My wife thinks that I am a pervert, that I think of sex too much. So I don't talk about it. This forum is my outlet for sex talk and makes me feel normal.
Hubby and I have always had a relationship where there are NO secrets. When we first met, I told him up front I was bisexual and was not willing to let that part of my life go. This was the result of a previous bad relationship where my partner did not understand my bi needs. Fortunately my husband was understanding and as a result we have had a very interesting, intense and adventurous sex life over the years. I can't say being open and up front works for everyone but for us it has.
