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"Disabled and sexy."

Thanks alot :D

Thought I'd share something that wasn't a nude shot just to test the waters. See how I'm feeling tomorrow. Will try to post an image of me in my everyday chair.
 
dudeinachair said:
The more I think back on things the more I tend to think that it is more about your own attitude to your disability than other people's. In my experience people pick up on your personality more than your disability and respond to that more than your disability. I have friends who see life as difficult and are generally down beat about having a disability, as such they have shut themselves away from society and people find it difficult to engage with them. If you see yourself as sexy your more likely to come across that way with people who meet you.

I'm not suggesting that people her are like this i'm just talking about my own experience.
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I think saying it's all about attitude is partly true and too simplistic. I can't hold my head up so my body language seems to be saying "go away, I'm a gimp". If I'm in my bed... ;)
 
dudeinachair said:
Thanks alot :D

Thought I'd share something that wasn't a nude shot just to test the waters. See how I'm feeling tomorrow. Will try to post an image of me in my everyday chair.
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I'm going to have to respond with
ohdeargodyes!

What a brilliant first photo for the thread!!
Those arms!! *drools*

--Also, I was thinking about having something people could answer if they aren't in the mood for posting a picture, audio clip, video, etc. How about a mini-survey? I'll create the format and start...

Age: 20
Mental Age: Depends on how much wine I have drunk.
Disability: Nail biting, weeping during bad movies, being pretentious
Superpower: Sings in shower

Word association:
Cripple= (deformed)
Sexy= (your eyes)
Handicap= (parking)
Self-hatred= (jean shopping)
Self-love= (dancing naked)
Ugly= (my neck)
Beautiful= (your hands)
Fuckable= (wearing glasses)

Worst moment dealing with a disability:
My ex-next door neighbor from my dorm has CP (cerebral palsy) and is very independent. She chose to go to my school, even though they don't have the best accessibility with automatic doors and ramps, because she wanted to follow her dreams. I respect her a lot. Unfortunately, her room started to smell last year... quite badly. I think the problem was that she was having difficulty cleaning herself and her room (there was a maid, and her mother did come once a month to help her with laundry, but it was a hopeless situation). The people in the hall didn't know what to do (we tried to talk to her about it, to offer help, but she was too embarrassed) and I felt guilt from my anger that we were neighbors. I was angry at our school for not providing effective aid, her mother, our maid staff, our obsolete technology, and--if I'm being honest--I was angry at her too. But, it was absolutely 100% unjust for me to feel that way. Now that I look back on it, I feel ashamed that I ever felt bitter about it. When I look at how much I take for granted about my own independence and freedom, it makes her seem like a modern Joan of Arc.

Best moment dealing with a disability:
A few years ago, I had to study CP for a character I played in an acting class. I interviewed my ex-next door neighbor and did tons of research.
Today I took the two kids I tutor to the local swimming pool, and there was a boy with CP who was being lowered into the water with a special chair and lift. The boys were curious and wanted to know what was wrong with him, since they had never seen anyone like him before. I was able to explain that he was just the same as us, only his brain got a 'boo-boo' while it was developing, so now he has cool hot-wheels. The kids seemed to love that idea and on the way home, talked about how cool it would be to zoom around in a power-chair. Ah, the wondrous minds of eight-year olds.

Sexy-time (disabled style):
There was this guy in a wheelchair in my health class and he always wore these gloves to help with gripping the wheels. I always used to imagine him spanking me with those gloves on, over his wheel chair, and maybe stuffing them in my mouth while he punished me. PLEASESIRmayIhaveanotherrrrrr
Also, anyone with a bit of body deformity or scars... such a turn on! I just want to run my tongue along those scars... pretty please? ugly please?
 
