do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?

[tkinsc]

I really enjoy receiving. I love the feel of my wife's lips and tongue engulfing my cock, and controlling my pleasure as she brings me to orgasm.

However, I enjoy giving even more, and there are so many things to enjoy while giving. The smell and taste drive me wild. The feeling of the softness as my tongue runs along her lips, and then enters her. The feeling of her hands rubbing my head and her soft moans as she writhes in ecstasy. Finally the feeling of her thighs clamping around my head as she has an orgasm. Giving oral sex is a wonderful experience. At times I will stop having sex and go back to eating my wife, just to have a little more of that tasty treat.

SlyKitten, I have gone down on my wife a few times while she has been having her period. It is not something we do often, but I do not mind doing it, it is even a bit of a turn-on since it is kind of taboo. We will usually put a towel down, then take a shower when we have finished.

 

[flowerchilde]

I voted for both equaly! I love being able to drive my guy wild with just my mouth and hands, he's told me he want's to film it and put it on the net! Said I would make a shit load of money I'm so good at it. Also helps that he takes forever with oral! 69's are always fun, but I find sometimes I neglect my partner because I get so into what they are doing to me and I feel really bad about it. So I prefer to take turns most of the time!

Speaking of oral, have you ever gone down on a women while she was having her period? I was thinking about this lately, and wondered how it is done.

Don't get me wrong; I'm just wondering if she wears a tampon while she receives oral or if she just puts a towel under her... or if she even thinks of letting her partner do it.

Personaly, I don't feel my "freshest" at that time of the month and would never let anyone give me oral then.

 

[SlyKitten]

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Personaly, I don't feel my "freshest" at that time of the month and would never let anyone give me oral then.

I know me neither. I mean I don't mind having sex, but I never thought of having my lover eat me out when I'm having my period. I was wondering how others felt about it; hearing about 'red wings' and such. And curious as I am; I went and tasted my menses... and for the first time in my life, I hesitated before tasting!

 

[Lust Engine]

Definitely a giver more so than a receiver, but then that's me. I just mentally enjoy giving oral more so than receiving it. One of my ideas of hot is seeing a woman in the throes of ecstacy; and if I'm the lucky guys who's giving her that pleasure, then I'm feeling mighty fine as well.

Besides I love licking & probing with my tongue. There's so much to explore with a sharp tongue darting all over a woman's body. Mmmmmm...

 

[Typo Fu Master]

It depends on my mood. She's not a big fan of giving oral sex so I don't push it. I think because of that I don't give her as much as I might have otherwise.

Giving and receiving both . . . and if it can be done 69 style, all the better.

I think that's when it's best for me as well.

 

[FurryFury]

I can't decide which I like better between the two.
Little decisions like that are too hard to make.
*pouts*

I can have both though, right?

Good!

*smiles*

I have had two guys want to go down on me during a period. It wasn't my idea either time but I'm not the type to say no to the guy I'm involved with. One guy did it with a tampon inside me. The other without. They both seemed to have a great time. I've always had a great time partially I think because it seems forbidden and taboo perhaps?

I've always thought that was the obvious way for a fictional vampire to feed. So I used it recently in an rpg with another female. We talked about it beforehand but somehow I still surprised her. I thought it was obvious but I think she expected me to drink from her neck.
LOL.

Fury

 

[babydoll2u]

I admitted to preferring to receive.
My oral skills aren't all that great. I can get him off. But for me, it takes a lot of work. On the other hand, his oral skills are top notch. I could lay there all night with his mouth on my lips.

Jenny

I'm with you Jenny... My oral skills aren't that great either as I have problems with my jaw. I LOVE to give... but am just not able
to do it for a long period of time. I used to feel so guilty about that... until I came to Lit and read that most men actually prefer
to GIVE oral... and Fortunately for ME... my man loves giving more than receiving.

 

[cjbj]

oral

I dont want to sound to much on myself, but I am good. I practice,I read,I experiment,I ask questions, I am fearless,I am willing to do anything-anywhere and I enjoy the good bejesus out of it. My favorite is to start at the foot and climb (should I be asked to do it in that position). My second favorite way is to start at the neck and kiss down. Front or back. I enjoy hearing about new or different methods. Please respond freely

 

[kenneth6866]

Late bloomer

Oral sex was not as popular, in my youth as now. In fact I did not learn the joys of giving until a few years ago. In my teens I got a blow job from a gay man, even before loosing my cherry with a woman. And a half and half was my favorite, in a Tijuana brothel.

