sterculius
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If you were 100% straight, how did you come to suck your first cock?
Can you really "turn" a straight man?
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OldFred65
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I don't know about turning a straight man gay, but I always considered myself straight until the day I was watching my wife suck a cock and stroking myself and she asked if I wanted to try it. I was on my knees in a heartbeat sucking that cock. Later that day she got me to let the guy fuck my ass, and I have been a bisexual cock hound ever since.
Just got very curious I thought I wanted to see what it was like. I had a man while I was in the army that was sucking me when I was sleeping I woke up when I was cuming and he was swallowing I was then 19 yrs old. He said he loved me I was shocked and said no. So I sucked my first at 60 yrs old now 76.
My transition from straight to cocksucker took a long time.
Even before I understood sex, I had a desire for girls. And that desire only got stronger as I got older.
A lust for men? Nope, it didn’t exist, and it wasn’t because I didn’t have any opportunities. Several men hit on me in college, but I had no interest. Merely hugging another man made me uncomfortable, and I found the thought of gay sex revolting. If I couldn’t have a woman, I always had my hand. Men were never part of the equation.
And then, something happened. I still don’t know what it was, but it was about the same time I read Anne Rice’s first Sleeping Beauty book. I also have vivd memories of reading a story in which two couples met on a beach, and the wives encouraged one husband to suck the other. I found the stories disgusting. And yet, they were compelling. I couldn’t resist reading them again and again, until one day, I began creating my own fantasies about cock. As the fantasies grew, I realized there was more than my imagination at work. I realized I wanted cock, except I had no idea how to make it happen.
The problem was that I was married (still am) to a woman who would never understand my desire. Nor would my extended family or my circle of friends. At the same time, I saw opportunity in the fact that I routinely travel throughout the South. If I could find the right situation, I might experience my first man anonymously. So simple, except I didn’t anticipate the power of my fears. The fear of being found out, the fear that I would hate myself afterward, etc., etc.
My moment came when I decided to attend a convention in Denver. I had read a story on Literotica about visiting a Denver bathhouse, and the wheels began to turn. There was a bathhouse not too far from the convention center, and my flight schedule left me with an extra night in town.
Now or never, I told myself. Except each time I decided to follow through, my fears kicked in. I struggled with it throughout the convention, I struggled after the convention had ended, and I struggled that last night as I sat in a restaurant with a beer and burger. I struggled as I left the restaurant and decided I’d rather call a Lyft instead of walking back to my hotel. I was still struggling when I pulled out my phone and opened the app. Just do it, I told myself when the app asked for my destination. I typed in the bathhouse address.
I was struggling even as I stood in front of the bathhouse, but I somehow managed to find my way inside. And I continued to struggle as I sat on that basement bunk and waited to see what happened. But all those fears vanished when my man climbed up beside me, reached under my towel and gripped my penis. We stroked each other for several minutes before I dropped to my knees and inhaled my new lover’s cock. The sensation was wonderful.
I still love pussy. But I absolutely love cock.
Penthouse letters got me too. It was a mmf story and the woman encouraged the guys to suck each other off.. I was surprised at how turned on I was and shot a big load... Been hooked ever since
BigButtSlut47
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I don't know about turning a straight man gay or bi, but I have turned several gay guys bi. Three of my children were fathered by guys who originally claimed to be gay.
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My wife has helped several of her girlfriends turn their husband bi, and feminized them as well. They are now my lovers.
I have been questioning myself for several years now. 9 years ago my wife passed and for whatever reason I went on Adult Friend Finder. I hooked up with a guy that gave me an incredible blow job. he had ED an although he said I sucked him very well for someone with no experience I didn't get to enjoy my first attempt at giving head because he was soft.
I have not been with another man since but often think about it. I love watching frot videos and that is something I really want to do as well as just jacking off another man while he does the same to me.
I am remarried but have had no sex in almost three years so my urges are at a high point.
