Discovering your wife or girlfriend having an affair

[Nellie60]

Its the thrill of the sexual knowledge you have or had with her mixed in with the thrill of an affair or cheating that you can only imagine but out of bounds to you played out in secret by her and other men.

 

[Mu5tang]

It probably helped that you were the "new guy" at the time and knowing she was still attached to the ex husband would be a turn on.

And you found someone else who now is your wife. Happy ending!

Yeah, that's how I looked at it. She was doing that long before I started dating her, not something she started while. I understood the circumstances that led to it all.

He was a good guy, we all got along well. She didn't tell him I knew, but later he caught on.

 

[Mu5tang]

My wife has been fucking her old HS boyfriend once or twice a year for 30 years now

Does he know, that you know?

 

[MrMannson]

I would be pissed off.

Only because I want to watch/join in.