Could you ever be dominated by an idiot?

EKVITKAR said:
*sigh*

Jeeze...More re-runs....

*Rummages for the remote*

/me hides the remote

But if you haven't seen this episode before then it is new to you. :D

Besides, all these people here, and you have to leave the party and go turn on the tube? Why don't we get out a few party games for everyone to play?

Anyone up for "Hijack this thread!"
 
leeroy jenkins said:
Is anyone going to say that they are stupid though??


Not stupid. No.

I have a learning disability from high fevers as a child. On the flip side of this coin, all my subs have been highly intelligent. Common interests for conversation. Reading the same books. Yes, I have even assigned subs to read anything I have read. Their choice. I have also read their non-tech text books if the topic interested me.

A lot of creativity for scenes and sex.
 
As the brain , the sense of humour ( better if a bit dark and sarcastic ) , the ability to hold a conversation , fantasy , immagination , the culture and a true love for books and arts are the first things I look for in a man I definitively couldn't have any kind of relation with an idiot both D/s or not, although school and degrees have nothing to do with the forementioned qualities .

And as in my opinion a man who is clever doesn't give up his brain when in bed (or on a table , on the floor , under the desk or over a lamp ... etc ;) ) sex, and every kind of play a wicked immagination can suggest , are far more interesting with someone who has all the neurons at the right place and kept in good state of mainteinance !

The charme of the "big stud "has never hit me and if I think carefully I suppose to not have even a simple male friend who doesn't fit the description above .

I simply don't have anything to say to men who haven't these qualities and as I have not too much time for "social" life I simply prefer not waste it with people I don't find able to fulfill my intellectual needs .

It is a bit bitchy I know , but it is the bare truth ( and besides my Master likes me that way :D :p ) :rose:
 
babiesmiles said:
As the brain , the sense of humour ( better if a bit dark and sarcastic ) , the ability to hold a conversation , fantasy , immagination , the culture and a true love for books and arts are the first things I look for in a man I definitively couldn't have any kind of relation with an idiot both D/s or not, although school and degrees have nothing to do with the forementioned qualities .

And as in my opinion a man who is clever doesn't give up his brain when in bed (or on a table , on the floor , under the desk or over a lamp ... etc ;) ) sex, and every kind of play a wicked immagination can suggest , are far more interesting with someone who has all the neurons at the right place and kept in good state of mainteinance !

The charme of the "big stud "has never hit me and if I think carefully I suppose to not have even a simple male friend who doesn't fit the description above .

I simply don't have anything to say to men who haven't these qualities and as I have not too much time for "social" life I simply prefer not waste it with people I don't find able to fulfill my intellectual needs .

It is a bit bitchy I know , but it is the bare truth ( and besides my Master likes me that way :D :p ) :rose:

I didn't read this as bitchy, just your take on things.
(Although I enjoy reading bitch comments and have been known to make a few lol)

However, you do bring up an interesting point.
Most people have busy lives and time away from the stress and pressure of day-to-day life that is precious.
Therefore I don't see it as wrong to say the type of person you would prefer to spend your time with.
Intellect can be measured so many different ways, whats intelligent to one person is damn boring to another lol.
'Idiot' can also be measured in a number of ways lol

My last Dom was an idiot (he left me, so he must be an idiot ROFL).

I wish I could be high minded about this whole thread but it still comes down to 'does he have an interesting cock?'
 
FurryFury said:
If you were "mine" I'd have to spank you for that.

Just saying.

Fury :rose:

Wipes forhead...whew...that was a close one huh?

Just saying....lol

Sometimes I take myself to seriously or so I hear and need to lighten up a bit.

I can see it now...

Idiot Dom: *lays down over Fury's lap and looks worried..."Yer sure dis is how I go about domnatering you?"

Fury: Yep. In just a moment I am gonna feel your dominaing power over me...*as she smiles wickedly to herself and raises her hand. :p
 
RJMasters said:
Wipes forhead...whew...that was a close one huh?

Just saying....lol

Sometimes I take myself to seriously or so I hear and need to lighten up a bit.

I can see it now...

