Do Older Ladies Ever Really Go Looking For Younger Men????
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wildrose70
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MMMMmmmm
well perhaps just a little *hint* thanks for all the help getting there...but then thats what it's all about..helping each other along!!!!
well perhaps just a little *hint* thanks for all the help getting there...but then thats what it's all about..helping each other along!!!!
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Re: Re: Re: ladies.
Well love2kiss, if you're strange, then I'm even stranger.
I NEED to kiss, not just during lovemaking, but hundreds of times during the day. I love the intimate and personal contact that a kiss gives me.
When making love I like to kiss for a long time before my hands begin to explore, and continue to kiss throughout.
A kiss can say so much.. from 'hello' to 'I love you' to 'I've missed you'.
I guess I'm a kissaholic!
Well love2kiss, if you're strange, then I'm even stranger.
I NEED to kiss, not just during lovemaking, but hundreds of times during the day. I love the intimate and personal contact that a kiss gives me.
When making love I like to kiss for a long time before my hands begin to explore, and continue to kiss throughout.
A kiss can say so much.. from 'hello' to 'I love you' to 'I've missed you'.
I guess I'm a kissaholic!
love2kiss00
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Re: Re: Re: Re: ladies.
Oh goodness Ladybird...I guess i'm a Kissaholic also..is there a cure for us.............. I HOPE NOT...
kisses...nite.
Ladybird said:
Oh goodness Ladybird...I guess i'm a Kissaholic also..is there a cure for us.............. I HOPE NOT...
kisses...nite.
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In response to the question about older women and younger men, I myself have had a relationship with an older woman when i was 21...she was 40...we saw each other for over a year and were quite happy. But things happen and we finished up....but since then i have kept this love of older women with me..I am now 42 was married to a woman 10 years older than me and my last lover was in her early 60's....
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I am all for older women seeking younger men. I am a male myself but I also think that the younger male should also have the the maturity level of the woman he is with if not equal to hers if they want to see the relationship span over years. Sure the sex would also be great with that man, going at it like rabbits all the time, breaking the bonds of society's rules and doing it wherever and whenever you just got the impulse to do it, not waiting until you got home to make it happen and just pulling onto the side of the road or an empty ally. But I think the maturity level of the person she is with would turn her on just as much as the sex itself, because the nestalga of it just being sex will at sometime wear down, sure the sex will still be there and you will still be loving it, but then some small thing will happen and put the hint that there might be more to it than just sex, will pop into the mind. And then the woman starts looking for that possibility. Its like having a song that love being stuck in your head.....pretty soon that song starts getting to you, you just want it out of your head because the essence of the song has lost its meaning because you have heard it so repetitively. So this is where I think the younger male should have the maturity of the one they are with so they can think up new and exciting things to do...thrill her mind as he is able to thrill her body, setting it on fire with possibilities of things to come and things not yet seen. And what I think is most important is for that male to be able to bring out those emotions in her that have laid dormant in her body and mind, bringing them back out of her and letting her experience them for the first time again. I think I explained this one before but the body is just a tool...there is only so much you can do with it....but if you add the mind and maturity to that tool...there will always be endless possbilities.
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I must say..you sound like a very wise man..
Only when you have sampled the maturity and wisdom..plus the sensuality of *mature* woman...do you truly understand the fascintation with them....and as one of those myself...I find each year makes me more comfortable with myself...and my sexuality
Only when you have sampled the maturity and wisdom..plus the sensuality of *mature* woman...do you truly understand the fascintation with them....and as one of those myself...I find each year makes me more comfortable with myself...and my sexuality
Yes I agree with those comments....it for me was originally a thing for older but when our relationship developed that was soon thrown out the window and we had a very normasl relationship.
Only ocassionally would I get the old what are you doing taking your mom out?
I think that there is nothing wrong with the feel of a lady who likes to be loved and wanted.
GOMBA
Only ocassionally would I get the old what are you doing taking your mom out?
I think that there is nothing wrong with the feel of a lady who likes to be loved and wanted.
