Do women love big cocks more?

[Claudia6]

Generally speaking, at least among the women I know, most say they are happy with "big enough". Like somewhere from 5-8 inches, I think a lot of women would be good with.

Personally though, no such thing as too big that I've found yet. Not sure if it's just how I'm wired biologically or what, but bigger very much equals better (hence the username!). The sensation of being stretched and the extra pressure is incredibly enjoyable for me.

I also have a sneaking suspicion a lot more women would prefer bigger if they experienced bigger, but your average woman will mostly have average sized lovers.

stimme dir vollkommen zu! Bigger is better! I love it!

 

[OldJock60]

Best answer I ever heard. Best selling dildos for women are 6.5 inches, moderate girth. Not the giant baseball bats. Big ones look great on video but not so much in real life.

 

[Claudia6]

As an aside... Isn’t it foolishly reductive to assume that women's dick preferences are ONLY about size?? I'm quite certain that many women would prefer their partner has a smaller but very appealing looking cock to one that is larger but is bent, misshapen, and just plain weird looking. Am I wrong??

As for the "Bigger is Always Better" trope, explain this to me:

• Why is the most commonly purchased dildo size equivalent to an average penis? That is, when purchased by women..
• Why is it that when women are asked to pick their preferred penis size from a selection of phalluses, they most often chose one that is close to average? (Google the study...)
• Why isn’t “huge dick” ever listed among women’s top sexual fantasies in surveys by Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Oprah, Glamour, etc.? Or mentioned in discussions on the subject in publications like Psychology Today? I have never seen it - not once. And some of these lists rank as many of 25 fantasies.

Yes, it's probably safe to say that most women do not prefer smaller than average penises, but that's quite different than saying they love bigger cocks more. ..If bigger was always better, wouldn't every Woman's supposed desire to be stretched wider and wider and penetrated more deeply eventually lead to her wanting to be fisted by her partner?? After all, a closed fist and forearm are roughly similar in shape to an enormous phallus, right? So fucking stupid...

Du hast schon recht mit der Annahme das Frauen eher durchschnittlich große Dildos wählen. Allerdings könnte ich mir auch vorstellen, dass Frauen, wenn sie einen größeren wählen könnten, den nicht eher kaufen! Wobei ich unter "größer" einen vielleicht 17 cm Penis mit dickerem Umfang meine! Er soll Spaß bereiten und nicht qualvoll sein!

 

[Claudia6]

Best answer I ever heard. Best selling dildos for women are 6.5 inches, moderate girth. Not the giant baseball bats. Big ones look great on video but not so much in real life.

Du hast völlig recht! Ich mag vielleicht 17 cm aber eine schöne Form, Farbe und eine hübsche Eichel! Optisch sehen größere schon toll aus, aber Spaß bereiten sie weniger und um Spaß dabei geht es doch!

 

[Claudia6]

Best answer I ever heard. Best selling dildos for women are 6.5 inches, moderate girth. Not the giant baseball bats. Big ones look great on video but not so much in real life.

Du hast schon recht mit der Annahme das Frauen eher durchschnittlich große Dildos wählen. Allerdings könnte ich mir auch vorstellen, dass Frauen, wenn sie einen größeren wählen könnten, den nicht eher kaufen! Wobei ich unter "größer" einen vielleicht 17 cm Penis mit dickerem Umfang meine! Er soll Spaß bereiten und nicht qualvoll sein!

 

[ArseGratiaArtis]

I've written about this before; here is the scenario. It's our third date. We have had a lot of fun and like each other. We're back at my house making out on the sofa. I stroke her breasts through her shirt as we kiss and she reacts positively. I go further, and she strokes my hard cock through my pants. This leads to the bedroom and by now she's so turned on she couldn't care less about how big I am. That said, it doesn't hurt that I'm on the larger size, but it is virtually never a determining factor. What will bring her back is what I do, not size.

 

[Claudia6]

I've written about this before; here is the scenario. It's our third date. We have had a lot of fun and like each other. We're back at my house making out on the sofa. I stroke her breasts through her shirt as we kiss and she reacts positively. I go further, and she strokes my hard cock through my pants. This leads to the bedroom and by now she's so turned on she couldn't care less about how big I am. That said, it doesn't hurt that I'm on the larger size, but it is virtually never a determining factor. What will bring her back is what I do, not size.

stimmt! Wenn du mit einem kleineren gut umgehen kannst, kannst du bestimmt viel Freude schaffen. Größere sind meist nur optisch interessanter und ein blowjob macht vielleicht auch mehr Spaß. Ich bin mit 17 cm sehr zufrieden!

 

[zoso682001]

I think most women want to try a BIG Dick at least once to find out if bigger is better . They'll know if they ever want to go back for seconds .

 

[Sgts19]

Something different than what she usually gets. Mine small vs a big cock. I look at it like my wifes got small tits so fucking a girl with big tits would be a little variety

 

[zoso682001]

Something different than what she usually gets. Mine small vs a big cock. I look at it like my wifes got small tits so fucking a girl with big tits would be a little variety

Absolutely . Something new and different is always a huge thrill . Technique , uncut vs cut or anything that's different from what she's used to .

 

[Luv2bnaked4u]

Large cock? Thick is better than length
IMHO

 

[Sgts19]

Absolutely . Something new and different is always a huge thrill . Technique , uncut vs cut or anything that's different from what she's used to .

Was in our case same thing

 

[HotflixLust]

Size do matter for women, anyone telling you otherwise is lying, trying to make you feel better.

 

[jdc38]

I for one do not like a long think penis. Smaller, 5-6” is perfect as it hits my g spot right away.

I’m just pushing 6 inches. There’s hope for me then.

 

[jessica0417]

I am very glad that cocks come in different sizes and colours even.
Orally, I enjoy wide but not so long as I like to fit it in my mouth comfortably.
But I do enjoy thick and long to handle and jack-off and get some of it in my mouth but mostly for my tongue to play with.
I have never been challenged or 'thrown off' by a man's size when fucking me, (why I enjoy fisting maybe) but up to 7 inches is plenty!!!
Anal? Thin and slow please and lube it well. Oh, and ask nicely.

 

[citywidepanic]

Size do matter for women, anyone telling you otherwise is lying, trying to make you feel better.

Not to mention that we can't "just know how to use it" without already being sexually experienced. How do we do that despite being clearly inadequate? It's not like the ones who "like" average wear signs.