I guess I am at least bi-curious.
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WE all might like to dip our toe in the water and take a taste ....
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I started off reading Penthouse stories too years ago and I really enjoyed the gay and bisexual ones. I have been questioning my sexuality for a long time. I tend to flip-flop between gay and bisexual. One thing for certain – I haven’t considered myself to be a straight man for many years. As time passes, I feel closer to figuring it out. Most days now, my inner voice says I am gay. And I’ve grown more comfortable telling myself I am gay.
I like hearing people here say the labels aren’t really important. I’m learning to take that viewpoint to heart and not use the gay label as a rigid concept. For me, I just wanted a way to describe my urges and feelings. I hope I made sense with this last part.
I like hearing people here say the labels aren’t really important. I’m learning to take that viewpoint to heart and not use the gay label as a rigid concept. For me, I just wanted a way to describe my urges and feelings. I hope I made sense with this last part.
A gay friend of mine laid it out for me many years ago:
Him: Do you know what the difference is between a gay boy and a straight boy?
Me: [curiou pause] No. What's the difference?
Him: About a six pack. Can I buy you a beer?
I didn't know I was bi at the time. If presented with that conversation today, I would be giving him a hug--around the shaft of his cock--with my tonsils.
Beandip478
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My answer would be: just wait long enough. We seem to have established in these forums that straight men eventually develop bi cravings. No external influence needed.
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This is where I am also. I can look at ANY man naked and feel zero sexual attraction. I feel total sexual attraction to nearly any naked woman. However, if I was to encounter a beautiful feminine trans-woman, I do not think I would be all that conflicted if she was to drop her cock in my face. In short, it's not the organ that decides my attraction.
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I've never been with a trans woman, but will admit to arousal watching some videos, when they're naturally feminine and pretty, and have a big cock. The only biological danger then is that they stick those cocks in men's asses, and I learned today that rates of monkeypox have been climbing. Part of the reason for this is that the symptoms of monkeypox don't show up immediately, so you carry on having sex with people without even realizing you're infected.
But in principle, yes, the right, pretty shemale (no breast implants), with face and body of a female, and a big old dick to sick, I'd be into it if they were vaxxed.
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This is a question I ask of myself. As I think about my personal journey, I started out in life never having a thought or curiosity about men. I was extremely attracted to the female form and not attracted at all to the male form. Over time, curiosity grew. It has gotten to the point where the only sex I am interested in is gay sex but I still found the female form more attractive. Things seem to be shifting again. As I masturbate to gay porn, I am finding myself more and more not just erotically enjoying what the men are sharing but I am finding myself more and more adoring lusting after their bodies. I am 55 and don't get hard normally just when I am out and about anymore but lately when I have been in coffee shops or restaurants and I see a smooth, younger, slightly effeminate man, I get a raging hard on. I think relationship wise, I fit better with a man more my age but to indulge in the smoother, muscular bodies of younger men.....HOT!
I have been in that exact situation and yes, I simply reached out and began to feel it in my hand and ultimately stroke it as I would my own...it was very natural feeling to do so and I have enjoyed another man's penis several times since, both in my hands, my mouth and twice in my ass...it feels very sexy and right time, right place, I'd do all three most anytime
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I am a bit of everything and don't need a label for it. I love women, am attracted to many of them but I also love sucking a cock and would like to be a bottom. I would say that I don't find most men attractive but I do find some attractive. I enjoy making out with men and women. I am sexual creature and I love it!
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Can you really 'turn' a straight guy?
Well, you can suck his cock, show him just how wonderful it can be to have his cock sucked by a guy, and if he likes it... and how can he NOT like it? he just might allow you to suck his cock again...
sterculius
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My question referred to the cocksucker, not the cocksuckee
Statistically speaking, your sample might be a bit small for drawing that conclusion.
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I am married, but have been bisexual for 11 years now, never thought of ever being totally gay, but would never rule it out.
