Do you tell your lover when you're cumming?

[WriterDom]

Not always but they damn sure better ask me first before they cum.

 

[midwestyankee]

Not always but they damn sure better ask me first before they cum.

I like the way you think.

 

[xsmittenkittenx]

I definitely share... because I like it when he does.

Something about knowing that I've brought someone to that precipice just does it for me, what can I say.

 

[TenPastTwo]

My hubby always tells me right before he is about to cum, so I can delay it if I so wish. However, I usually don't tell him...I'm not very vocal. Making noise makes me feel...wrong somehow, but he is slowly breaking me of that mindset.

 

[Darkknight2010]

Bump, grind, and a nibble.

And I always tell my lover when I'm cumming... just so hot to see her reaction and then to explode deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep and hot inside her...

 

[keack1]

sometimes I do and sometimes I don't, but I know she knows when I do either way.

 

[LadyAria]

No, it would be rude to wake them.

 

[DewMee]

No, because they can tell when my steamtrain panting starts turning into louder, slower chirping.

 

[BluEyes13]

Sometimes I tell my husband when I about to cum, but usually I don't have to. We've perfected the simultaneous orgasm and we can tell when the other is cumming. That's one of the pluses of this many years of marriage.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Nope. He tells if and when I'm allowed to. Have even started to get the hang of cumming on command, it's an incredibly bonding experience.

 

[jcguild]

We always know when the other one does. I usually say something and grab her like a tiger, and she usually has her eyes rolling in the back of her head and having a near seizure

 

[Eilan]

I usually don't have to, as my husband can tell from how I'm reacting. He tends to let me know when he's about to cum, but even if he didn't, I could tell.

 

[DrHappy]

This topic seems funny to me. Did our airplane crash? Did the the bomb explode? Did the tornado hit the house? Did you have an orgasm?

My bedroom is a loud place and orgasms are obvious.

 

[somberReality]

I tend to not tell him, since i should be busy screaming instead. But it's obvious when I do.

If it's not obvious to the males, then she could be faking it.

Just my thoughts.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

If it ain't noisy and messy then it ain't good sex.

 

[truckerswife83]

I'm a screamer so if they still can't tell I don't know what to say

Same thing here, he definitely know when I'm cumming.

 

[Hail27]

oh yes

mmm I sometimes whisper, yell, scream to let my SO know when I am cumming, but usually my body speaks for me. I can read his approaching orgasm on his face if i can see it.
I sometimes say thank you if he has worked extra hard to give me and extra special orgasm.

I dont think it is sensible to say it just because they want to hear it (especially if your faking) whats the point! No one is truly satisfied. But I can understand why someone might do it in the beginning of a relationship.

 

[ms.read]

If it ain't noisy and messy then it ain't good sex.

Are you saying just because I dont make any noise its not passionate and Really really good?

 

[Darkknight2010]

Bump

And most definitely I do... LOVE letting her know I'm cumming deep and hard and hot...

 

[cute_nerd]

It's pretty obvious when I do, so there's no need to tell him. Besides, I'm pretty focused at that point so I doubt I could say it if I wanted to!

 

[deyv]

If she's giving me a blow job then I always let her know that I'm about to cum... that way it's her option to take my cum in her mouth... or shift to another activity.

If we're fucking then it really depends on the mood... but when I was younger I told her/them all the time, it was sort of an involuntary reaction.

 

[desertslave]

I don't tell, I ask permission. Luckily he's very generous most of the time.

 

[Molly85]

Hi, long time lurker, infrequent poster. Got a question for the lovely ladies and studly gents of Lit. How many of you tell your lover when you're cumming?

Personally I think it's about the sexiest thing a woman could whisper (or scream) in my ear, but I know it's not for everyone. As a guy, of course I'm conditioned to believe I should never ask a woman if she came. "If you can't tell, you're not doing it right," they say, and there's some truth to that, but honestly you just can't always tell. Especially if the relationship is new, but sometimes even if it's not.

So I'm wondering how many folks tell their lovers? Do you tell them because it feels sexy to say and hear it, or more for informative purposes? Do women feel more pressure to say it than guys, because they know us stupid guys can't always tell? Do guys always announce it?

depends on how strong it is... sometimes i can't choke out a word but sometimes I let him know when I'm cumming. (as if he honestly needs to be told... the nails digging into his skin are usually a great indicator!) he loves it. I love to hear him say it as well... gives me a sense of power...

 

[griffinharas]

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[Molly85]

No, it would be rude to wake them.

LMAO! How funny! Something tells me you're not 100% joking though