Idiot Dom: *lays down over Fury's lap and looks worried..."Yer sure dis is how I go about domnatering you?"

Fury: Yep. In just a moment I am gonna feel your dominaing power over me...*as she smiles wickedly to herself and raises her hand. :p

*giggles*

Oh RJ! You make me laugh so!

You (said idiot Dom) "feel" so powerful! *whack*

Fury :rose:
 
shy slave said:
I didn't read this as bitchy, just your take on things.
(Although I enjoy reading bitch comments and have been known to make a few lol)

However, you do bring up an interesting point.
Most people have busy lives and time away from the stress and pressure of day-to-day life that is precious.
Therefore I don't see it as wrong to say the type of person you would prefer to spend your time with.
Intellect can be measured so many different ways, whats intelligent to one person is damn boring to another lol.
'Idiot' can also be measured in a number of ways lol

My last Dom was an idiot (he left me, so he must be an idiot ROFL).

I wish I could be high minded about this whole thread but it still comes down to 'does he have an interesting cock?'


I think I've seen exactly TWO interesting cocks in my whole life.

Shank's is one, the dragon cock is the other, the rest are pretty much the same IMO.

Fury :rose:
 
Rrrosyn said:
Not stupid. No.

I have a learning disability from high fevers as a child. On the flip side of this coin, all my subs have been highly intelligent. Common interests for conversation. Reading the same books. Yes, I have even assigned subs to read anything I have read. Their choice. I have also read their non-tech text books if the topic interested me.

A lot of creativity for scenes and sex.

I am glad you don't think your stupid and as long as you don't measure yourself by what others have done or are doing it steads you well. What I meant by my comment is that in jesting or seriously I call myself a cheap bastard. I am nearly certain that at times some of the ladies her think themselves as bitches for whatever reasons, but you I have never seen anyone as of yet call themselves stupid. We might say we are unknowledgable about a topic to be sure, but stupidity is more then the lack of knowledge, it borders on the knowing a thing but failure to enact said wisdom.
 
It's not to toot my own horn, it's not to brag. Lit is filled with a lot of people who are in the top percentages of whatever, so I know a lot of you will relate.

This is the reason that I've only successfully submitted to one person, and this person has on other occasions submitted to me and if push comes to shove will submit to me.

I found one person who can intellectually and emotionally surpass me in certain ways, while I can emotionally and intuitively surpass him in other ways. I found someone whose mindfucks actually fuck me, elegantly, in a "geez, why didn't *I* think of that one?" way. This never happens with other people. I need a closely matched kind of intelligence and wisdom, a very strong sense of allignment -- because I don't have the urge to please people who don't value the same things I do, it doesn't elicit that kind of admiration, even when it should, it just doesn't grasp my sexual imagination.

I was perpetually "hot for teacher." There's a close tie between the verbal spar and the desire to please the authority figure.

M is a technical, spatial, and practical whiz, so when we're talking about certain things I'm a blithering idiot by comparison, but those are not things I prioritize. He's never read the Odyssey in full. I do prioritize that, he doesn't. We're well balanced that way, but we're not *matched* as closely as I am with the stud. Emotionally he's soothing, empathic, wise in a completely *un* aware way, while G is wise in a more acquired and conscious way, the way I am. I value both, but it's the one I see in myself that makes submission/pleasing even a response I can consider.

It's why we were able to switch fluidly, and still may if I feel the urge to end the bottoming hiatus after 2.5, 3 years or so.
 
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FurryFury said:
Shh!

Don't talk yourself down like that, you might be listening.

AKA:

If you were mine, I'd spank you for that!

LOL!

Fury :rose:


As a woman that loves a good spanking I might just have to see how well you do at it. :p
 
Absolutely

Quint said:
Did I mention that I lust on diabolical geniuses? Add "literary" in there too.


If it's not about inventive genius count me out. Wicked and evil requires thought; "mean" requires nothing. :cool:
 
Quint said:
Did I mention that I lust on diabolical geniuses? Add "literary" in there too.

A day without a literary diabolical genius is like a day without chocolate or orgasms. No fun.
 
FurryFury said:
I think I've seen exactly TWO interesting cocks in my whole life.