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I can tell you about my personal experience as man who considers himself straight. My first time was when I was 18 with a man who was 52. When I was 18 I was your typical extremely horny young man. I was obssessed with women and had no desire for men. No amount of sex was enough and I would even watch porn when the girlfriend at the time wasn't available. Well my crazy hormones got the best of me as I was eventually checking out gay porn out of curiosity. Most of it was a huge turn off but I quickly found that one thing in particular turned me on and this was older/younger gay encounters. Its hard to explain but I was never physically attracted to men whatsoever but I was extremely turned on by this submissive dynamic of "straight" young men and older men. I was also specifically attracted to an older mans penis and their penis alone. I would constantly imagine myself nude in an older mans presence and how my submissive nude body was so enticing to them. I would imagine these big , old burly men with their large cocks using me. This eventually led to meeting this guy online and then eventually my first time with this older man late at night in his shed. I'll save the full story for another day though I will say that I did not and still have never done anal. In the moment it was the most erotic sexual encounter in my entire life. Its still vivid in my mind. Though I also remember the extreme feeling of guilt and disgust immediately after cumming and on the drive home. I couldn't believe that I had done what I just did but ofcourse those hormones come back quickly and those fantasies come back. Nowadays in my mid thirties , I do still fantasize about older men though I rarely indulge. Reading stories on sites such as these are typically enough to satisfy the urges.
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I have as well with wives who craved to go bi with their men folk (the bi part not the feminizing). I hear people say but they were probable leaning already. Nope, nada, no way. My man wasn't either. It took years. Why go there? Because I know how much fun it is and wanted to share it with my best friend as did my lady friends (our husbands). We know how addictively good it feels, looks, etc. Prior to that in college we did it because we were crazy sexed up girls wanting kinky sex. In those days it was easier because most of the guys would do anything to get to be with us.
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If they were turned, were they really straight to begin with?
That's not a fair question. I'm on the side of all the people who said "fuck labels" basically.
But I write from the point of view of someone who's been out as bisexual since the late 80's, and lived through LG (no T, no B, no Q, no plus, no any other letters) activism which tried to erase bi people because they were perceived as politically inconvenient for the 100%-gay agenda of the times.
It went beyond politics. Even non-activist gay and straight people have both inflicted upon me their insistence that it was a phase, I was really one or the other, I'd never find love because I'd never maintain monogamy, blah blah blah.
While in a committed, monogamous "gay" relationship (one bi man, one gay man), I was constantly subjected to efforts to "turn" me off to women forever.
No female partner has done something similar to me, but straight (?) men have 'splained to my female partners (as if it were their business) that I could give up MSM (as if I were doing it in the first place) if the women would just keep the relationship's shit together (as if two people weren't responsible for that).
Let's talk about seduction, or about disinhibition, or about personal growth and discovery. "Turning" is a harmful idea which doesn't need any more life breathed into it.
That's not a fair question. I'm on the side of all the people who said "fuck labels" basically.
But I write from the point of view of someone who's been out as bisexual since the late 80's, and lived through LG (no T, no B, no Q, no plus, no any other letters) activism which tried to erase bi people because they were perceived as politically inconvenient for the 100%-gay agenda of the times.
It went beyond politics. Even non-activist gay and straight people have both inflicted upon me their insistence that it was a phase, I was really one or the other, I'd never find love because I'd never maintain monogamy, blah blah blah.
While in a committed, monogamous "gay" relationship (one bi man, one gay man), I was constantly subjected to efforts to "turn" me off to women forever.
No female partner has done something similar to me, but straight (?) men have 'splained to my female partners (as if it were their business) that I could give up MSM (as if I were doing it in the first place) if the women would just keep the relationship's shit together (as if two people weren't responsible for that).
Let's talk about seduction, or about disinhibition, or about personal growth and discovery. "Turning" is a harmful idea which doesn't need any more life breathed into it.
