Can you really "turn" a straight man?

[michigan071388]

I know about the gilt but I’ve was curious about cock sense before my teens and after fighting it forever it seemed I gave in and played with a bartender that was working on a Amtrak train he took me to a bathroom in the bottom part of a train car and he sucked my cock I came really hard but then i sat down on the toilet and he was standing in front of me my hands were shaking so bad he had to help me get his pants down his cock wasn’t as long as mine but it was really thick I loved how it felt in my hand but when I tried sucking him he was so thick and I was so nervous I just couldn’t get it to feel like I had imagined it would anyway I ended up jacking him off while fingering his ass until he came. The hard part was afterwards I’d go back and forth from horny as fuck thinking about it to feel guilty and wishing it had never happened.

I know exactly what you mean! I am attracted to how an older man can pleasure me but not the actual man in the slightest. The truth for me atleast is that older gay men just know how to please a man sometimes better than women do! I think this explains why we feel that post ejaculation guilt once the horny feeling is gone.

 

[Britva415]

I know exactly what you mean! I am attracted to how an older man can pleasure me but not the actual man in the slightest. The truth for me atleast is that older gay men just know how to please a man sometimes better than women do! I think this explains why we feel that post ejaculation guilt once the horny feeling is gone.

I don’t really get it.

Is the guilt over using the guy and not reciprocating?

Or is it over doing something with a guy in the first place?

Aside, just speaking for myself and my own experiences, older guys weren’t any better at pleasing this man than anyone else, young, old, female, male. Quite the contrary: Their tendency has been to try out on me ideas which they’ve acquired over the years, and project onto me the pleasure they imagine I should be having. Instead of actually paying attention to me.

I recognize that that’s inexperience and immaturity. Ironic, no? Hoorah if people are actually finding older men who possess this sensitivity and maturity.

 

[Dreamer110]

More than welcome to experiment on me

 

[fitandfresh]

The older I have got the more curious I have become about having a relationship with another guy. I have always loved and enjoyed making love to the ladies but now to have a j/o buddy or more has become so very appealing. Happily married but now nothing happening in the bedroom so that doesn't help lol

 

[Dreamer110]

The older I have got the more curious I have become about having a relationship with another guy. I have always loved and enjoyed making love to the ladies but now to have a j/o buddy or more has become so very appealing. Happily married but now nothing happening in the bedroom so that doesn't help lol

I'm exactly the same way. Only getting stronger.

 

[fitandfresh]

I'm exactly the same way. Only getting stronger.

Pity we weren't closer lol......

 

[Downfor]

The older I have got the more curious I have become about having a relationship with another guy. I have always loved and enjoyed making love to the ladies but now to have a j/o buddy or more has become so very appealing. Happily married but now nothing happening in the bedroom so that doesn't help lol

Many of us feel the same way!

 

[txfuncouple]

Is it about turning the “straight” guy completely gay or just getting him to experience M/M sex?

Just trying to understand so I better understand the dynamic. I feel like sexuality is a scale and we’re all at different points on it with different things. An example is a guy that is all the way at the hetero end of the line but will have a MFM threesome without “sword crossing”. Maybe under the right situation if that threesome turns MMF he lets the other guy blow him, but still doesn’t want to go all the way with the guy. See my point?

I’m a typical “straight” guy with very open minded kinks about pleasure and my wife is open minded too. We look at it as a way to have fun with each other and have very few boundaries. And yes, I’ve done things with guys without a woman present and still don’t feel like I have to label it to explain it. Mouths, pussies, cocks, and asses all feel good regardless of the sex they’re attached to under the right situation.

I fall into the “attracted to cock but not men club” but can acknowledge a man is attractive just like I can a woman.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Elaine: You know, just admitting a man is handsome doesn't necessarily make you a homosexual.
George: It doesn't help.

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

Never pass up a blow job. Women same goes for you.

 

[haventdonethat]

I fall into the “attracted to cock but not men club” but can acknowledge a man is attractive just like I can a woman.

Have had 3somes, MMF and MFM, with wife. Have sucked cock with and without wife. Was never interested in a MM sexual relationship.
I fall into the "sexually opportune but not men club". If it doesn't sound familiar, I made it up!