But "good girls" were told that the missionary position was the only position for them. And the only time to have sex was with your husband. So, about ten years ago I was pleasantly surprised when a lovely woman I met on line and met for an afternoon of wild sex, gave me the best oral sex ever. I always say that if I get, I give, so I gave her the best I knew, and with some instruction from her, I became a good pussy lapper.

So, if you get, you should give. RIGHT LADIES?

 

[Bengal52]

how could recieving even compare with giving?

 

[bmw1080]

Speaking of oral, have you ever gone down on a women while she was having her period? I was thinking about this lately, and wondered how it is done.

Don't get me wrong; I'm just wondering if she wears a tampon while she receives oral or if she just puts a towel under her... or if she even thinks of letting her partner do it.

Yes I have. Some ladies will know that they are more "horny" leading into their period than at other times of the cycle. This can also last into the actual menses.

A previous partner and I got very active one of these nights, while she was giving me an absolutely mind-blowing BJ I just could not hold back and went down on her. She did not have a tampon in as we were intending to make love and wanted to get some lubrication going. My first lick and the world stood still probably for only 5 seconds (but it seemed longer), she stopped licking me, but then the scond lick and we just got right into each other.

We had previously talked about it and she had said "no way" did she want oral while she was having her period. After this occassion, she did admit it was excellent, the taste was okay with me, but we did not view it as a regular occurence.

All my partners since have been - "no way".

But hey, it sure helps to get a lady lubricated when she has just taken a tampon out.

S

 

[Shagly]

It should be a 50/50 deal, she knows of the equal rights.

 

[Violette]

Like to give, LOVE to receive! Yes, I'm greedy, and I'm damn proud of it!
(Besides, if he's got all this tongue to give, why shouldn't I receive it?)

 

[mrmgp]

do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?

Both, actually, but I sure do enjoy pleasuring pleasuring a woman with my mouth and tongue. If she tastes good and it's really turning her on, and she can stand prolonged stimulation, I can literally spend hours down there!


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Registered serial cunnilinguist.

If you like the way I've kissed your lips, wait until I kiss your other lips. . .

 

[h_i_s]

Giving .. especially while force and/or coersion by my Husband is involved. There's nothing that can compare to the feeling of His fingers entangled in, and gripping my hair while pressing my face deep into His groin. i love being on the receiving end too, just not as much as i enjoy giving Him a mindblowing BJ ..

 

[Nikasha]

Gimme gimme

I used to like giving and receiving equally. That was before I met my SO. That man has SKILLS! He makes me cum so hard I am literally sobbing, screaming, unable to think--let alone speak. It's a wonder the police haven't been called by my neighbors! All-consuming orgasms like that make me understand why some guys MUST sleep immediately after sex; there's no other option.

 

[indyswinger]

Giver

Although I LOVE receiving, it gives me more pleasure to watch my GF enjoy the feeling that my tongue gives her. She has an EXTREMELY wet pussy and I can literally spend hours licking and sucking her pussy.

 

[Exciteher]

I used to like giving and receiving equally. That was before I met my SO. That man has SKILLS! He makes me cum so hard I am literally sobbing, screaming, unable to think--let alone speak. It's a wonder the police haven't been called by my neighbors! All-consuming orgasms like that make me understand why some guys MUST sleep immediately after sex; there's no other option.

"...All-consuming orgasms make me understand why some guys MUST sleep immediately after sex; there's no other option."

I've never thought of it that way, I think you have lurched uncontrollably into the truth here!

 

[mlady_france]

I'm a giver.

 

[tbon45]

i love giving when ever i get it agian. my thing on giving is i put it on a silver platter and eat like its a all you can eat buffet.

 

[Nikasha]

Oooops

"...All-consuming orgasms make me understand why some guys MUST sleep immediately after sex; there's no other option."

I've never thought of it that way, I think you have lurched uncontrollably into the truth here!

Shhhhh don't tell anyone. It's a SECRET!

 

[Pinnochio]

i love giving more than much else; hearing her in pleasure makes me want to give more

 

[queen_of_cups]

Both equally. There's something very rewarding about the giving and it's always lovely to be on the receiving end.

 

[Tele2047]

Definitely giving, just love the feeling that I'm making her feel good.

 

[Ricwilly]

Yeah, okay, giving is a lot of fun and I love makein em feel good and all but seriously ya just can't beat the feelin of a good blow job.