Cock Talk

[hotwords229_A]

Hit the pelvic floor and give me twenty

Do you do kegel exercises?
Do you do any exercises for great sex?
401k, pension, health insurance, sexual magnificence, which are you most concerned about in your old age?
Do you take any steps to produce more cum? What are they? Do they work?
Have you noticed a difference in your sex drive as you have aged?
Have you, or your partner, ever tried any penis enlargement techniques? What were they?
Have you, or your partner, ever used a penis pump? Ben Wa balls? Butt plugs? Cock ring? Viagra (or similar) meds?
What advice would you give younger you about sex health?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Do you do kegel exercises?
Not regularly. I am in pelvic floor physical therapy, though.

Do you do any exercises for great sex?
Yes
I'm actively working on my pelvic floor and the results are incredible.

401k, pension, health insurance, sexual magnificence, which are you most concerned about in your old age?
401k and health insurance.
I want to live in a country where sexual magnificence can afford to take prime cognitive space, but my stupid arse decided to live in the home of the free* *(obviously this does not apply to health care, child care or elder care)

Do you take any steps to produce more cum? What are they? Do they work?
No.

Have you noticed a difference in your sex drive as you have aged?
Yes. My sex drive has sky rocketed. It's also tuned towards pleasure. I find certain partners irresistible. Most people bore me.

Have you, or your partner, ever tried any penis enlargement techniques? What were they?
No.

Have you, or your partner, ever used a penis pump? Ben Wa balls? Butt plugs? Cock ring? Viagra (or similar) meds?
Penis pump = no
Ben wa balls = yes (me)
Butt plug = yes (me)
Cock ring = yes
Viagra = yes

What advice would you give younger you about sex health?
The same advice my mother attempted to give a mortified teenage Aussie; focus on your pleasure and enjoyment. If you're not getting something out of it, it's probably not worth it.

Also, get to know your body. Understand your menstrual cycle and how it not only affects your fertility, learn how it affects your mood and sex drive.

Borax capsules will save your life. I wish I had found those twenty years earlier.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Do you moisturize?

Yes. I’m not an animal.

What kind of soap do you use?

Clinique for Men for face. Other soap products may vary.

What kind of hair products do you use?

N/A

Describe your skin care process?

Exfoliant. Moisturizer. Usually from Art of Shaving, but it may vary. Eye cream if I’ve been in the sun.

If you do anal, you obviously lube during, but what about in preparation and afterward?

N/A

Do you think you overdo your skincare? Does your partner?

No.

And yes.

Do you like the scent of body lotions, or do you prefer your own and partner’s nature stink?

I’m picky about scents. I can smell a cheap lotion from a mile away. The combination of baby and stripper is not pleasant to me.

I like perfumes, but they better be good.

Do you (or your partner) moisturize your/his penis during non-masturbation times?

I’ve only moisturized my penis once, but that was due to overuse.

Do you (generally) use lube during masturbation or do you raw dog it?

Mostly raw dog. But these days, I’m just using a single sex toy.

How do you feel about flavored lube? Favorite flavor?

Gross. I only like silicone lube. Water based is like using honey for lube.

What skin care techniques can you share with us that most people don’t know?

For guys with thick facial hair, using a straight razor instead of the Mach 5 razors and all that bullshit gives a MUCH better shave. It stops razor burn. And it just makes the shaving experience so much easier. It takes a few times of shaving to get used to it. You’ll look like a civil war vet. But it really works so much better.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Hit the pelvic floor and give me twenty

Do you do kegel exercises?

I don’t think I have kegels.

Do you do any exercises for great sex?

I do not.

401k, pension, health insurance, sexual magnificence, which are you most concerned about in your old age?

Mostly stock performance and health care costs. I can control my sexual magnificence.

Do you take any steps to produce more cum? What are they? Do they work?

No. Is that a thing girls want? More cum? The only thing that changes cum volume for me is how long it has been since the previous orgasm or how long I edge.

Have you noticed a difference in your sex drive as you have aged?

Not really. I mean, I’m not like I was when I was 18. But the difference between 22 year old me and 41 year old me isn’t much.

Have you, or your partner, ever tried any penis enlargement techniques? What were they?

No. My dick size is acceptable to me.

Have you, or your partner, ever used a penis pump? Ben Wa balls? Butt plugs?

No. Yes. No.

Cock ring? Viagra (or similar) meds?

No. Not yet.

What advice would you give younger you about sex health?

Your cumshots won’t be as powerful when you get older. They’ll still feel good. But you’re not knocking over any soda cans.

