Do women love big cocks more?

[SlutAddicted]

I wonder what she would tell you if you added some details. Your questions seems to assume that each of the triplets have the same skill, just different penis sizes. What if the guy with the smallest dick can use it the best?
Naturally, I think it's safe to assume that no guy wants to hear that his dick it 'just the right size' or 'just perfect for me' because that seems to have become code for 'I wish you had a bigger cock.' and I think that also plays into the stereotype that all women want guys with big dicks.

In the context of this question all the added details do is distort the picture and/or change the question. The question is a relatively simple binary one that clearly implies an "all other things being equal" context. It is clearly not a question of relative merits of size versus other characteristics, which is a fundamentally different question.

If a guy asks the binary question and a woman chooses to answer a different question regarding relative merits (rather than the question he actually asked) the implication is clear. She doesn't want to answer the question he actually asked and he will more than likely infer that the reason is because he wouldn't like the answer.

Saying one would prefer an average sized cock on a guy who knows how to use it to a huge cock on a guy who is an insensitive goon is pointless. It is like saying you prefer a perfectly prepared piece of chicken to a tough cut of steak that is way overcooked. In either case other conditions have been injected into the question with the intent of leading to a specific outcome.

 

[14ALL]

In the context of this question all the added details do is distort the picture and/or change the question. The question is a relatively simple binary one that clearly implies an "all other things being equal" context. It is clearly not a question of relative merits of size versus other characteristics, which is a fundamentally different question.

If a guy asks the binary question and a woman chooses to answer a different question regarding relative merits (rather than the question he actually asked) the implication is clear. She doesn't want to answer the question he actually asked and he will more than likely infer that the reason is because he wouldn't like the answer.

Saying one would prefer an average sized cock on a guy who knows how to use it to a huge cock on a guy who is an insensitive goon is pointless. It is like saying you prefer a perfectly prepared piece of chicken to a tough cut of steak that is way overcooked. In either case other conditions have been injected into the question with the intent of leading to a specific outcome.

This got me thinking about vagina size…. and what this conversation might look like if the OPs question was framed to ask about preferred vagina size.

The penis and vagina are two interfacing parts. So, given an incompatibility between a specific penis and vagina combination, two conclusions can be inferred simultaneously:

1). The penis is the incorrect size.
2). The vagina is the incorrect size.

It really depends on the perspective. The two interfacing parts either work well together or they do not. The size compatibility is relatively dependent. Perhaps, women who prefer big cocks have big vaginas...

This also got me thinking that a man worrying about penis size says something about his personality type. He labels attributes he can’t change as deficiencies rather than observing the deficiency with the variables he can control. e.g. if his penis is too small for a vagina, find a vagina that fits. There’s billions of them out there. It’s not that there’s something wrong with your dick (probably) it’s that you're with a vagina that isn’t right for you.

If you’re buying shoes, you buy the ones that fit the best. Who grabs a pair off the shelf and then collapses into self loathing because your feet aren’t the right size for the shoes…. ???


Regardless…. I still think it all comes down to skill for most (from both the vagina owner and the penis owner). I don’t hear lesbians complaining about size.

 

[Mike130]

It’s true that vagina’s vary in tightness, not sure about depth. I’m average, about 6” and I’ve had girls that have been so tight that I barely fit and others that have been loose.

My last ex-girlfriend before I met my wife was pretty loose and preferred anal sex to vaginal because of the tightness.

Probably a few factors might have an effect: previous lover’s size, childbirth, muscle tone, I don’t know.

 

[lil_pete]

Can women explain to me, is bigger generally better? What's the minimum size you need to be satisfied?
I am asking because since we started swinging my wife doesn't have sex with me (5 in) anymore, and the men she chooses always seem to be at least twice my size.

All things being equal.... Of course they do and anything else is bs, with an ulterior motive

STOP telling lies
The TRUTH will set you free.

 

[SevenMuse]

Yes but it really helps if they like shave down there and take care of themselves down there because then I will That manscape stuff is a huge turn on.

 

[smoothwiener]

Yes but it really helps if they like shave down there and take care of themselves down there because then I will That manscape stuff is a huge turn on.

Exactly, as an older married dude nothing turns me on than a huge shaved schlong.

 

[Claudia6]

So, I've recently had a little affair with an eighteen-year-old man who's a neighbor of mine. His cock is longer than Hubby's but not nearly as thick. I have no complaints about sex with him, but he doesn't stretch me like Hubby. And I like being stretched like that.

sehe ich auch so! Nicht die Länge ist maßgeblich, der Schaft sollte etwas dicker sein, dann spüre ich einfach mehr!

 

[Claudia6]

Exactly, as an older married dude nothing turns me on than a huge shaved schlong.

finde es optisch auch sehr toll, wenn er aber in mir anstößt ist es eher unangenehm!

 

[Leigh81]

7" - 7 1/2" length with above average girth is how I'd describe my personal favorite size.
Not into really big ones. Average size (5 1/2") is fine & best for giving oral, but small ones (little dinks) for intercourse just aren't very pleasurable. That's my 2 cents

 

[dingdongditchding]

Lucy as you know men have special rulers and special clocks.

