Do you share your fetishes with your partner?

[cowboyup6977]

I don’t hide anything from my husband or my lover

 

[Britva415]

Do you share your fetishes with your partner?

I'm going to.

My partner and I don't have sex (mis-matched sexual orientations), so, our relationship is open.

Right now the agreements between us in that regard are about sex, so, if I want to find someone for kink play, kink play which might not necessarily involve sex, then, this is a conversation I'll have to have with my partner.

It kind of fits in to an ongoing conversation between us about "what counts as sex, what even is sex." I recently found out that apparently something we have been doing together, and which I don't see as sex, as sexy, or as sexual, somehow counts to her as sex.



I expect what will happen is she'll want to know what the kink is, but only enough information to feel like I and my extramarital partners are being safe and not getting too entangled*, and beyond that, she probably won't want to know any details.

* Not intended as a pun, but, since rope play is one of the things I want to find a playmate for, I guess it works as one. Emotionally-entangled is what I meant.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Of course, that’s how you get to experience them.

 

[Travler99921]

Once I came out to her as bi there seemed little reason not to share all my fantasies.

 

[van_delay]

Some. My wife knows I like to wear her clothes.