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As you age, all the things that you learn boil themselves down to a few simple insights. In college, a swimming coach once told me that there were brutal coachs with winning teams and very nice coachs with winning teams. Essentially, everyone responds differently. I've been married since I was 22 and had 4 older lovers by anywhere from 20 to 30 years. All of them had different reasons to choose me as a lover. At 27, I met a 57 year old that I hadn't seen in 10 years. She had her eye on me when I was a 16 year old neighbor boy. We were lovers for over a decade. Another was a woman that you couldn't have imagined as being sexual at all. She was 63, looked it, but very attractive. She needed someone to trust this part of herself to that she kept so well hidden. One was a lady that called me the "icing on the cake". At 58, she just wanted one really intense last fling and I used to look pretty good when I was in my early 30s. Our fling lasted on and off for 5 years. Another was an inveterate flirt as I am. I don't think either of us ever thought of it happening between us. Then one night we fell into bed. She was 61 and we stayed there all night. She hadn't had an orgasm in years. I wasn't sure I was going to get the job done, but I did. It took a while, but after that it was easier for her. Sorry if this disappoints you, but there are no revelations to be had. We're different and all women are different --- and it has been a wonderful journey finding out that I still have lots to learn about them.
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Traveling the journey is what it's all about...finding whats at the end of the road.....
After the last couple of encounters I've had with younger men, I'm more than satisfied to stick to my own age range. At least I understand the signals better from men who are 35 - 45.
So far, I've been contacted by two men, one 29, the other 20. (I'm 42) The 29 year old actually seemed like he had his act together. But I think he was expecting to get laid the same night we met, and well, I just don't do that anymore. We made a date for the next weekend, and I ended up having to contact him, only to find out he wasn't going to be able to make it. Never looked back. The 20 year old started off fine. (online) When he looked me up IM, his first line was, "When we gonna meet and FUCK?" When I told him he was certainly direct, all I got back was "???? WHAT?"
Yeah, whatever.
No, I don't expect that a "fling" with a guy who is 20 would last a lifetime. Hell, we would have nothing in common. But guys? If you are in your 20s and want to attract an older woman? Exchange some pleasantries. At least say "hello" now and again. Ask how she is, take an interest in her. She's not going to think you will want to marry her and run off to never-never land. But rude, inconsiderate jerks get nowhere.
After my two encounters, I'll be thinking long and slow before getting involved with a much younger man. There is more to the sexual arena than simply stamina or the ability to orgasm 3 or 4 times in one night.
So far, I've been contacted by two men, one 29, the other 20. (I'm 42) The 29 year old actually seemed like he had his act together. But I think he was expecting to get laid the same night we met, and well, I just don't do that anymore. We made a date for the next weekend, and I ended up having to contact him, only to find out he wasn't going to be able to make it. Never looked back. The 20 year old started off fine. (online) When he looked me up IM, his first line was, "When we gonna meet and FUCK?" When I told him he was certainly direct, all I got back was "???? WHAT?"
Yeah, whatever.
No, I don't expect that a "fling" with a guy who is 20 would last a lifetime. Hell, we would have nothing in common. But guys? If you are in your 20s and want to attract an older woman? Exchange some pleasantries. At least say "hello" now and again. Ask how she is, take an interest in her. She's not going to think you will want to marry her and run off to never-never land. But rude, inconsiderate jerks get nowhere.
After my two encounters, I'll be thinking long and slow before getting involved with a much younger man. There is more to the sexual arena than simply stamina or the ability to orgasm 3 or 4 times in one night.
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Actually, I think of it as a river and look forward to going "round another bend", because the river is timeless and never ends. Twain once said late in life that he was "70 years out and bound for home". It took Ulysses 10 years to reach Ithaca. Remember what Freud, the absolute expert on so many things, replied when asked, "what do women want?". He replied "what DO women want." Life isn't about answers --- it's about asking more questions. I hope I've lived such a life.
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SexyChele...to me anyone younger than me is younger..not neccessarly in their 20's althou I have been there done that..one thing on their mind!!!!!! But you know some are only thinking with that small part of the anatomy!!
Now thats going to tick some off..lol....
Now thats going to tick some off..lol....
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Depth in a partner
This is in response to the things that have been said, most eloquently, i think, by SexyChele, on the subject of depth, and connecting, as a requisite for the best sex. It is ironic, i think, that if we search for the biggest, richest orgasm, skipping (or not even CONCEIVING of) the personal connection or "clicking," and caring, and mutual respect ... we likely limit the reaches of that "big bang" in the magical O.
The most supreme orgasms have been in the context of real love and connection, in an ongoing relationship. The next-best level involves at least the connection, respect, the mutual perception of the other's real caring and interest on a personal level, plus likely some well-earned experience, imaginative creativity, and a sense of wonder and adventure. Uh, and btw, as they say in the lounge.
" ... ANY*-body wanna F??"
* A dead giveaway on the level of caring and connection!
Good day, all!
NBO
This is in response to the things that have been said, most eloquently, i think, by SexyChele, on the subject of depth, and connecting, as a requisite for the best sex. It is ironic, i think, that if we search for the biggest, richest orgasm, skipping (or not even CONCEIVING of) the personal connection or "clicking," and caring, and mutual respect ... we likely limit the reaches of that "big bang" in the magical O.
