels my energy and knows what is coming, and the motional priming has began. Knowing her, and how well she groks my moods, she probably started as soon a sshe realised that I was watching her.

Indeed... I found myself doing aproximately the same thing... ANd that is exactly what we are doing in that moment...
*grin*
Stalking prey...
The best paralell I have found is watching the cat enter into an area, see it's toy {or the other cat} and behave in exactly the same manner.

No, the initial touch is not painful.. Or even particularly agressive... Slow, and controlled, and inexorable... Arm goes round... The hand comes up and cups the chin in the web between thumb and finger.. The other fingers lay against the throat...
Tip the head...
By the time the teeth touch the skin, and the hand tightens, she is anticipating it... Wanting it...
*sigh*
I gotta go think about something else now... Perhaps I'll cook.

You're not the only one.. /fans self

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Hmmmn wonder how much trouble I could get myself into by simply typing "yawns & smiles" .

Nope best not

 

[Life_Noir]

Hmmmn wonder how much trouble I could get myself into by simply typing "yawns & smiles" .

Nope best not

*LOL*

Being out of physical reach can be a damned handy thing...Can't it???

 

[Life_Noir]

lol just two big pussycats...with sharp teeth and claws.

Pussycat my hairy arse... Last time I looked I was Male, and Testicula Intact.
The teeth probably aren't as sharp as they used to be...But Claws???

{new toy} http://www.eknifeworks.com/webapp/e...layer&list=10&range=1&order=Default&SKU=SCT15



{This is something in the nature of an experiment for me..I haven't bought any of their stuff since the management changes.. So, we'll see I guess}

 

[Homburg]

No, the initial touch is not painful.. Or even particularly agressive... Slow, and controlled, and inexorable... Arm goes round... The hand comes up and cups the chin in the web between thumb and finger.. The other fingers lay against the throat...
Tip the head...
By the time the teeth touch the skin, and the hand tightens, she is anticipating it... Wanting it....

Precisely and exactly. We apparently rose up from the same primordial ooze

Pussycat my hairy arse... Last time I looked I was Male, and Testicula Intact.
The teeth probably aren't as sharp as they used to be...But Claws???

{new toy} http://www.eknifeworks.com/webapp/e...layer&list=10&range=1&order=Default&SKU=SCT15

I have almost the exact same knife. Though mine is a tad bigger, and, well, thirty years old or so.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

*LOL*

Being out of physical reach can be a damned handy thing...Can't it???

: chuckles : Yes, I have da powar .



You're a good sport Mr Noir & I am .......

Well I am ..............
















safe

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Gentleman I'd like to interject and point out I am kind of liking these knives currently.



Well perhaps not the karambit



ohhh or the push blades





push blade II no dice




jungle dart eeeeeeep




Hmmmn I may have to go reconsider this brand


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