Do you tell your lover when you're cumming?

[rbijon]

i agree: being told your partner's reading to cum is incredibly hot.

ed

My Mistress always want to know! and loves that she can fuck me silly!

 

[doggie_kel]

Im usually very vocal during sex and i tend to let him know, but if he cant tell then something is wrong.

 

[stargazer105]

I say thank you

then ride him till he does.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

sometimes

 

[Sarojaede]

I'm actually fairly quiet, but he can usually tell.

 

[snowyflake]

i am waaaaaaaaaaay loud i dont think i can O without anyone knowing, lol. that used to be sooo embarrassing when i was still living at home.... i used to have to burry my head in a pillow to muffle myself or else the whole house would know what i was doing

 

[rose_trouble]

my partner usually knows, but sometimes you have to be discreet...even then, there are definite signs...shaking, heavy panting...you know.

 

[SwellBabyGirl]

I am surprised to read that some people prefer to tell/be told "I'm cumming". Me, I tend to know when my BFs are close. I love it when a man talks to me throughout sex about how great it feels, how horny I look, etc, rather than just being quiet until they finally say "I'm cumming". I also luv to hear breathing, moaning, etc. I do NOT like to be told thank you, unless it was some special favor that I did just out of luv for my partner, even tho I maybe didnt feel horny myself. I don't want to be thanked for something that it was all my pleasure to do!
I Never say when I am cumming. It is really, really obvious. If I am not going to be able to, I will say so & not leave him guessing. Us Aussies are good at being straight up.
I dunno whether other girls out there can relate to this but I find as I have hit my 30s my Os have gotten stronger & stronger, so now it simply is not possible for me to be quiet, not even when Im doing it to myself. I have to muffle my hi notes with a pillow or something, so my kids dont' think I am being axe-murdered. Haha!

 

[Darkknight2010]

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... always... that urge in my balls, the ache... going faster and harder... almost feeling my cum begin to slowly flow into my cock... feeling her walls tighten around my shaft... every feeling more and more intense... the smell of our cum... the sound of us fuckihng... and then to screeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaam for her I'm cummmmmmmmming as I explode... oh yessssssssssss...

 

[BashfulAshlee]

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I never say when im cumming but I like it when my men tell me when they're about to, although I can usually tell. A little warning is always nice so I can situate things to be the most pleasurable for both

 

[SimpleGifts]

Almost always. I love hearing my partner describe when she's getting to the point of climax, so while she doesn't have to announce it for me to know, it gets me hot. As a guy, I think it's just polite to let my partner know that I'm gonna fill her up with some hot spunk. OK, I just say it in part because in many cases, I time it to coincide with her orgasm.

And, in reaction to SwellBabyGirl, it's not like my partner or I just lie there and suddenly shout "I'm cumming!" at the moment. I like it when there's a lot of give-and-take throughout.

SG

 

[Dumpling]

heheee why should I ~he knows coz I sure make enough noise

 

[NoLeafClover7]

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[GloriaBrown]

There are ways to warn your partner without actually saying "I'm cumming!!".

I usually, say "OOOOOOOH!! SHIIIIIT!!!" and grunt and yell when cumming. Of course, my partner knows then.

 

[Talysman]

A hand written note is so much more personal, especially on your own monogrammed stationary. After all, a verbal orgasm isn't worth the paper upon which it's written.

 

[Stiffy Says...]

I usually tell my lover in case she wants to stop, make it last longer, etc.

Unless...

She wants me to pound at her till she cums, and I don't want her to know I have already because it would spoil her fun...

 

[Darkknight2010]

i am waaaaaaaaaaay loud i dont think i can O without anyone knowing, lol. that used to be sooo embarrassing when i was still living at home.... i used to have to burry my head in a pillow to muffle myself or else the whole house would know what i was doing

DAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaang! for loud orgasms!!!!!!!

 

[rthnck]

It excites my partner to know that she has brought me to orgasm so yes, I always tell her, plus she has a semen allergy so no swallowing so she always wants to know

 

[shy slave]

I usually tell him I am on the verge.

Actually, I am usually yelling it in his ear and begging him to hurt me, just to give it all that extra edge

 

[someplace]

There's usually no question whatsoever. I'm not known for being quiet.

 

[Otherkorean]

I think I do. Or rather, I tend to stiffen up and go silent at the point of orgasm and save my vocals for the rest of the time. Not like I can say anything coherent at all during sex anyways. More along the lines of "Aaaah", "Om myyyy gaaaad" and occasionally, "pleeeease?"

I'm trying though.

 

[Willow123]

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[rbijon]

I usually tell him I am on the verge.

Actually, I am usually yelling it in his ear and begging him to hurt me, just to give it all that extra edge

Same here....I beg my Mistress to pound me hard...hard...hard

 

[knickerless]

She knows

She tells me she has no feeling inside her vagina, but she still knows when I'm on the verge of coming for some reason. She changes her response to my thrusting and strokes me in encouragement as I shoot. That's women for you.

 

[Darkknight2010]

I love moooooooooooooaning for her and grunting 'I'm cummmmmmmming' as I explode into her pussy...