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Cyber/phone sex - Does it do it for you or does it leave you cold?

Cyber, for me, is better if you know the person's voice. Adds that touch of reality that really helps. So, yeah, cyber and phone do it for me. Not as good as the real thing, but still. :)
 
I'm more into words than most things, I guess.

Hearing a voice unless it's really amazing isn't going to add anything for me.
 
well... when you can't have the real deal - cyber or phone sex can be a satisfactory substitute.... :devil:

my only issue is when you're done. especially the first few times you're with that person. whaddya say that's really all that smoooooooth? thanks? you're a great typer? someone's at the door....gotta go!

but - back to the original question - the written word or a sexy grrrrrrrowl can be very erotic and get me off quite nicely.
 
nowgirl said:
well... when you can't have the real deal - cyber or phone sex can be a satisfactory substitute.... :devil:

my only issue is when you're done. especially the first few times you're with that person. whaddya say that's really all that smoooooooth? thanks? you're a great typer? someone's at the door....gotta go!

but - back to the original question - the written word or a sexy grrrrrrrowl can be very erotic and get me off quite nicely.
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I agree with the when you're done issue. I miss the cuddling and falling asleep in each others arms part. Sometimes it's not such a big deal but other times when we have had a exceptionally emotional type of phone/cam sex I am almost in tears missing him and not being able to feel his body next to me. But it is worth it. I wish we lived closer but such is life. I rather have phone sex with with my Daddy than real sex with some one else.
 
Once I cum I just want to hang up and clean up. I'm not that way in real life.
 
Has anyone had phone sex while having real sex? I did once. And another time I talked to 2 chicks getting it on. During my wild and crazy days.
 
I am not into phone/cyber sex at all, I enjoy the physical presence of another person and the interaction you can have with them, montally and physically, even if it's talking, at least you can see facial expressions and smiles etc.

Having said that, chatting online can be enjoyable and you can sometimes really get to know someone well, same with the phone, hearing someone voice, though I just see that you're missing so much more, even with my imagination, just doesn't cut it.
 
WriterDom said:
Has anyone had phone sex while having real sex? I did once. And another time I talked to 2 chicks getting it on. During my wild and crazy days.
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Yes. I have been on the phone with my Dom while my husband is licking my pussy. Very hot!!
 
WriterDom said:
Has anyone had phone sex while having real sex? I did once. And another time I talked to 2 chicks getting it on. During my wild and crazy days.
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I have. My husband and I fucked, while a friend on the phone told me what to do and what to say to him. That friend took us places we might not have found by ourselves.
 
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HMM TOUGH ONE .........cyber is ok when first talking as an appetizer ..courting so to speak ....and it can lead to lots of sweet teasing .....cyber leaves you more cold than an interesting TALK.... on the phone you can hear and sense the lust ans passion ...the influx of the voice the tone....... a sigh is just a sigh ,,and even silence can emode emotion ....but either way your lover must be willing to play ....and confidence plays a big part of it .............that said i find phone sex with a total stranger VERY VERY EROTIC and arousing
 
When I was in college, and even a little after, I LOVED to cyber. I had like 5 or 6 regular partners who all knew just what to say to make me cum. Sometimes I'd even introduce a couple of them in a chat room and three of us would type our way to orgasm for an hour or so.

But that grew old. I haven't done it in years and it doesn't really appeal to me anymore.

Phone sex on the other hand....I've still got a strong love for phone sex. I can't resist hearing a woman cry out in orgasm. Thats' just hot.
 
my Master requires that i cyber with men who want to use me online. He says its a reminder of what i am good for. i'm not allowed to pleasure myself though.

i guess its a turnon...because its part of the dynamic with my Master. and there is something about just being used...even if its just online. nothing like the real thing though :)
 
I didn't like it when I felt I was merely amusing or servicing men. That was always the kiss of death with me. If someone told me in a derogatory way, that was what I was good, that, too, would be the kiss of death.
 
Cyber can be fun but only with the right kind of girl , phone to weird for me!!
 
Sometimes, like last night, phone/cam sex can be just what I need. I have been doing it 4-6 times a week every week (except of course when we are with each other in person) for the past 2 years with my Dom and we have gotten into a certain rhythm that makes it just so wonderful. There are some advantages of phone over real. Since I control the dildo I can control what spots it hits, add to that his voice, and the exhibitionist is me loves performing and coming on cam for him.

The bad part is that it always takes me forever then to fall asleep because I miss falling asleep in his arms.
 
gonna sound prudish

I'm gonna sound like a cold dead fish, but neither phone nor cyber does a thing for me. I've tried both many times and nothing....

I guess i'm a bit conventional...if it's not the real thing, in person, I don't bother. I don't even find masterbating at all fulfilling.
 
Well, I have cybered. The first time it happened it did it for me, next time nothing....I did it for a man once and although he thought it was oh so awesome.....It was too much stinking work for me and left me cold. My shoulders were sore from typing and my mind was exhausted. So no more of that.

I had been participating in phone sex with a Dom that lived far, far away before I met him and it was actually amazing at first, new ideas, new ways of pleasure that I had not thought of....but then it left me wanting to be with him too much and I got frustrated doing things myself.....So, even though it did not leave me cold per say, it did leave me very frustrated and because of the frustration...I doubt if I get that involved over the phone again.

Now, spontaneously being asked a question or having a comment made in an IM message or over the phone can make me roll deep inside and possibly warm me right up. But I think it is the spontaneity, the unexpected, that does it at this point.
 
WriterDom said:
Has anyone had phone sex while having real sex? I did once. And another time I talked to 2 chicks getting it on. During my wild and crazy days.
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I've tried both. cyber can be a turn on if she's really into it....
phone... you can hear what's going on... it has a certain closeness to it...
all that being in the perspective that one isn't getting the real deal (whatever the reason)

I've had a girl listen while I was pleasuring my wife... made them listen to each other... it was very erotic....
I've also had the pleasure of hearing my wife while sh was at her g/f's house.... beyond words....

:devil:
 
katteon said:
Now, spontaneously being asked a question or having a comment made in an IM message or over the phone can make me roll deep inside and possibly warm me right up. But I think it is the spontaneity, the unexpected, that does it at this point.
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This is about the only thing that interests me insofar as text communication or phone-base talk is concerned. "v" sent me a text out of the blue that said, "Master, may I come please?" I thought it was brilliantly hot. I let her stew for a while, then gave her permission. When I got home, I wore her out. Good stuff. Another time she told me a few of the things she was doing to herself while we talked about me stopping for groceries. Same effect. Rawr, wore her out when I got home. Good stuff, again.

Other than that, meh. Cyber and phone sex are okay for getting turned on prior to the real thing, but I'm not up for typing left-handed while tugging it.
 
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I have done and enjoyed both.

Cybering to me is like reading an erotic story except you can control where it goes.

With phone sex there is more of an electricity with the person that words on a screen can not copy.
 
Phone and kids, dont mix

graceanne said:
K and I have done cyber sex, and he enjoyed it - I found it completely BORING. Frankly, I could do all that in the comfort of my own bed, and without the worry of one of the kids waking up.
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Both used to excite me, but when i was cybering with One and He had decided to take it to the phone, we were both really getting into it; and i am a moaner big time. :eek: And one of my sons woke up and knocked on my door, asking if i was ill. :eek:

Oh my God, talk about taking the excitement out of both for me. :eek:

Now, neither does it, since that.
 
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