Dildos and ButtPlugs

[WynEternal]

Wow.

Having never worn a strap on before, or having much Domme experience under my belt, I think this thread is great. What wonderful stories everyone is telling. Makes me wish I asked Mistress to help me explore my dominent side (with other subs of course).

Forgive me if I'm asking something I shouldn't, but how does it feel to be wearing one and using it on your boys?

 

[Shadowsdream]

Wow.

Having never worn a strap on before, or having much Domme experience under my belt, I think this thread is great. What wonderful stories everyone is telling. Makes me wish I asked Mistress to help me explore my dominent side (with other subs of course).

Forgive me if I'm asking something I shouldn't, but how does it feel to be wearing one and using it on your boys?

It feels Powerful...controlling...passionate..hot...fills Me with explosive energy and lust actually.

 

[Martini Man]

I too have always wanted to try the plug thing. I've had the occasional finger entry (which was totally awesome, BTW), but have never been plugged.

It's making me erect just thinking about it.

 

[white_mage_goddess]

Interesting that this subject got brought up...

My b/f mentioned just last night that he wanted to explore having me anally stimulate him. Just when I thought he had brought up every possible fantasy! I admit I was a little shocked but if it turns him on, i'm game....Of course I've never had a guy tell me he wanted me to play with his ass, so I'm pretty nervous about the idea! I'm scared to death of doing it wrong and maybe hurting him too much.

 

[Martini Man]

I would think you wouldn't want to just jump right into the strap-on thing!

Start slowly. As you're having sex, just lightly stroke around his anus with a finger. He'll like that, I bet. (I know I did the first time I had that done!)

 

[white_mage_goddess]

Oh I already know he loves to be fingered there, because he does it to himself in his "private" moments...He seems to think he's ready for something more now than just doing it to himself.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Oh I already know he loves to be fingered there, because he does it to himself in his "private" moments...He seems to think he's ready for something more now.

It is a long trip from fingers to a strap-on if you want the experience to be good for either one of you.

 

[Martini Man]

Well said, Shadowsdream.

White-Mage, I think the added thrill of YOUR fingers doing the walking (so to speak) will be a good way to start!

 

[Martini Man]

By the way, how do you know he does that to himself? Did he tell you? Or did you catch him in the act?


Details, please?

 

[white_mage_goddess]

By the way, how do you know he does that to himself? Did he tell you? Or did you catch him in the act?

Oh he told me..we tell each other pretty much everything. Considering how kinky some of the other fantasies we have shared were, this wasn't too terribly wierd. Honestly, I've started to think that when it comes to sex we are both just total freaks. My list of sexual no-nos includes about 3 things. Everything else if fair game.

 

[Martini Man]

My list of sexual no-nos includes about 3 things. Everything else if fair game.

I think I just fell in love.

 

[white_mage_goddess]

It is a long trip from fingers to a strap-on if you want the experience to be good for either one of you.

I definately agree with that one! I remember my own journey into anal intercourse. Fingers are a lot smaller than a penis! And I wouldn't want to hurt him (anymore than he would enjoy at least.) I guess I'll just go slow with the whole concept and hope he gives me enough feedback to le me know if I'm doing right.

 

[white_mage_goddess]

I think I just fell in love.

Yeah, that was my b/f's reaction when we first discussed sex. I'm told I'm quite a bit more open minded than the average 20 year old girl, but I don't know...I'm just comfortable with sex I guess. My total list of things I wouldn't do consists of

A) sex with children
B)sex with animals
C) being covered in poop

that's about it. Anything else I'll try once, and if I like it I'll try it many many more times!

 

[JeanMarc31M]

Allow me. . .

in correspondence with a very sexy lady here on Lit I was given some advice about taking a dildo. I had posted a pic of my toy collection and the dildo gets the most attention. She offered that she knew how I could take the thick dildo up my ass, stating that it was all about relaxing.

I enjoyed some good femdom porn as I gently stroked myself and actually lubed my small plug with my own precum. After I slowly inserted the plug I sat on it, forcing it in even deeper. In the twenty minutes that followed I brought myself to the edge twice. Then I withdrew the plug and lubed my big, double-ended dildo.

It went it with far less fuss than in times past. I just sat back, spread my legs as I raised my knees and positioned the head against my tight ass. There was no pulling and it didn't really hurt as it had previously. This dildo has is thickest about a half inch from the tip of the head(s). I was on edge as it passed my ring, but after that it just felt good - real good.

I was able to work it in and out with smooth motions as I fantasized about a lovely lady holding my waist and driving it home.

Lit seems to have some problems accepting attachements at this time. I chronicled this pleasant diversion in pics and will post when possible.

If your b/f has made the request and you're game I'd say go for it.

 

[exiledmaster]

Ain't it funy that there are as many different stories and responses to this thread as there members posting here?
As usual I'm gonna hedge my bets and say that I have at least two answers to this question.

