Anal sex, reality v pornography depiction

[AprilTwenties]

Reality Vs Porn? Ok, boo. From the perspective of a streetwalker who does it, pretty much, nightly at least once or twice.

Porn looks so fuckin' easy. Obviously lots of prep time and all that shit going on - pardon the pun! Obviously edited to look like they went from one position to another.

Reality? Enema or some kind - very strong coffee for me - before getting to your patch an' doin' your job. Lube...quickly putting it where it needs to go....blow on a rubber (to make sure they're hard enough for penetration) and then bum up and...relax!

Not gonna lie, not my fav sex position but it earns the most. Whatever. Needs must.

A x

 

[Live4themoments]

Reality Vs Porn? Ok, boo. From the perspective of a streetwalker who does it, pretty much, nightly at least once or twice.

Porn looks so fuckin' easy. Obviously lots of prep time and all that shit going on - pardon the pun! Obviously edited to look like they went from one position to another.

Reality? Enema or some kind - very strong coffee for me - before getting to your patch an' doin' your job. Lube...quickly putting it where it needs to go....blow on a rubber (to make sure they're hard enough for penetration) and then bum up and...relax!

Not gonna lie, not my fav sex position but it earns the most. Whatever. Needs must.

A x

There ya go, the ins-n-outs from a veteran who knows her stuff. Thanks for adding to my knowledge base,

 

[Islander55]

I love the idea of me just sitting back, hands behind my head, eyes closed, doing nothing lol. Throw in a bag of chips resting on my chest and I'm all set. Wouldn't you need strong legs/thighs muscles to only go down a little at a time though?

I do not need to hold up half way for an extended period. Just take the penetration at my pace. Generally it is only a minute or so before my ass is right against him.

 

[AprilTwenties]

There ya go, the ins-n-outs from a veteran who knows her stuff. Thanks for adding to my knowledge base,

Pleasure, boo.

A x

 

[Glassnslate]

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[Spurtulator]

The drinks are a definite help that's for sure! Yes, I have to admit I do find it enjoyable but you have to make sure the conditions are right for it if you know what I mean I guess that's what the porn girls do too.

My understanding is that the porn girls/guys give themselves an enema before doing a scene to avoid any mess.

 

[BillyWalrus]

What is interesting about this thread is how most of the women either do not get fucked anally or if they do, it's a rare thing approached with a lot of caution. Which I can understand as an anal veteran myself. Best to go slow out the gate.

However, at this point, being anally fucked by my girlfriend is the norm so it's no big deal to bend over and take her big cock up my ass however way she wants it. In fact I want her to want it because I want her to fuck me up the ass as often as possible.

 

[Live4themoments]

IMO I think if a woman has anal sex then it's because there is a special, more intimate bond between you and her. The ones I've been with "reserve" it for me as a reward, special occasion, special intimacy, and so on. Then again I had a gf who after the 1st time loved it and wanted it over and over, so there goes that theory. Not sure but I "heard/read" that girls these days are more likely to do anal in order to keep vaginal virginity longer? If true now I wish I was 30 years younger.

 

[Britva415]

There is nothing wrong with deriving pleasure from watching two people fucking. But so much of porn is highly problematic. For starters, misogyny and non-consent are loathsome behaviors IRL, but are turned into kinks in Porn. And after watching enough of it, people become unfazed by it.

Gold star for being one of the only people who knows how to spell "faze" correctly.

 

[intrepidgoodtime]

The sensations, the nerve endings, being so full… always a slow start but fuckkkk when it gets going - I like it hard and deep. I’ve had many anal partners and not many have the right patience or technique right.
I do wear a plug most of the time too which helps

Marry me lol

 

[BBWcum_slut75]

Marry me lol

Awwww that would be bigamy lol

 

[intrepidgoodtime]

I’m willing to share lol

Awwww that would be bigamy lol

 

[LMWM321]

What is interesting about this thread is how most of the women either do not get fucked anally or if they do, it's a rare thing approached with a lot of caution. Which I can understand as an anal veteran myself. Best to go slow out the gate.

However, at this point, being anally fucked by my girlfriend is the norm so it's no big deal to bend over and take her big cock up my ass however way she wants it. In fact I want her to want it because I want her to fuck me up the ass as often as possible.

You raise an interesting point… That men, including straight men, seem to enjoy something going up their butt more than women do.

If I were to ask my wife if I could fuck her ass, there would be 50 no’s before there is a yes. But if she asked if she could pegg me, my answer every time would be, "of course you can - we'll do it tonight.” Actually, I'd be willing to stop whatever I'm doing and do it that very moment

Why do you suppose that is?

 

[BillyWalrus]

You raise an interesting point… That men, including straight men, seem to enjoy something going up their butt more than women do.

If I were to ask my wife if I could fuck her up the ass there would be 50 no’s before there is a yes. But if she asked if she could pegg me, my answer every time would be “ of course you can! So glad you asked!”

Why do you suppose that is?

I read your post and I was thinking about it and I thought, women should be more used to being penetrated than men because they have vaginas which are always being penetrated. In the pussy, in the ass, what's the difference?

Then I thought, maybe because they have vaginas that are normally penetrated, that makes them less likely to want to be penetrated in a different orifice. Like wrong hole, buddy!

Bottom line. I got no idea!

 

[OneEyedSteve]

There is nothing wrong with deriving pleasure from watching two people fucking. But so much of porn is highly problematic. For starters, misogyny and non-consent are loathsome behaviors IRL, but are turned into kinks in Porn. And after watching enough of it, people become unfazed by it.