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Just curious about something I know we have all heard of for years. Can a straight man be "turned" to being gay? I mean,I consider myself as straight, bicurious, and my urges for intimacy with another man are fairly constant. But, I have always wondered that if I were to have an intimate encounter with a man that I liked and trusted, would I go back for more, want to continue, keep a discreet, but ongoing relationship with him? If I am to be honest, when I was much younger, that was my biggest fear. I secretly felt and feared that a gay man could turn me. However, could I actually be turned or would I be actualizing my true self? Honestly, the whole label thing blows my mind. Am I straight, am I just curious, am I gay, am I bisexual, or am I gay with an interest in women? Not trying to make any particular point here, just curious to know what others think.

Please try it. You will feel so at peace as you take a man's cock into your mouth.

 

[canogagrizz]

I'm intrigued by, and sorta understand, the meme: I'm attracted to cock, but not to men. I interpret it as a way of saying: I'm still not gay.

I sorta understand, because I have no desire to marry another man even though I love cock (I identify as bi).

How does that same equation work when a womanizing man says something like: I love pussy, but I don't want to marry one? Does that mean he isn't really straight? Am I comparing apples to oranges?

Yes you are comparing apples to oranges imho. When a straight guy says he loves pussy but doesn't want to marry one, that means he doesn't want the drama that comes with most women or their baggage or family's baggage either. That is how it is usually meant. So it means he's still straight.
On the other hand I get it how even a lot of straight guys (say that is a way older guy in his 50's 60 or 70s) might not want to bother with "dating" anymore in their life, or the ups & downs & drama of dating, courting & romancing, spending money a woman or all the emotions that come with a "relationship" with a woman, so he just decides instead to do gay sex instead because it might be a lot easier to do that just to get off & have sex without having all the strings attached that comes with courting a woman and all a woman's complexities. It is tiring going though all that just to get laid or have sex. But that all depends on if guy doesn't want to bother with all the courting rituals, or if they are still truly seeking a romantic relationship with a woman.
I'd say (for myself anyways) being almost 60yrs old. All the dating & courting wouldn't be worth it to me emotionally or financially anymore. I'm retired I don't want to work. lol.

 

[michigan071388]

I don’t really get it.

Is the guilt over using the guy and not reciprocating?

Or is it over doing something with a guy in the first place?

Aside, just speaking for myself and my own experiences, older guys weren’t any better at pleasing this man than anyone else, young, old, female, male. Quite the contrary: Their tendency has been to try out on me ideas which they’ve acquired over the years, and project onto me the pleasure they imagine I should be having. Instead of actually paying attention to me.

I recognize that that’s inexperience and immaturity. Ironic, no? Hoorah if people are actually finding older men who possess this sensitivity and maturity.

The guilt is over doing something with a guy in the first place. I can only guess but I would imagine my guilt stems from a life time of negative social conditioning in regards to homosexual activity? I understand your experiences as I have also had those types of negative experiences. But yes there are definitely older gay men out there who possess the sensitivity and maturity your speaking of.

 

[michigan071388]

I'm intrigued by, and sorta understand, the meme: I'm attracted to cock, but not to men. I interpret it as a way of saying: I'm still not gay.

I sorta understand, because I have no desire to marry another man even though I love cock (I identify as bi).

How does that same equation work when a womanizing man says something like: I love pussy, but I don't want to marry one? Does that mean he isn't really straight? Am I comparing apples to oranges?

Haha I think the best way to explain this might be. Well if a sexy woman had both a vagina and nice cock , then there would be no reason for a straight man to engage with other men whatsoever lol

 

[Escierto]

Haha I think the best way to explain this might be. Well if a sexy woman had both a vagina and nice cock , then there would be no reason for a straight man to engage with other men whatsoever lol

Lol, my girlfriend has a lovely big cock.

 

[J1biboi]

Yes you are comparing apples to oranges imho. When a straight guy says he loves pussy but doesn't want to marry one, that means he doesn't want the drama that comes with most women or their baggage or family's baggage either. That is how it is usually meant. So it means he's still straight.
On the other hand I get it how even a lot of straight guys (say that is a way older guy in his 50's 60 or 70s) might not want to bother with "dating" anymore in their life, or the ups & downs & drama of dating, courting & romancing, spending money a woman or all the emotions that come with a "relationship" with a woman, so he just decides instead to do gay sex instead because it might be a lot easier to do that just to get off & have sex without having all the strings attached that comes with courting a woman and all a woman's complexities. It is tiring going though all that just to get laid or have sex. But that all depends on if guy doesn't want to bother with all the courting rituals, or if they are still truly seeking a romantic relationship with a woman.
I'd say (for myself anyways) being almost 60yrs old. All the dating & courting wouldn't be worth it to me emotionally or financially anymore. I'm retired I don't want to work. lol.

