Do you tell your lover when you're cumming?

I don't need to... but still do because he asks. He always tells me although most times I know he's about to.
 
Sometimes but I am very vocal and very loud so it should be obvious just from the sounds I am making if not from other clues like thrashing around, stomach and pussy clenching, squirting, etc.
 
I usually do. But I think it's also probably pretty obvious from my breathing and not being able to finish my words. 😋
 
Yeah, I yell out from the next room to let her know. :eek:
She yells back, shut the fuck up will ya, I'm trying to fucking sleep. :rolleyes:
 
I have always enjoyed my partner to be vocal. A woman announcing her orgasm is very sexy and
will usually result in us cumming together. And depending upon the position, I like to hold my partner as she cums. It is sexy and intimate.

The same can be said for me. If I announce my orgasm she can cum with me if she is ready or just hold onto to me and watch. As a young man I learned to tell her I am cumming during a BJ so she could pull away and make me squirt someplace other than her mouth. It was the polite thing to do.

I am very vocal in bed so I always announce my orgasm and I like my partner to be vocal as well. Sometimes with encouraging words, her own announcement, and passion or all the above.

ES
 
I do understand you can't always announce every orgasm and everyone is different when they
cum and not all orgasms are the same.

Years ago when I was in college I was fucking my gf in her dorm room. I was on top of her and all of a sudden she began to grunt and make a weird noise. Her face got all red and she could not
speak. I asked her if she was okay since I was twice her size. She nodded yes. Then I asked her if I should stop and she shook he head no violently. I felt like we were playing Pictionary. My bad, she was having an orgasm and was completely different than usual.

ES
 
I have a partner who likes to hear me say it. It's not that it's not obvious, but she gets off on hearing me tell her I'm close, that i'm going to cum, etc.
 
I generally do tell her when I'm cumming, I'm pretty verbal about what's going on. I'm sure its obvious though when an eruption is imminent. She doesn't usually like me to come in her mouth but occasionally I will try to control my excitement when cumming during a blow job so doesnt kn now what's cumming. The first time I did that she got a surprise mouthful, she wasn't happy but wasn't pissed either, so now I suprise her every now and then. I think she likes not knowing. But it is hard to remain calm especially if I am really horny.
 
I have a partner who likes to hear me say it. It's not that it's not obvious, but she gets off on hearing me tell her I'm close, that i'm going to cum, etc.

I think this is pretty common. I feel we both (men and women) like to know because it is a big turn on to watch our partner cum. So the announcement makes sure you don't miss it. In fact, I know some women who don't like to cum at the same time as their partner because they miss the show of seeing him cum. They prefer to cum first and then sit back and watch their partner cum. My ex gf was like that. She would watch me closely when I came, looking into my eyes, watching my body movements and reactions throughout my entire orgasm. She was turned on by it for sure, but it seemed more of a mental than a physical arousal.

ES
 
I mean, I don't tell somuchas I ask or beg or answer the question that has been posed to me about if I want to cum.
 
I love when my wife cums, she whispers as i see her toes curl then a burst of further wetness as she shudders. Would love to observe as someone else made her do that
 
Usually yes. But even if I don't say so in exact words, it's deadass obvious.
 
Sad thing is that I know how to please her hubby more than she does...he talks during it and tells me how she acts!
 
Always. Honestly, it is almost a nervous tick at this point...not sure I could wrap things up without blurting that out
 
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