Cock Talk

[dawn_of_night]

Saw an earlier post stating guys are obsessed with their dicks. So then the question or questions become what do women prefer. So a quick survey if I may to get the ladies perspective. Will do this in two parts as the questions are different.

Part 1 - What is more important to women, a guy with a big cock or a big wallet?
Context: Do you prefer a guy with a large dick but no prospect of gaining wealth for future support of a future family or a guy who can provide a financially secure future but has an average sized cock?

Part 2: What is more important cock length or cock girth?
Context: Pencil dick guy or three fingers wide guy? Thought I would simplify this one. No great philosophical question here just a case of women's pure preference.

I'm sure when some people will read the above questions they might of thought this was just another guy being crude. And don't worry this is social media so you will be judged by your answer, just thought I'd throw that in as a given. Either way there will be guys who are happy with the responses.

I can make my own money.....
And I don't need you to touch my belly button on the inside .... Or outside for that matter....
But please for the love of good touch all the sides and keep it clean so I can swallow....

 

[hotwords229_A]

Half the girls in school, got it

I totally read this wrong and thought you were saying half the girls in school got your boner.

For a moment I was very impressed.

It’s a shame how one little comma can change your whole sexual history.

Also, I’m waiting until I’m 85 before I get married. We’ll see how it goes for a few years and then discuss having kids.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I'm a Gemini.

 

[darkelf9]

Around that same age I briefly dated a guy in his early 30s as well. It seemed fine at the time.

Now it makes me cringe as a bit creepy


I love average sized cocks. They’re the Goldilocks of dick - Not too big, not too small, but just right! If they happen to accompany additional financial security, bonus. And I do mean bonus because I do well enough for myself, but there’s always extra peace of mind and freedom that comes with additional levels of financial security. Also more opportunities to be generous.


Girth, in moderation, feels good to me. Length is a punch in the cervix and not fun.

Neither of these preferences really matter to me at all though. They’re thought exercises when in reality, it’s the person they’re attached to that gets me excited and there are many alternate ways to pleasure each other if needed.

Not sure I read that type of Goldilocks story. I should get out more.
Well I hope the guy who punched you in the cervix wore gloves.

 

[darkelf9]

Quick question. How many Capricorn are in this thread? Right now?

You mean goat people? Wait you mean the star sign right? Seems an odd question. Ok who's been checking out bio's
Ok I confess I is a Capricorn. I like long walks off a short pier. Watching sunsets on a rainy day. Looking at the moon on a cloudy night. And Tim Tams....well sometimes. And lets get this straight Tim Tams are biscuits not cookies.

 

[darkelf9]

I don't have a name for my cock, besides which I don't need to call it for it to cum. It doesn't play fetch either, I swear that thing is half cat.

 

[Cogan]

What has two thumbs and loves blowjobs?

Was your first blowjob experience a good one?

Yes it was. We were both very unexperienced but it was a great experience, for the both of us.

Did you ever give or receive a surprise blowjob from someone that was unexpected?

Well, my wife love to let me grow in her mouth so sometimes she just leans over when we are home alone in the sofa, pull down my underwear and let me get hard in her mouth........
The first time was a great surprise, and now it's still a surprise when it happens. But after 30 years as married I can tell what is going to happen sometimes.

What are some good etiquette pointers you would like to share regarding blowjobs?

As pointed out before. Communication! Always! Before, during and after. That goes with all sexual activities actually.

If you do not like getting/giving blowjobs, but your partner does, how do you manage that in your relationship?

I had a girlfriend just before I was 20 that didn't like to give blowjobs. It was a turnoff to see and the relation ended after a year. (Not because of the lack of blowjobs.)

Do you prefer to cum in the mouth, on the breasts or all over her hair (like most women desire )?

I find it very sexy to cum in her mouth! But I respect if she has other wishes.

Describe your best blowjob experience:

I can't choose one. But I'd say every blowjob that the woman has enjoyed as much as I've done are the best.

Have you received a blowjob from a dude? How’d that go?

No, not yet.

 

[drobert44]

Absolutely, maybe not in that term, but I would understand if he communicated that missionary with the lights dimmed was the only kind of sex he'd ever initiate, and it would be up to me to fight tooth & nail for any kind of creativity in.

