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Astral kiss, said,
As to the whole different race dom/sub, domme/sub thing...I am so confused, because I don't know!
I'm a freaking mutt!
Again I repeat: Japanese, Native American, African American, Swiss, Dutch, Lithuanian, Latvian, English, Scottish, Irish, Welsh and Russian.
SO I have no idea where I fall and to make matters worse and more confusing, I'm a switch.
Jeez.
Of course we are all mutts, or Heinz 57, as one friend says. I'm Anglo-Scottish-Dutch then Canadian, American. And there's probably things I don't know about. The Thomas Jefferson family (supposed 'white' side) is not atypical.
The lines of division between 'races' are fairly arbitrary, like the lines/borders people assign between countries like Canada and the US; or between items like fruits compared to vegetables (what is a tomato?).
Further, many groups do not fit the so called major 'race' categories, such as the aboriginal people of Australia, who are quite dark skinned, but not afaik, esp. related to African black peoples. That said, the categories do exist, at least as mental, sometime useful constructs, like 'Canadian' and 'American.' But anthropologists dismiss the idea, at least for our post CE times, of 'pure races.'
The lines of sex, gender and sm orientation are likewise constructs; while useful, they do violence to those, like you or me who 'straddle' certain fences ['switches'].
In looking at the role of the construct of 'race' in bdsm or related fantasy, I don't mean to ignore the merits of those who are 'mixed', and indeed that's most.
From my (decidedly not-pure) 'white' pov, 'mixed' race and bi-racial persons, especially those not predominantly 'white', have their own specific fascination. And as you know, there are stereotypes and fantasies regarding mixed persons; for instance, those who used to be called 'half-breed'. (This is also the title of a fine autobiography by a Canadian Meti woman.) In recent years, a number of the top female fashion models are lovely examples of persons of 'mixed' racial/ethnic backgrounds.
As to the whole different race dom/sub, domme/sub thing...I am so confused, because I don't know!
I'm a freaking mutt!
Again I repeat: Japanese, Native American, African American, Swiss, Dutch, Lithuanian, Latvian, English, Scottish, Irish, Welsh and Russian.
SO I have no idea where I fall and to make matters worse and more confusing, I'm a switch.
Jeez.
Of course we are all mutts, or Heinz 57, as one friend says. I'm Anglo-Scottish-Dutch then Canadian, American. And there's probably things I don't know about. The Thomas Jefferson family (supposed 'white' side) is not atypical.
The lines of division between 'races' are fairly arbitrary, like the lines/borders people assign between countries like Canada and the US; or between items like fruits compared to vegetables (what is a tomato?).
Further, many groups do not fit the so called major 'race' categories, such as the aboriginal people of Australia, who are quite dark skinned, but not afaik, esp. related to African black peoples. That said, the categories do exist, at least as mental, sometime useful constructs, like 'Canadian' and 'American.' But anthropologists dismiss the idea, at least for our post CE times, of 'pure races.'
The lines of sex, gender and sm orientation are likewise constructs; while useful, they do violence to those, like you or me who 'straddle' certain fences ['switches'].
In looking at the role of the construct of 'race' in bdsm or related fantasy, I don't mean to ignore the merits of those who are 'mixed', and indeed that's most.
From my (decidedly not-pure) 'white' pov, 'mixed' race and bi-racial persons, especially those not predominantly 'white', have their own specific fascination. And as you know, there are stereotypes and fantasies regarding mixed persons; for instance, those who used to be called 'half-breed'. (This is also the title of a fine autobiography by a Canadian Meti woman.) In recent years, a number of the top female fashion models are lovely examples of persons of 'mixed' racial/ethnic backgrounds.
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