I discovered the joys of arse play over half a lifetime ago. I'd started exploring my lover's body ( I suppose I was a pre dom then, knowing that I liked to be in charge but not knowing what a dom was...) and my wanderings led to her bottom. We'd tried bondage as well, and she seemed to like my thumb in her bottom as I entered her pussy. Now, unless she was in the doggy position that wasn't the easiest trick to accomplish, but she seemed to enjoy it, and I enjoyed finding other ways to get her off.
So I thought about it, and the games we'd played using things like slim aerosol tins as dildos on her. (I knew what a dildo was, but we're talking small town here; no-one I knew would admit to having seen one...) I thought about her bottom, and what might go wrong, and came up with the answer; a popular brand of screwdriver that has a bulbous handle that narrows to a thin neck, then broadens out again where the blade meets the handle. Add some duct tape and some thin string as a kind of safety loop, and I was ready to try something out on her bottom that was a similar size to the end of my cock, but less likely to be forced too far too fast by my excitement (and I was a little scared too...) So I explained to her that i was going to tie her on her hands and knees, and to trust me, and I lubricate dit with ehr pussy juices, and whammmmm...

When she'd come down from the ceiling we knew three things; I loved making her come, she loved having her arse played with,a nd we were both certifiably perverts....

There's a ritual aspect to butt plugs though. Making a slave insert one for themselves, or wear one just in company, or wear one as an adjunct to punishment, all adds up to an additional rite within a ritual... And, afetr all, so many of us are taught that our arses aren;t to be talked about or touched, and suddenly, we ask our slaves to kneel before us and lube their bottoms so they can take a larger size of plug than they're used to, and as they come, we know that a little corner of some of our minds is yelping 'yep, I'm definitely a pervert now....'

 

[Hexiegirl]

::gets all wet::

 

[Shadowsdream]

exiledmaster


That was a wonderful post and look into past. It is obvious that You had the natural smarts to be a good Dom and are a real perv...~~grin~~
Very creative with the tools at hand..ooops no pun intended!
Welcome and thank You for joining in the conversation.

 

[SexyRed25]

All this ass talk has turned me on as well. *blush*

Personally I do not like anal sex done to me, but I do like to give it to my boyfriend. I am proud to say that I was the one to introduce it to him and he loves it. I love watching the trust and love in his eyes and I slowly slide the dildo in his ass. And then the cute moaning noises he makes when I fuck him just drive me crazy.

We have plans to go buy him a new toy this weekend. He has actually talked me into buying a small one to use on myself. I think he wants to help me experience the same pleasure he gets from it. I dont know if that is possible, but I am willing to try.

 

[WynEternal]

My it IS getting pretty hot here too. *fanning self*

 

[~ Emmeline ~]

I find it incredibly erotic when he pulls me over his lap to insert one of my anal plugs (usually a fairly large one). I squirm and kick and love every minute of it!!

(it is good prep for serious anal sex - and the submissive aspect always excites me!)

Oh my, I forsee a new fantasy in the making. The thought of being draped over His lap while He inserts a lubed plug, then He heartily warms my bottom with one of His incredible, bare hand spankings would surely begin a journey to erotic heaven.

Thank You, Shadowsdream, for this informative and hot thread, and sweetsubsarahh for your most delicious posts.

Just curious, how hard is it to have vaginal sex while wearing a plug? Anyone? Some of the shapes and sizes that I've seen would seem to make vaginal penetration (at the same time) quite difficult.

Gentlemen, what about a vibrating plug or dildo? Does that feel good while engaging in vaginal sex, or does it distract you?

 

[navarre]

Having her wear a small to medium vibrating plug while having vaginal sex with her is absolute HEAVEN.

 

[exiledmaster]

Plugs of most sizes are a delicious addition to sex in the doggy position after a thorough spanking. Of course they have the effect of making the vaginal area more constricted, depending upon their size, but isn't that the point?
My own preference is to keep my erection still inside her whilst moving the plug; of course one can substitute a dildo for theplug as one goes along...
And of course, using a slave like this is the beginnings of her training for double penetration....

 

[Suecat]

After reading this thread from beginning to end, I just HAD to contribute since this subject is near and dear to my heart! As a person who loves all types of anal play, is there such a thing as too much anal penetration, health wise? I would think that the muscle would relax so much over time that it would cause serious problems with incontinence.

I hope you all tell me there are no risks so that I can continue having my ass worshipped by my most ardent lover, in any way that he desires.

Susan

 

[biMWM_in Mass]

Big fantasy of mine

wearing a butt plug all day at work for my dom. Oh...I get hard...just thinking about it.

Chris

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I have a favorite silicone vibing plug, about 4", 1-1/2" at its widest. I think it would be a perfect size for a double penetration. A major fantasy of mine. One of these days....

I'm fascinated and intrigued by men who are open to anal play. They have been fairly rare in my life. What a thrill though, to give such an orgasm to him....