Do you tell your lover when you're cumming?

The noises that come from my mouth when I am climaxing (and the ones my wife makes) are very indicative of what is happening. Although, my wife once had five orgasms in two minutes...and didn't make those sounds until after the fifth, when it had become too much for her. :)
 
I tend to moan and yell a lot... my husband says I gotta keep it down in hotels and sometimes has to put his hand over my mouth. I get so lost in the moment when I am having an orgasm.
 
Most of the time I don't say anything. I am quite sure she feels me swelling up inside her that I am going to explode.
 
Yes, I'm very expressive and I will always let them know when I'm close to cumming.
 
I'm with many on here...very apparent when I'm going to cum. It's pretty apparent when she does too. However, I have to say that it's hot when she says, "I'm cumming!".
 
I'm with many on here...very apparent when I'm going to cum. It's pretty apparent when she does too. However, I have to say that it's hot when she says, "I'm cumming!".

I agree, it is very hot when a woman tells me when she is cumming.


Many years ago when I first started dating, my gf and I were having intercourse. She usually moaned and made noise. This is time she got very quiet. Her body began to tremble, her chest, and face got very red. I thought she was having a seizure or heart attack. I asked if she was okay but she could not talk and her eyes rolled up into her head. I was going to stop but she held onto me so tight I could not pull out. And I think she was shaking her head no. I continued and she enjoyed a great orgasm. She told me later that IF I had stopped she would have been very angry. We laughed about it and from then on she would always announce her orgasms.

ES
 
uh... uh... uh... oooohhhh... oh god.... uuuuunnnnnggggghhhhhhhh....

Something like that anyway.
 
honestly, it's a strange question for me. If this happens to me, then the partner sees and feels everything without words. If I heard that, I'd know it was my fault. If I saw it without, and for me it was a surprise. I would have the courage to say thank you, so as not to offend a partner.
 
If we have to tell each other we are doing something wrong!:)
 
I can be relatively verbal during sex and will often let my partner know I'm going to cum...

It's not uncommon for me to say things like

"I'm going to cum inside you"

Or

"Who's pussy is this?" Or "tell me it's my pussy"

Or

"Are you gonna cum for me"?


Or whatever comes to mind in the middle of it all. LOL
 
She's usually at work when I do, and I doubt she'd appreciate the text.
 
I usually don't announce when I'm about to cum, except when the orgasm surprises me...then I say something along the lines of "omg I'm going to cum" I usually don't realize I'm even saying it in the moment.
 
I can be relatively verbal during sex and will often let my partner know I'm going to cum...

It's not uncommon for me to say things like

"I'm going to cum inside you"

Or

"Who's pussy is this?" Or "tell me it's my pussy"

Or

"Are you gonna cum for me"?


Or whatever comes to mind in the middle of it all. LOL

I also like this ^ kind of talk during sex. Moaning and groaning is hot too but for some reason I really like actual words or semi words.

I know everyone is different. I just can't imagine a guy squirt 3 large ropes of cum all over his wife's chest without saying anything or no sound at all.

I see it like surrender. You are surrendering to an intense wave of pleasure. By announcing it, you are sharing that instant of vulnerability with your partner. That can be very intimate.

ES
 
We both know about impending orgasms with out speaking. The sounds made, the body movements all tell a tale that is unmistakable.

Ah, but a cry of "I'm cumming!" spices up the experience, and sometimes heightens the response. I'm all for it.
 
Ah, but a cry of "I'm cumming!" spices up the experience, and sometimes heightens the response. I'm all for it.

I completely agree. Something about it makes the experience really HOT. That does not mean it is required and that my woman should be thinking about saying it. I prefer it to come about naturally and unplanned.

I have cried out, "Oh fuck I am still cumming!" before when I was shocked my body was still having an orgasm after a minute went by. My gf loved it because that meant she was doing something right and she could cotinue the stimulation to keep me going.

ES
 
Another time I announced my orgasm was when I was fucking a virgin. It was a wonderful moment. I broke her hymen and was inside. She was starting to feel better and wanted me to tell her when I was cumming so she could concentrate on the feeling. I did and she loved it.

ES
 
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