Calling for a Change or maybe just being passive aggressive...

[blulilacgrl]

blulilacgrl when you said so many posts ago - "so we agree to disagree" - then please just accept some will, and do have the right to disagree with you.

Quite frankly I feel that you have insulted some of the most amazing posters I have seen here for years. I consider them every bit as caring and compassionate as SweetErika and if you had bothered to just look you will have seen evidence of that over and over again.

Most importantly, they bring smiles and laughter. They are a breath of fresh air. Don't randomly pop in and start attacking - if you have a particular problem with any one post or indeed more of them, gather evidence and present them to LadyG.

Here is an example on how to use Google - put the follow string of words into Google:
site:http://forum.literotica.com NightL angie gender blulilacgrl
See - it will go straight to the post I made in December that you objected to and that you raised again with me a couple of days ago.

Hunt down your facts - not innuendoes and vague claims - hard solid facts. Don't dart and weave, don't shift your focus, don't shift it back to just Beck when you clearly stated to me that you were upset by how the male poster who called themselves angie/killjoy and Josh as well had been unfairly treated. Apart from alluding to my post from December you also mentioned another person by name. So search for anything I have done - search for anything that any one of the "inner group" (as you call them) has been anywhere near what you claim. Evidence - clear and simple - you don't need to justify it here - if it is so damning provide it to the admin and moderators. Just like the very people, of who you accuse of wrong doing, did when it came down to threatening PMs. They provided proof - complete irrefutable evidence.

Beck got ribbed - he never was threatening - he never promoted - illegal activities, he never insulted, he never was snide, he never displayed any false-hoods - he was actually very good natured and all correspondence directed toward him was as well. Basically the posters offered guidance, he took it on board and last I saw was posting very worthy threads and comments.

Gather your evidence. Don't jump in half way through events and then start criticising before using the in built search, better yet Google and getting a full picture of how things have started.

Every single time I suspect a troll, the very first thing I do is to check on their past posting history before I make comment. If, by every thing they have written, reads FALSE and TROLL I will lay it right out in front of them - and often try and do it in a humorous fashion. I make no apologies for that what so ever.

What is your average when comparing your posting of complaints, grumbling and criticisms to the How To... to genuine offers of advice and guidance?

Gather your evidence of wrong doing, research the background before insulting very genuine people who have the biggest hearts I have ever come across both online and in the outside world.

Actually, thank you for that. I honestly could not remember exactly who it was that was going to and from Angie's thread to comment and poke fun at her for the amusement of others. Thank you for being willing to step up and admit to it.

These are 2 posts here and here, where I quite clearly talk about the treatment that I witness concerning Josh, Beck31 and Angie so I am not sure I understand this statement:

don't shift it back to just Beck when you clearly stated to me that you were upset by how the male poster who called themselves angie/killjoy and Josh as well had been unfairly treated.

I thought that I had been pretty clear in discussing instances about what I felt were wrong. I also thought that I was pretty clear when I said this....


I have even gone so far as to keep my comments general and have not named specific posters as to allow them privacy and to allow posters the opportunity to do a bit of self reflection and see for themselves if they feel this is something that applies to them. I have stated that some will shrug and move on, some may change and some may simply think I am a bitch. And I accept that.

Granted, I will allow that I gave you specific instances in a PM because you asked. But I believe I gave the same instances in the above posts as I gave to you in a PM. You knew them, you were part of those discussions I believed and I did not feel I was infringing on anyone's privacy by pointing out the posts of people you claim have the "biggest hearts [you] have ever come across both online and in the outside world."

If there were any examples that you feel I omitted, by all means feel free to post them.

 

[NightL]

You know full well I claimed ownership of that post in our exchange a couple days ago when you brought up that very December post. This is not new news to you. I had also linked to that exchange publicly yesterday.

When a person who has been perpetrating posting as a woman slips up, forgetting what alt they are writing under, and suddenly starts writing as a male - is it really poking fun at them when I present that to the very people who the he/she has been threatening? If I believe someone to be presenting themselves in a false and misleading manner I will point to the evidence.

I have very clearly stated my views in this very thread and the thread that precedes it http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=853674

May I suggest you start your very own discussion forum and invite all the trolls and people you feel have been so hard put upon here in the How To... to join you.

You may even choose to keep any version of "that" avatar in your purse for safe keeping.

You have been expressing your views very strongly about how others may not express theirs.

 

[blulilacgrl]

You know full well I claimed ownership of that post in our exchange a couple days ago when you brought up that very December post. This is not new news to you. I had also linked to that exchange publicly yesterday.

When a person who has been perpetrating posting as a woman slips up, forgetting what alt they are writing under, and suddenly starts writing as a male - is it really poking fun at them when I present that to the very people who the he/she has been threatening? If I believe someone to be presenting themselves in a false and misleading manner I will point to the evidence.

I have very clearly stated my views in this very thread and the thread that precedes it http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=853674

May I suggest you start your very own discussion forum and invite all the trolls and people you feel have been so hard put upon here in the How To... to join you.

You may even choose to keep any version of "that" avatar in your purse for safe keeping.

You have been expressing your views very strongly about how others may not express theirs.

Actually what was said in our PMs was this...

blulilacgrl: My first inkling was when I read a post (fuck I wish I could find it!) that was something along the lines of “I was just on Angie’s thread and you won’t believe what she posted today…

As you can see, I could not find the post therefore I could not rightly say or verify exactly who said it.

In your response you stated you probably made such a post

That is in no way definitive. And as you can see, I did NOT know exactly which post it was. You very kindly found it for me and indeed you were right. You were the person who said it. Thank you.

And if you linked it in an earlier post then I apologize for not thanking you earlier.

You may even choose to keep any version of "that" avatar in your purse for safe keeping.

I'm sorry I am confused, what do you mean by this? Are you saying that I am somehow an alt? Are you now questioning my identity? I am honestly puzzled by this statement.

May I suggest you start your very own discussion forum and invite all the trolls and people you feel have been so hard put upon here in the How To... to join you.

Again I am confused. Everyone else said if I didn't like it I should post more and try to change it.