I am LIL above AVG. I have been told I have a good sized cock

 

[dingdongditchding]

7" - 7 1/2" length with above average girth is how I'd describe my personal favorite size.
Not into really big ones. Average size (5 1/2") is fine & best for giving oral, but small ones (little dinks) for intercourse just aren't very pleasurable. That's my 2 cents

I am your man!

 

[Claudia6]

It's not all about the size.
It's all about the person and how he make love. Its all about how the man make you cum. You can make awoman cum again and again with your fingers and tongue.
If you ask me, I prefer normal sizes than large ones.

ein bisschen dicker und größer regt mich aber mehr an und ich spüre es auch deutlicher!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I never really gave it any thought when I was thinner, I was a premiscuios slut.. Until I got married, and his cock was a good size but average I thought...

But now I'm a sexy SSBBW, I need longer toys, and my crush has a long cock, that Im obsessed with!!

So, I prefer bigger!!

 

[MissMarie32]

I for one do not like a long think penis. Smaller, 5-6” is perfect as it hits my g spot right away.

 

[jenna_kane]

I never really gave it any thought when I was thinner, I was a premiscuios slut.. Until I got married, and his cock was a good size but average I thought...

But now I'm a sexy SSBBW, I need longer toys, and my crush has a long cock, that Im obsessed with!!

So, I prefer bigger!!

I'm also a SSBBW and I also prefer big toys and big dicks. I do think it's a matter of how they use it, I've had good sex with guys whose dicks are on the smaller or medium sized, but my best orgasms are always with guys with big dicks.

Big girls need big dicks haha

 

[jassybb]

Can women explain to me, is bigger generally better? What's the minimum size you need to be satisfied?
I am asking because since we started swinging my wife doesn't have sex with me (5 in) anymore, and the men she chooses always seem to be at least twice my size.

No it isn't. It does not have to be micro sized that's all haha. The person attached to it and how he can use his penis matter more

 

[jassybb]

I for one do not like a long think penis. Smaller, 5-6” is perfect as it hits my g spot right away.

Yes, that's perfect size for me too.

 

[mustang_driver]

This is my wife's answer:

That begs the question "Would you rather have a guy who has a big cock, or someone who knows their way around your body?" Personally, I'd rather have the latter, since the ability for a woman to orgasm is directly linked to whether or not she can disengage from outside thoughts or distractions. Anyone who can use his hands, mouth, tounge, body, cock, you name it, all at the same time, regardless of cock-size, will keep me aroused far longer than simply a big dick in my pussy (although that helps, LOL). The fact is big cocks are nice, but they're not everything.

 

[MonicaHwife]

I'm very into big cocks
Size definitely matters to me, not only for performance but also for the very manly appearance that big cocks have.
I find it very naughty and hot to see a naked man with a big soft cock walking around my house.

 

[LisaMayTurner]

Some may well do, some certainly do not!

 

[DarkHairedAngel]

Can women explain to me, is bigger generally better? What's the minimum size you need to be satisfied?
I am asking because since we started swinging my wife doesn't have sex with me (5 in) anymore, and the men she chooses always seem to be at least twice my size.

Yes and no. Believe or not but there is such a thing as too big. However being totally honest it is a lot of fun when a man shows up and he is well hung. I would not say to the point of cutting someone smaller out of your life if you love them or have deep feelings but it is hard to go back when you find that one that pushes your limits just right.

 

[showmeporn69]

There is too long (over about 11) but rarely too thick

 

[LMWM321]

As an aside... Isn’t it foolishly reductive to assume a woman’s dick preferences begins and ends with size?? I'm quite certain that many women would prefer their partner has a smaller but very appealing looking cock to one that is larger but is bent, misshapen, and just plain weird looking. Am I wrong??

As for the "Bigger is Always Better" trope, explain this to me:

• Why are most dildos purchased by women close in size to an average penis?
• Why is it that when women are asked to pick their preferred penis size from a selection of phalluses, they most often chose one that is close to average? (Google the study...)
• Why isn’t “huge dick” ever listed among women’s top sexual fantasies in surveys by Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Oprah, Glamour, etc.? Or mentioned in discussions on the subject in publications like Psychology Today? I have never seen it - not once. And some of these lists rank as many of 25 fantasies.

Yes, it's probably true most women don’t prefer tiny penises. But that's quite different than saying they crave much bigger than average. ..If bigger was always better, wouldn't every Woman's supposed desire to be stretched wider and wider and penetrated more deeply eventually lead to her wanting to be fisted by her partner?? After all, a closed fist and forearm are roughly similar in shape to an enormous phallus, right? So fucking stupid...

 

[lifeis2short2b]

I can understand how a woman prefers a big cock. What I don't understand is how some women are with such big dicks

 

[Claudia6]

I never really gave it any thought when I was thinner, I was a premiscuios slut.. Until I got married, and his cock was a good size but average I thought...

But now I'm a sexy SSBBW, I need longer toys, and my crush has a long cock, that Im obsessed with!!

So, I prefer bigger!!

sind optisch einfach erregender, finde ich! Wünsche dir viel Spaß mit deinem!