Come out of hiding thread

*hugs*

welcome katt_g

thank you for finally posting!



This is totally me too.



there are definitely some cliqish groups here.

those boundaries are largely a matter of perception i find, most of us gladly welcome intelligent discourse from a new corner.

ignore the clique and just post your thoughts. There is always more than enough room for another voice.




me too.

i am glad to find kindred hearts here!
i feel very welcomed!:D
 
Cyn.... I like your avatar!

That makes two of us....purrrrrrrr. :cattail:

no no three; though i usually refrain from commenting on anyone's avatar.

is the red i see a mouth or a collar?


Thanks, guys. :eek: And the red is my collar, you can see a little of the O ring, too. I put another pic on my profile where you can see a little more of the collar.

I'm not usuallysuch an exhibitionist, but I really liked those photos and we had a really good visit. :D
 
Welcome to the BDSM forums, katt g! Please don't be shy about posting. Folks here are almost always helpful.
 
thank you for this thread! i have posted a bit in other areas, but have been lurking and reluctant here on the bdsm threads.

there are probably a couple of reasons for this...

i am still figuring out how i fit in to this world. i know when i first started reading posts here, i felt like a kid looking through the picture window at something i desperately wanted to be a part of. i have had a small amount of real life experience, which only served to make that desire stronger.

i have read some of the posts that mention a 'clique' aspect, but i think i would identify more with the posts that say this is like a family. as a beginner, i felt intimidated by how everyone seemed to be familiar with each other. but this is completely related to my own insecurities, not to any exclusion attitudes of anyone here. it is a family that i look at and want to belong to.

*blush* i am afraid i will not say things that are interesting. i am humbled by the often quite eloquent posts i see here.

i worry i have no idea what i am talking about (specific to bdsm topics) becuase at times i simply feel confused. i know what feels right when i see or experience it, but often have trouble expressing it.

well...i hope this wasn't too long. i think i have been bottled up wanting to post for a while...
:D

Well be careful posting here can be addictive.

no no three; though i usually refrain from commenting on anyone's avatar.

is the red i see a mouth or a collar?

She truly did photo well. :)

Welcome to the BDSM forums, katt g! Please don't be shy about posting. Folks here are almost always helpful.

And very sooo sweet and innocent. :devil:
 
Hi all and especially katt. :)

I've been to a lovely party tonight and realize I am actually not even remotely sober, lol.

One of my oldest girlfriends had an all girls party. Well she's not old, just we have been friends since forever.

It was so much fun, but as someone pointed out we talked a little too much about our kids, of course. they seem to take over your life, don't they.

Snow and cold outside and I had no key to the door to my house, so I was slighlty worried when I came to my street and didn't see a soul, but luckily someone left the door ajar and I didn't freeze to death. Yay!

:kiss:
 
Guess I'll de-lurk long enough to say hello.

Ta-da, shazam, hello, greetings, dosvidanya and so on.

Yup. Job done.
 
thank you so much! and there are truly days when i feel i need all the help and direction i can get!



indeed...well maybe i am due for a new addiction:D

Well then will just have to find you a nice warm place to knell... err I mean relax. lol
 
Hi all and especially katt. :)

I've been to a lovely party tonight and realize I am actually not even remotely sober, lol.

One of my oldest girlfriends had an all girls party. Well she's not old, just we have been friends since forever.

It was so much fun, but as someone pointed out we talked a little too much about our kids, of course. they seem to take over your life, don't they.

Snow and cold outside and I had no key to the door to my house, so I was slighlty worried when I came to my street and didn't see a soul, but luckily someone left the door ajar and I didn't freeze to death. Yay!

:kiss:

Maybe a good spanking will warm part of you. :devil:
 
this gave me a chuckle.

Yes, well, this is an internet forum after all. lol


And apropos to nothing: Truthiness. Don't you just love that word.

I can't think of any other good lines from Buttercup, soooo... Hello, my name in Inigo Montoyo. You keeled my father, prepare to die.
 
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Hi all and especially katt. :)

I've been to a lovely party tonight and realize I am actually not even remotely sober, lol.

One of my oldest girlfriends had an all girls party. Well she's not old, just we have been friends since forever.

It was so much fun, but as someone pointed out we talked a little too much about our kids, of course. they seem to take over your life, don't they.

Snow and cold outside and I had no key to the door to my house, so I was slighlty worried when I came to my street and didn't see a soul, but luckily someone left the door ajar and I didn't freeze to death. Yay!

:kiss:
Hello, my darling girl! Glad you had a good time and that you got home safely. Just, let's be a little more careful about that key, please. :kiss:
 
had my wife not lost her job we were planning to attend norwescon this year. I was going to wear my wedding coat (a long plack period brocade coat), die my hair black and get a glove with 6 fingers.

villains are always my favorite costumes, and it's been so long since I got to wear a descent costume :(

as things stand, we're not going to con this year.
I've never been to any of the cons around here and I really should look into them. Norwescon sounds like it would be interesting, and my husband knows quite a few of the folks behind PAX (although really I just want to see Jonathan Coulton).

The costume sounds fun. I hope your wife finds a new job soon. My husband has started to look seriously. There's not a lot out there and right now the best prospect would mean a move out of state. *sigh*
 
Hello, my darling girl! Glad you had a good time and that you got home safely. Just, let's be a little more careful about that key, please. :kiss:


Got my keys back today. Including keys to laundryroom, basement....
No more excuses I suppose. :eek:
 
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