Comparing & Measuring Dicks

I've never been measured by somebody else and have never compared or wanted to compare. I never saw the use of bragging about it anyway – and that's while being above average, in view of the scientifically determined statistics.

During my later teens, I did measure myself just once, because the budding scientist inside me was curious about the difference between flaccid and erect. Shortly afterwards, naïve as I was, I made the mistake of casually mentioning that erect length to my sister, who almost immediately told our mother, causing both to burst out in laughter – because I'd bothered to measure, not because of the actual number. They'd both seen me naked before already, so my flaccid length was not a secret anyway. At the time my sister did what she did, I mostly felt betrayed, not embarrassed, or proud, or whatever else.

Unless one is either pathologically small or large, size is not the all determining factor. Unless for porn professionals, obviously, but everyone around here will know how fake/artificial/... most porn is anyway.
 
causing both to burst out in laughter – because I'd bothered to measure, not because of the actual number.
I'm sorry to hear this. I fucking hate bullying, especially when it comes from a parent. And that's what you were subjected to.

For absolutely no good reason, dick size gets mentioned constantly in our culture, so it's predictable that every young man will measure his at some point. Instead of shaming you, your mom should have shamed your sister for laughing and betraying your trust then she should have assured you that whatever size your dick is - it's fine. She should have acted like a responsible parent rather than another bully on the playground. She should have been quick to assure you that dick size is virtually meaningless. And that your curiosity about it is totally normal.

I see from your ID that you're gay. I hope for your sake your mom and sister did a better job of being supportive as you grappled with the challenges of coming out.
 
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I've always known I was big b/c of reactions from partners (not that there's been so many) and inability to buy proper fitting condoms ANYWHERE, inc. sex shops. (Nowadays, there are places on line).

Finally, after years of marriage and after my wife started having pain during sex - even with lots of lube - she measured it. Like most people do she grabbed a ruler and just measured from whatever angle gave the biggest result (but not inc. balls). Was something like 9 1/4" . It's not - she just didn't measure properly.

Wanting proper measurements for her to discuss with her OBGYN I read more about length on-line and measured it again, properly - which is along the top with end of ruler pressed into pubic bone. My length is actually 8 1/8" and girth 6 1/4 the entire length.

As I've described already in several threads, having a big dick is way more problematic than advantageous. BJ's make jaws hurt and usually involve teeth scraping, anal is impossible w/out pain despite tons of lube & pre-stretching and even PIV can be challenging w/out bumping her cervix from any damn angle. ..And getting older makes everything worse for the female partner of a guy w/ a big dick

..If you have an avg. dick, be thankful. Forget the stupid big-dick fetishizing in Porn and pop culture.
My dick measures around 7.25 in length, but 5.5 in girth. I had the good fortune to masturbate with my cousin a few times over a 10 year period. He has a micro dick that is about 3.5 in length and very thin like a boy cock. Wow from my times with him, I’m really onboard with small dicks. I would love to find a local buddy with a cock like his.
 
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