Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[Bunnys_Wolfie]

I agree so much with this! But, how do you know to vet someone when you're new or exploring? Unless you actually meet someone who takes the time to inform you and slow things down, instead of the "be my daddy in three days" in Lit instant gratification. When it doesn't work out, then we hear "they're a fake dom" when in truth, y'all just weren't compatible.

I need to finish reading through these posts, but needed to say this right away!

In my opinion, it is incumbent upon all of us in the kink community to provide mentoring to the newbies. I know that Bunny definitely found a few here, and she will occasionally reach out through PMs to someone who makes a post that concerns her.

 

[dreamysub]

Hi, guys.

I'm sorry I've been MIA. Between work and life and seasonal depression, I really haven't been doing much else.

Also, my Daddy--who's pretty much just one in name only, at this point--is a gigantic douchecanoe, and I never have anything positive to add on this thread. So I try not to come in and spread negativity.

I miss y'all, though, so here I am.

Hi BiBunny *soft smile*

I don't think that talk about how you feel, or how things are for you in the DD/lg world is spreading negativity, but I know what you mean.

I've missed you too btw! *pulls Bunny closer for a looong warm HUG*

 

[BiBunny]

Hi BiBunny *soft smile*

I don't think that talk about how you feel, or how things are for you in the DD/lg world is spreading negativity, but I know what you mean.

I've missed you too btw! *pulls Bunny closer for a looong warm HUG*

*Big hugs*

 

[barefootgirl69]

It's been a while since my head could wrap around all of the places I love. There's so many things going on, and I can't discuss them. Nothing relationship wise, just to ease minds about that.

Anyway...I saw this today and it's everything I dislike about the term "Daddy". At times, people don't want the dynamic, but the being called that floats their boat. The lifestyle vs the fetish - it's real.

What scares me about this is the way this is worded. It reminds me of a sadist. Some might enjoy that.

Just be cautious, my friends. Not all people who call themselves daddy are the kind of daddy you need. Take time to get to know each other and TELL THEM YOUR NEEDS. We are not supposed to be impassive unless that's your agreement AFTER discussing things.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/daddy-is-here.1651015/

 

[TXRafe]

It's been a while since my head could wrap around all of the places I love. There's so many things going on, and I can't discuss them. Nothing relationship wise, just to ease minds about that.

Anyway...I saw this today and it's everything I dislike about the term "Daddy". At times, people don't want the dynamic, but the being called that floats their boat. The lifestyle vs the fetish - it's real.

What scares me about this is the way this is worded. It reminds me of a sadist. Some might enjoy that.

Just be cautious, my friends. Not all people who call themselves daddy are the kind of daddy you need. Take time to get to know each other and TELL THEM YOUR NEEDS. We are not supposed to be impassive unless that's your agreement AFTER discussing things.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/daddy-is-here.1651015/

you aren't alone in your cautions or concerns...from the viewpoint of a "daddy" (which honestly, who knows if i even am one, i enjoy being called the name and the closeness that creates), most men looking for those relationships either enjoy the status, power, or control that name gives them without wanting the responsibility of the closeness and care the title requires. it's definitely not something i require in my relationships, though the kink definitely has its effects. if it naturally goes that way and the relationship is a fit then that's wonderful. if it's just for the purposes of dominant sex, as its often used for, i think its damaging. for me, its like saying "i love you". we need a level of connection that can be instant, for sure, but a casual fling won't stick simply being based on the complicated dynamic and power play.