Erodicus
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Bit older and a bit taller and heavier, but the critical dimension is the same.
Comparing & Measuring Dicks
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VDrago_1369
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Can't say I've ever compared mine with someone else, but I've shared plenty of times, and have stroked with those both smaller and larger than me.
I laughed at the last line. True!
CuriousJInLA
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Fair points all around. I should never generalize. And probably my wife likes to share those thingsI'm sure plenty do, but this is one of those things that varies wildly from person to person. The first time my wife and I talked about it she was shocked that anybody discussed this. Says she's never in her life talked about penis size with friends. She had heard the term "well endowed" in a joking way in something on TV and asked what it meant.I explained she had a well endowed husband and that there were women out there who preferred that. She couldn't believe it. No joke!
Sorry... but consider me very skeptical of your claim. Studies aggregate data from all over the world. They don't grow 'em bigger in Australia, or even in Africa. Nor do they grow 'em smaller in Asia. If penis length had such big regional and racial differences wouldn't there be a corresponding difference in the depth of women's Vaginas b/w countries and races? There isn't because there isn't.I can tell you my wife had plenty of partners all over eight inches and didn’t have to meet 250 to get them and eight inches was the minimum length must grow them bigger in Australia
The truth is, there is very little difference in Penis size b/w countries, even b/w races. Penis size DOES scale w/ body size but only slightly. Something like an add'l 1/10" of penis length for every 3" of body length. ..A correlation, but not much.
One possibility: Does your wife date primarily Porn stars or Chippendales dancers?
..If so, that would explain it b/c those are careers where a big dick may be a prerequisite of hire.Also, did your wife actually pull out a ruler to measure all these dicks? ..And did she measure them correctly? Many penises look to be "over eight inches" if you measure from the tip of the glans to the bottom of the scrotum.
The next time ask you see a Urologist ask him/ her how rare an "over eight inch" (properly measured!!) dick is.
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Damn, dude, you are confusing them with the facts. On Lit, everyone has an 8 inch dick!Sorry... but consider me very skeptical of your claim. Studies aggregate data from all over the world. They don't grow 'em bigger in Australia, or even in Africa. Nor do they grow 'em smaller in Asia. If penis length had such big regional and racial differences wouldn't there be a corresponding difference in the depth of women's Vaginas b/w countries and races? There isn't because there isn't.
The truth is, there is very little difference in Penis size b/w countries, even b/w races. Size DOES scale w/ body size but only slightly. Something like an add'l 1/10" of penis length for every 3" of body length. ..A correlation, but not much.
One possibility: Does your wife date primarily Porn stars or Chippendales (Male Dancers)?
Also, did your wife actually pull out a ruler to measure all these dicks? ..And did she measure them correctly? Many penises look to be "over eight inches" if you measure from the tip of the glans to the bottom of the scrotum.
The next time ask you see a Urologist ask him/ her how rare an "over eight inch" (properly measured!!) dick is.
CuriousJInLA
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Seems like that
Most people who quote statistics do it so they can excuse their own lack of size we had 30 years in the lifestyle and were only let down three timesSorry... but consider me very skeptical of your claim. Studies aggregate data from all over the world. They don't grow 'em bigger in Australia, or even in Africa. Nor do they grow 'em smaller in Asia. If penis length had such big regional and racial differences wouldn't there be a corresponding difference in the depth of women's Vaginas b/w countries and races? There isn't because there isn't.
The truth is, there is very little difference in Penis size b/w countries, even b/w races. Penis size DOES scale w/ body size but only slightly. Something like an add'l 1/10" of penis length for every 3" of body length. ..A correlation, but not much.
One possibility: Does your wife date primarily Porn stars or Chippendales dancers?
Also, did your wife actually pull out a ruler to measure all these dicks? ..And did she measure them correctly? Many penises look to be "over eight inches" if you measure from the tip of the glans to the bottom of the scrotum.
The next time ask you see a Urologist ask him/ her how rare an "over eight inch" (properly measured!!) dick is.
Leffe6
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Lol I've got 4 " so if I fucked her twice does that count as 8"? LolMost people who quote statistics do it so they can excuse their own lack of size we had 30 years in the lifestyle and were only let down three times
van_delay
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Haha, I like this math. I'm 9 inches.
mark_j
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Don'tcha know that everyone measures with the "seven inch foot, for fisherman and other liars"?
CuriousJInLA
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I’m not trying to stir the pot but that’s one of the most self-aggrandizing comments I’ve read, and over what? Your dick is big and anyone who quotes data has a small dick? Your wife took 30 years of big dicks so someone who presents empirical data excuses their own lack of size, which is purely randomMost people who quote statistics do it so they can excuse their own lack of size we had 30 years in the lifestyle and were only let down three times
My bad. ..I can see that you're not really interested in truth but rather you're here to fan the flames of a fetish. And that's be expected - after all, this is a kink website. I should know better. Trying to convince people of the truth regarding penis size here on Lit is about as sensible as trying to tell people who think feet are sexy, "No, actually feet are NOT sexy! They are often dirty and they have nothing to do with making a baby. Therefore, feet are NOT sexy!"Most people who quote statistics do it so they can excuse their own lack of size we had 30 years in the lifestyle and were only let down three times
But seriously, you LIKE believing your wife is some kind of sexual super-hero because she can "take a huge one." And that's fine - that's between you and your wife. But here's the difference between arguing feet are sexy and that a 7" dick is merely average. A foot fetish is fun and harmless (I like feet, actually, and DO think they can be sexy) but perpetuating misinformation about dick size leads to all sorts of insecurity, anxiety and even toxic behavior.. And the men who suffer the most from it are young Black men who grow up thinking their dicks should be monstrous or their sex partners will be believe them to be less manly and less desirable.
