Cocksuckers ... can a 'straight' man like sucking cock

[tristantrotsky]

Call me what ever you want. I just like sex with other attractive adults. I love sucking tits and cocks. I love fucking pussy and ass. I love getting a hard cock up my ass. Kissing is nice. I can enjoy 69 with almost anyone. I just love sexual intimacy and the satisfaction it brings.

Sucking cock and swallowing generous amounts of cum is natural and healthy, it can only provide joy and happiness in a sad world. Be proud. Suck more cock. Bigger is better. Always say 'please' before sucking his cock, and 'thank you' once you've swallowed his load. This is a basic courtesy. He is doing you the favour by allowing you the pleasure of his cock, never forget that. Be grateful. Know your place. Suck more cock...

 

[tristantrotsky]

Maybe I'm strange in this, but I never say please and thank you when I'm sucking a man's cock. If anything at all along those lines is said, it's the other way around. I regard myself as doing him the favor of sucking his cock and taking his load. Of course, it's pleasurable for me, otherwise I wouldn't be sucking his dick. As far as knowing my place goes, I never think of sex in those terms at all. I'm not there for someone to use simply as a place to have an orgasm. In my mind, there is a mutuality in sex, even a quick blow and go, that reflects the fact of two horny people taking care of a need. This came up in another thread. I'm not a "cocksucker." I'm a "cock sucker" because sucking cock is one of the things I do. I also love having my big cock worshipped, I love fucking a nice ass, I love kissing a man, I love lots of body contact, I sometimes like to get fucked. None of these sexual activities define or label me. I don't need to "know my place" when I have sex with another man. I guess that's why the submission/humiliation/knowing-my-place or whatever the hell you want to call it, doesn't appeal to me at all. I know that many people do feel that way, but it's an attitude that is completely foreign to me.

Well Rob, we can only speak from our own orientation and preferences. There is always a certain amount of playful role-acting in sexual encounters of this nature. There are certainly some cocks I've been fortunate enough to meet along the way that inspire my worship and complete and absolute submission. Breathtaking cocks that turn my legs to jelly and my brain to a mindless mush of slavish devotion. When that happens it's so wonderful I can scarce believe my luck. Perhaps I have a predisposition to look up to and respect a more dominant man? If so, I'm content with that...
Sex is a diverse and beautiful thing...

 

[Astroman72]

... I guess that's why the submission/humiliation/knowing-my-place or whatever the hell you want to call it, doesn't appeal to me at all. I know that many people do feel that way, but it's an attitude that is completely foreign to me.

Yep, that goes for me as well.

 

[martinfs]

This is one of those never ending discussions, its all down to how you like to think of yourself, how you view others, and if you think categories matter.
Me, I like to have sex with people, gender matters as much as eye colour.
If a guy said 'I'm straight but I'd like to suck your cock' the only thing I'd have to ask is 'Can I suck yours too?'

 

[tristantrotsky]

This is one of those never ending discussions, its all down to how you like to think of yourself, how you view others, and if you think categories matter.
Me, I like to have sex with people, gender matters as much as eye colour.
If a guy said 'I'm straight but I'd like to suck your cock' the only thing I'd have to ask is 'Can I suck yours too?'

Your response makes a lot of sense, Martinfs...
Let's just stop arguing about it and get on with the cocksucking...
It is every man’s basic human right to have his cock sucked, it is one of the great joys of life, why deny yourself? And if your wife or female partner won’t suck you off (and they are perfectly entitled to refuse), it is entirely justifiable to find a more receptive friend, or the friendly neighbourhood faggot who will take pleasure in sucking you off.
It is also every man’s basic human right to suck a cock if and when the mood takes him. It is one of the great joys of life, why deny yourself?
We should all do it a whole lot more.
I’ve sucked a lot of cocks, and never regretted a single one. I intend to suck a whole lot more. It’s the cock-sucker's way.

