Butt Stuff

Re: Re: I couldn't agree with you more.

From an exchange earlier:

Lance: ...Just as half of the Doms you know want to be bottomed in your experience, I've seen many Subs who display the desire to dominate.

MzChrista: ...I will go along about the subs thing. I have done lots of scenes with subs assisting me and they will tear up a boy's ass.


Validation. Finally. Thanks.
LC
 
Originally posted by MzChrista
OK, square business, this is serious shit, no joking around.
No, MzChrista ... I won't, I promise ...

Believe me, it's gonna be a looooong time before I even consider something like that ... I was just curious if it was possible, and how it was done ... most descriptions on the story board seem way out of the reasonable and / or practicable ...

Thanks for satisfying my curiosity. :kiss:
 
addition

MzChrista ...

I think I'm gonna file your directions away for later.

Can I please be like you when I grow up? :D
 
talking about red strap-ons ...

Well it's not a strap-on. But look at what I got from my pet!

Isn't he cute?
 
Anal play is one of my kinks, and up until about a year ago, I would have said it was my strongest kink. But (no pun intended), I have found that once the newness wore off and it was easily accessible to me, my desire for it waned and I began looking for something that pushes the envelop a bit more.

Now, imagination is not my strong suit. I tend to be a more logical/reality based thinker. But, I wonder if my desires for s/m are increasing or if I simply need new ideas for old kinks.

What do you think?
 
Three Things at Play?

MsWorthy said:
Anal play is one of my kinks, and up until about a year ago, I would have said it was my strongest kink. But (no pun intended), I have found that once the newness wore off and it was easily accessible to me, my desire for it waned and I began looking for something that pushes the envelop a bit more.

Now, imagination is not my strong suit. I tend to be a more logical/reality based thinker. But, I wonder if my desires for s/m are increasing or if I simply need new ideas for old kinks.

What do you think?

It could be there are some/all of at least these three things at play:

1. Kink is partly based on the forbidden...if you do the forbidden long enough it registers as normal in your mind and you'll desire more forbidden things to do;

2. If it's SM based, tolerance for giving and receiving pain generally increases with exposure. Therefore you'll require and seek more of the sensation to get your endorphins;

3. Could be the new moon, or the summer blahs. Try painting something a new color, try a new flavoured lube, maybe change your brand of beer or turn the rack to face a different window. Decorate a new interior! Stimulate the KreativeKink in you!

Lance
 
Re: Three Things at Play?

Lancecastor said:


It could be there are some/all of at least these three things at play:

1. Kink is partly based on the forbidden...if you do the forbidden long enough it registers as normal in your mind and you'll desire more forbidden things to do;

2. If it's SM based, tolerance for giving and receiving pain generally increases with exposure. Therefore you'll require and seek more of the sensation to get your endorphins;

3. Could be the new moon, or the summer blahs. Try painting something a new color, try a new flavoured lube, maybe change your brand of beer or turn the rack to face a different window. Decorate a new interior! Stimulate the KreativeKink in you!

Lance

Thank you, Lance, for your response. I think all three elements play a role. More free time away from the rugrat wouldn't hurt either. There's nothing like a small room (bedroom) and fear of a child hearing/interrupting to knock you right out of top space.

~thinks of buying some fingerpaints to use on my partner's behind...talk about butt stuff~
 
why buy when you can make

Edible Body Paint
Mix 1 packet unflavored gelatin in 1/4 cup hot water. Set aside. Separately, combine:
1/2 cup cornstarch Cook over low heat until thickened. Add gelatin mixture and 1/4 cup glycerin. Divide into small bowls and tint with food coloring, and a few drops flavoring extract. It should be noted this will stain sheets, skin and clothing, but is washable.


Edible Body Paint
3 tb. beeswax
3 tb. coconut oil
3 tb. cocoa butter
1 tb. honey powder (optional)
1/2 tsp. flavoring extract
food coloring to suit
Melt the 1st 3 ingredients, stir in the honey, flavoring and color.
Pour into tubes or other containers.


