Cock Talk

[Apisto42]

Oh, you mercurial souls.

You know you love it. Plus I’m thinking about finally giving my cock a nickname based on last nights posts on here. Does “Goldie” sound like a good nickname?

I’m just glad to be the bull in this situation.
So now that we all exposed our ass-trolgies, do any of them fit the personalities?

Figures.

As for me? Sometimes it fits and sometimes it does not…

Rubber? I barely know her!


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What is your preferred method of birth control?

Vasectomy. It’s fabulous. 19 years and derivatives have not appeared.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

From the feedback I’ve heard, yes. They are able to enjoy it more because there’s less risk of pregnancy and disease…

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

I was monogamous with one partner at a time, or everyone was tested.

Is safe sex boring sex?

Nope. Stress is a mood killer.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

Trojan magnums were the best.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

Yes. 11 out of 10, would highly recommend

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

They were equally frightening.

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

Where’s the clit?

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

Is 22 years pregnant too late to have an abortion? Some days I think it should still be legal.

 

[Wand3rlust]

You know you love it. Plus I’m thinking about finally giving my cock a nickname based on last nights posts on here. Does “Goldie” sound like a good nickname?

Depends..does Goldie get the horn?....

*shows herself out*

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

What is your preferred method of birth control?

Vasectomy. For me, it made a slight change in consistency, and despite the fact I had a nightmare experience in both of mine, I'd still do it again.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

If I'm asked to wrap it up, I do. Condom sex is better than no sex.

Is safe sex boring sex?

I don't think the safety has any bearing on boring or not.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

Nope.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

Yup. Two of them.

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

I've only had 3 partners and only 1 ever used a condom.

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

Can this class get a lab portion?

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

 

[Endless_Night]

What is your preferred method of birth control?

Abstinence.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

Yes.

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

Abstinence.

Is safe sex boring sex?

Well, vanilla sex is certainly boring.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

N/A

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

No. Sure?

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

N/A

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

Variations of sex. Knowing about power exchange would have saved me years of negative self talk.

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

 

[Endless_Night]

I’m just glad to be the bull in this situation.
So now that we all exposed our ass-trolgies, do any of them fit the personalities?

My Aquarius is rising. Meaning I am supposed to be less cold and heartless than usual. Marginally.

Is 22 years pregnant too late to have an abortion? Some days I think it should still be legal.

Can this class get a lab portion?

Our sex-ed teacher had the boys and girls line up facing each other. Then look at each other's bodies for thirty seconds before changing positions.

Sort of like embarrass the crap out of each other musical chairs.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Our sex-ed teacher had the boys and girls line up facing each other. Then look at each other's bodies for thirty seconds before changing positions.

Sort of like embarrass the crap out of each other musical chairs.

Oh hell no! If a teacher did that to my kids...
And this is partially why my younger two opted to return to homeschooling.

 

[Endless_Night]

Oh hell no! If a teacher did that to my kids...
And this is partially why my younger two opted to return to homeschooling.

We were sophomores. I don't know about the guys, but the girls were mortified. Gah.

 

[Apisto42]

We were sophomores. I don't know about the guys, but the girls were mortified. Gah.

I’m sure the guys liked being given license to check out the girls. Guys do it all the time anyway, but this was teacher approved leering

 

[MedicalMuse]

Rubber? I barely know her!


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What is your preferred method of birth control?

None? Hubs had a vasectomy. I hope I’m too old to procreate, but with my luck I wouldn’t be.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

Yes. I am sensitive to latex and/or the lube on condoms. Never tried a dry one.

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

The big vasectomy! Or tubal ligation. Either or.

Is safe sex boring sex?

Nope.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

I once sold glow in the dark condoms to a couple gay guys who were going to gleefully sword fight. I thought it was oddly hot.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

Yes. Yes.

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

Oh boy. Both? I don’t want anymore babies. I also don’t want the clap.

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

So. Many. Things.
Mine was good though. He talked about warming up engines and that men are like fighter jets (fast to take off) and women are like tanks (slower to move but once you get going they can just keep going). I enjoyed the analogy. I think it was lost in most of the guys.

I’d probably ask him to go more in depth about why sex was to be saved for marriage.

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

Flavored condoms? Yay or nay.

What about pulling out? Does that even work?

 

[Cogan]

Rubber? I barely know her!


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What is your preferred method of birth control?

The one I'm using now. Vasectomy! When we agreed on not having more kids, it was an easy and one of my best decisions.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

N/A

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

When I met my wife she was on pills. But we switched to pessary and I always had condoms with me if the sex was unplanned/not at home. That worked fine for us.

Is safe sex boring sex?

No!

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

No.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

Yes! Se answer above

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

I'd say disease.

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

I don't think I have any.........