The most supreme orgasms have been in the context of real love and connection, in an ongoing relationship. The next-best level involves at least the connection, respect, the mutual perception of the other's real caring and interest on a personal level, plus likely some well-earned experience, imaginative creativity, and a sense of wonder and adventure. Uh, and btw, as they say in the lounge.
" ... ANY*-body wanna F??"
* A dead giveaway on the level of caring and connection!
Good day, all!
NBO
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i kinda liked this thread....just trying to get it going again...I met a very nice lady through this tread...
i kinda liked this thread....just trying to get it going again...I met a very nice lady through this tread...
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well i'm sorry there are people older than me (yes, i am 18 *ghasp* ) that treat women like they are a piece of meat. Everyone i know says that older women are always horny. i cant say that to be true. i dont care how young or old the lady. treat them with respect. but i did have a relationship with a lady that was about 34 or so. we were friends before hand. so it made the relationship that much more special. it lasted until we decided to just be friends. but still agreed we had magical sex. i still to this day enjoy her company and care about her and she for me. but i guess thats when the RESPECT factor came in. people need to act their age, not their IQ. 
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Yeah, I'm still 18. It feels like I've been 18 forever. I was with an older woman at one time in a sorta BDSM relationship. It started out mostly because I was doing all her chores for her (like cutting lawns and stuff). It didn't last very long, just over the summer since I was still in high school, but she taught me so much. All I had to do was do exactly what I was told. She always said she liked younger guys (mostly teens or guys in their early 20's)because we're more submissive than older ones. I don't know how many other women think that way but I'd sure be interested in finding out. I learned so much from that one experience and I really like talking to older women just to see what they're thinking.
Yeah, I'm still 18. It feels like I've been 18 forever. I was with an older woman at one time in a sorta BDSM relationship. It started out mostly because I was doing all her chores for her (like cutting lawns and stuff). It didn't last very long, just over the summer since I was still in high school, but she taught me so much. All I had to do was do exactly what I was told. She always said she liked younger guys (mostly teens or guys in their early 20's)because we're more submissive than older ones. I don't know how many other women think that way but I'd sure be interested in finding out. I learned so much from that one experience and I really like talking to older women just to see what they're thinking.
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Older Women
When I was but a young 23 year old Second Lieutenant I had the opportunity to spend some time at Fort Sam Houston in San Antonio, Texas. Young me, let me heartily encourage yo to get thyself to San Antonio Texas as fast as possible. I was there for the first time since those O-L-D days just last March and it is STILL a "target rich" enviroment! I even had my wife with me and was STILL "hunted" by women. Women my age (45) women older and even more than a few younger. I guess experience shows. It was one helluva temptation, but I resisted this time.<p>
However, we are contemplating a move to Texas in the near future and if so, you can be SURE I will return (alone this time) to San Antonio! Lest you ladies out there think me the unmitigated CAD for cheating on my wife, let me just say that we are about to celebrate our 14th anniversary but have not had ANY sex for the last SEVEN YEARS and I have only been playing for the last TWO years. My wife has heart disease, diabetes and several "female related" problem that seem to preclude sex. I DO love her which is why I have stayed with her...but I just HAVE to have a little passion in my life....or simply kill myself. Anyway...you younger guys...GO TO SAN ANTONIO...IT IS FOR SURE THE HAPPY HUNTING GROUND...EXCEPT YOU WILL BE THE "HUNTED!!!"<p>
When I was but a young 23 year old Second Lieutenant I had the opportunity to spend some time at Fort Sam Houston in San Antonio, Texas. Young me, let me heartily encourage yo to get thyself to San Antonio Texas as fast as possible. I was there for the first time since those O-L-D days just last March and it is STILL a "target rich" enviroment! I even had my wife with me and was STILL "hunted" by women. Women my age (45) women older and even more than a few younger. I guess experience shows. It was one helluva temptation, but I resisted this time.<p>
However, we are contemplating a move to Texas in the near future and if so, you can be SURE I will return (alone this time) to San Antonio! Lest you ladies out there think me the unmitigated CAD for cheating on my wife, let me just say that we are about to celebrate our 14th anniversary but have not had ANY sex for the last SEVEN YEARS and I have only been playing for the last TWO years. My wife has heart disease, diabetes and several "female related" problem that seem to preclude sex. I DO love her which is why I have stayed with her...but I just HAVE to have a little passion in my life....or simply kill myself. Anyway...you younger guys...GO TO SAN ANTONIO...IT IS FOR SURE THE HAPPY HUNTING GROUND...EXCEPT YOU WILL BE THE "HUNTED!!!"<p>
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Older Women
When I was but a young 23 year old Second Lieutenant I had the opportunity to spend some time at Fort Sam Houston in San Antonio, Texas. Young men, let me heartily encourage you to get thyself to San Antonio Texas as fast as possible. I was there for the first time since those O-L-D days just last March and it is STILL a "target rich" enviroment! I even had my wife with me and was STILL "hunted" by women. Women my age (45) women older and even more than a few younger. I guess experience shows. It was one helluva temptation, but I resisted this time. However, we are contemplating a move to Texas in the near future and if so, you can be SURE I will return (alone this time) to San Antonio!
