Do girls actually like/enjoy anal?

[HumpDayHoratio]

Supposedly, to preserve their virginity, Italian girls only do anal before marriage. Comments or verification please.

Mexico has the same dynamic. I think it’s common in Catholic dominated countries. Lived along the border in AZ for five yrs, and one of my wife’s GF’s was in charge of HIV education/prevention in the Tucson area. She said a lot of girls were doing anal to preserve their virginity but not taking precautions due to the fact they couldn’t get pregnant. It was an issue.

 

[bunny4med]

If you do the proper prep work and your partner knows what he is doing, it is quite enjoyable.

 

[Irwin34]

My wife loves it and I'm just waiting for her to come to bed so I can make her happy.

 

[Mtnmike]

If you do the proper prep work and your partner knows what he is doing, it is quite enjoyable.

Truer word's have never been spoken.

 

[Wifejen86]

Tried it with hubby and really didn't enjoy it. Tried it with a lover and absolutely loved it. He prepared me in the shower so I was clean and ready. He spent an hour after just doing anal play, deep tongue and fingering until I was begging him to put his cock inside my arse. X

 

[marriedbigrl]

Abdolutely! As everyone has been saying though, proper prep and lube, as well as mutual desire and openess are critical. But if done right, there is almost no other way I'd rather be fucked.

 

[Devilynme]

It's nice with someone who knows what they're doing, but I still prefer vaginal.

 

[MileHighBlackDiamond]

The woman i'm with loves it, sometimes begs for it. Who am I to deny her

Sometimes that is all she wants, other times she wants to use a dildo in her vagina with me in her ass, DP. We have had some of the most intense orgasms this way.

She wants to have a real DP experience, that will take getting to know the right guy and develop a trust to help us make that a reality.

We have an amazing connection and trust, as others have said, this is definitely a component to making anal great and a desired experience.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

There is an Anal Only Lifestyle that involves several sub kinks in that lifestyle. The most obvious is only anal intercourse, with sub kinks of clitoral denial and total vaginal denial and aversion. They have their own website and oddly enough when I was looking for it I stumbled onto this Forum!

My anecdotal observation is the mix of male to female percentage runs about the same as this forum.

 

[SarahsaurusRex]

I do but for me is more mental and psychological rather than physical. I've never cum from anal but just having a guy pound me in the ass, it's a domination thing, I just love the mental feeling, especially if he cums in my ass.

 

[rushman1uk]

My Mrs loves anal. She has more intense orgasm's that with virginal sex.

 

[Meeh81]

I spoke to a couple of female friends and they said 'sort of' and 'no' respectively. My girlfriend also said 'no' (we've never done it), so my question is...

Are there girls out there who like, enjoy and actually do anal on a regular basis?

Also, how did you get started with it and why do you enjoy it?

Thanks,

The Horn

Yes, its really great when done correctly. You need to educate yourself and your partner and lots of lube but its worth it

 

[hulmule]

Yes, its really great when done correctly. You need to educate yourself and your partner and lots of lube but its worth it

I get even close to the rosebud my wife either pushes my hand back or loudly -NO i'm Bumming

 

[MileHighBlackDiamond]

I get even close to the rosebud my wife either pushes my hand back or loudly -NO i'm Bumming

Sorry that is her response.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife was forced to take it anally in college, and it hurt like hell. Never again, she says.

 

[A_Star_Amy]

I do but for me is more mental and psychological rather than physical. I've never cum from anal but just having a guy pound me in the ass, it's a domination thing, I just love the mental feeling, especially if he cums in my ass.

I was really interested to read the responses to this question. I think for me it's a mental thing too. There's something so exhilarating about feeling so used, and in a taboo way, but it has taken me a long while to reach this understanding.

It seems that many of us have really bad first experiences. I think porn is to blame for that because they make it look so straightforward. Mine was awful. Nowhere near enough lube or prep or patience. He just about got it in, and I was getting used to it, when he thrust forwards. I don't really know if it hurt, it is was just such an unusual and uncomfortable sensation, but I told him to stop, but he was already cumming and couldn't stop thrusting he explained later. I hated it and was cross with him and we never tried again.

Then I tried again a few years later with another parter and it was completely different, but I wouldn't say I enjoyed it, not enough to make it worth all the prep and clearing up after and we didn't do it very often. But then with another guy we just had a different dynamic, and it wasn't a way of 'making love' but of ratcheting up the intensity and I found it really thrilling to let him take me is such a raw and intense way, and that's when I enjoy it, when I'm in the mood to feel 'slutty' and used.

 

[Kimlikes]

OMG Yes ...