Edible Finger Paint
1 tb. shea butter
1 tb. aloe vera gel
2 tsp. corn syrup
1 tsp. flavor extract
food coloring as desired
Melt the shea butter, mix in the aloe gel and corn syrup. Mix with a hand blender until emulsified and cool, add flavoring and color.
 
Re: Re: MzChrista

Great MzC, I think bitchboy would like this, cause he can take that big ole white dildo of mine and then some!

I might have to work up to this one day!

Ebony

MzChrista said:


OK, square business, this is serious shit, no joking around.
Anal fistfucking is not something to be playing with if you arent going to do it right. You can serious injure a person and I even have heard stories of people bleeding to death.
First of all, it aint a starting place, if the sub doesnt have good anal experience, back up and go to the plugs and all, and play there for a while.
OK, so you gonna do it, start with an enema, and dont slack on it. You want that deal clean, nobody wants an impacted bowel.
Now you cant have too much lube, and I mean it. And not runny stuff, get a jel, because you want it in his ass not on your sheets. Really pack gobs of it in there, and when you think you got enough, put in some more.
You gotta wear latex gloves, and make sure they arent the cheap kind that might break. Totally cover your hand with lube and start working his hole with one finger until its sliding in and out easy. Then go for a second finger and on and on. When you go to put your whole hand in, you make it shaped like what people call "the goosehead" cause thats how its shaped.
OK, GO SLOW.
Now really this isnt different from pussy fisting except you got that sphincter and it doesnt stretch so much, it sort of snaps. When you go to slide your hand in, be careful, because you been pumping and it can make a vacuum and sometimes it might either push in air, and give him cramps, or it can also do this weird thing where it sort of sucks your hand in, and if you arent careful, you can tear him by going in to fast.
Some people will go to make a fist, and others wont, but yes you can do it, and you can push in further than you will think you can, but dont force it.
OK, you got your fist in him, what now? jacking him off is cool, but lots of guys will not get erections while you fist them. If he doesnt no big deal. Trust me, hes feeling plenty of sensation.
Now, pay attention here. The most dangerous part is not going in, it is coming out. You got to pull out as slow as you can and make sure you dont have any kind of a suction. Let me make it clear, You CAN pull his intestines out if you fuck up.
He is gona bleed some, especially if its the first time. a little blood is OK, if theres a lot, you obviously got a problem.

OK, there you go. Like I said be careful. This is serious shit. And I said he, but of course, you can fist women in the ass too, and you can do them in both ass and pussy together and thats a real trip. But you know, dont be so ambitious if you just starting out.
 
Bootylicious!

I love buttfucking with my strap on. The more I do it, the more I want to do it!


Ebony
 
Re: Re: MzChrista

MzChrista said:
OK, square business, this is serious shit, no joking around.
Anal fistfucking is not something to be playing with if you arent going to do it right.
Excellent description.

I've done some anal fisting on my dominants. It's a weird headspace for me, a very delicate walk between being controlled while i'm fisting my dominant -and- his losing himself in the sensation, so, losing the control and leaving me foundering on top (OH NO!). As long as he can maintain control of us, of me, of the D/s relationship between us, then i'm okay and do anything to him, for him, from my submissive desire to please him. From that perspective, i've done more than my share of anal fisting of male dominant partners over the years.

MzChrista has the right of it.

When your hand/fist is inside, his splincter can be *exceedingly* tight around your wrist (and forearm, expecially), too. You can end up feeling kinda sore in that area from his splincter muscle.

When your inside his body, take some time to feel aroundm to feel where the colon narrows and takes a shrp bend over in one direction. That's where you push fingers into, if you can do that without the sensation edging into the too sharp. you never ever push your fingers into the rather delicate walls of his rectum. In that direction lies an ER visit, especially if you've got more than fingertip length nails.

No matter how clean he's gotten before you fist him, there will be some residue that comes out as you withdraw your hand. A good subbie will have a towel handy to wipe that up (especially since it keeps him from having to walk across your carpet to the bathroom to clean it up himself).

This can be a really fun and exceedingly hot way to explore sensation boundaries with your partner. Be careful, though. Use lots of lube. Go slowly.
:rose:
 
cymstress, thank you for adding on and filling in what I missed.
You cool as they come, baby.
 