Most of the stuff my wife and I watch is old 70s and 80s stuff. Modern porn is mostly dull as fuck

 

[klippert]

Of all my lovers woman and men both my ex and current wife.. I have had anal sex with all butt two of the women, all enjoyed my wife in particular stills loves it, and has her most intense organs, as most did...
I was never have been... a "jammer'...I've never jammed my cock up someone's ass. Having had my ass fucked... Someone who just rams their dick or strap-on in....that can be extremely painful and make people say "never again".
There is a time though when Ill start pumping hard and have never had any complaints as many of them encouraged it... and I will say this.... next to oral sex... I prefer fucking ass.. than her pussy. could be the taboo of it or knowing my lover is letting got of their inhibitions. For a lot of my lovers it was their first time... and they came back for more...

 

[BBWcum_slut75]

I’m willing to share lol

Mmmmm

 

[LMWM321]

I read your post and I was thinking about it and I thought, women should be more used to being penetrated than men because they have vaginas which are always being penetrated. In the pussy, in the ass, what's the difference?

It's an interesting question. In part, I think it's because women tend to be less lustful than men. To wit: Generally speaking, gay men seem to enjoy giving head more than straight women, at least from what you read here on Lit. When asked about BJ's in a thread, women seem to enjoy it because they love how it pleases their partner. ..But the Gay/Bi men seem to enjoy it for their OWN pleasure.

I thought about starting a thread that poses the question, "Who enjoys giving blow jobs more: Straight women or Gay/Bi men?"

 

[Glassnslate]

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[m_and_em_stories]

Sometimes life does imitate art so to speak. Recently during a conversation I had suggested to Em more varied positions for certain activities including our continued exploration into anal. I didn't specify too much details just suggested we explore trying different things. I had gotten off to a video recently of a man on his back, a woman seated between his legs playing with him but certainly didn't give those specifics as the conversation was more general.

Last night she had me lay on my back, my ass on the edge of the bed with a pillow under my hips, moving a wide stool/chest we have in our bedroom to sit between my legs. The wide stool sits 6-7 inches lower than the mattress, and closer to 10 or so inches with the pillow under me. My legs were braced either side of her on the stool, a very vulnerable feeling position giving her great access and visibility. She used a slim 5" toy on me, one hand controlling it as she explored different angles and speeds while her other hand played with my dick and balls squeezing and stroking them alternately.

Somehow she managed to naturally find a rhythm right away that kept me right on the edge, bringing me closer with changes from one hand or the other then back for a while learning what I liked. what made me moan louder or what drove me to drive my hips against her hand and the toy encouragingly.

The position of being on my back and spread open for her, her seated below me was an odd mix of intimate and clinical. The entire experience of being explored and pleasured, and having it all being thought of and initiated by her was mind blowing and even after ending with a hard and satisfying orgasm, the experience continued turning me on the rest of the evening and this morning resulting in several sessions on my own recalling parts of it.

 

[Live4themoments]

You raise an interesting point… That men, including straight men, seem to enjoy something going up their butt more than women do.

If I were to ask my wife if I could fuck her ass, there would be 50 no’s before there is a yes. But if she asked if she could pegg me, my answer every time would be, "of course you can - we'll do it tonight.” Actually, I'd be willing to stop whatever I'm doing and do it that very moment

Why do you suppose that is?

It's called men have a prostate gland, women don't (or their "prostate gland" developed into a different gland, which I understand may be part of some squirting capability. The prostate gland is much larger and sensitive, and some men may not realize it is being stimulated, just something feels good.

 

[Britva415]

It's called men have a prostate gland

Not to speak for you, but it's definitely not just that. Men don't even know about the prostate (how it will feel, anyway) until after they've already gotten something in there. Plus, not every anal penetration gets that spot. Not every anal penetration needs to get that spot.

 

[m_and_em_stories]

Not to speak for you, but it's definitely not just that. Men don't even know about the prostate (how it will feel, anyway) until after they've already gotten something in there. Plus, not every anal penetration gets that spot. Not every anal penetration needs to get that spot.

You can get _some_ level of external stimulation through the perineum with firm pressure.

But its definitely a value-add for Men when it comes to Anal sex.

 

[LeahWill]

I've often wondered whether the way sex acts in porn reflect any form of reality.
I find anal a particularly interesting subject, as a heterosexual man who has been with quite a few more than 100 women, I've only ever been with 3 who genuinely enjoyed anal intercourse (for one lady it was second only to giving head as her favorite).
What are the experiences of others?

Have you considered that the other 97+ just didn't enjoy anal sex - with you?
But enjoyed it otherwise.

Not suggesting that has been the case for an instant, but a 'hit rate' of less than 3% does seem unusually low.

 

[HotWifeOC]

I have been with 19-20 women and have had anal with 8 or 9 most of those have been cheating spouses and a couple from my teenage years. The thing I have found is you have to go slow and methodical to start with and if you incorporate rimming and some fingering and take your time it is way more enjoyable for her and not she enjoys it she will let you do it again and again. I had two were total butt sluts and bot much prep for them one was a catholic girl who didn’t want the risk of getting pregnant so no vaginal with her only oral and anal and another one as a 40yo married woman who had always wanted anal but her husband thought it was nasty and she loved it.

As for the mess and the pain there may be a small bit of mess unless you have communicated and they have done a clean out and then it is pretty clean. Pain should be very minimal if you have prepped her there may be some slight stinging but nothing major.

I myself enjoy being pegged ALOT and have came just from it alone without touching my cock (thank goodness for an old gf on that )

What we don’t see in the porn is them getting themselves cleaned and stretched before they ever start. All we ever see is the fun part of a big thick cock sliding in and him pounding her. So you can’t really rely on porn at all. Though it is fun to watch watch and get everyone worked up and maybe into trying it