I was a peer educator for an Aids education project, had tons of psych books on paraphelias, My brothers barely tried to hide their porn, and my oldest brother would get high and draw his own porn which bis to this day some of the kinkiest BDSM shit I've ever seen. I wasn't sheltered, But I was under the impression that once you get married, it's a no holds bard sex-travaganza. I was wrong.

I was so damned naive I wasnt even sure what gay meant.............they were called queers. I didnt do anything wild until I was 70, and began dating sissies.............love it!

 

[Apisto42]

Oh please, you've got Capricorns all over the place in here and it's all Gemini-less. That's fine. I don't need my twin

Sorry to leave you hanging bro, I was busy last night.

 

[Endless_Night]

Sorry to leave you hanging bro, I was busy last night.

Oh, you mercurial souls.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I’m just glad to be the bull in this situation.
So now that we all exposed our ass-trolgies, do any of them fit the personalities?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Rubber? I barely know her!

What is your preferred method of birth control?
Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?
For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?
Is safe sex boring sex?
Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?
Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?
If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?
If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?
*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

 

[Apisto42]

Oh, you mercurial souls.

You know you love it. Plus I’m thinking about finally giving my cock a nickname based on last nights posts on here. Does “Goldie” sound like a good nickname?

I’m just glad to be the bull in this situation.
So now that we all exposed our ass-trolgies, do any of them fit the personalities?

Figures.

As for me? Sometimes it fits and sometimes it does not…

Rubber? I barely know her!

What is your preferred method of birth control?

Vasectomy. It’s fabulous. 19 years and derivatives have not appeared.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

From the feedback I’ve heard, yes. They are able to enjoy it more because there’s less risk of pregnancy and disease…

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

I was monogamous with one partner at a time, or everyone was tested.

Is safe sex boring sex?

Nope. Stress is a mood killer.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

Trojan magnums were the best.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

Yes. 11 out of 10, would highly recommend

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

They were equally frightening.

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

Where’s the clit?

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

Is 22 years pregnant too late to have an abortion? Some days I think it should still be legal.

 

[Wand3rlust]

You know you love it. Plus I’m thinking about finally giving my cock a nickname based on last nights posts on here. Does “Goldie” sound like a good nickname?

Depends..does Goldie get the horn?....

*shows herself out*

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

What is your preferred method of birth control?

Vasectomy. For me, it made a slight change in consistency, and despite the fact I had a nightmare experience in both of mine, I'd still do it again.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

If I'm asked to wrap it up, I do. Condom sex is better than no sex.

Is safe sex boring sex?

I don't think the safety has any bearing on boring or not.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

Nope.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

Yup. Two of them.

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

I've only had 3 partners and only 1 ever used a condom.

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

Can this class get a lab portion?

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

 

[Endless_Night]

What is your preferred method of birth control?

Abstinence.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

Yes.

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

Abstinence.

Is safe sex boring sex?

Well, vanilla sex is certainly boring.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

N/A

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

No. Sure?

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

N/A

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

Variations of sex. Knowing about power exchange would have saved me years of negative self talk.

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

 

[Endless_Night]

I’m just glad to be the bull in this situation.
So now that we all exposed our ass-trolgies, do any of them fit the personalities?

My Aquarius is rising. Meaning I am supposed to be less cold and heartless than usual. Marginally.

Is 22 years pregnant too late to have an abortion? Some days I think it should still be legal.

Can this class get a lab portion?

Our sex-ed teacher had the boys and girls line up facing each other. Then look at each other's bodies for thirty seconds before changing positions.

Sort of like embarrass the crap out of each other musical chairs.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Our sex-ed teacher had the boys and girls line up facing each other. Then look at each other's bodies for thirty seconds before changing positions.

Sort of like embarrass the crap out of each other musical chairs.

Oh hell no! If a teacher did that to my kids...
And this is partially why my younger two opted to return to homeschooling.

 

[Endless_Night]

Oh hell no! If a teacher did that to my kids...
And this is partially why my younger two opted to return to homeschooling.

