"Disabled and sexy."

[spooned_mango]

with Boundlife - you two sound like you are off to a GREAT start - hold on tight to each other. As the name Peaches implies I am a big girl too and was terrified my SO would take one look and run the other way once we finally met in RL - but I was very wrong, and have been very glad of it ever since. I'm SURE that he has just as long a list of things that he admires, respects, loves, and finds charming/adorable and SEXY in you - yes YOU! Continue to be honest and upfront and talk to each other and, no matter what other troubles you face, you'll know you're facing them together! HUGS!

Awwwweeee..... *blushes* (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

 

[Art H.]

As a disabled man with cerebral palsy, I wholeheartedly applaud this thread

 

[peachesmelba]

Sweetie

I am a sexual being...not Still a sexual being
Some times I leave Lit feeiing good knowing that at my core I can be sexy...That who I am as a person is worth getting to know...
Other times I leave and it feels like I'm fooling myself...How am I suppose to meet someone when it takes so much concentration to move when I'm in my chair and my head is attached to the head rest and I can't look around...gravity decides my body language...when I'm in my bed and more relaxed there is no one to meet...
I feel so stuck...I can deal with the everyday things, but the lack of physical contact...it gets to me...

You are one of the most beautiful, funny, intelligent, sexy women I know - and it pisses me off more than you can know that you're feeling "stuck" - Makes me feel so helpless that there is nothing we (of LitE) can do to help YOU....and then you turn around and help me, or someone else, reminding me that there is little about you that is 'helpless'! If ever we're allowed to throw a party in your room I'm fairly certain that there's plenty of your male LitE correspondents who would be standing in line to rectify that 'lack of physical contact' problem...

 

[Boundlife]

You are one of the most beautiful, funny, intelligent, sexy women I know - and it pisses me off more than you can know that you're feeling "stuck" - Makes me feel so helpless that there is nothing we (of LitE) can do to help YOU....and then you turn around and help me, or someone else, reminding me that there is little about you that is 'helpless'! If ever we're allowed to throw a party in your room I'm fairly certain that there's plenty of your male LitE correspondents who would be standing in line to rectify that 'lack of physical contact' problem...

My room is my home...I can do anything legal
Thanks sweetie...I wrote that on a bad day...

 

[peachesmelba]

Glad

My room is my home...I can do anything legal
Thanks sweetie...I wrote that on a bad day...

to hear you're better today - (I think "legal" might definitely be an issue....at least from some of the PMs I get, and you too I think - lol)

 

[chipcarver]

"Disabled and sexy. Two words that aren’t often used in the same sentence and certainly not in images."

http://www.mamamia.com.au/social/sexy-disabled-clever/

I came across this amazing article about two really sexy and courageous women, attempting to broaden their culture's understanding of sexuality and all things sexaayyy. I must admit, the terms sexy and disabled usually don't go hand in hand in my brain. I think half of the problems with my own sexuality, and perhaps a broader cultural dialogue on sexuality, is that we are limited by our own imaginations.

"Oh, that person has a penis, they must be a man."
"Oh, that person doesn't have a lot of sex, so they must not be sexual".
"Oh, that person's body is misshapen, so they are not sexy or beautiful. They cannot be sexual."

When, in fact, this woman with Freeman-Sheldon syndrome has more profound sexuality in her index finger than most people carry around in full physically capable bodies.

I also love that they redid the controversial American Apparel adverts., calling them on their supposed 'we take photos of normal American women', when in fact all their models are fit and able bodied.

Dear advertising companies and commercial photographers,
I'm tired of seeing the same color of crayon in my box! I'd like to see more people like Jes in my magazines. I want to see diversity, self-love, and blessed humanity in my sexy ads-- and I'd like it NOW!!

PS: Be sure to scroll down to the bottom of the article to pan through the collected photographs and advert shoots

Amazing story thanks for sharing

 

[cypher926]

I have a disability. I'm missing a bone in each arm..So my arms are short then a normal person and my hands look a little weird. Anyway, I have had little success with ladies. Doing things by yourself gets old..Going to the movies, going out the dinner..etc..I have feelings and needs but because im disabled, i dont deserve having them filled?