Shank's is one, the dragon cock is the other, the rest are pretty much the same IMO.

Fury :rose:

Ahhh but the potential that it might be intersting is always there.

I admit I usually glance at a mans crotch before his face. Once I have seen his face, my eyes drift back to his crotch.

But then I have yet to meet a cock I didn't like, its often the man its attached to thats the problem :devil:
 
shy slave said:
Ahhh but the potential that it might be intersting is always there.

I admit I usually glance at a mans crotch before his face. Once I have seen his face, my eyes drift back to his crotch.

But then I have yet to meet a cock I didn't like, its often the man its attached to thats the problem :devil:

Least your honest in your desire and that has to be respected. So if the good, his cock, out wieghts the bad, the man, do you keep him around or move on??
 
leeroy jenkins said:
Least your honest in your desire and that has to be respected. So if the good, his cock, out wieghts the bad, the man, do you keep him around or move on??

Well I kept my first ex husband for 3 years and the second husband for 10, so I guess the answer could be 'yes'

My mother asked me some years ago after my 1st divorce when I was going to settle with one man.
My response was 'well, I like men, and they are useful, but never really figured out the point of them once they get out of my bed!'

She never asked again LOL

I was faithful in marriage, but made up for it between times :D

Besides cocks are so cute and oral is my favourite pasttime ;)
 
shy slave said:
Besides cocks are so cute and oral is my favourite pasttime

Well I would say the same token about pussy and giving her oral pleasure is damn fun. Now if I just could come back to the game and find someone to play on.
 
leeroy jenkins said:
Well I would say the same token about pussy and giving her oral pleasure is damn fun. Now if I just could come back to the game and find someone to play on.

Ahhh this is where we part company (not legs)

Receiving oral is not my thing at all.

Good luck with your search, most women I know seem to think its wonderful when they find a man who wants to do that to them
 
shy slave said:
Ahhh but the potential that it might be intersting is always there.

I admit I usually glance at a mans crotch before his face. Once I have seen his face, my eyes drift back to his crotch.

But then I have yet to meet a cock I didn't like, its often the man its attached to thats the problem :devil:

wise words :rose: :devil:
 
His_pita said:
As a woman that loves a good spanking I might just have to see how well you do at it. :p

*purrs*

:kiss:

Fury :rose:

shy slave said:
Ahhh but the potential that it might be intersting is always there.

I admit I usually glance at a mans crotch before his face. Once I have seen his face, my eyes drift back to his crotch.

But then I have yet to meet a cock I didn't like, its often the man its attached to thats the problem :devil:

Oh I look at their faces first and their asses the most. *grins*

But don't get me wrong, I love cocks, once I'm playing with them, they just seem to have a sameness to them that is clearly not reflecting in the thinking of most males on the make. Those males seem to think there is in fact something special about their cock.

They seem to think I would want to see multiple images of said cock. Uh, nope, not really, give me tight smooth expanses of skin, male or female anytime. Any cock or cunt for that matter is visually not a turn on to me. *shrugs* Most asses are!

There was one cunt on the Random Porn Duel thread that was very sweet looking. It looked fresh, pink and I loved it. I wanted it to be mine, literally, mine isn't nearly that pretty, but anyway, back to cocks, I can get them to do interesting things. *winks*

We do come at it from different angles I think Shy! I'm cool with that though. I'm sure you are too.

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
*purrs*

:kiss:

Fury :rose:



Oh I look at their faces first and their asses the most. *grins*

We do come at it from different angles I think Shy! I'm cool with that though. I'm sure you are too.

Fury :rose:

LOL

Fury we would make a great pair, you can check their ass I can check their groin :catroar:
 
i could never be dominated by an idiot..... but then again, level of education tells nothing about who's an idiot and who's not.
There are two kinds of smart, schoolsmart and streetsmart.... If i were to choose between one pure school educated and one pure street educated, i'd go for the one with lessons from real life.......
 
Any idiot can use a whip........

Any idiot can use a whip.

But when it is used lovingly and in a smart manner, and done with feeling, it is a much better experience for all involved. :D
 
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