Lest you ladies out there think me the unmitigated CAD for cheating on my wife, let me just say that we are about to celebrate our 14th anniversary but have not had ANY sex for the last SEVEN YEARS and I have only been playing for the last TWO years. My wife has heart disease, diabetes and several "female related" problem that seem to preclude sex. I DO love her which is why I have stayed with her...but I just HAVE to have a little passion in my life....or simply kill myself. Anyway...you younger guys...GO TO SAN ANTONIO...IT IS FOR SURE THE HAPPY HUNTING GROUND...EXCEPT YOU WILL BE THE "HUNTED!!!"
When I was but a young 23 year old Second Lieutenant I had the opportunity to spend some time at Fort Sam Houston in San Antonio, Texas. Young men, let me heartily encourage you to get thyself to San Antonio Texas as fast as possible. I was there for the first time since those O-L-D days just last March and it is STILL a "target rich" enviroment! I even had my wife with me and was STILL "hunted" by women. Women my age (45) women older and even more than a few younger. I guess experience shows. It was one helluva temptation, but I resisted this time. However, we are contemplating a move to Texas in the near future and if so, you can be SURE I will return (alone this time) to San Antonio!
Lest you ladies out there think me the unmitigated CAD for cheating on my wife, let me just say that we are about to celebrate our 14th anniversary but have not had ANY sex for the last SEVEN YEARS and I have only been playing for the last TWO years. My wife has heart disease, diabetes and several "female related" problem that seem to preclude sex. I DO love her which is why I have stayed with her...but I just HAVE to have a little passion in my life....or simply kill myself. Anyway...you younger guys...GO TO SAN ANTONIO...IT IS FOR SURE THE HAPPY HUNTING GROUND...EXCEPT YOU WILL BE THE "HUNTED!!!"
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And I can relate to your problem...i didnt have any for the last 16 yrs of my marriage..not by choice..his decision.....not interested...I have a friend in San An and he was the first after 16 yrs!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Older Women
HAPPY HUNTING BABY!!!!! Lol or come to so.dak...woohooooooooo
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HAPPY HUNTING BABY!!!!! Lol or come to so.dak...woohooooooooo
this thread took me back...............
Long long ago, in a city far far away, when I was a 17 year old virgin, I had a 40 year old next door neighbor who was the object of most of my fantasies (purely by default as there were not that many other neighbors.) I was a sort of handyman even early on, having grown up on a ranch and knowing the wheres and whats of most sorts of mechanicals, so it just naturally fell to me to do her odd repairs and such whenever there was a need, considering she was a divorcee with two young kids in the house. Of course being the stereotypical horny young idiot, I took advantage of the occasional opportunity to look down her top and up her dress and in hindsight I am very sure that she knew exactly what I was doing and allowed me to see whatever it was I saw. One day after I had done a plumbing job for her (I know, I know it sounds like a kids fantasy,...I can only say that it seemed to just sweep me along at the time) she told my mother that she and the kids were going to take me out to dinner with them as a thank you. I went along with it, not really suspecting anything…but then she dropped her kids off at a friend’s house. At dinner she got very very drunk and after dinner, over desert, she told me that I could do anything I wanted to her. She said that she had been looking at me since I was 14 wondering if she would ever get a chance to have a “fling” with me. I still remember that word, “fling”, it was just what I wanted to hear, sort of loose and non connected, all the implications of fun and none of responsibility and danger. Well, she sucked me in the car, she had me stop at a park so she could get a better angle at it and she took off all of her underwear so that I could feel her up anytime I might want. She showed me how to eat pussy, chew tittie, and how to fuck like a man, and in which order. And that was all on the first night. It went on for a few weeks. Eventually I realized that she really drank a lot, and it kind of put me off, but I can remember one time when she threw rocks at my window and I came out in my boxers to talk to her. She was drunk and she got me to put my dick through the chain link fence, a low one that came up to my chest, and she proceeded to suck me for a while right through the fence.