Re: Re: Re: Re: I couldn't agree with you more.

MzChrista said:


All you gotta do is ask, girlybabe. Ill hook you up.

Uh oh, I see Caroline is coming over to the dark side! LOL, look out Sam!

Ebony
 
butt joke

A large man walked into a public restroom where a small
man was peeing.

The big guy said to the little one, "Excuse me for noticing,
but you have a very large dick. How did it get that
way?"

The little guy said, "Well, I'm a leprechaun, I wished
it upon myself."

The big guy said, "Wow, could you wish it upon me?"

The little guy said, "Sure, but only if you let me butt
fuck you for 5 minutes.

The big guy agreed.

After it was all over the big guy said, "I can't believe
I let you do that."

The little guy said, "I can't believe you thought I
was a leprechaun.
 
Re: butt joke

monster666 said:
A large man walked into a public restroom where a small
man was peeing.

The big guy said to the little one, "Excuse me for noticing,
but you have a very large dick. How did it get that
way?"

The little guy said, "Well, I'm a leprechaun, I wished
it upon myself."

The big guy said, "Wow, could you wish it upon me?"

The little guy said, "Sure, but only if you let me butt
fuck you for 5 minutes.

The big guy agreed.

After it was all over the big guy said, "I can't believe
I let you do that."

The little guy said, "I can't believe you thought I
was a leprechaun.

Funny, monster!

Eb
 
Re: butt joke

MzChrista said:
cymstress, thank you for adding on and filling in what I missed.
You cool as they come, baby.
You're who they invented the word for, MzChrista; you ought to know.
monster666 said:
The little guy said, "I can't believe you thought I
was a leprechaun.
This is one of those EWWWWWWWW, gross! HAHAHAHAHA so funny kinda jokes - and just as good the second time round. (That IM screen was moving too fast for me to get the full impact the first time.)
:D
 
cymbidia

You have a PM.

Oh God, gang, I too had forgotten the leprechaun line. Thanks for the reminder.
 
Well my stars and garters!
Ulyssa!
Talk about the ghosts of LitDays past!
:D

Welcome, darlin'.
Dare i hope this isn't just a pass-through on your part?

Like our fancy new digs?
Well, not so new anymore, and people do have a tendancy to put opened containers of lube down on the end tables...and mind that pile o' straps and whippy-looking things, okay? Otherwise, i hope you'll settle in an stay awhile.

(I'll go check my pm's now.)



edited to add - and btw, Lyssa, you might want to check out CarolineOh and MotorCitySam. They're our very own BDSM Forum version of you and your man.
:rose:
 
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Re: Re: butt joke

cymbidia said:
You're who they invented the word for, MzChrista; you ought to know.This is one of those EWWWWWWWW, gross! HAHAHAHAHA so funny kinda jokes - and just as good the second time round. (That IM screen was moving too fast for me to get the full impact the first time.)
:D


Sweets...that's what the little scroll bar on the side is for. So you can go back and read what you missed the first time.
 
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: I couldn't agree with you more.

Ebonyfire said:


Uh oh, I see Caroline is coming over to the dark side! LOL, look out Sam!

Ebony

I've wanted to try wearing a strap on and fucking a man for a long time. My ex husband loved anal play, and I tried to talk him into it, but alas, he was too busy getting real dick.
Sam has nothing to worry about, I know better to to try poking him! But MzChrista has sub men practically on call, so we think we ought to be able to find me a willing victim. Excuse me, partner.;)
 
Dixiecritter.I am sending this on this thread as not to open a new one and get in trouble again.I have recieved several messages on a private board which I did not know was even on this site.I have tried to answer you but your e mail is blocked on that board.I can just hear everone on the bdsm board scream about a private message on this thing.Oh well.I am giving my e mail address so you can contact me and all trhe others can send all their nasty e mails if they want to.HA HA.They can't be to much worse than one I got that said.I love your story ,but you are sick.

PICK UP MAN [email addy deleted by one of your local, friendly, hard-working BDSM Forum Moderators. We're on the job for you and yours, day and night.

PICK UP MAN? You cannot post a personal email addy on this board. It's one of the rules, dude. Go read all about it in the sticky up top.]
 
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