 

[searchn469vegas]

i am not straight. i am not gay. the term i guess is bi. when with a women, i would love to eat her out and have her enjoy a great orgasm.
if i am with a man there is really no doubt that i would be willing to suck his cock and make sure he is completely satisfied.
if i am with a shemale, i certainly would be glad to have her fuck my face and have full explosion of her fruits.
no matter which gender i am with, i believe that part of the experience is the foreplay that leads up to the person being fully relaxed and have no regrets.
if at all possible, it would only be the first step and continue with mutual 69, avoiding cumming over and over going just to the edge.

 

[Retnuhkcoc2020]

I am a married man who is a closet cock sucker. i do consider myself straight, but at the same time i love sucking cock. So for me i don’t really like to put a label on it but i do say bi every now and again. But at the end of the day if people of the same sex are just having some fun and making each other feel good what does it matter if you are straight, bi, or gay.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I am a married man who is a closet cock sucker. i do consider myself straight, but at the same time i love sucking cock. So for me i don’t really like to put a label on it but i do say bi every now and again. But at the end of the day if people of the same sex are just having some fun and making each other feel good what does it matter if you are straight, bi, or gay.

Couldn't agree more. Who needs labels? I happen to be male and I happen to love sex, whether it involves a cock or a cunt. (Preferably both.)

 

[CoronaExtra43]

I have always considered myself to be straight. Love a hot, wet, pussy, and pleasing a woman, way to much to be gay. But with that being said. I find myself, with a huge fascination, with beautiful cocks. I have never sucked or played with another mans cock. But given the right circumstances, I find the thought very arousing! Definitely looking to for fill that fantasy one day???

 

[Travler99921]

I think that by definition if a man sucks cock he is either gay or bi. What sucking cock revealed to me was how important giving oral sex was to my sexual satisfaction. Before i sucked a guy for the first time I came out to my wife. That lead to many chats.

In those chats we discussed many aspects of our sexuality. One thing that came out was that my wife wanted more cunnilingus. She wanted to climax while I was licking her rather than having cunnilingus as part of foreplay . It turned out she was multi orgasmic from cunnilingus. I found out that it was very satisfying to give her oral sex and then have her help me masturbate.

While a label might be correct it can also be incomplete, or it can hide aspects of personality.

 

[Escierto]

I think that by definition if a man sucks cock he is either gay or bi. What sucking cock revealed to me was how important giving oral sex was to my sexual satisfaction. Before i sucked a guy for the first time I came out to my wife. That lead to many chats.

In those chats we discussed many aspects of our sexuality. One thing that came out was that my wife wanted more cunnilingus. She wanted to climax while I was licking her rather than having cunnilingus as part of foreplay . It turned out she was multi orgasmic from cunnilingus. I found out that it was very satisfying to give her oral sex and then have her help me masturbate.

While a label might be correct it can also be incomplete, or it can hide aspects of personality.

So by sucking my transgender girlfriend’s cock, that makes me gay or bi? It’s fine by me actually. I love her and I am happy to be gay for her.

 

[2tallpaul]

I'm confused by this whole thread/question.
A man can identify as a woman and a woman can identify as a man, so why should there be any issue if a cocksucker identifies as straight?

What's wrong identifying as BI. Plus its nobody's business. If they are there to pass judgement, don't feed them the info. Comment is intended to be supportive,

 

[pcarp]

What's wrong identifying as BI. Plus its nobody's business. If they are there to pass judgement, don't feed them the info. Comment is intended to be supportive,

I never said anything was "wrong" with identifying as anything. The OP didnt ask about anything being wrong with it either. He asked if a straight man can enjoy sucking cock. It appears to me that you have a reading comprehension issue or a chip on your shoulder.

 

[2tallpaul]

I never said anything was "wrong" with identifying as anything. The OP didnt ask about anything being wrong with it either. He asked if a straight man can enjoy sucking cock. It appears to me that you have a reading comprehension issue or a chip on your shoulder.

That's why I put the ending on there. Not trying to pick on anyone. I worked in the furniture industry with the Nations largest furniture seller. About one fourth of the customers where gay or bi or whatever. Managers always made unprofessional comments at morning meetings. Showed employee applications that were on 'gay' people. Brought up their Facebook pages etc. Not so much a chip on my shoulder as a harsh writer. Thank you.