We were sophomores. I don't know about the guys, but the girls were mortified. Gah.

 

[Apisto42]

We were sophomores. I don't know about the guys, but the girls were mortified. Gah.

I’m sure the guys liked being given license to check out the girls. Guys do it all the time anyway, but this was teacher approved leering

 

[MedicalMuse]

Rubber? I barely know her!

What is your preferred method of birth control?

None? Hubs had a vasectomy. I hope I’m too old to procreate, but with my luck I wouldn’t be.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

Yes. I am sensitive to latex and/or the lube on condoms. Never tried a dry one.

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

The big vasectomy! Or tubal ligation. Either or.

Is safe sex boring sex?

Nope.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

I once sold glow in the dark condoms to a couple gay guys who were going to gleefully sword fight. I thought it was oddly hot.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

Yes. Yes.

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

Oh boy. Both? I don’t want anymore babies. I also don’t want the clap.

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

So. Many. Things.
Mine was good though. He talked about warming up engines and that men are like fighter jets (fast to take off) and women are like tanks (slower to move but once you get going they can just keep going). I enjoyed the analogy. I think it was lost in most of the guys.

I’d probably ask him to go more in depth about why sex was to be saved for marriage.

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

Flavored condoms? Yay or nay.

What about pulling out? Does that even work?

 

[Cogan]

Rubber? I barely know her!

What is your preferred method of birth control?

The one I'm using now. Vasectomy! When we agreed on not having more kids, it was an easy and one of my best decisions.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

N/A

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

When I met my wife she was on pills. But we switched to pessary and I always had condoms with me if the sex was unplanned/not at home. That worked fine for us.

Is safe sex boring sex?

No!

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

No.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

Yes! Se answer above

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

I'd say disease.

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

I don't think I have any.........

 

[Cogan]

What about pulling out? Does that even work?

From what I've learned about pulling out is that the risk is quite high since there can be sperm in pre cum as well.

 

[SixShooter14]

Rubber? I barely know her!

What is your preferred method of birth control?

Probably surgical?

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

Probably? My ex was very allergic to latex and had her tubes tied...so I haven't worn one in many years

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

She already had the tubal ligation when we met. So it was conveniently a nonissue

Is safe sex boring sex?

it definitely doesn't have to be.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

Haven't tried in years

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

depends on the situation

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

Not applicable.....but if it were, the answer is yes

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?
*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

Lol...none all my friends were several years older than me and we were all pretty open as a group.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Rubber? I barely know her!

What is your preferred method of birth control?

My current one is the BEST: he's had a vasectomy, I've had an ablation. We're 1000% covered. If I get preggo, watch for earthquakes & Armageddon, because it's gotta be God willing the next messiah to come.

Does condom use affect women’s enjoyment of sex?

It doesn't affect my experience, but the ribbed ones are fun!

For most (all) guys, using a condom is not nearly as enjoyable, in some cases not enjoyable at all, for many women the pill causes problems, so how do you navigate that?

Every single form of hormonal birth control messed with me somehow. Either killed my sex drive, made me crazy anxious, or failed all together. After 2 birth control babies, he got snipped.

Is safe sex boring sex?

No, sooooo much more relaxing & fun knowing that a baby/STD is not in the cards.

Have you ever found a condom that fits just right?

We don't use them often, but he's never complained about the fit. Condoms are more of a no clean up bonus, or I want a bumpy ride with a bit of texture.

Have you, or your partner, had a vasectomy? Would you/he?

That was the agreement from day 1: If I have your babies, then you get a vasectomy.

If you use condoms, due to sex with a lot of people, are you more afraid of pregnancy or disease?

N/A, I'm monogamous, however, if I weren't I would be far more fearful of STDs

If you could go back and ask your Sex Ed teacher a question, what would it be?

Lol, I tortured our poor sex Ed teacher. I asked her all of the most awkward questions just to see what she'd say. My home was really open about sex, so none of it was news to me, so I decided to have fun with it. I had a great time

*This topic was submitted, what questions about condoms, safe sex, birth control should I have asked?

How long are monogamous before you're comfortable going condom free?
What's the best birth control for spontaneous sex?