 

[Boundlife]

I have a disability. I'm missing a bone in each arm..So my arms are short then a normal person and my hands look a little weird. Anyway, I have had little success with ladies. Doing things by yourself gets old..Going to the movies, going out the dinner..etc..I have feelings and needs but because im disabled, i dont deserve having them filled?

I know how you feel...people try to avoid me...I either don't have sexual feelings or it's funny that I think about it...I have no idea how the people who found love with a disability did it...I am confident about many things...finding a caring reationship is not one

{sorry to just add to your vent, but it's not an optimistic day}

I hope you find someone who sees you

 

[WillowedCabin]

He Has Short Arms

I have a disability. I'm missing a bone in each arm..So my arms are short then a normal person and my hands look a little weird. Anyway, I have had little success with ladies. Doing things by yourself gets old..Going to the movies, going out the dinner..etc..I have feelings and needs but because im disabled, i dont deserve having them filled?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OyLuOdDRpm4&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Your post made me think of this. Enjoy

 

[1Wheels111]

Here is a video which explores sexuality and disability. It's of a performance group called Sins Invalid.

http://youtu.be/SKuExYzDJ1E

 

[prddwarf]

I have been on literotica for a few years, but I did not know that this thread existed. I am happy that is here and I totally can relate with many of the post in here. I am a male little person or dwarf and therefore considered disabled. Although I have been in several relationships there has always been complications because of how people judge those that are different. I am a sexual being and I wish that people would see that and also that I deserved to be loved as anyone else.

Recently, my relationship with my fiance ended we were together for six years. She was average height, but she hid our relationship from her family and sadly I put up with it until recently. I want to find someone that will "stand" (pardon the pun) by me and not be afraid of what her friends or family think. The family of my ex really liked me as a "friend" but not as a potential husband. Her dad told her brother that "he would die if she married a dwarf" Sadly, this is not the first time that it has happen to me. I just wish that I could find that special someone that would be my partner in life....

 

[perrafuker]

i'm disabled too because of depression and because of this disability women tend to stay away from me.which sucks since i'm too a human being with needs and what have you...so,my message to my fellow disabled posters is to hang in there because sooner or later someone could arrive to shine our lives

 

[1Wheels111]

I have been on literotica for a few years, but I did not know that this thread existed. I am happy that is here and I totally can relate with many of the post in here. I am a male little person or dwarf and therefore considered disabled. Although I have been in several relationships there has always been complications because of how people judge those that are different. I am a sexual being and I wish that people would see that and also that I deserved to be loved as anyone else.

Recently, my relationship with my fiance ended we were together for six years. She was average height, but she hid our relationship from her family and sadly I put up with it until recently. I want to find someone that will "stand" (pardon the pun) by me and not be afraid of what her friends or family think. The family of my ex really liked me as a "friend" but not as a potential husband. Her dad told her brother that "he would die if she married a dwarf" Sadly, this is not the first time that it has happen to me. I just wish that I could find that special someone that would be my partner in life....

Here is a poetess talking about you are expressing. "Maria R. Palacios in Sins Invalid 2009"

http://youtu.be/TDr9xh4HbEY

 

[prddwarf]

Thank you 1wheels, that is soo accurate as o how I feel! Her poem is so beautiful and empowering.

Thank you

 

[1Wheels111]

Thank you 1wheels, that is soo accurate as o how I feel! Her poem is so beautiful and empowering.

Thank you

You are welcome Yes, I love the poem too. She is a very sexy and empowered woman!

 

[1Wheels111]

http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/kaleigh-trace/sex-disability_b_1353890.html

Found this. Listen. People in wheelchairs -- they have sex. People with different motor abilities -- they have sex too. People who are blind -- they're doing it as well. Everybody's doing it.

There is a persistent and damaging myth that people with disabilities don't have sex. It is too often believed that if you don't move your legs than you don't orgasm, or if you don't move your arms than you can't make someone else come all over you. It's all a giant lie, I swear. READ ON.