It all ended for me when one day I saw my mom pull up with her in the car after they had gone shopping together. It was just too weird after that and I am ashamed to say that I gave her a cool shoulder for the rest of that year until I moved out of the house.
I can say without reservation that some older women do have a fantasy of making love to a younger man. I have no regrets about my fling, and, after having revisiting that time through the writing of this post, I have a feeling that the next time I’m out at my parents place I will drop next door and say thanks.
As far as getting an older woman to let you know what she wants, all I can give you is the advice my father gave me about women in general, “Be nice to them son”.
Lit
Long long ago, in a city far far away, when I was a 17 year old virgin, I had a 40 year old next door neighbor who was the object of most of my fantasies (purely by default as there were not that many other neighbors.) I was a sort of handyman even early on, having grown up on a ranch and knowing the wheres and whats of most sorts of mechanicals, so it just naturally fell to me to do her odd repairs and such whenever there was a need, considering she was a divorcee with two young kids in the house. Of course being the stereotypical horny young idiot, I took advantage of the occasional opportunity to look down her top and up her dress and in hindsight I am very sure that she knew exactly what I was doing and allowed me to see whatever it was I saw. One day after I had done a plumbing job for her (I know, I know it sounds like a kids fantasy,...I can only say that it seemed to just sweep me along at the time) she told my mother that she and the kids were going to take me out to dinner with them as a thank you. I went along with it, not really suspecting anything…but then she dropped her kids off at a friend’s house. At dinner she got very very drunk and after dinner, over desert, she told me that I could do anything I wanted to her. She said that she had been looking at me since I was 14 wondering if she would ever get a chance to have a “fling” with me. I still remember that word, “fling”, it was just what I wanted to hear, sort of loose and non connected, all the implications of fun and none of responsibility and danger. Well, she sucked me in the car, she had me stop at a park so she could get a better angle at it and she took off all of her underwear so that I could feel her up anytime I might want. She showed me how to eat pussy, chew tittie, and how to fuck like a man, and in which order. And that was all on the first night. It went on for a few weeks. Eventually I realized that she really drank a lot, and it kind of put me off, but I can remember one time when she threw rocks at my window and I came out in my boxers to talk to her. She was drunk and she got me to put my dick through the chain link fence, a low one that came up to my chest, and she proceeded to suck me for a while right through the fence.
It all ended for me when one day I saw my mom pull up with her in the car after they had gone shopping together. It was just too weird after that and I am ashamed to say that I gave her a cool shoulder for the rest of that year until I moved out of the house.
I can say without reservation that some older women do have a fantasy of making love to a younger man. I have no regrets about my fling, and, after having revisiting that time through the writing of this post, I have a feeling that the next time I’m out at my parents place I will drop next door and say thanks.
As far as getting an older woman to let you know what she wants, all I can give you is the advice my father gave me about women in general, “Be nice to them son”.
Lit
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A vote for older men
Life is funny. When I was in my 20s I was bombarded with offers from men in their 40s. Now that I'm in my 40s I'm bombarded with offers from men in their 20s. I've had both. I've been with younger men in the past year because I can't find a man my age who's not chasing after a younger woman.
Personally, I like older men. They are more experienced for one thing and I don't have to teach them how to touch me. They are also into more than just what's below my waist, and they are not so quick to cum. I prefer hours of kissing, touching and loving someone as opposed to a quick hard fuck.
Yep, give me an older man with a slow touch any day of the week!!! Please somebody give me one......any time.....now would be good.
Life is funny. When I was in my 20s I was bombarded with offers from men in their 40s. Now that I'm in my 40s I'm bombarded with offers from men in their 20s. I've had both. I've been with younger men in the past year because I can't find a man my age who's not chasing after a younger woman.
Personally, I like older men. They are more experienced for one thing and I don't have to teach them how to touch me. They are also into more than just what's below my waist, and they are not so quick to cum. I prefer hours of kissing, touching and loving someone as opposed to a quick hard fuck.
Yep, give me an older man with a slow touch any day of the week!!! Please somebody give me one......any time.....now would be good.
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woman usually like older guys since they are stable
have a job and money. woman usually like a
younger guy only if the woman already has money,
stability, and just wants a quick fix. thats my
experience with it. fyi.
pax,
have a job and money. woman usually like a
younger guy only if the woman already has money,
stability, and just wants a quick fix. thats my
experience with it. fyi.
pax,
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