 

[Cogan]

What about pulling out? Does that even work?

From what I've learned about pulling out is that the risk is quite high since there can be sperm in pre cum as well.

 

[SixShooter14]

Rubber? I barely know her!


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What is your preferred method of birth control?

Probably surgical?

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

Probably? My ex was very allergic to latex and had her tubes tied...so I haven't worn one in many years

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

She already had the tubal ligation when we met. So it was conveniently a nonissue

Is safe sex boring sex?

it definitely doesn't have to be.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

Haven't tried in years

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

depends on the situation

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

Not applicable.....but if it were, the answer is yes

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?
*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

Lol...none all my friends were several years older than me and we were all pretty open as a group.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Rubber? I barely know her!


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What is your preferred method of birth control?

My current one is the BEST: he's had a vasectomy, I've had an ablation. We're 1000% covered. If I get preggo, watch for earthquakes & Armageddon, because it's gotta be God willing the next messiah to come.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

It doesn't affect my experience, but the ribbed ones are fun!

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

Every single form of hormonal birth control messed with me somehow. Either killed my sex drive, made me crazy anxious, or failed all together. After 2 birth control babies, he got snipped.

Is safe sex boring sex?

No, sooooo much more relaxing & fun knowing that a baby/STD is not in the cards.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

We don't use them often, but he's never complained about the fit. Condoms are more of a no clean up bonus, or I want a bumpy ride with a bit of texture.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

That was the agreement from day 1: If I have your babies, then you get a vasectomy.

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

N/A, I'm monogamous, however, if I weren't I would be far more fearful of STDs

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

Lol, I tortured our poor sex Ed teacher. I asked her all of the most awkward questions just to see what she'd say. My home was really open about sex, so none of it was news to me, so I decided to have fun with it. I had a great time

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

How long are monogamous before you're comfortable going condom free?
What's the best birth control for spontaneous sex?

 

[EctoJohn]

Wait a second, all of yours can talk?!
What the hell is wrong with mine?

 

[Mo_Bandy]

If my cock could talk it’d tell you.

 

[Endless_Night]

I don't think I've ever had this many on one post!!


Was it the Capricorn swipe or the sex-ed story?

My Aquarius is rising. Meaning I am supposed to be less cold and heartless than usual. Marginally.

Our sex-ed teacher had the boys and girls line up facing each other. Then look at each other's bodies for thirty seconds before changing positions.

Sort of like embarrass the crap out of each other musical chairs.

 

[MedicalMuse]

How long are monogamous before you're comfortable going condom free?

9 months

What's the best birth control for spontaneous sex?

A vasectomy.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

I don't think I've ever had this many on one post!!


Was it the Capricorn swipe and the sex-ed story?

Aries here. ️ No Capricorn in my chart. But I do have some Gemini. Why are we talking about zodiac? I read back some but I didn’t see what started it all.

Also sex Ed should have a mental health and breaking down stereotypes component. For instance, just because you’ve had sex once or with one person doesn’t mean you automatically have to have sex again or with another person. You get labeled as someone who has had sex and it’s assumed that that’s what that person does now. But they don’t have to! Also that boys get pressured in to things they don’t want to do. Things like that. Sex Ed should be more than just the physical part. It should be social emotional too.

 

[morelikeasong]

Rubber? I barely know her!


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What is your preferred method of birth control?
Preferred would be a vasectomy, which I hope is in my partner’s near future.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?
I was always led to believe it shouldn’t, but I’ve always hated the feel of condoms. I’ve used them, but I definitely enjoy way more without.

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?
I stopped taking the pill in my mid 20s and we’ve practiced the pull out method for the most part, when we weren’t trying to conceive. Not my favorite, for… reasons , but it was effective for us. Though I definitely know people who have had pull out babies @MedicalMuse

Is safe sex boring sex?
No!! But… I will admit that risky sex does have its appeal. Not that I’d DO it… just saying

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?
I’ve never had a partner have an obvious issue with condom fit, but what do I know?

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?
My partner is in enthusiastic agreement about getting one. Just hasn’t happened yet.

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?
Disease. Before I was with my partner, I was always on the pill so pregnancy wasn’t a big concern for me.

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?
I don’t know about asking a question but I wish they talked about the importance of masturbation for all genders, for the purpose of learning your body and being able to teach others. I remember such a big emphasis on male masturbation and wet dreams, yadda yadda, but barely a mention for the girls.
Also, consent! I think they do a better job of that in schools these days? I hope.

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?
It was submitted by me!! Prompted by a conversation about condoms that I saw on Love is Blind.

I think vasectomy is more popular here because most of us are done having kids. I’d be curious to see how the conversation might be different pre-kids.

And… do different condom brands feel different?

 

[hotwords229_A]

despite the fact I had a nightmare experience in both of mine, I'd still do it again.