 

[Jeph77]

I have always considered myself to be straight. Love a hot, wet, pussy, and pleasing a woman, way to much to be gay. But with that being said. I find myself, with a huge fascination, with beautiful cocks. I have never sucked or played with another mans cock. But given the right circumstances, I find the thought very arousing! Definitely looking to for fill that fantasy one day???

Some lucky schlub will enjoy your maiden voyage. Seamen, get ready to ship out! Thar he blows!

 

[nudeguy76]

i chatted with a guy tonight. he wants me to suck his cock. not going to suck mine. im ok with that. im meeting him after work tomorrow. i dont want to label anyone. if he wants to be straight and just have his dick sucked, thats fine. im just looking forward to giving him head. hes nervous about experimenting

 

[Duncan113]

Yes. And in this I think the issue is that the labels straight and gay, at the actual moment the two guys are there, staring at each other, maybe with one guy's hard dick out, kind of go out the window. There are feelings that arise spontaneously and unexpectedly, and only because a sudden, unanticipated scene occurs. As I've written elsewhere, if I have a roommate, no thought given to his sexual orientation, and I walked into the living room one day to find him naked, with a huge, think hard cock out, him staring at me, me realizing he'd been waiting for this, to set me up, knowing he could turn me, a flood of new feelings would overpower me, I think, and I'd be down on his cock in a second.

 

[nudeguy76]

Yes. And in this I think the issue is that the labels straight and gay, at the actual moment the two guys are there, staring at each other, maybe with one guy's hard dick out, kind of go out the window. There are feelings that arise spontaneously and unexpectedly, and only because a sudden, unanticipated scene occurs. As I've written elsewhere, if I have a roommate, no thought given to his sexual orientation, and I walked into the living room one day to find him naked, with a huge, think hard cock out, him staring at me, me realizing he'd been waiting for this, to set me up, knowing he could turn me, a flood of new feelings would overpower me, I think, and I'd be down on his cock in a second.

a friend has enlightened me to just be sex positive. sex should be and is pleasurable and fun and satisfying. if you walked in and saw your roommate and his wonderful hard cock and you thought first about what others might label and think of you? f everyone else. you know what to do. dont label it. be sex positive

 

[69plus1]

I think if we stop putting labels on the act we could like it a lot more.
Quit worrying about being queer or some other antiquated label and just enjoy it.

 

[madmatt618]

I think if we stop putting labels on the act we could like it a lot more.
Quit worrying about being queer or some other antiquated label and just enjoy it.

Couldn’t agree more… it’s just enjoyable making someone else feel good, and feeling good myself

 

[Elite_Goblin]

What a tough question. If you ask "can a STRAIGHT man enjoy sucking cock"? Then you have already affixed a label onto that person. If you want to be technical, I would say he is bisexual at the point that he is attracted to the idea and wants to act upon it, or has already done the deed.

I have absolutely no attraction towards seeing another man. None. I will say that I admire an athlete's body, but this comes from me doing fitness for years, and being appreciative of the art he has bestowed to his body through daily efforts. (Like a painter or carpenter admiring another artist's work)

That being said, I love when my wife sucks and swallows. Only once or twice has she been actually to get it perfect, but for those times it was heaven on earth. I enjoying sucking on her breasts and spending time on her pus/clit. Not only do I lick her clit, but also suck on it, like a mini-dick. (am I bi because I sucked her clit like a little dick? Am I bi because I would suck my own cock if I could? Am I bi because I have eaten her out after I gave her a nice creampie? funny huh? ) I just love the feeling she gives me when sucking me, and wish I could give her the same experience that I get from her. Not to mention, that I would love to have that awesome feeling much, much more. The world would be a better place, if people were just de-stressed like this.

So, I can see where a man would want to suck another cock. It lets him participate in the event (but in a different way) that is highly sensual and pleasurable.
I can also see where a man would allow another man to suck his cock. Not just for the pleasure he receives, but also in knowing that the sucker is enjoying it too.
Unless you have a wife that just craves cock and cum (about as likely as Santa Claus tanning at the beach), then finding another partner to share pleasure is understandable.