 

[Endless_Night]

Do you do kegel exercises?
*nods*

Do you do any exercises for great sex?
I mean, kegels? My focus is more pelvic floor health as the vast majority of my time is spent celibate, but they would fall under that category I s'pose.

401k, pension, health insurance, sexual magnificence, which are you most concerned about in your old age?
The money angle and health insurance.

Do you take any steps to produce more cum? What are they? Do they work?


Have you noticed a difference in your sex drive as you have aged?
Yes. There was a noticeable bump around thirty. It's just kept going up. Awkward.

Have you, or your partner, ever tried any penis enlargement techniques? What were they?
I . . . did not know that was a thing.

Have you, or your partner, ever used a penis pump? Ben Wa balls? Butt plugs? Cock ring? Viagra (or similar) meds?
Nope.

Except. @LostGirlTink used to run a toy thread. She talked at length about LELO Beads, which caught my interest. They're supposed to be excellent for the pelvic floor. I bought. Reading the manual was an education.

Manual: Don't worry if they fall out initially.
Me: Umm, what?!?!

I tried them a couple of times and promptly forgot about them. It was interesting. I was sore internally after, sort of like if you have penetrative sex after not having in a while.

What advice would you give younger you about sex health?
It's okay to be bored by vanilla sex. Celibacy is a viable option.

 

[Endless_Night]

Borax capsules will save your life. I wish I had found those twenty years earlier.

What is this magic?

*heads to the internet*

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

Hit the pelvic floor and give me twenty


Do you do kegel exercises?

Yes

Do you do any exercises for great sex?

Sure

401k, pension, health insurance, sexual magnificence, which are you most concerned about in your old age?

Health insurance. Followed by mental health. Also can I add the environment just for funsies?

Do you take any steps to produce more cum?

Make sure he’s plenty hydrated

What are they? Do they work?

Have you noticed a difference in your sex drive as you have aged?

Yes it increased

Have you, or your partner, ever tried any penis enlargement techniques? What were they?

No

Have you, or your partner, ever used a penis pump? Ben Wa balls? Butt plugs? Cock ring?

Cock ring, yes he used one. The vibrating one was fun.

Viagra (or similar) meds?

No

What advice would you give younger you about sex health?

I would tell myself that a higher sex drive is a gift and don’t feel ashamed or embarrassed. And what you like is not bad. And you aren’t bad for liking it. And don’t listen to anyone who tells you differently.

 

[lavendersilk]

What is this magic?

*heads to the internet*

Boric Acid Suppositories and Boron Complex Supplements for overall health popped up with a quick google search but Borax(in the states) is used for cleaning and is toxic to humans.

What advice would you give younger you about sex health?
The same advice my mother attempted to give a mortified teenage Aussie; focus on your pleasure and enjoyment. If you're not getting something out of it, it's probably not worth it.

Also, get to know your body. Understand your menstrual cycle and how it not only affects your fertility, learn how it affects your mood and sex drive.

Borax capsules will save your life. I wish I had found those twenty years earlier.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Health insurance. Followed by mental health. Also can I add the environment just for funsies?

Yes! I’ll add antibiotic resistant superbugs and another world war. Just me?

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

Yes! I’ll add antibiotic resistant superbugs and another world war. Just me?

No, not just you.

Can I add the rising tide of fascism around the globe?

 

[NRJLIVES4ever]

Hit the pelvic floor and give me twenty

Do you do kegel exercises?

I have yes. Definitely helpful. I should do them again.

Do you do any exercises for great sex?

Yoga, while not specifically for sex, did wonders for my flexibility. So...yes?

401k, pension, health insurance, sexual magnificence, which are you most concerned about in your old age?

The last one.

Do you take any steps to produce more cum? What are they? Do they work?

Not specifically? But kegels helped in this area.

Have you noticed a difference in your sex drive as you have aged?

Yeah, age is a motherfucker in this area.

Have you, or your partner, ever tried any penis enlargement techniques? What were they?

Never done this.

Have you, or your partner, ever used a penis pump?

Yes

Ben Wa balls?

Nope

Butt plugs?

Yes

Cock ring?

Yes. This is a go to for me.

Viagra (or similar) meds?

Yes

What advice would you give younger you about sex health?

Eat organic. Also eat pussy.

 

[Endless_Night]

I don’t think I have kegels.

Au contraire, sir.

Boric Acid Suppositories and Boron Complex Supplements for overall health popped up with a quick google search but Borax(in the states) is used for cleaning and is toxic to humans.

It seems that capsules are also used to restore proper vaginal pH. Who knew?

Yeah, age is a motherfucker in this area.

Up? Down? Clarity is needed, Boo!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

It seems that capsules are also used to restore proper vaginal pH. Who knew?