Wait, why do you need two? Is that normal?

Abstinence

So you’re saying abstinence.

Our sex-ed teacher had the boys and girls line up facing each other. Then look at each other's bodies for thirty seconds before changing positions.

Sort of like embarrass the crap out of each other musical chairs.

This is horrifying.
I would have loved it.

was oddly hot.

Why were you selling condoms?

Not my favorite, for… reasons ,

Cummin on the tits?

 

[Mei5ter]

Rubber? I barely know her!

Better Late(x) than never

What is your preferred method of birth control?

Relying on her tonsils to prevent sperm reaching the fallopian tubes that way?

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

Both positively and negatively, in my experience. One partner, who was very, very concerned not to get pregnant, liked being able to see that there was a physical barrier there on top of any other birth control methods we were using. Knowing it was there helped her relax and enjoy.

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

Jointly, and as long as he appreciates that birth control is no less his responsibly than hers (which men historically haven't), you find a combination which works best for you both?

You can be more imaginative with condoms, you know. They needn't just be used vaginally.

Is safe sex boring sex?

Of course not. Well, unless you have a breeding kink, I guess? But 'safe' sex - using 'safe' to mean sex without the risk of pregnancy or disease - why does that have to be boring? There might be a lesser-known Lit thread for people who find the prospect of catching chlamydia is integral to their sexual pleasure, but that's only one step up from the Politics board.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

Yes...I wash it every night. It used to be a huge burlap sack, but I waterproofed it...

... oh all right. Some definitely fit better and easier than others, but the things stretch, you know?

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

I'd prefer not, though I'm honestly not sure why not? I'm hardly someone who defines himself by his ability to procreate or otherwise, and the procedure is trivial. I think I have an aversion to non-essential medical procedures in general (for reasons), so maybe that's it?

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

I don't have sex with a lot of people. I'm picky

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

My school didn't have one. I think asking why not would have been an excellent question.

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

I would be curious to know whether people find penetrative sex when you're trying to have babies feels different from when you're trying not to? Emotionally? Physically? Do you somehow let yourself go and lose inhibitions when you're breeding?

 

[Cogan]

What is your preferred method of birth control?
Preferred would be a vasectomy, which I hope is in my partner’s near future.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?
My partner is in enthusiastic agreement about getting one. Just hasn’t happened yet.

Why wait? I can assure you it was one of the best decisions in my life! The freedom of spontaneous sex is underrated!

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?
I don’t know about asking a question but I wish they talked about the importance of masturbation for all genders, for the purpose of learning your body and being able to teach others. I remember such a big emphasis on male masturbation and wet dreams, yadda yadda, but barely a mention for the girls.
Also, consent! I think they do a better job of that in schools these days? I hope.

I can't say what the rest of the world teach, but since my wife teaches biology (and other science subjects) sex education is on her table. And in Sweden it is on the teaching plan to educate all students about the importance of getting to know your body. And the first thing they teach when it comes to sex with a partner is consent. Do what ever you want, but make sure all involved in the activity has given their consent!

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?
It was submitted by me!! Prompted by a conversation about condoms that I saw on Love is Blind.

I think vasectomy is more popular here because most of us are done having kids. I’d be curious to see how the conversation might be different pre-kids.

I agree! It would be interesting to

And… do different condom brands feel different?

On my cock? Yes!
I tried a few brands and sorts when I used condoms (see my answer in the thread) before I found one that worked well for us.

 

[Cogan]

How long are monogamous before you're comfortable going condom free?

As soon as an STD test is presented?

What's the best birth control for spontaneous sex?

I'd say condom or vasectomy.
Before my vasectomy I'd always had condoms with me.

 

[darkelf9]

First time I was in the States and saw Trojan condoms I had a laugh about the Trojan Wars.

Many years ago I tried those "sensitive for her pleasure" condoms. Since they don't allow a try before you buy, decided to give them a test before going live. Well I tried the first one and the fucking thing wouldn't go on. The only sensitivity was the lack of blood flow to my fingers trying to stretch the fucking thing. Now I know they say they test all condoms but unlike their test machines my dick doesn't shoot out compressed air. Thinking I just picked out a dud, I tried another one and the same thing happened. They should of put a label on the side of the packet..."for pencil dicks only". Needless to say I threw the box away. "Her Pleasure" would just have to be content with a condom that wasn't part boa constrictor.

As for condoms, I don't particularly like them, but one must practice health and safety when on the job. Let's hope in this PC world they don't insist on safety shoes and safety specs as well.

 

[darkelf9]

Whenever I go commando I have to remember not to sit on my dick.
It's like a punch to the cervix. (reference to Dawn of Night's post...I'm going to remember that phrase, it's a keeper)