The BEST orgasms are anal ...

whew!

Rox

Or DPd Rox mmmm

 

[AficionadoAngel]

My answer is yes, when I'm in the right mood with the right person. It requires trust and a little alcohol helps too because it can be uncomfortable. Feeling his come shooting inside me while his balls slap against my hungry pussy is a rare treat. I also come very hard when something more finger sized is inserted in my back door while having vaginal sex.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

My wife tried it with a well endowed lover and she balked. He was in the 9-10‘ range so it didn’t happen. She had told me when dating it was a fantasy of hers so with that in mind I kept pressing the issue every now and again and it paid off!

She had a medical procedure that prevented vaginal sex for one month. Horny as hell after three weeks we stayed in one Saturday night and started fooling around. I had her pinned against the wall and rubbing my cock up and down her ass she got so hot that she asked for anal.

We took it slow and used lots of lube. The first attempt must have triggered flashbacks of her first try as she rolled over and said she couldn‘t do it but I kept reassuring her and on the next try, success. To this day I can see her face and remember her gasps as I penetrated her rosebud!

It has become a fixture over the years but she has run hot and cold on doing it. Not sure why as she comes hard this way. I think she feels that it takes away something from vaginal intercourse in some way?

 

[Sweet_b19]

The first few times I tried it I wasn’t all that into it but then I learned how to do it properly and whewww makes a world of difference. Love it now

 

[ReadyOne]

I have an ex who could quickly orgasm with anal from a standing start.

For example, we both got home about the same time one day, and she hit the bathroom. I was feeling horny with a decent hardon, so I ducked into the bedroom and grabbed the tube of lube.

As soon as she opened the door, I grabbed her belt and dragged her into the living room, took down her pants, and bent her over the couch. A dab of lube on her rosebud, a line on my dick, then I spread her cheeks and lined up.

I pushed straight in, paused only a moment, then sunk all the way to her depth. A few seconds later I was going in and out full length as I grasped her hips.

Almost immediately she started making good sounds and before the clock marked a minute she cried out "cumming" and started spasming. I felt her anal ring opening and closing against my cock as I pumped away, then started varying my motions to delay my own orgasm.

About the time I could hold off no longer, she starting begging. "Cum. Now. I have to have you cum. Squirt inside me. Bury yourself inside me and don't move until I have every last drop of your cum."

Now you'all may wonder why she was so hair triggered. It only when we started sex with ass fucking; almost everything else we did was relatively normal (and a very responsive woman) .

Turns out her first husband was a dominate abusive. His spontaneous anal attacks were intimidation and done painfully to impress his 'ownership'. Her defense was to try and replace the pain he inflicted with pleasure, so she conditioned herself to orgasm ASAP.

I never tried to intentionally hurt her, but when she gave her history, we enjoyed working with her 'neurosis'. She was also into "neat pain", and it took a bit ro learn she really wanted me to go beyond playful.

 

[sister jenny]

In my experience and girlfriends I’ve talked to it is all about the first time.
And to be honest most first time anal is pretty bad and that can turn you off it for a really long time.
I was lucky and my first was really nice and enjoyable, and I am convinced that is why I love it now.
It is a very special feeling, hard to describe. But apart from that, the mental thing plays in too. It is forbidden, it is wrong, it’s a domination thing. All of that plays in and makes it even better.
Me and hubby have a lot of anal sex and a lot of the time I prefer it.
During the last part of my pregnancy we only had anal sex (well and I gave him oral).

I know it’s an old thread, and I doubt anyone cares anymore.
Just felt like sharing.

 

[Pink_Hotel]

I like anal when I am 'in the mood for it' I dont like it when doing doggy and the guy switches holes without asking.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

My back door is my husbands "private property" as no other man has been back there. He took my anal "virginity" on our wedding night. Fortunately, a woman he was in a sexual relationship with before we met, taught him well how to please a woman including anal sex. Given the right mood and preparation I enjoy it very much and often will initiate it with him. That being said, I know women whom the act does not appeal to or have been with guys who were in such a hurry to go balls deep the pain turned them off to any further experimentation. In any case, the decision to get fucked in the ass is the woman's and only hers. Her choice to go with it or not is entirely up to her and should be respected.

 

[Treeview]

Her choice to go with it or not is entirely up to her and should be respected.

YES! That's been my approach. I've enjoyed four virgins, all post menopause. There's noway ofknowingifM was a critical variableor ifit wasthetimingof dating these Lovers. The agreement was that they are in control. THe Lady sets the pace, etc. I just stay in place and ready for her. Sooooo amazing