Personally, I am just not attracted to other men. Would I still suck on my wife's clit if it grew, pulsated, and filled my mouth? You bet. What if she squirted like me when orgasming? You bet, I would milk every drop too.
What does that make me? (no need to answer)

It was well said that "labels are for cans". Just be who you are, and enjoy.
peace.

 

[n2kay17]

It's an acquired taste. Many women & men are enthusiastic cock suckers; they're doing it for mutual satisfaction. Next time you're getting blown open your eyes to confirm it. Let me know if I'm wrong as there are the less interested partners out there. My take is if you've done it once and want to do it more, to really get into the experience, then you love sucking cock. If you haven't tried it, it's an open question.

 

[55ChevyBelAir]

So many wonderful and truthful responses to this thread! Remember, all of these labels, whether they be straight, bi, lesbian, gay pansexual, the list goes on and on, are simply that. Labels. WE define who and what we are NOT society.

If you are true to yourself, and you are with who you love, then labels are completely arbitrary. As Andrea pointed out, her and her husband having a wonderful loving relationship, so who is anyone to question or label them, themselves or anyone else?

In my opinion we are are all beautiful "luminous" beings and any perceived hangups are simply leftovers from insecurities that arbitrary societal programming has incorrectly led us to believe.

If you believe that you are gay, then you are. If you believe you are straight, then so be it. Sexuality is a spectrum. Just make sure you love yourself. That's all that matters in the end.

Such a remarkable observation, filled with insight, empathy, understanding and wisdom. Love your ability to summarize and comment on prior entries, highlight key issues and provide supportive encouragement. Wise comments on the arbitrary nature of labels, societal programming and the sexual spectrum. And smiled at the poetic beauty of, "we are all beautiful 'luminous' beings." Your beautiful, luminous nature was on display.

 

[nudeguy76]

What a tough question. If you ask "can a STRAIGHT man enjoy sucking cock"? Then you have already affixed a label onto that person. If you want to be technical, I would say he is bisexual at the point that he is attracted to the idea and wants to act upon it, or has already done the deed.

I have absolutely no attraction towards seeing another man. None. I will say that I admire an athlete's body, but this comes from me doing fitness for years, and being appreciative of the art he has bestowed to his body through daily efforts. (Like a painter or carpenter admiring another artist's work)

That being said, I love when my wife sucks and swallows. Only once or twice has she been actually to get it perfect, but for those times it was heaven on earth. I enjoying sucking on her breasts and spending time on her pus/clit. Not only do I lick her clit, but also suck on it, like a mini-dick. (am I bi because I sucked her clit like a little dick? Am I bi because I would suck my own cock if I could? Am I bi because I have eaten her out after I gave her a nice creampie? funny huh? ) I just love the feeling she gives me when sucking me, and wish I could give her the same experience that I get from her. Not to mention, that I would love to have that awesome feeling much, much more. The world would be a better place, if people were just de-stressed like this.

So, I can see where a man would want to suck another cock. It lets him participate in the event (but in a different way) that is highly sensual and pleasurable.
I can also see where a man would allow another man to suck his cock. Not just for the pleasure he receives, but also in knowing that the sucker is enjoying it too.
Unless you have a wife that just craves cock and cum (about as likely as Santa Claus tanning at the beach), then finding another partner to share pleasure is understandable.

Personally, I am just not attracted to other men. Would I still suck on my wife's clit if it grew, pulsated, and filled my mouth? You bet. What if she squirted like me when orgasming? You bet, I would milk every drop too.
What does that make me? (no need to answer)

It was well said that "labels are for cans". Just be who you are, and enjoy.
peace.

i like the santa tanning line. i agree. id be jealous of the guy with that wife. im sure they are out there. somewhere...lol.

 

[nudeguy76]

It's an acquired taste. Many women & men are enthusiastic cock suckers; they're doing it for mutual satisfaction. Next time you're getting blown open your eyes to confirm it. Let me know if I'm wrong as there are the less interested partners out there. My take is if you've done it once and want to do it more, to really get into the experience, then you love sucking cock. If you haven't tried it, it's an open question.

im "enthusiastic". i like giving head. i know i give great head. because i like performing the act and get into it, the guy likes it even more. i get referrals