Do you write from real experiences?

Sorry if its shit writing and not the place for it. Just let me know
It isn't the place for it and you risk removal from the site for such a massive rule violation.

It's also an incredibly egregious and disrespectful violation of your wife's privacy.
 
Sorry if its shit writing and not the place for it. Just let me know
Posting explicit personal experiences is not something that we usually do in these threads, although I don't really mind it myself. We all write smut here, after all. It was the explicit visuals that made it so much over the top ;)
You removed them now, so it's no big deal. (y)
 
It isn't the place for it and you risk removal from the site for such a massive rule violation.

It's also an incredibly egregious and disrespectful violation of your wife's privacy.
So sorry, i'm a dope i guess. Not my wife though and I would never post something without all parties consent. Thanks for looking out though
 
I certainly write from real experiences about the places I've been, or non-sexual things I have done in those places. I don't think I would portray a real life sexual experience in vivid detail, but there are only so many ways to have sex, so I certainly pull elements from real experiences, mix in some other fantasies, and let my characters go at it.
 
I should be so lucky. Hell I should be one quarter as lucky.

That said I do have specific real peoole in mind as the launching point for my main characters. They end up highly fictionalized but the roots are there for me.
 
I’d suggest that to write about BDSM, you’ve had to have some cursory exposure to the concept at some level; maybe you read Fifty Shades of Gray, or you wouldn’t know it exists.
Actually, my fantasies (always BDSM, but not in the relational interpretation), started pre-latency. That was 70 years ago. I guarantee I had never read nor seen any such thing.
 
Actually, my fantasies (always BDSM, but not in the relational interpretation), started pre-latency. That was 70 years ago. I guarantee I had never read nor seen any such thing.
Curious, but I can relate. I’ve wanted to be a girl since well before puberty. I wonder if fetishes and gender dysphoria are somehow predisposed, or even genetic.
 
I write from personal experience, a lot. But only for the non-erotic elements of my stories.
 
For the most part, my stories are either totally true or based on truth. Either way, Vicki helps me write every one of them and she is really helpful with sexy details.

Do you write total fantasy, or is it at least based on real events?
That's not really a yes/no question for me. At the large scale, none of the overarching scenarios in my stories are from real events, but there are details plucked from real life here and there. Everything from bits and pieces of real life non-sexual pizza delivery experience in Nudios Pizza to that time my first girlfriend (we were 18/17) sat on my lap fully clothed in the car and she either accidentally or only semi-intentionally gave herself a small orgasm from pressing on the tent in my pants. She was completely quiet and still during it, as if she was hoping I wouldn't notice, even though our faces were inches apart.

I have put that into a story, but I can't remember which, and it might be one that is still a WIP or on the slush pile.
 
Most of what I write is from my imagination. I have borrowed a few activities and places from actual experience but usually assembled them differently. Although I rarely write detailed descriptions of characters I usually have a mental image of them, often based on real people.

Ironically the story which is closest to reality is one of my lowest scorers.
 
Yes, the story of the ghost of Aunt Nancy appearing to her nephew on the night of his death and guiding him to the cemetery to reunite with his long dead mother was absolutely based on first hand experience.
 
Two of my stories are about Elizabeth a prostitute with a dominant bend that I lived with...embellished of course, her mother and sister were real too. The real Liz had a large thick scar on her left breast from the war that I didn't mention, and she had the morals of a cat. But not the dominatrix I make her out to be.
 
No. In fact, I can't even use names of people that I know because I don't want to think about them as I write. I will look up obscure names or invent names just to avoid using common names. I don't want the image of family, friends or enemies swaying the way I view my characters or influencing my stories. It's an odd issue for sure.
 
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