**Confessions of a Wife**

I'm not 100 per cent sure I understand your post so forgive me if I misread.

If the question is "don't be in a relationship if you cheat" then whilst I understand the sentiment it opens up a can if worms to people as cheating means different things to different people.

Yes, I cheated. Would I leave my husband? No. Why not?

Because I believe no matter who you are with there is a chance that routine and the pressures of everyday life brings an escape route.

People don't have to choose that route. I can only speak from my experience, which has been mixed but overall, and I won't apologise for this any longer, it's brought me some excitement that I've not experienced in years.

If that's wrong, I accept that.
I tried to be monogamous my whole life and finally I realize that I just couldn't be that way any more and told my partner (of 5 years at the time) and life has been amazing since. We have become so much closer, and I am so drawn to her sexually that many times I please myself with her pictures. We also have other lovers and get much pleasure from that. It's possible that you are simply not monogamous. Life is much too short, I urge you not to wait until your 6th decade to start to have muct more pleasurable experiences.
 
So funny story about Ryan gosling… I am a cop in the Los Angeles area. I was working at night and there was car with a broken tail light. It was a slow night so I stopped it and got the drivers info. It his sisters car.

Walk back to my car and my partner says, “isn’t that the actor in that movie, the notebook?” Couldn’t think of the name

what, no, I don’t think so.

I wrote a fix it ticket, driver signs it, off he goes. Later I look the name up on the computer, sure enough, it’s Ryan Gosling…

He was very nice about the whole thing.

I still have that ticket book with his signature.🤣
 
Your husband should be overjoyed to be included

Would I watch my wife give another guy head? Yes. Hopefully then many she would do the same for me? It’s been a while! I can probably easily count the times she has done that. It’s not her thing
How abt watching her give hand to another guy? I done that before!
 
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