That's me also.

 

[WhiskeyLvr]

I don't know about "turning", but you can definitely make a straight guy want cock through porn. I'm not gay; women are incredibly hot and I long for their company and gentle touch. But sex with a man is super fucking hot and it's gets me absolutely hard. I never realized that until I watched gay porn and was aroused by the carnal, lustful nature of it. I love women and long to spend my life wife a good one, but getting off with a man is a kink I'll have forever; fuckin love it!

 

[kcniceguy4u]

I had always considered myself straight I bought Penthouse magazines looked all the named women jerked off to them and started reading Penthouse Letters then onto men seduce by men got very curious
And a few years later I’m sucking cock and swallowing totally enjoying it..married bi cocksucker now.

It was also the late 1970s for me. I could not wait to read the penthouse forum each month .
Overtime I got more turned on by the gay stories in penthouse forum than I did the heterosexual stories. Now in my 60s,I wish that I would’ve acted on it before I got married. I think it’s so much better today for young man to be who they want to be because the stigma about being gay is going away or has lessened.

 

[Tedfkats]

This reminds me of the two gay guys i used to work with. One used to tease the other... "If you turn one more, you win a microwave."

 

[kcniceguy4u]

I always considered myself 100% straight until the first time I saw a woman with a cock. She was so pretty and feminine I didn’t believe that she had a cock until she showed me.

As soon as I saw it, I knew that I wanted it. In my mouth. In my ass.

Much later when I finally made these desires come true, I discovered that I was born to be a bottom. I am only attracted to women but a woman with something extra can do anything she wants to me.

Just curious, where are you? Found a woman with a cock. I would definitely love to find a nice trans lady to play with. That is one of my fantasies. Is to be fucked by a trans lady with a cock

 

[Escierto]

Just curious, where are you? Found a woman with a cock. I would definitely love to find a nice trans lady to play with. That is one of my fantasies. Is to be fucked by a trans lady with a cock

I live in the US but my girlfriend lives in the Philippines. I see her several times a year and stay with her a month at a time. When we are apart we chat every day on cam and just hang out with each other.

 

[bijedi]

I guess I could be considered one of those guys who could be considered 'turned' by his wife. I wasn't curious or interested in bi or gay sex at all. I was happy with my straight, married sex life even if it was a little vanilla. Then one day out of the blue my wife wanted to have a private conversation, and in this conversation she told me she had been have fantasies of us sharing another man's cock. She let me know exactly how turned on this fantasy got here. This was pretty out there for us, as we hadn't really shared a lot of our sexual fantasies. I wasn't exactly excited about the prospect, but she clearly wanted this and I am pretty adventurous by nature, and eventually we found a guy and did the deed. While it wasn't a 'wow, what have I been missing' moment, the novelty and excitement made it an enjoyable experience, and so we continued to indulge in shared cock sucking experiences and I was soon hooked on it, and eventually got into all aspects of male on male sexuality.

Now there are times when I am more gay than straight, and times when I am more straight than gay. Having all the options available has been a great experience for me. So was I 'turned'? I don't know, I tend to think I just had a situation where I was able to try it in a positive, encouraging environment and it clicked for me. If the situation was different, I am sure the outcome would have been as well.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

You sound like you are (as someone on the site posted somewhere) "situationally bi".

 

[J1biboi]

I guess I could be considered one of those guys who could be considered 'turned' by his wife. I wasn't curious or interested in bi or gay sex at all. I was happy with my straight, married sex life even if it was a little vanilla. Then one day out of the blue my wife wanted to have a private conversation, and in this conversation she told me she had been have fantasies of us sharing another man's cock. She let me know exactly how turned on this fantasy got here. This was pretty out there for us, as we hadn't really shared a lot of our sexual fantasies. I wasn't exactly excited about the prospect, but she clearly wanted this and I am pretty adventurous by nature, and eventually we found a guy and did the deed. While it wasn't a 'wow, what have I been missing' moment, the novelty and excitement made it an enjoyable experience, and so we continued to indulge in shared cock sucking experiences and I was soon hooked on it, and eventually got into all aspects of male on male sexuality.

Now there are times when I am more gay than straight, and times when I am more straight than gay. Having all the options available has been a great experience for me. So was I 'turned'? I don't know, I tend to think I just had a situation where I was able to try it in a positive, encouraging environment and it clicked for me. If the situation was different, I am sure the outcome would have been as well.

You are indeed lucky to have to have a wife like that!!