do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?

[hydrex]

Giving..to women only.

 

[Munachi]

sorry but i must admit i like receiving a lot better. as some have said before, i don't consider myself very good at giving so i feel somewhat shy, and also it feels uncomfortable to me... of course i do enjoy giving pleasure to a guy i really like, so i will do it for that, but i don't enjoy the giving oral sex in itself... receiving on the other hand, when it is done good, is great...

as for all the guys here who say they like giving better, i read that often and it always surprises me a bit... somehow almost all of the guys i have been involved with seemed to prefer receiving, some even refused to give (and still expected to receive).

 

[The Gimp]

Between me and y'all if I have a choice to either give or receive I'd absolutely recieve but it never happens like that. My girlfriend gets more oral attention from me than I do from her but I'm not complaining. Early on in the relationship she let me know that while penetration feels good she needs direct stimulation in order to cum so 90% of the time I make sure she has her orgasm first. Sure it takes some extra effort on my part, but keeping her happy is my priority

 

[hydrex]

sorry but i must admit i like receiving a lot better. as some have said before, i don't consider myself very good at giving so i feel somewhat shy, and also it feels uncomfortable to me... of course i do enjoy giving pleasure to a guy i really like, so i will do it for that, but i don't enjoy the giving oral sex in itself... receiving on the other hand, when it is done good, is great...

as for all the guys here who say they like giving better, i read that often and it always surprises me a bit... somehow almost all of the guys i have been involved with seemed to prefer receiving, some even refused to give (and still expected to receive).

What turns me on the most is turning on the woman I'm with, so giving is a definate for me. Besides I've never had a good bj in all my 43 years. Never had an orgasm that way.

 

[owterspace]

Definetly Giving

I enjoy making my wife feel good i get off on her pleasure. Its kinda like she is a musical instument and i play her with all my heart.....what ever it takes to make her day and or night...

 

[sperling]

as for all the guys here who say they like giving better, i read that often and it always surprises me a bit... somehow almost all of the guys i have been involved with seemed to prefer receiving, some even refused to give (and still expected to receive).

...rätselhaft...

I love giving and hope my mates did so, too.
I never finished receiving yet, but life is still long...

 

[Zephreck]

I typically enjoy giving more..

I tend to enjoy giving far more than receiving. For me it is part of truly loving the woman I am with. I think giving includes more than just "eating her pussy" though. I think it should be more focused on all of her body that I enjoy. We spend each day being barraged by adds, commercials etc that tell us our bodies are not beautiful unless we fit this cookie cutter mold. I just think it is nice and needed to show my lover that I like all of her.

By focusing on the areas of her body that I like and by showing her how much I enjoy kissing, caressing, stroking etc those areas I think it helps reinforce the idea that I do truly love her body no matter what any else thinks.

I also enjoy receiving oral for exactly the same reasons. I too need reinforcement and think it is good to see delight in her eyes when she sucks on my nipples, to hear her moan when she nibbles on my neck , shoulders , arms legs etc.

And sometimes it does take me awhile to achieve orgasm when getting a BJ but then again sometimes it takes awhile for a woman too as well. And helps the person I am with to not worry if it takes me awhile to bring her to climax as well.

All in all I think oral , foreplay etc is sometimes even more important than intercourse itself. Besides I know that intercourse after amazing foreplay is like ten times better anyway.

That is my two cents.

 

[Exciteher]

I like both giving and receiving, and have found that the distinction between those two things have seemed to disappear for me.

For example if I am "giving" oral I am "getting" such pleasure not only sensually, swimming in the scent, sight, feel, sound and taste of her body and her lusciousness, but emotionally as well because there is such joy in giving. And there is so much joy for me in experiencing how much she enjoys being given to and how much she enjoys the pleasure her "receiving" "gives" me. And when I am "receiving" oral, I take such deep fufillment seeing her revel in the pleasure she is taking from "giving" to me.

Also there is the issue of vulnerability. When my partner offers herself to me, or I to her, we are offering each other perhaps the most vulnerable parts of our bodies and psychies, and the "fact" of the acceptance and trust we thus give to each other is erotic in itself and makes the pleasure of our "give and take" that much more orgasmic.

I love 69, especially when our "giving to" and "receiving from" each other becomes a sort of wordless dialogue, and it is as if an energy like current flowing in an electrical circuit begins to circulate through us, somehow that energy seems to get bigger than just "her" energy.. or just "my' energy... the whole truly becomes greater than the sum of the parts.

So I guess for me, it comes down to this: receiving is wonderful way of giving... and giving is wonderful way of receiving...

 

[Dsireme]

I tend to enjoy giving far more than receiving. For me it is part of truly loving the woman I am with. I think giving includes more than just "eating her pussy" though. I think it should be more focused on all of her body that I enjoy. We spend each day being barraged by adds, commercials etc that tell us our bodies are not beautiful unless we fit this cookie cutter mold. I just think it is nice and needed to show my lover that I like all of her.

By focusing on the areas of her body that I like and by showing her how much I enjoy kissing, caressing, stroking etc those areas I think it helps reinforce the idea that I do truly love her body no matter what any else thinks.

I also enjoy receiving oral for exactly the same reasons. I too need reinforcement and think it is good to see delight in her eyes when she sucks on my nipples, to hear her moan when she nibbles on my neck , shoulders , arms legs etc.

And sometimes it does take me awhile to achieve orgasm when getting a BJ but then again sometimes it takes awhile for a woman too as well. And helps the person I am with to not worry if it takes me awhile to bring her to climax as well.

All in all I think oral , foreplay etc is sometimes even more important than intercourse itself. Besides I know that intercourse after amazing foreplay is like ten times better anyway.

That is my two cents.

It is so nice to hear those word come out of a man. And you are right, we all are trying to fit that mold, I have been trying to be that way again for years. I just don't think it is ever going to happen.

But it is nice to know that there is someone out there that thinks that way about women and any one that you find to be with will be very lucky.

 

[mistymoon]

I like both

I like to give as well as receive oral sex. I love to hear the pleasure that I give to my Lover.

If my lover had his way he would be making love with his mouth 24/7. He just feels that it is the most intimate act.


sigh.....