Do women actually enjoy anal sex?

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I love it, but you need to plan for it which can take away some spontaneity. If you are really dirty and open-minded the prep and training is part of the fun. Definitely clean the area first and best to train your asshole with a butt plug.

The very first penetration is the most uncomfortable, but its only the first few inches - once the anus is pried open it becomes more enjoyable and eventually even the entry is fun.

Just make sure the man is gentle and takes it slow.

Once you master anal, try double penetration - you'll never go back to being a good girl again.
 
Both my friend and I enjoy receiving very much (I like to be pegged at times) so we need to take turns. I will say that she can get a bit rough at times when we are really getting into it. I agree that if taken slow and easy, it really fills the need for both of us. With men, they can get carried away so I am cautious and only do it with the few I know that know what they are doing.
 
Yes I love it! its not something I give to any guy but I enjoy it lots, especially when theres some foreplay gone into it.. maybe some rimming, a finger slipped in...
 
I prefer it over pussy fucking if it is done right. I have to be clean inside and out. Taking time with plenty of lubricate but once i have cum it becomes uncomfortable and i want it to stop. My friend who is gay is the same.
 
I prefer it over pussy fucking if it is done right. I have to be clean inside and out. Taking time with plenty of lubricate but once i have cum it becomes uncomfortable and i want it to stop. My friend who is gay is the same.

Key things here: taking time and lubricant...
 
Like anything, both sexual and non sexual, it's just a matter of preference. I personally love anal sex but only got to discover that 2 years ago. It's somewhat taboo territory that keeps people from trying it. IMO women (and men) who don't try it are missing out. There's just something very intimate about anal. I am glad I found that out.
 
Like anything, both sexual and non sexual, it's just a matter of preference. I personally love anal sex but only got to discover that 2 years ago. It's somewhat taboo territory that keeps people from trying it. IMO women (and men) who don't try it are missing out. There's just something very intimate about anal. I am glad I found that out.

In discussing this, it feels that the taboo aspect enhances it...
 
Like anything, both sexual and non sexual, it's just a matter of preference. I personally love anal sex but only got to discover that 2 years ago. It's somewhat taboo territory that keeps people from trying it. IMO women (and men) who don't try it are missing out. There's just something very intimate about anal. I am glad I found that out.

I'll second the comment here about intimacy of it...me to her and even more so her to me...
 
Like anything, both sexual and non sexual, it's just a matter of preference. I personally love anal sex but only got to discover that 2 years ago. It's somewhat taboo territory that keeps people from trying it. IMO women (and men) who don't try it are missing out. There's just something very intimate about anal. I am glad I found that out.

I am glad you found that out also , or you wouldn't have shared that with us! I think most men would love it but its hard to find women that are into it or their embarrassed to share their desire to try it.
 
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I could not disagree with your friend more.

Some women DO enjoy it, VERY much, and I'm one of them. http://smiliesftw.com/x/shrug.gif

I really like the feel of having a man in my rear, I like to sit myself down on it' the major best feel is when another man puts his in my vagina at the same time from the front. It is an amazing combination of sensations when there are two men in me.
 
Got into an interesting debate with a female friend of mine. She said women don't actually like the feel of a cock in their behinds. I have never done anal sex with a sex partner so I took her word for it. In contrast another friend of mine said his wife loves anal. Just wondered what the ladies here thought about it. Thanks in advance and my apologies if this has been posted before.

she's speaking for herself only. also, I suspect her experience is very limited, and probably limited to having done it with a single partner who wasn't very skilled and/or didn't have enough cock for her to work with.
 
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I tried anal play by myself at first with a small dildo and quite enjoyed it.

The first time with a guy was the exact opposite. I'm sure this guy learned about anal sex from bad porn. He just shoved it in and went to town (wasn't even going to use lube if I hadn't said anything about it) and it hurt like hell. It left me bleeding. I never wanted to do it again.

It took a while and a persistent lover for me to give it another go. And I'm glad I did. We went slowly and started out with fingers, then toys, and then his cock. When I relaxed about it and started to enjoy it it felt so good. Like a- goose bumps everywhere, screaming in ecstasy- kind of good. I am a definite convert. I just needed an experienced partner who knew to go slow and gentle at first.

yup to this. there's no reason to rush. it's about relaxing into each other. the rewards, the intimacy are indescribable and mindblowing.
 
Some women apparently enjoy it. Most find it very painful.

Male interest in anal sex seems to be based on guys watching porn. For whatever reason, porn producers started putting anal sex in their product at one point, probably to make it more hard-core and extreme. Guys watching it then come to associate anal sex with sexual arousal, pretty much like Pavlov's dogs. Then they want to do it themselves.

Yet another reason to avoid porn.
 
Some women apparently enjoy it. Most find it very painful.

Male interest in anal sex seems to be based on guys watching porn. For whatever reason, porn producers started putting anal sex in their product at one point, probably to make it more hard-core and extreme. Guys watching it then come to associate anal sex with sexual arousal, pretty much like Pavlov's dogs. Then they want to do it themselves.

Yet another reason to avoid porn.

I wwanted it - pre internet porn and pre- watching any kind of porn
 
Some women apparently enjoy it. Most find it very painful.

Male interest in anal sex seems to be based on guys watching porn. For whatever reason, porn producers started putting anal sex in their product at one point, probably to make it more hard-core and extreme. Guys watching it then come to associate anal sex with sexual arousal, pretty much like Pavlov's dogs. Then they want to do it themselves.

Yet another reason to avoid porn.

some women certainly enjoy it, even crave it. and it's not just to please their partner. it's because it feels good to them, really good, and because many of them climax spectacularly with a cock in their ass. generally speaking, those who find it painful have done it the wrong way or with the wrong guy (most likely both).

certainly porn has shaped the way some men view anal as an act of domination, even subjugation; the usually brusque, quickly-hammering-away-at-warp-speed without preamble with the girl fecklessly pretending to enjoy it,well, it simply isn't reality. it's an act to be savored.
 
I'd have to qualify my answer as being I like ass play. My hubby is very deft with his finger. His member, though, is wayyyy too thick. But yes, man of us love anal attention. He won me over with his tongue initially. ;)
 
I love anal sex and I can cum from it too. It took a long time for me to like it but once it's done right mmmm
 
If they relax, give in to it and most of all TRUST their partner, then yes.
 
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