 

[TomOPKs]

I met a woman on a different website that was in a wheel chair. She was paralized from the waste down. We chatted alot. Some of our chats even ranged into cybersex. It was obvious that this was a very sexual woman. We decided to meet so I drove over 2 hours to where she lived. It was incredible meeting her. She wore glasses had short redish hair and was absolutely beautiful. Since we had already been intimate on the internet it seemed quite appropriate to kiss when we met. Let me tell you that was the most amazing first kiss that I have ever experienced. After talking for a while it was evident that we were both interested in each other. So we went to her bedroom and got naked.

I'll be the first to admit that it was different being with a woman that didn't have the use of her legs. But I sooned learned that didn't make her any less of a woman. In fact she turned out to be the most sexual woman I had ever met. She taught me things that I had never considered before. We got together on several occasions but unfortunately the distance became to great a difficulty. We still talk online and on the phone occasionally. I just wish she lived closer to where I do.

 

[TexasWife25]

This thread is wonderful





http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_zwDAb6hoxqA/SM0srtb0IiI/AAAAAAAAAeQ/ZzCTP0Uot1c/s400/Tee+Corinne.jpg

 

[1Wheels111]

I met a woman on a different website that was in a wheel chair. She was paralized from the waste down. We chatted alot. Some of our chats even ranged into cybersex. It was obvious that this was a very sexual woman. We decided to meet so I drove over 2 hours to where she lived. It was incredible meeting her. She wore glasses had short redish hair and was absolutely beautiful. Since we had already been intimate on the internet it seemed quite appropriate to kiss when we met. Let me tell you that was the most amazing first kiss that I have ever experienced. After talking for a while it was evident that we were both interested in each other. So we went to her bedroom and got naked.

I'll be the first to admit that it was different being with a woman that didn't have the use of her legs. But I sooned learned that didn't make her any less of a woman. In fact she turned out to be the most sexual woman I had ever met. She taught me things that I had never considered before. We got together on several occasions but unfortunately the distance became to great a difficulty. We still talk online and on the phone occasionally. I just wish she lived closer to where I do.

I'm so glad you took a chance and had such a wonderful time. I appreciate you sharing your positive experience.

 

[1Wheels111]

This thread is wonderful




http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_zwDAb6hoxqA/SM0srtb0IiI/AAAAAAAAAeQ/ZzCTP0Uot1c/s400/Tee+Corinne.jpg

I agree TexasWife! That means a lot coming from someone as respected as you.

 

[TexasWife25]

I agree TexasWife! That means a lot coming from someone as respected as you.

Pshhh, respected as me Im just a girl who loves the fetish board and posts far too much porn

I will say,its all about the man, and sometimes a wheelchair can be a very sexy thing.

 

[Prince Albert]

Texas, I agree with you & wheels, it is up to the person.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I wanted to drop inand share a link to an artist. She is a dear friend of mine, and has had a profound influence on me. She was born with spinal bifida and fights all kinds of complications from that-- including things that seem trivial to other people, like not being able to hav more than one pair of shoes because the damn things cost her thousands of dollars, literally on account of having to be 1) handbuilt, and 2) handbuilt by a doctor.

But here is her art:
http://www.rivalehrer.com/
http://www.rivalehrer.com/images/brian.jpg

 

[1Wheels111]

I wanted to drop inand share a link to an artist. She is a dear friend of mine, and has had a profound influence on me. She was born with spinal bifida and fights all kinds of complications from that-- including things that seem trivial to other people, like not being able to hav more than one pair of shoes because the damn things cost her thousands of dollars, literally on account of having to be 1) handbuilt, and 2) handbuilt by a doctor.

But here is her art:
http://www.rivalehrer.com/
http://www.rivalehrer.com/images/brian.jpg

Wow! She is a fantastic illustrator. That's a mighty sexy guy she drew too. Thanks for the link.

 

[Boundlife]

Wow! She is a fantastic illustrator. That's a mighty sexy guy she drew too. Thanks for the link.

LOL...Had me thinking, "move the damn cat"