Not me before the age of 38.
Hormonal fluctuations make my temperamental vag throw a fit and these are incredible for reversing symptoms.

 

[Photog1rl]

Hit the pelvic floor and give me twenty

Do you do kegel exercises?

Yes.

Do you do any exercises for great sex?

Not for sex but for pelvic floor health and that in turns gives me more control of muscle contractions so it helps.

401k, pension, health insurance, sexual magnificence, which are you most concerned about in your old age?

Financial-retirement income being sufficient given our economy. I should have pension and health insurance unless the state collapses.

Do you take any steps to produce more cum? What are they? Do they work?

Nope.

Have you noticed a difference in your sex drive as you have aged?

Yes, it has increased. But it didn’t begin to really get wild until my kids were junior high age or so when my mom responsibility’s really switched.

Have you, or your partner, ever tried any penis enlargement techniques? What were they?

Other than my mouth nope.

Have you, or your partner, ever used a penis pump? Ben Wa balls? Butt plugs?

No, no, yes.

Cock ring?

No. I got him a vibrating one but he hasn’t opted to try it.

Viagra (or similar) meds?

Yes. Age and medications can be a bitch. He has found just having it has relieved some of the performance pressure and he doesn’t often need any.

What advice would you give younger you about sex health?

Similar to what both @Love_Is_Blonde I’d tell myself that there is nothing wrong with getting extremely aroused and that being wet is a thing to be proud of and enjoyed. I spent years feeling bad for being sexual and enjoying and wanting sex. Like @aussiegeekygal my mom also had great advice that I didn’t want to listen to. “Don’t do anything to a partner that they wouldn’t do to you.” Now there is nuance to that of course but I take it as be with someone that centers and focuses on your pleasure the way you do theirs.

Also, you’re never too young to strengthen your pelvic floor. Don’t pee like a horse. Control how it comes out and practice stopping midstream. Oh and you can deliver vaginally and not pee when you laugh.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Sure

Other than my mouth nope.

The two best answers so far!

 

[sydneyboy123]

I discovered my penis when I was 14 and for the next 15 years when I got married I did it constantly, five, six, seven times a week. Probably 4000 plus times. I got laid a few times, but mostly jerked off.
Got married and started fucking and thought I was through with jerking off, but I was wrong. Along came hip surgery for her and ed for me and so here I am jerking off again.

So we masturbate together, lying next to each other. It's fun. In the end, I've done much more masturbation than fucking.

 

[Lmizzler]

I discovered my penis when I was 14 and for the next 15 years when I got married I did it constantly, five, six, seven times a week. Probably 4000 plus times. I got laid a few times, but mostly jerked off.
Got married and started fucking and thought I was through with jerking off, but I was wrong. Along came hip surgery for her and ed for me and so here I am jerking off again.

So we masturbate together, lying next to each other. It's fun. In the end, I've done much more masturbation than fucking.

This sounds like a sad tale but good for you guys for figuring out a solution that works for you.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Au contraire, sir.

Is Enny telling me something kinky that I don't know about? I am the innocent one here.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Is Enny telling me something kinky that I don't know about? I am the innocent one here.

Not kinky. But you DO have pelvic floor muscles. That can be exercised.

They can improve orgasm sebsation and ejaculation control. Along with other things.

*thanks, Google *

 

[NRJLIVES4ever]

Up? Down? Clarity is needed, Boo!

I'm touched that you're so concerned for me. I do miss my 20s boners is all in saying.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Not kinky. But you DO have pelvic floor muscles. That can be exercised.

They can improve orgasm sebsation and ejaculation control. Along with other things.

*thanks, Google *

I feel like my control is just fine. I've never complained to myself about it.

And who is this orgasm Sebastian of whom you speak?

 

[Wand3rlust]

I feel like my control is just fine. I've never complained to myself about it.

And who is this orgasm Sebastian of whom you speak?

That's what comes of typing while in the sun.

I feel he should be on call.

I need an orgasm. Let's call for 'orgasm Sebastian'.

 

[Endless_Night]

Is Enny telling me something kinky that I don't know about? I am the innocent one here.

Well, I mean, maintaining good bladder control and circumventing possible erectile dysfunction might be considered kinky? By the aged.

I mean, you are forty-one.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I just got home from the gym after core strength/pelvic floor restoration work. My uterus is screaming at me for having the audacity to have an IUD and flexing any muscles in that vicinity.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I just got home from the gym after core strength/pelvic floor restoration work. My uterus is screaming at me for having the audacity to have an IUD and flexing any muscles in that vicinity.

Is it just a coincidence?