WillowedCabin said:
--Also, I was thinking about having something people could answer if they aren't in the mood for posting a picture, audio clip, video, etc. How about a mini-survey? I'll create the format and start...
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Willowed, just for you and your friendly perkiness :)

I was born in 1975
I have a tumour in my brain stem
I have a talent for taking pills out of med cups with my tongue

Fun story: I went for a routine MRI. The intern at the time asked me if Dr. X did my surgery. When I told him he did my second one, his eyes lit up and he looked at me as if he wanted to ask for my autograph.
"I thought I recognised your brain!"
He asked to see my scar, and then tried to convince me (and himself) that he was not a freak.

As for pics, I've been thinking about it ;)
 
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dudeinachair said:
From my own experiences of growing up as a paraplegic, I have often found that my wheelchair has been a very good ice breaker in meeting women who are more open minded to trying new things. Plus if they cant deal with the chair how the hell are they going to cope with legbags and catheters? If someone cant cope I have just learned to move on and not engage with them. All of my long term relationships have ended up both of us experimenting in new areas of sex.

The more I think back on things the more I tend to think that it is more about your own attitude to your disability than other people's. In my experience people pick up on your personality more than your disability and respond to that more than your disability. I have friends who see life as difficult and are generally down beat about having a disability, as such they have shut themselves away from society and people find it difficult to engage with them. If you see yourself as sexy your more likely to come across that way with people who meet you.

I'm not suggesting that people her are like this i'm just talking about my own experience.
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Absolutely! I've found that the more I get out, the more I want to get out and meet others. Bars may not be the best, but there are definitely other opportunities. I occasionally take a dance class that's open to people with and without disabilities- a great way to meet and 'get in touch' with people! Sports also keeps my energy level and esteem up.
 
Boundlife said:
I have a talent for taking pills out of med cups with my tongue
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Oh, fuck yeah.

Boundlife said:
Fun story: I went for a routine MRI. The intern at the time asked me if Dr. X did my surgery. When I told him he did my second one, his eyes lit up and he looked at me as if he wanted to ask for my autograph.
"I thought I recognised your brain!"
He asked to see my scar, and then tried to convince me (and himself) that he was not a freak.
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I would ask to see your scar as well,
but for probably different reasons.

Boundlife said:
As for pics, I've been thinking about it ;)
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Pretty-please with-a-cherry-on-top?
 
 
 
Hey Willow. Promised you i would post something for you so here you are.

Age - 50. On bad days feel like 100. On good days feel like a teenager
Disability - Respitory due to a diagnosis of sarcoidosis.
have had for about 10 years now but at the present time in remission
Not really sure what else to write right now so will just leave it at this for time being.
 
 
I think I misread your original post, WillowedCabin, and that you're not a 'devotee', but just someone with a decent, open mind... thanks for that, it seems rare :)
 
justabrick said:
I think I misread your original post, WillowedCabin, and that you're not a 'devotee', but just someone with a decent, open mind... thanks for that, it seems rare :)
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I might not be the only one who wasn't aware what 'devotee' was, so I thought I should define it; according to wikipedia, this is 'a sexualised interest of people in the appearance, sensation and experience of disability. It may extend from normal human sexuality into a type of sexual fetishism. Sexologically, the pathological end of the attraction tends to be seen as a paraphilia, though also as an aspect of identity disorder.'

In answer to your question justabrick, no I wouldn't consider myself a 'devotee'. However, I am absolutely devoted to sexual freedom and rethinking my views on beauty (Everything has beauty, just not everyone can see it). I'm young, but not so young that I don't understand that culture is oppressive towards people like you and me. I'm just your run-of-the-mill, kinky pansexual chick who saw a hole in Lit and decided to fill it.

Holes and filling them;
that could be my autobiography.
 
WillowedCabin said:
I might not be the only one who wasn't aware what 'devotee' was, so I thought I should define it; according to wikipedia, this is 'a sexualised interest of people in the appearance, sensation and experience of disability. It may extend from normal human sexuality into a type of sexual fetishism. Sexologically, the pathological end of the attraction tends to be seen as a paraphilia, though also as an aspect of identity disorder.'

