Do you tell your lover when you're cumming?

[LotusDreamer]

I've always been very vocal during sex. It's very hard to make love when we have overnight guests. Though I believe he'd still know (can we all say "mucho Kegal exercise")

I so love telling my man "I'm coming for you baby!" (of course, not so coherently at times. lol)
I'm pretty certain he loves to hear me say it.

 

[tony7671]

You can always tell when I'm going to come. I can be pretty loud during sex, and as I start to orgasm, I get even louder. But yes, usually I'll say I'm coming amonst my moans, and say thank you when I'm done.

Would love to hear how you sound during an orgasm Nothing is better than cumming at the same time

 

[JustSkye]

Most times, yes. I'm quite vocal but even more so when cumming.

 

[ewopper]

Hi, long time lurker, infrequent poster. Got a question for the lovely ladies and studly gents of Lit. How many of you tell your lover when you're cumming?

Personally I think it's about the sexiest thing a woman could whisper (or scream) in my ear, but I know it's not for everyone. As a guy, of course I'm conditioned to believe I should never ask a woman if she came. "If you can't tell, you're not doing it right," they say, and there's some truth to that, but honestly you just can't always tell. Especially if the relationship is new, but sometimes even if it's not.


So I'm wondering how many folks tell their lovers? Do you tell them because it feels sexy to say and hear it, or more for informative purposes? Do women feel more pressure to say it than guys, because they know us stupid guys can't always tell? Do guys always announce it?

speaking for myself she can tell and i can't tell her because when i cum i get ugly in the face and i grunt or groan or say aghhhhh it's the most intense feeling to expel my semen so unless she's asleep or reading cosmopolitan she has to know roflmao

 

[h_i_s]

Always. Most times i ask permission, first.

 

[popcorn2721]

I actually had to learn to be vocal...My previous lovers rairly heard a peep from me and after I came (yes, they could tell I was cumming) Ive been told that it creeps them out when Im just looking at them while Im fucking their brains out....all you could hear was skin slapping and my heavy breathing. So I tried it (being vocal that is) and found that I have some great sexual dialogue, It turns Mrs P on allot when I start talking her off and shes a screamer so she gets even louder trying to answer me when Im saying nasty things like "that's right fuck yourself on my cock" and "you love that dick inside you, don't you?". I usually ask if shes ready for me to come...(she has a hard time cumming so I want to make sure shes had a few orgasms before I get off)...Then its my turn...I tell her Im going to cum and then pick up the pace while shes twisting my nipples and sayin "that's right fill "mamas" pussy full of cum" or "that's right, Fuck me, fuck me, fill me with your juice". When I finally do come...I don't say much...just kinda grunt,groan...sweat and then collapse to some soft kissing.

 

[ewopper]

Always. Most times i ask permission, first.

why should you ask permission if you and I were doing it all you'd have to do was say ohhhh shit.... I'm cummmminnnnngggggg [grin ]

 

[Ricwilly]

I try to be quiet so as not to wake her.

 

[ewopper]

I try to be quiet so as not to wake her.

lol... roflmao

 

[popcorn2721]

I try to be quiet so as not to wake her.

LMFAO

 

[Ashleey]

I try to be quiet so as not to wake her.

OMG..thats probably the best post i've seen......lol...a bit sad..but very funny!!

 

[Willing and Unsure]

I don't usually say anything with my man when I'm about to cum. It's pretty obvious to him. I think my nails digging into his back, my thighs squeezing him tightly (among other muscles), and my moaning in his ear say enough where I'm at. He tells me sometimes, but I can usually tell when he's about to. The sounds he makes are different than during the rest of time we're having sex, and his motions change a bit too. It's nice to know sometimes though beforehand, especially if I'm close myself just so I can try to hold off and wait for him (or vice versa).

 

[australwind]

I try to be quiet so as not to wake her.

ROFLMAO>>>>>in fact laughing so much the tears are welling up...

 

[HandFan]

I try to let him know as best I can...but I have a habit of stopping breathing in the last few moments...and its a bit too hard to scream "I'm cumming" under those circumstances....


With him.......If I can see his face I know....it's written all over it!

We are almost identical! Although sometimes I mumble under my breath that I'm coming...seems unvolutary when I do.

 

[ewopper]

my wife likes to talk to me when we make love... she calls me from the motel
-Rodney Dangerfield

 

[Fantazmaster]

Signs of....

Generally she doesn't have to tell me that she has reached orgasm,I can usually tell afterwards as we have to put the knocked over furniture back in place and then explain to the neighbors the next morning that we heard no sound in the night that sounded like a female panther being skinned alive!

 

[00lit00]

bump!

 

[butterfly_rosen]

Do you tell your lover when your cumming

Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't, as long as I do it's all good to me!!

Rose

 

[FurryFury]

We have kids. I try not to make too much noise though sometimes I fail. Okay, a lot of times I fail.

No, I don't say I'm coming. No offense to anyone else, but it just seems kind of cliched to me, to do that. Yes, he knows when, he really can't miss it.

He rarely says he is coming. I know when so well it often feels nearly as good as when I come and sometimes sets me off again.

After we usually get into this ridiculous thing where each one is trying to assert that the other one is the best thing ever! It's pretty silly but fun. Gawd knows we mean it at the time too!

LOL!

Fury

PS Just for giggles and shits maybe I WILL say it one time and see if it does anything for him. One likes to try new things! This one anyway. I often find that if I resist doing something then I should try it. Maybe the next time I rent a hotel room, I'll see just how vocal I can get.

 

[Michi_Knickers]

sometimes I do, but i don't say "I'm cumming!!!" lol I usually say something like: "oh yes, yes yeeeeees!!" haha

 

[irishcreamdream]

My man always asks me to tell him when I'm going to cum. If he's giving me oral and I tell him I'm close, sometimes he'll stop everything to keep me from coming. After he does this a few times he'll finally let me come and it's always very intense! He really likes it when I masterbate for him and tell him when I'm cumming and if he's masterbating with me, it always makes him cum right away. I love for him to tell me when he's ready also. I just think that's so hot. Especially when he's inside me. I love to feel him flood my pussy with his cum!

 

[jessicaslut]

I usually mention it before it happens; when I am cumming I can only say 3 things: Fuck!, Oh God! and Yes!. I also moan and sigh.

 

[bob_martin4125]

What a great thread!!

I just use the usual 'fuck' 'yes' 'thanks' and the occasional 'sorry'!!

I love hearing different cummin sounds which is why the Lit sounds pages are great!

 

[Desperotico]

There isnt much to be said considering the stupid look on my face I probably get when I am cumming...not to mention the "speaking in tongues".

As far as my wife goes, I she is anything but vocal, but more often than not I am going down on her when she cums and she does those mini-ab crunches when she orgasm's...so I get the picture then too !

 

[Munachi]

no. if I said anything it would most likely make me not come. I seem to not come very easily, only through oral or masturbation, and I am very quiet when I come - interestingly during PiV or anal sex I can be a lot louder (maybe not very very loud, but loud enough) and quite a few guys mistaked for an orgasm what wasn't and seemed to have missed the actual one. Anyway, the thing is to be able to come I seem to have to concentrate very much on fantasies etc., and any talking would take me off that...

Also I am not a big fan of dirty talk. Well it depends a bit on what, but most just makes me laugh. I had this fuck buddy once who was really into talking, and I had to fight to keep a straight face. He called me his "little mare". Also he was not a native speaker of German so he made grammar mistakes - and for some reason that one time that distracted me so much, I just had to correct him before we could go on...