If you've read my previous posts about penis size you'll know that I have a HUGE dick (8 1/8" x 6 1/4" girth - measured correctly!) and it stinks. Every kind of sex, apart from receiving a handjob - is either more difficult or near impossible because of my size. I'm married to a woman who adores me but finds PIV sex w/ me to be uncomfortable most of the time and is frustrated by being unable to enjoy taking me into her mouth. The challenges of a big dick are echoed by others with outlier length, but even more by those w/ outlier girth. Sex is supposed to be pain-free. To wit: According to on-line retailers, the most commonly purchased dildo by women is about the same size as the average penis - insertable length less than 6" and girth less than 5".
My research into penis size was an extension of conversations with my wife's and my doctors regarding our challenges with having comfortable sex. And because I've been in medical research for years (no, I'm not a doctor), I have a strong curiosity for the truth - especially as it relates to health sciences.
As to your wife's experience.. Well, perhaps men with big dicks are more apt to be "in the lifestyle" or (more likely) your wife isn't measuring properly, when she measure's at all (honestly, that's kind of a weird thing to be doing w/ a casual sex partner). The other possibility is she knows you enjoy thinking of her as some sort of Big Dick Champion, and doesn't want to disappoint you so tells you what she knows you want to hear.
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Excellent post on this topic. Probably the best ever discussing this topic.My bad. ..I can see that you're not really interested in truth but rather you're here to fan the flames of a fetish. And that's fine! This is a kink site - I should know better. Trying to convince people of the truth re: penis size here on Lit is about as sensible as trying to tell people who think feet are sexy, "No, actually feet are NOT sexy! They are often dirty and they have nothing to do with making a baby. Therefore, feet are NOT sexy!"
But seriously, you LIKE believing your wife is some kind of sexual super-hero b/c she can "take a huge one." And that's fine - that's between you and your wife. But here's the difference b/w thinking feet are sexy and that a 7" dick is merely average. The former is fun and harmless (I like feet, actually, and DO think they're sexy) but the latter leads to all sorts of insecurity, anxiety and even toxic behavior.. And the men who suffer the most from it are young Black men who grow up thinking their dicks should be monstrous or their sex partners will be disappointed. So senseless.
If you've read my comments before on penis size you'll know that I have a HUGE dick (8 1/8" x 6 1/4" girth - measured correctly!) and it stinks. Every kind of sex, apart from receiving a handjob - is made either more difficult or near impossible. I'm married to a woman who adores me but finds PIV sex w/ me to be very uncomfortable most of the time and is frustrated by being unable to enjoy taking me into her mouth. The challenges of a big dick are echoed by others with outlier length, but even more by those w/ outlier girth. Sex is supposed to be pain-free. To wit: According to on-line retailers, the most commonly purchased dildo by women is about the same as the average penis.
My research into penis size was an extension of convo's with my urologist about my dick size and my wife's convos with her OBGYN about her discomfort during sex. And because I've been in medical research (no, I'm not a doc) for years and years, I have a curiosity for truth - especially as it relates to health sciences.
As to your wife's experience.. Well, perhaps men with big dicks are more likely to be "in the lifestyle" Or (more likely) your wife isn't measuring properly (when she measure's at all - honestly, that's kind of a weird thing to be doing w/ a casual sex partner.) The other possibility is she knows you think of her as some sort of "big dick" champion, and doesn't want to disappoint you so tells you what she knows you want to hear.
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Personally speaking I have never taken a tape measure to any man. When his equipment is in the required condition I have much more serious needs to have satisfied LOL
happened before college where a friend group of woman and friend group of men switched partners every few months. women said i came in 2nd of three when hard. same size as asian guy when soft. i learned i loved hearing it.
in college, woman was blowing me and cheating on her fiancee. i asked what she thought of my size compared to him. she pulled it out of her mouth looked at it looked at me and said he is way bigger and then started blowing me again. i blew everywhere (her mouth, chin, shirt, hair). she smiled and said i knew you'd like that, as she finished me off.
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Ohhhhh....swoon
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From conversations with women I've realised that women talk "seriously" about sex more than men do; in my experience men mostly joke around the subject. Certainly, women seem to discuss techniques, positions and cock size - even women that you might think are quite straitlaced. My first wife worked in an all female environment when we were first married and came home with all sorts of ideas, plus questions along the lines of "Have you ever fantasised about doing ... with me?" based on conversations at work.
I now know that when I was dating my current wife she and her best friend had a text emoji code for how many times they'd had sex that evening with their respective boyfriend and in what position - my best mate just about knew I was on a date
My wife and her best friend have also shown each other photos of their husband's cocks to compare sizes.