In answer to your question justabrick, no I wouldn't consider myself a 'devotee'. However, I am absolutely devoted to sexual freedom and rethinking my views on beauty (Everything has beauty, just not everyone can see it). I'm young, but not so young that I don't understand that culture is oppressive towards people like you and me. I'm just your run-of-the-mill, kinky pansexual chick who saw a hole in Lit and decided to fill it.

Holes and filling them;
that could be my autobiography.
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Well said, WillowedC. We are all better for your presence on Lit!
 
Yes, thanks for the explanation- afraid I just jumped excitedly into it there... glad to have you around here, too :)
 
You seem very open minded for someone so young Willow. I hope you find someones hole to fill :p
Out of curiosity is there a reason for your interest in disabilities?
 
dudeinachair said:
You seem very open minded for someone so young Willow. I hope you find someones hole to fill :p
Out of curiosity is there a reason for your interest in disabilities?
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A reason? Well, I'm an artist who reads a lot (this means a few things: artist=narcissistic, emotionally unstable, somewhat gay, probably Jewish, masochistic; reads=doesn't date a lot, HAH). I grew up doing a lot of volunteer work with demographics of different race, gender, economic status, beliefs, etc. I also have traveled quite a bit for someone my age; moved a lot as well. After a while, you read enough existentialist white noise, and you get it:

We're all the same.

So you being sexually free and empowered, really translates to everyone being this way. And as for 'why disabilities', it's quite uneventful really; I was just an average person connecting the dots. There was this great article I came across, then I realized that there wasn't a lot of sexuality buzz about the inequality towards disabled people in contemporary society.

**
Another topic that isn't me:
How are we coming on these photos gentlemen?
 
in an attempt to get some more interest in this thread here are some more pics of women in wheelchairs.




http://img166.imagevenue.com/loc335/th_76351_WChair_06_123_335lo.jpghttp://img128.imagevenue.com/loc99/th_76351_WChair_19_123_99lo.jpghttp://img229.imagevenue.com/loc567/th_76353_WChair_20_123_567lo.jpghttp://img150.imagevenue.com/loc599/th_76354_WChair_21_123_599lo.jpg
http://img169.imagevenue.com/loc906/th_76355_WChair_42_123_906lo.jpghttp://img107.imagevenue.com/loc225/th_76356_WChair_45_123_225lo.jpg

Hope everyone likes these.

I'm also wondering what reactions people have had from people they have hoked up with/started a relationship with, about their personal care i.e diapers/catheters/legbags?

This was always the hardest thing for me to bring up with a potential girlfriend. I never knew if I should mention it before we got naked or just left her deal with. What have others found worked best?
 
dudeinachair said:
in an attempt to get some more interest in this thread here are some more pics of women in wheelchairs.




http://img166.imagevenue.com/loc335/th_76351_WChair_06_123_335lo.jpghttp://img128.imagevenue.com/loc99/th_76351_WChair_19_123_99lo.jpghttp://img229.imagevenue.com/loc567/th_76353_WChair_20_123_567lo.jpghttp://img150.imagevenue.com/loc599/th_76354_WChair_21_123_599lo.jpg
http://img169.imagevenue.com/loc906/th_76355_WChair_42_123_906lo.jpghttp://img107.imagevenue.com/loc225/th_76356_WChair_45_123_225lo.jpg

Hope everyone likes these.

I'm also wondering what reactions people have had from people they have hoked up with/started a relationship with, about their personal care i.e diapers/catheters/legbags?

This was always the hardest thing for me to bring up with a potential girlfriend. I never knew if I should mention it before we got naked or just left her deal with. What have others found worked best?
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My urinary incontinece and leg bag have always felt like an impediment. I bring it up early, and some women just say, "I don't do yellow" and we go our separate ways.
 
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