Disinterested Partners: The Flip Side

[littlebabyclit]

And, one of the things I've discovered is that I still don't like to give a laundry list because actually, I'm submissive, and I want you to take charge.

That simple statement just taught me a lot about myself. Thank you.


I'd like to contribute otherwise to this thread, but I don't really fit the OP's criteria below:

"The focus of this thread isn’t on people who used sex to catch a spouse and then decided that since they had what they wanted, the sex was unimportant. Nor is it intended for people who knew that their SO’s weren’t interested in sex before they married, yet married them anyway because they thought things would change. I’m interested in the relationship dynamics of people who had active, healthy sex lives--until something happened."

I'm not sure our mutual sex life has ever been "healthy."

 

[lennythelion]

That simple statement just taught me a lot about myself. Thank you.

I'd like to contribute otherwise to this thread, but I don't really fit the OP's criteria [...] I'm not sure our mutual sex life has ever been "healthy."

Please do contribute lbc - I think you can get to the stage where it just is so hard to remember what that might even mean and whether it ever was. I hesitated too, but then I did remember a time when it WAS "normal" or "healthy", at least by my perception, and THAT is the crux of the matter, I think.